what do you guys think of my drawing
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Lol it's aighhttt.
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its good for a 2 year old.
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Pretty good OP. You should pursue it as a career. Maybe even major in Art in college. You have some real talent my friend.
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I'm infatuated with my professor.
How do I stop this nonsense.
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>>17400712
appreciate the relationship for what it is
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>>17400712
change classes or move way the fuck in back. get there right before class and leave immediately after
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>>17400713
I do. I mean, I'm a teacher myself and I understand how silly it is. This is my final class as an undergrad, which would give me hope if not for:
>professor is moving to texas
>also married
I just got out of a long term relationship too, so this makes this doubly difficult.
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hey I think I might have a problem let me explain. I am a 21 year old male I suffer from chronic headaches and fatigue from them. Literally I cant think straight because of these headaches. Although whenever I drink alcohol even in small amounts it goes away. Drinking one beer is good enough to keep them away for 4 hours. Although as a side effect I sweat a lot I don't know why. The issue is im not a drinker I don't drink a beer a day hell I would consider it excessive if I drank a beer a week. Bt why am I displaying signs of alcoholism
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shit oh well. guess I solve it on my own.. wish me luck :)
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>>17400670
Go see a doctor. Or a therapist. Maybe it's psycological. This is not the right place to seek for help. Get yourself checked by meds.
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okay. well then off to the docs... just was looking for a little outside input
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Hey, I have this guy I have known for about 5 or 6 years now, he is in college and really doesn't have any friends besides me, therefore he always wants to talk and hang out with me. I feel terribly sorry for him because he is a super autist with no friends and no hope of doing so on his own, but I just dont have the time or effort to keep up with his shit anymore, but I actually think he will become suicidal or extremely depressed if I stop hanging out with him. What do?
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>>17400659
you are both insisting that he is your responsibility and that he is not.
which is it?
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>>17400665
Well obviously I am conflicted on that point, hence the post on adv
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Gotta take of yourself first OP before you can help anyone else. But maybe help him find some new friends? Encourage more social behavior.
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How do you deal with the fact that nobody will ever love you? That you're a fucking failure with zero redeeming qualities?
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>>17400647
By not pursuing relationships and giving up entirely.
Life's based purely on luck and some people just get the short straw.
Give up and indulge yourself in escapism and self-destructive tendencies.
Bear in mind that I say this to those who are actually shit out of luck. If you have any sort of talent, passion, opportunity, go for it. If you're just a mediocre fucker with no chances then just don't try, it's not worth it.
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>>17400647
if you can acknowledge what went wrong you can work towards making things right., if not with those people than with new people.
you can't erase what happened in the past. but every single seemingly great nice person you know has a terrible secret. morality is a matter of popular opinion and culture.
there are no perfect beings and they've all got some bad quality. work on fixing the parts of yourself you think you can.
if your first response is
>IM NOT FIXABLE
than you still have some growing to do before you can actually PLAN to grow.
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>>17400669
I haven't pursued a relationship in ages. I've been confined to a wheelchair and shitting in a bag since I was a freshman in high school so I doubt anyone would ever be attracted to me.
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Dear /adv/ I'm studying abroad in Japan right now and have my friend who I loved and confessed to before that I'd come back for once I graduate Uni next year. She had a boyfriend at the time but I told her that's fine and if she ever broke up with him I'd be there for her.
Fast forward to today, I'm leaving Japan next week and because this was the only free time she had before then, we decided to go to the movies together today. Btu apparently she broke up with her boyfriend a couple of days ago and now is in the dumps. I want to cheer her up today and am not trying to push orward our relationship or anything. What should I say or do?
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>>17400641
>confess
>love
>Japan
This isn't one of your animus, OP. Just have fun with her. Don't be one of those fucking weirdos who exploit any chance they get to get with a girl.
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>>17400641
be like i will never treat you the way he did. basically speak as gay as possible and mean it.
I'm moving to Glasgow, Scotland. Where are the best places for fun fitness(sports, crossfit, Rock climbing, anything that is exciting and a form of exercise)in the area?
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Scots don't do anything but drink. Especially Weegees.
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>Scotland
>fitness
Pick one.
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Help me before I pull an Elliott Rodger. I have half of the psychological conditions in the DSM, many caused by chronic alcoholism and drug use. Tempted to use again, 'cause a new dealer just moved in next door, offering to hook me up, and I still think nostalgically about drugs all the time. I've become unemployable and undatable. Used to have violent fantasies and schizophrenic delusions. Now, I have extreme OCD and continue doing the same things ritualistically all day. Convinced that everyone hates me and is out to get me. Verified through haveibeenpwned that all of my accounts have been hacked, so now I'm paranoid about my privacy. Been in the psych ward about 5 times in 2 years and am on all sorts of meds and in therapy. I just wanna work on my music and writing, but can't seem to tune out these distractions. What to do?
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>>17400600
find someone in a similar situation and keep each other company and push through the creativity together.
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>>17400616
A good idea, but I tend to scare people off or make them uncomfortable. I might start going back to narcotics anonymous or join some sort of support group to try to meet like-minded people,
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>>17400623
thats what i meant by 'find someone in a similar situation
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How do I stop worrying that I've upset people or been rude and have it eat away at me all day?
Example:
Right now Im in the middle of a band issue with some people I play with. The guitar guy wanted us to play at an open mic in front of a lot of people last night but saturday my friend the drummer texted me that he didn't want to go and we both kind of agreed about how it wouldnt be a good thing, because we're not ready. The last time we were on stage at this free swap market place, we messed up and a friend I invited was like "damn that was bad", because we trailed off song endings or started playing wrong notes.
So I went off about how if we go on stage in front of lots of people we should be a lot better, my friend said he didn't want to tell him that we weren't good enough yet because it'd upset him, and I said that he can find some other people to play with if he wants to go and I'd see him next practice but I know im not ready and I'm still trying to get the timings of the songs right, and if he plays with other people on stage and does bad on his own he might get it that we need more practice.
I haven't heard back from my friend and now I'm worried that I came off sounding like a douchebag or whatever because of how I said it, even though he agreed that going is probably not a good idea. Its been three days and he's seen my text and hasn't responded.
When this happens it gnaws it me forever that I might've said the wrong thing or the right thing in the wrong way, and that maybe he thinks less of me so he won't respond anymore, etc. How do I get over these feelings? What's causing them?
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Crippling lack of confidence and no practice will not make you a good performer. Sounds like the band is not going to work out if you guys can't even agree on how good you are or what kind of gigs you are ready for. Either practice more or get a new band or strike out solo.
The flip side of this is just jump into it, you miss all the shots you don't take etc etc. I fucked up more times then I care to remember in front of live audiences when I was just getting gigs. Still can't play much, but what I can play I play well. The more you are in front of people the better you will be at it. Maybe try more gigs in front of strangers, so you can crash and burn and no one will know your name.
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>>17400651
I can tell that and I want to practice more but the other two want to just get together once a week and practice usually. They both want to play together but it seems hard to get them to practice and I don't feel like I have the right to try to encourage a better schedule or better practice routine since I haven't played as much as them and the guitar guy made the songs.
But this was just an example of how not hearing a response from someone in a few days leads me to think like i must've messed up and how it eats at me all day.
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>>17400825
> I don't feel like I have the right to try to encourage a better schedule or better practice routine
If you don't feel like you have enough stake in this band to try and make them practice then it's probably time to move on. Sure they played longer and wrote the songs - fat lot of good that will do them if they can't pull it off live.
And your issues sound like generalized anxiety. It's normal to want to feel heard especially when it comes to communicating with your friends. Maybe they took it the wrong way who knows, but it sounds like they are just stringing you along to get a rise out of you. Don't let it get to you, the ball is in their court for responding at this point. Again, I think you should move on and try things on your own or with a different band, or at least get friends with a better attitude. You'd be surprised how the people you surround yourself with change your mood and state of mind / boost your self confidence.
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>Tfw ya bf is a slob and doesn't clear his web history
>that self destructing feel when you know it's gonna miserable but you can't stop looking at it anyway
>that self loathing feel when you realize your boobies are never going to be comically large and your skin is never going to be clear and your'e never going to be that skinny
He left his fucking email open too. He got a receipt for sending money to another girl. He said she's a single mom on hard times but she's probably on his hard dick instead
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Why haven't you left him OP?
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Use it to inspire you to be a better gf.
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>>17400598
Every dude is going to look at porn and every dude is going to have stupid kinks I don't understand. I just wish he was better at hiding it. He set me up with an entire spare laptop so I wouldn't have to see this shit, but then he got lazy and browsed on the spare anyway like a dunce.
The money thing is SO fucking shady though, oh my God
So, I'm insane and want to split my cheek open for reasons. Is there anything important there? Could I bleed out from a wound that size?
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If you're insane, what does it matter? Find out for yourself.
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>>17400578
you could bleed out from a wound of most any size it depends on hwo fast you get medical attention.
>>17400583
top kek tho
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>>17400578
Seek therapy or a hospital.
I'm not aging that to be a dick or anything but you should contact one or the other to either stop you you and ask why you want to do it (therapy) or a hospital in case you, well, bleed out and possibly die. I'm not a doctor so I wouldn't know but I'm not fucking retarded enough to cut my own cheek off so yeah just a suggestion.
I might go back to college.. I'm worried.. I was fucking miserable when I tried it last fall. I'm 25 years old and really don't want to go back. But the job market is fucking hell...
I'm scared that if I go back, not only will I be miserable again, but I'm worried that even with a degree I won't be able to get a job.. Fuck
I need fucking advice
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>Be me fixing to graduate from college.
>About to get my hands on AA Degree.
Feels good Anon. JUST DO IT!
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>>17400559
I'm back at school and I'm 28. You don't make friends. You figure out that everyone is too childish. I'll be 30 when I'm done and I'm glad I'm going back pick something with weight to it. I went for business the first time but now I'm doing nursing. Baby boomers are getting older and will need more medical attention.
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>>17401131
I am doing nursing also. I Graduate from a Jr. College and plan on transferring over for my BSN whenever I get the resources
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I'm moving to Glasgow, Scotland. Where are the best places for fun fitness(sports, crossfit, Rock climbing, anything that is exciting and a for if exercise)in the area?
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Form of fitness*
I've been feeling really depressed lately the past 2 years I haven't had sex nor do I feel like it's going to change anytime soon. How can I meet girls when I don't know anybody? I try using Facebook to message but no one ever seems interested in talking to me
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Anon...the first thing you can do is give me the lowdown on this chick, adding her snapchat now
Context?
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>>17400546
She's a dumb college freshman bitch at Ohio university
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>>17400571
It looks like she drew a dick on her wall - I'm into it
I just got dumped a few days ago from my first relationship because I wasn't jealous enough over my partner. He interpreted it as me not caring, and nothing I could say would change that. If someone isn't jealous over you hanging out with friends of your preferred gender, do you interpret it as not caring?
I always just thought jealousy was a negative and destructive thing. Do people want it?
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>>17400530
>If someone isn't jealous over you hanging out with friends of your preferred gender, do you interpret it as not caring?
no, it's called being over 15 and not psycho
>I always just thought jealousy was a negative and destructive thing.
it is
>Do people want it?
insecure people do
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>>17400530
bullshit reason, find a grow up next time
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>>17400545
these are people who want to have their cake and eat it to, so to speak
complacency is the first sign of a problem, when you're just indifferent to everything your lover, boyfriend, whatever does, it shows them you might have a reason (possibly another person) acting as a justifier so as not to invest emotion. people aren't psychos because they get jealous, they're jealous because they're psychos. But this is not the important issue here - you make it seem like you just kind of bored them, if I'm being honest