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Fell into NEETdom and I havent checked my phone in more than

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Fell into NEETdom and I havent checked my phone in more than a week and im afraid of doing it and checking messages like " why dont you answer? "
Replying to a week old messages seems awkward.
How do I tell people to leave me the fuck alone without being a complete asshole?
Im not going to tell them " well yeah i have suicidal thoughts all day and spend all my days shitposting/reading and dont feel like talking about it ".
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>>17451798

Do not isolate yourself from other people. You'll regret it once you start to feel like climbing out of the ditch you're in right now.
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>>17451798
>Yeah sorry I had some things on mind and couldn't answer
>I just delayed the answer for a week! Beat that!

Brush shit off positively or just be honest.
Like >>17451804 said, don't cut contacts.
Right now you're in the "I wanna be alone" phase; then will come the "I'm so lonely phase" and afterwards comes the "I'm actually the one who drove myself to loneliness in the first place" phase.
Avoid that.
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>>17451813
i feel like im in all the phases desu
all my contacs are unauthentic
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>>17451826
>unauthentic
Should they be? Or is just a buddy to chat with will be enough to drag you out the pit you are in?
Don't let the pessimism fuck you up, ask rational questions and answer them directly.
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>>17451826

You're a lucky son of a bitch that you have people who even bother to contact you when you're down. Hopefully one day you'll realize this.
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>>17451798
I know how you feel. During times like that I wish that phones wouldn't even exist. When you're having a shit ton of anxiety it doesn't really help when some idiot keeps calling or texting you and creating more anxiety. You could just text them that you want to be alone for a while. If they don't understand then they probably never were your friends to begin with.
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>>17451834
i realize it and it makes me feel like shit
>>17451829
i dont understand the first part of your post
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If you take a week to respond to a message, most normal people won't care. Life happens, so just explains that you got busy and forgot to respond.

See a therapist, tho.
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>>17451993
im already seeing one, seems pretty useless
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>>17451798
This is why I broke my phone.

When someone asked about it, I said I didn't have the money to fix it right then.
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