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Guys with a foot fetish I kinda need your opinion 2016-09-14 07:16:44 Post No.17566554
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Guys with a foot fetish I kinda need your opinion
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So there's that girl I found on a local site. For a small favor, she will let me suck on her feet. So she sent me those 2 pics. I think I will go for it but I'm not sure if I should go for it because her feet don't seem to be aesthetically pleasing. What do you think?
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>>17566554
you're asking us if it's aesthetically pleasing?
bro, to each of our own. if you think it isn't then it's not for you.
Personally, I dont like nail paint. I hate it.
so with that pic, I dont want none of that shit, but it would be an instant yes for someone else.
It's all about your preference, man.
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>>17566554
Have you considered ritual suicide?
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I don't know who to ask for advice on this. I feel like everyone I could ask, would give me the answer I think they would, which is not what would help, or they would tell me how ridiculous I was being.
Basically, mom and dad divorced when I was a baby, and dad up and left. Like not even a year old. That's not even my story. A lot of people can tell that. Don't really care about it. Anyway, I don't know, should I try to make amends with my dad? Is that even the right word? It's not like he ever wronged me, or I wronged him. If anything, my mom.
I messaged him a few weeks ago, and tried to talk to him, we talked, and then it stopped. It felt like I was walking on eggshells the entire time. That's how it feels like with most strangers. I don't know though, I don't hate him, but should I? I would like to get to know him, and hear his side of the story for once. I don't know since I'm in my 20s now, what our relationship could be like, if it would ever even become a friendship, but is it worth my effort? Anyone had a similar experience and what came of it?
tl;dr dad left when i was a baby, should i try to talk to him ever, or is it not worth it
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>>17566541
Just tell him exactly how you feel. I told my dad recently I wish he was more in my life after HE pushed me away and he actually felt remorse. What do you have to lose over social media?
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>>17566551
I don't feel that much. I never knew him. I've only heard stories. I don't want to say something like "why weren't you there all those times", because I mean, what would that accomplish really? I just want to know if its worth kindling any sort of relationship, and what one would be like. The only thing I know about this person is what I've heard and that he's related to me, but I want to get to know him somehow. I don't know if he would even want to though.
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>>17566561
Ya gotta tell him "look guy I wanna know my dad can we talk?" Even if he rejects, at least you know you tried.
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I can't sleep I can't think anymore I don't know what to do. I can't think. I can't fucking see straight. This has been going on for over two weeks now and I'm loosing my mind. I can feel my eyes sinking in. I just spent the past 8 hours trying to sleep and got 10 minutes. I've taken all kinds of sleep aid and nothing works. Tonight I've tried a combination of zquil and melatonin. I can't sleep.
I've been averaging about 3-4 hours a night. When I do finally fall asleep, I wake up really early. When I wake up, it's not like it should be either. I just- I'm awake. There's no snapping out of a dream or that sudden realization that I've been asleep. I'm just awake- like I never went to sleep. I think I'm daydreaming about sleeping and I'm confusing it with actual sleep now. Or maybe I'm sleeping about daydreaming and dreaming it's actual sleep now.
I don't know what to do any more. I think I'm actually afraid of my bed, now, but I've got nowhere else to sleep. Does anyone know any other tips aside from meditation, sleep medicine, alcohol, or vitamin supplements? Have any of you ever experienced it before?
I'm so scared and tired right now. I don't know what to do anymore. I've run out of options.
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>>17566517
You haven't run out of options if you haven't tried seeing your doctor and getting a prescription. Ambien. Or even something stronger like Seroquel which will totally knock you out.
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>>17566517
Try some lavender scent. Sounds gay as fucc but it actually does calm us down and help wind our brain down. Also try binaural beats and breathe slow and deep. Of course this is just assuming your insomnia is stress related and not something else
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>>17566523
Thank you, anon. I've taken Ambien before, though. It's a really weird medicine and it didn't help me that much. The last time I used it it just made it seem like the bed was breathing instead of me.
Seroquel, though. I haven't tried that.
>>17566535
>binaural beats and breathe slow and deep
I'm going to look this up right now- it sounds like something I can try tonight without having to go out and pick something up. I don't think I can drive.
And yes, it's probably anxiety related. I've had some pretty bad anxiety issues for the past two years.
Thank you
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im fucked up mentally i need help, with everything and cant we make this public so everyone has help. Mostly the ones that dont speak up. Help me, possibly help others.
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Going to need more to go on.
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>>17566512
mentally i feel im fucked. Long story short, never knew my pops, mom died when i was young, and i watched her die. Heart attack.
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>>17566533
i drink alot, use to do heavy drugs, not anymore, im only down for weed but i still drink. Im a straight forward person tho and take responsibility if it literally my fault.
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So what is one supposed to do in this situation?
Your partner wants to kill themselves really badly.
You're the only thing preventing them, multiple times daily stopping them from walking out and offing themselves.
They are constantly going back into depressive states, every single day, and it has become extremely tiring and is wearing you out.
Literally anything will, for lack of a better word, trigger them into such states, there is no predicting it. They'll also just randomly do it themselves, all the time.
If you broke up with them and kicked them out, they'd just go kill themselves. Same for breaking up with them and not kicking them out. Yet you're tired of it all and just want to be free of it. You want to break up with them and stop dealing with this stress, but you also don't want them to kill themselves.
On top of this it's only this constant stress of dealing with someone so suicidal, helpless, hopeless, and pathetic, that makes you want to break up with them. Aside from that the relationship of years has been wonderful, in fact the most compatible relationship you've ever had, also the longest lasting one. You've lived together for years. It's just this constant recurring depression, which has worsened over the years despite them only coming closer to their "dream life", which is making you want to end it just to be free of the stress.
You would miss them after breaking up, and knowing they were going to kill themselves at that point would only make it worse. Many, many things would be ruined, even just breaking up with them and them not killing themselves, there would be so many reminders of them and it would still hurt to do it. But the stress is just so much. I wish I could just pawn them off on someone and let them be their boyfriend and fill this role instead so I knew they would be okay or at least live. This is all just too much.
What do?
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>>17566504
>So what is one supposed to do in this situation?
If they're not actively seeking treatment until they find something that works, then it's never going to end. Don't chain yourself to someone miserable just because you used to have good times together. Break up, cut contact, and then move on. Because one day, they're going to get what they want, and you're going to have wasted your life on them. You'll feel guilty regardless, so you may as well try to make the best of your life.
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First.
This isn't your responsibility. No one will blame you if they kill themselves, even if they did, you didn't actually kill them yourself but it was a self-committed act so you shouldn't feel guilty.
What you should do is talk to their family and let then know about your circumstances and why you want to break up and why they should take care of them.
Are you married to them or something?
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>>17566504
Call a fucking mental institution and say if nothing is done it is inevitable.
Its the only way to save them, even if they dont want that, its whats best for them and in the long run they will appreciate it.
Just trick them into going into it.
Looking for straight people advice.
How do I find out if a guy is gay without running the risk of turning it into a disaster if he's straight?
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>>17566503
depends if he knows if youre gay or not already probably
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"So do you have a girlfriend?"
If he's gay, he'll so "I'm gay" if he is straight or in a relationship, he'll say yes or no.
As a follow up: no, you can't convince him to fuck you, and sexuality not being a choice is the whole argument against homosexuality just being degeneracy.
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>>17566516
If I thought I could convince straight guys to be gay, why would I give a fuck about finding out if they're gay?
I'm just trying to get a way of figuring things out so I don't make people needlessly uncomfortable by coming on to straight people.
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I'm 10 years soda-free.
I only drink water, juice from fruits/vegetables, tea, coffee, scotch, bourbon and the usual IPA or trappist beers, though the alcohol consumption's pretty much occasional.
Am I doing good?
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You want brownie points for not having a diet like an 11 year old? Oh boy...
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>>17566445
To be honest, I'm craving to taste soda now so I thought of making this thread to see if there are people like me here.
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i dont get why soda is so popular 2bh
juice is much better and tastier
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How much of a loser am I from 1 (complete fucking loser end it) to 10(oh shit you're killing the game)
>24
>applying to nursing school
>work at hospital as a nurse assistant $12 an hour
>live with parents
>6ft 4 260 lbs I lift a lot
>Dating a girl who's a solid 7 but a sweetheart who is almost done with the nursing program (21)
I feel like I'm in the middle of my grind, but there are a ton of people my age with houses, kids, and their shit together
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>>17566423
>shit together
Lol
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Nah, at 24 you're basically a kid still. Plenty of time. Don't stress it
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>>17566431
When should I start stressing or is this just my ego fucking with me. And I should focus on being happy
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Is it even worth trying in school anymore? I have a huge lack of motivation, I feel as if I have ADHD, and I'm under a lot of stress because of the pressure my mom puts on me. I decided a while back that I wanted to join the Navy, so tell me anons, is it worth it?
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the military is nothing but a dumping ground for dropouts and people with no other options
so go for it
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>>17566422
Yeah, I figured that's what it was, I really don't have an option unless I get my shit straight, nevermind that though, thanka for your input.
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>>17566406
join the military
Get friends and great benefits
Then when you're go to school for engineering for free
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>tfw you're a deeply homophobic self hating gay man
I have tried and failed to pray the gay away. I hate myself for being attracted to men. yes I'm a Trump voter. I have had sex with women in the past but then my penis becomes soft.
How do I stop being a homo, or at least learn to live as a happy gay man who owns a gun and believes in small government?
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Well, what's your relationship status?
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why do you support trump?
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>>17566383
You can't. You just have to accept yoursef for the way you are.
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How to be a male with severe anxiety 2016-09-14 06:11:20 Post No.17566353
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How to be a male with severe anxiety
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I'm nearing wit's end /adv/. Every job I get, I end up getting singled out and I end up quitting/getting fired. All of my coworkers always describe me as "the nice guy". I always end up doing the tasks nobody else wants to do and I'm never appreciated. I'm always looked down on and always talked down to. Everyone else seems to get along just fine and I'm just there being a black sheep it seems.
My question is, how do some of my fellow anxiety sufferers cope with socializing at their job? How have some of you conquered your anxiety? I can't afford therapy at the moment so I don't have too many options
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If you have social anxiety it doesn't mean you need to be a cuck. I avoid all social contact whenever possible and I'm a complete sperg when it comes to a conversation with a stranger but all you need to say is no my dude
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>>17566353
Where I'm from we have a saying. If it smells bad everywhere, check under your shoe
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>>17566391
Truu. I've already established good rapport with most of my coworkers though. I just feel like I'm the sperg of the crew though. Social anxiety is a bitch man
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I swallowed 11 of these pills a few hours ago.
How fucked am i?
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>>17566349
You're fucked six ways from sunday.
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what the hell did you do that for?
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Is it too late for OP to force himself to throw up?
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Which type of surgery? 2016-09-14 05:55:40 Post No.17566322
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I have a pilonidal cyst that's causing abscesses between my cheeks. After going to see a proctologyst, I haven't had success draining it as instructed, so I'm facing two options for surgery: surface incision and removal, or complete excision, pic related. Thoughts?
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Excision or you'll have it reoccur
And that will be a real pain in the ass
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had that shit for some time and didn't have balls to go to doc thinking it will go away, went to doc, did surgery, shit appeared again for short time then "disappeared". Now I just have a red spot there, dunno why the fuck it didn't go away completely with surgery.
>mfw I think about it
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Annoying my boyfriend 2016-09-14 05:46:31 Post No.17566304
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It seems like I constantly annoy my boyfriend. We've been dating for four months, and I truly love him, so I'm always trying to better myself for him. I've been an annoying person to everyone my entire life, and even though I have been improving since graduating high school, it seems like my boyfriend doesn't notice. Granted, we haven't been together for that long, only four months, and he doesn't know how annoying I used to be. But still, it seems like everything I do triggers him.
First, he was annoyed at me crying all of the time (literally every day) from loneliness, because the only person I talked to was him. I fixed this. I am better at alone time now. Second, he gets annoyed when I make sudden sounds as a result of being surprised, since I'm really jumpy. I have taken a SHIT TON of effort to cut back on my sounds, even though I make them involuntarily as is. Third, he is annoyed at my mood swings, which happen whenever I'm failing at something. My low self-esteem has me perceiving failure at all times, so I think I have come a long way to stop becoming sad every hour in his presence over stupid things. Fourth, he is annoyed at me being sad when he doesn't message me for an entire day, and when I express sadness at not talking to him. This is different than simple loneliness that I mentioned earlier - even though I can go almost a full day on my own now, I still want to talk to him at the end of the day. And it seems like no matter what, my words are pressuring to him when I message him in the evening or something. If I indicate AT ALL that I am upset that he hasn't initiated words, he becomes annoyed. So I have deleted all of my social media things to avoid contacting him often. I have stopped complaining that sometimes he does not respond or does not message me in the morning. Fifth, he is annoyed whenever I send strings of words throughout the day - "plain words" that are not just meaningful conversation.
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In short, it seems like everything is annoying to him. I don't know what to do at this point. I am trying to change all of the annoying things about myself, because I don't like them either, and it seems like I will always fail at one thing or another.
Whenever I love someone, I never find someone annoying. Or, if something is annoying, I don't constantly accuse my partner of it.
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>>17566304
Honey, don't take this the wrong way, but you're a walking red-flag. What I mean is, everyone looking for a casual relationship is gonna shy away from you 95% of the time.
I don't wanna feed doubts, but are you sure he's """the one"""?
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you sound really young.
you sound like you have an expectation level in the relationship that isn't being met, but that you also are incapable of articulating to him.
but you also sound like one of these new children of the internet that never learned in person socialization skills and instead did everything through the social media toys of technology.
you also sound very relationship inexperienced overall, not just romantic.
its good to have a desire for self improvement, but theres some other shit going on here.
Why do guys always go after my ugly friend? She is a beautiful girl with a pretty face but she is not prettier than me! I don't get why they go for her instead, Or maybe i'm really the ugly one?! i don't mean to sound rude but i don't feel as if i'm the ugly one. I'm more in shape, I have long blonde hair that is real (She doesn't she wears a weave) I'm 19 & shes underage to these guys. I don't get it. Do they think she has lower self-esteem and would be easier or is it just to make the hotter friend jealous? I'm a shy girl she does most the talking when we get approached, Does this play a roll?? could it make me seem stuck up? What do you think is going on? Guys Please help! xx
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>>17566280
Your personality is absolutely repulsive.
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>>17566285
It's really not, I'm just the shy one, I don't mean to ever come across rude that's not the person i am.