Do you feel emasculated when you get called "cute"?
This is my second girlfriend who does this, and although I don't show it, it's not a pleasant compliment when she says it.
Some people say that it means "something different" to girls when they say it, but it just doesn't lie right with me.
What do you think?
Am I being called cute because I'm a faggot, or am I just an insecure bitch?
>>17565028
You are definitely a faggot and she is taking Jamal's sexy hot load daily instead of yours bitch
I can see where you are coming from. At a young age us guys are told to be strong and masculine. Cute is not masculine and is a complement reserved for kids but in this case you are taking it wrong. Girls use cute in a different context in which they adore you. Cute is good guy.
>>17565028
Every girl is different so cute means different things. In some cases yes it does emasculate a bit, but in others it's interchangeable with handsome. If you look younger than your age then it's also relevant.
Your insecurity over it is probably just a fixation.
I'll try to make this short, but basically this semester has just started but I've been having an extended breakdown and was hospitalized last night for a psych evaluation. Basically have intense depression from shit genes and traumatic childhood experiences.
I'm not thinking straight and I dropped two classes (was considering just dropping out), and I'm taking a reduced load of credits this semester that might make me graduate later than 4 years for a bachelor's degree.
How fucked am I for graduate school applications? What should I do in terms of this current situation?
Please help a sad lad out brothers. Can clarify if more information is needed.
You can always take extra classes during the summer, don't worry
>>17565032
Thanks laddie. Do you know if they'll look at my course load this semester and basically tell me to fuck off for being a weakling?
Be a part time student and make up the classes in the summer. Try to get meds for your depression to hopefully normalize you. Take full advantage of your college's therapist and schedule an appointment to have weekly meeting him/her.
Focos on each class and don't pressure yourself with too much. Good luck.
Would it be to much to ask to process stress like a normal human being?
Like everything just throws my stress levels through the roof
-not getting something in class
-unexpected expenses
-thoughts of loneliness, unsatisfaction, any mildly upsetting though really
This is destroying me, I'm an anxious, stress-filled mess. It's actually getting to me more and more and i just don't really know how to handle myself
>>17565020
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=moSFlvxnbgk
Start smoking weed dude, dead serious.
Much better than going to a snot nosed psychiatrist who will prescribe you a bunch of pills that will fuck you up.
>>17565023
Already do, regularly.
It's helps in the moment yeah. But If I'm in class feeling I'm on the verge of an anxiety attack it doesn't really help
Should I do a politics degree or a Bioscience degree with a foundation year (4 years in total)?
Asking a bunch of fucking randoms online about your degree choice is a bad idea. Scedule a meeting with your department's advisor and lay out all your options. She will give you information and websites you can check out for more info.
Don't be an idiot and take our advice which can completely change your life dude. THINK.
Depends on what you want to do with your life m8.
Usually a Bachelor in Politics is rather worthless and even with a master you need to know what you want to work as - and work towards that starting as soon as you start university.
t. Embassy worker with a Master in Pol Science
Also I hear that Bioscience isn't "really STEM" so don't go into that if you expect you will be making engineering money and have job offers coming in all the darn time.
>>17564962
what do you want to do with your degree?
>be me
>be """18""" in high school
>in Singapore
>traditionalist parents cane me since the age of ten
>caning is done on Saturdays for bad academic results or misbehaviour
>tried to say that I won't take it
>they said that I either will lay on a bench or they won't pay for my higher education
>had to lay down
>recently got 40 canes for drinking vodka and smoking pot
>can't sit normally for two weeks
>they have all the legal rights to do it
>how to solve it?
You can't solve it.
They will be paying for your higher education so that is at least another 4 years of canning.
OR
Work and move out once you have enough savings.
Stop giving them a reason to hit you even if you have to act
have to agree with the other poster, since the law is on their side in your country you have no option but to put up with it until you do turn 18, but when you do turn 18 is when you have a choice. Either keep putting up with their rules and let them pay for your education or assert your independence move out and find a job of your own.
Frankly speaking though you asked "how to solve it" and the real way to solve this problem is to abide by their rules. From what you've said it sounds like they do have your best interests in mind, they've caned you for drinking alcohol and doing drugs, things you shouldn't be doing anyway, and for neglecting your schoolwork leading to poor academic results. You should really be focused on doing well in school, not getting drunk and chasing girls or whatever it is you're doing.
How does someone obtain street smarts and know how to live off the streets. If worst comes to worst i want to be prepared
Explain your situation and goals, my negro
>>17564902
Your first assignment is to translate this video into proper English
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dW2MmuA1nI4
>>17564934
My situation is i fucked up in my only job and im probably going to go homeless. My goal is to just make ends meet man. I don't want to resort to illegal shit,but if i got no choice...
my gf has a male friend who sometimes greets her by squeezing her boobs. He was doing this before we started dating. However she told me nonchalantly he did it yesterday and I felt like a cuck. I mean I don't get very protective of her, usually she is not the center of attention (she has more beautiful friends) and don't care if somebody touches her, but I don't like the fact she does not seem to be concerned about it. But I don't think she understood me, she said giggly ~ "I told him not to do this, but he just not listen".
Am I overreacting?
>>17564900
no. an overreaction would be violence. you are concerned and upset, thats almost an under reaction.
id sit down and talk it out with her. yes she is close friends with this guy ,adn the sexual aspect was more innocent, but the point of being in a relationship is to commit certain parts of yourselves to only each other, and her boobies are for you. if she doesn't understand shes lying, she just wants to have her way. either way if she can't see your point of view and ahve a talk with him, then shes not worth dating.
if she does but he keeps doign it, you have to have a talk with him. and if htat goes nowhere, you need to make a decision about whther or not this girl is worth it.
but agian, talk to her about how serious it is.
>>17564912
thank you anon for your confirmation, it was driving me crazy today and felt kinda bad about my behavior. Though I think I will only bring it up if it happens again.
Shut that shit down nigga
I'm an extremely hairy boy, but I want to be a cd trap.
I could do it, I have the ass for it, and the body, only trouble is that it's all covered in hair.
What's the best way to get rid of this? I tried shaving it all off once, but you could still see the roots of the hair under my white skin.
If I waxed my whole body would it leave a lot of marks? How often would I have to do that to stay hairless?
I'm not transgender I'm not going to take hormones.
>>17564894
you'd have to remove the hair every day or two three depending on what your growth rate is. its different for everyone. id get away with it twice a week. others wouldn't.
the best hting ive found for guys i bang is nair. i only shave my face myself but using nair seems really easy, and after words you just use some lotion to soothe.
Kys
>>17564894
Transgender is seeing yourself as somewhere between masculine and feminine. Welcome to the club you are definitely transgender.
Transsexual, getting the physical and homornal changes, you are not.
Your only real option are to:
A) Actually get a sex change
B) Be honest that you are a cross dresser
Dont be asshole and actively lie to people.
I'm at the beginning of my college years lads, just taking my core classes right now.
My focus has been on Computer Science but lately I've been wondering the difference between Computer Science and Computer Programming. I know CS involves algorithms but that's as far as I know. I wanna know the type of Jobs/Activities that they each do separately.
Also enlighten me on other computer related degrees that are out there. I wanna broaden my horizon.
>>17564867
>tfw no gearhead gf
computer science is computer programming you fool. jesus.
>>17564890
They are 2 degrees goofus. There must be a difference.
All my work is in evenings so I kinda have to. But is it bad for health?
Can it cause fatigue?
>>17564822
less energy
everything takes longer to complete
That's the two things I noticed.
gives us a timeframe for reference
>>17564822
I'm more efficient in the evening. Find your own rhythm. If you aren't following it you'll get tired anyways. It does not take too bad long if you keep a sleep journal.
How do I become a cold, distant high-functioning sociopath?
>>17564689
Go back in time and abuse yourself a bit as a child.
You really don't want to become mentally ill, you just want to grow the fuck up and stop being an emotional little girl.
>>17564698
Except my chink dad verbally, physically, and emotionally abused me when I was a kid. I'm 18 now and I harm my kitten and dog from time to time. I don't know why I do it, I just think it's really fun to blow off some steam.
>>17564706
Take some time to think about the meaning of everything, and then contemplate why you come up with nothing.
Do it correctly and you can build yourself up however you want
19 year old college kid here. Haven't been interested in anybody since maybe 8th grade, but have since found out that I don't really care as much about the emotional intimacy in a relationship as I do the physical.
In other words, I kinda just wanna fuck. The thing is, though, that all the people who have expressed interest in me in recent years have wanted to "get to know me," as if they think there's something deeper in me that I'm hiding, but I'm honestly not full of nuances or anything. I'm pretty much exactly how I present myself.
I have a good number of friends and some family who seem dependent on the affection of other people, but I don't really feel the same way, even though I spend most of my time alone. Some of them seem to think I'm repressing feelings or something, and that I should get back to proactively seeking a relationship, but I honestly don't feel like I need it.
I think it'd be nice if I were to find someone I clicked with, sure, but do you guys consider it to be a good investment of my time to actively look for something that I honestly feel that I don't need right now, or should I just carry on as I am?
u should totally b urself. peace
>>17564716
ty anon i really needed that validation, lol
>>17564683
If you wanna fug, just pretend you have feelings. It's honestly easy and then you can manipulate people how you want. And when they find out or you are done, they'll be the ones that have to deal with their dependency while you would only be mildly inconvenienced.
I am an excessive masturbater. I'm only 24 and it's much harder to get and maintain an erection as it used to be. If I were to cut back would my spontaneous erections come back?
Yes.
Probably got a case of deathgrip, too.
>>17564681
Do you use porn to jack off? If so, chances are you've become desensitized, to what you're watching, or you might've developed unrealistic standards for what you consider arousing.
Try ditching the porn for a bit and try something new.
Thanks guys maybe I should shoot for maybe only once a week no porn?
To what extent can I be expected to provide for my family as an adult?
Instead of moving out and becoming independent, I've sort of ended up taking dad's old place in the household. Basically meaning supporting them financially, working hard, drinking hard and quietly grumbling about getting no respect here. Considering that this kind of set-up literally fucking killed him, it can't be particularly good for me.
How do I weasel out of this set-up with my honour and dignity intact? I don't know if she's simply gotten more irresponsible with money sincs dad died, or whether I was just too young to know that, then, but mom is fucking fucked without me buying groceries and lending money for things, especially with my NEET sister contributing nothing to the household and refusing to move out.
>>17564657
Close accounting and monthly/weekly envelopes for spendings when you get your salary.
Just don't spend more than you should. If the food is stale, it's not your fault, you need to build a family of your own and they are definitely not helping.
>>17564701
I don't think I'm going to. I have no interest in women, I'm infertile, and it'd be unfair to lock some bitch into a completely loveless and sexless marriage with no children in return.
>>17564657
Barring your mother and or family being medically/emotionally/physically in need you're entitled to a life of your own.
If your mom is choosing not to work and manipulating you to provide then get out of there asap. She is actively choosing not to work etc.. That is a toxic environment and you definitely deserve to be free of it. Care for your mother so long as she is kind, take her out to lunch and so forth. But you are not her parent, her job is to take care of you not vice versa. Move out and start your own life.
>take a shit
>wipe with right hand as usual
>wash hands with soap and water as usual
>go watch tv, notice something smells like shit - it's my right hand
>check if there's any shit on my hand or under the nails - there isn't
>wash hands again, now very thoroughly and vigorously
>it still smells like shit
WHAT THE FUCK
>>17564635
I've heard that this is just your subconscious fucking up. Open a thing of deodorant and dab the trouble spot.
>>17564635
how many wipes did you perform my mudbutt friend
>>17564635