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have you ever been suicidal as a kid and still dont regret your attempts to this day? like we hear all this bs success stories about being saved but we all know its bullshit.
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>>17565257
I feel ya.
Noone ever came to save me, either. Just got colder, and harder.
Now i'm just numb. Sometimes i feel like shit, but mostly i just feel nothing.
The worst part is the lies, honestly. I was constantly hearing "it gets better", "hold out stay strong", "don't lose hope", "there's a light at the end of the tunnel", etc.
Could have at least told me the truth. That some people are just broken, and aren't ever going to be happy.
It would have been more honest that way. And easier to take.
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>>17565257
All I can say is just hold out man, tried and pussed out when I was in middle school. Went through a lot of hell before things got better, shit does not magically happen over night. All those posts you see about success might be fake. For all you know it could be depressed people making up stories to make themselves feel better.
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>>17565389
If you are able seek help do it. Do not just find any therapist or psych. Look for someone you know you can trust and really feel comfortable with. You might go through a few and it might be shitty but just try and hold out.
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So, I'm 24 and before yesterday, I'd literally never had a homosexual thought. Ever. I wake up this morning, and I think I might have actually, completely turned gay overnight. Today I've found exclusively guys attractive... and a lot of them, too. Not a single girl. Usually, I'm borderline misogynist when it comes to ogling women, but today? Well, I'm severely confused.
It's like I woke up in some 80's movie trying to teach me a lesson about being gay or something.
Is it possible to turn gay overnight?
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>>17565240
You should binge on trap porn to complete your awakening
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>>17565271
Blast from the past here, did you stay away from the puppers? I know you like to have relations with them
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>>17565240
kinda. you wree likely always gay but something finally snapped and you can realize it.
i didnt think i was gay despite watching gay porn exclusively for three years. id balance it out with lesbian porn once a year to prove i was straight. i dated girls, had no problem getting hard.
sexuality isnt just what immediately arouses our penis. its what feels right and feels the best, and its not always easy to know that.
when i was 14 i thought id be a gay twinkie faggy bottom. because thats what i thought being gay was. and its not.
yours might have bene a quicker transition (or rather, realization) but yeah, you might be gay. oyu might be bi. you might just be on a weird kick and in a week like women again.
just do waht oyu want, and dont bother explaining anything to anyone you dont feel like explaining to. despite what bitches say, your sexuality doesnt have to be anyones business if you dont want it to be.
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>friends grandfather dies
>wants all of her friends to come to the wake
>I dont really want to go, I never even met the man
Wat do
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>>17565238
Don't go?
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How close are you to this friend?
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>>17565245
Not that close but she really overrates our friendship.
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/adv/ice on how to get over crush?
>pic unrelated
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>>17565206
Alchohol
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>>17565226
I'm in the same boat right now, anon and I'm having some alcohol.
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>>17565226
>18
Parents don't drink...
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I've been very lethargic lately. I'm trying not to beat myself up about it however. I haven't been going to the gym lately because of it. Should I push myself to go tonight or just relax?
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Push yourself hard tonight and then relax when you get home.
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>>17565190
That's a good idea, thanks
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>>17565184
Are you eating and sleeping well and enough? Better take a blood test just to be sure, specially if this lethargy is new to you.
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Looking for some /legal/ advice here.
>23 years old
>On Tinder swiping for poon
>Match with 18 year old
>She's dtf
>Get more into talking
>Turns out she's actually 17
>My state's AOC is 16
>But pretty much every story I've ever heard about guys in this situation ended with them in jail and on a sex offender registry
Even having done my homework and it seeming like I'll be alright if I do the deed, is there any way I can get screwed by this?
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Ya if she is lying about being 17 moron.
Go for someone who is above 20.
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>>17565187
She's in university so I don't think that's the case.
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>>17565181
17 yr olds dont know what rape means ur good
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Am I too far behind now? 2016-09-13 22:58:40 Post No.17565172
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Am I just too far behind now? I am 25 and have not managed to get a girlfriend. I am not too salty about it but I honestly feel like I am missing out on life or at least a portion of it. I have friends my age who are happily married and have kids and house already.. I am not happy and I live in apartment and shit.
Is this what life is supposed to be? I feel as if my life has never really been fully in my control. I often find myself waiting for fate to deliver something to me because I have tried and tried and tried. Each time I have been defeated.
How much longer will I have to get my hands dirty?
Is it even worth trying anymore if fate is in full control?
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You a virgin kid?
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>>17565185
yup
Not doing so well in that department either. Terrified of disease and getting a woman pregnant. Also scared of crazy women.
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>>17565172
you seem more level headed than most guys in your position and not nearly as whiny.
>is this what life is supposed to be
life is whatever you want it to be. its supposed to be animals in the wild humping and eating and dying. Humans have always been about doing something outside of the norm. and as time goes on our 'out of the norm' even differs from other humans.
there is a general guideline for what you are supposed to do to be happy, but even that is flawed.
marriage was not something you did because it would make you happy. it was something you did because it would bring you children adn continue the line, which is something we don't comprehend much at this time, but was considered a really big deal until recently.
even when who you married was a choice, it started as a choice you made after three dates. if you were 'dating' a lady it was expected that you were to propose VERY soon. three dates, all at her house, mostly getting to know her family, than having a short while (less than an hour) alone with her to talk.
how are you supposed to measure this woman against others if getting to this point means you're already basically engaged?
who are you supposed to know what girl would make you happy, or if a girl could make you happy at all?
all marriage is is just what remains of an old concept.
>how much longer will i have to get my hands dirty?
do you mean you are agetting them dirty now trying to achieve something (and if so please elaboratE) or are you asking hwo much time is left to get them dirty (as in, how much longer do you have to get laid?
>friends are happily married
sure, for now. and thats at best. what oyu see and what is there are two different things. you see two people talking to you, interacting with you. not talking about their problems, being passive agressive, etc. im not saying all marriage is evil, but a large amount of them get unhappy VERY fast.
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I need advice.
Please.
So I met this girl a few days after school started and she's in my math class. We've been talking a lot. And we both admitted we like each other. And after a week we admitted that. I tried to ask her out. She said she wanted to take it slow. I agreed. Another few days passed and we got to know each other more and i asked her to homecoming, she said yes. Since we've met its been about like.. 4 or 6 weeks. So should I ask her out at the dance? Or after? Or should I wait longer?
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You have to be 18 to post here fag.
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>>17565178
>18
>junior
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>>17565178 I was born in 1997. 19.
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Everyday I see a suicide thread on here 2016-09-13 22:54:18 Post No.17565153
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Everyday I see a suicide thread on here
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Everyday theres a thread here about wanting to commit suicide..seriously whats the point? it doesnt solve a thing..
just talk about your problems here well help
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No...seeing a trained professional is your best bet.
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>>17565153
It's just a plea for attention. Best ignoring them.
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that's a really simplistic way to look at it.
what do you do when your problems can't be solved with talking? when you've struggled for a long time, faced endless failure, disappointment, misery, whatever, talking doesn't solve shit.
talking to some stranger online isn't going to suddenly make me 18 again, undo the debt I'm in, undo every single fuck up that led me to this point.
but hey, guess I can just talk it out and it will all be OK :D:D
fuck you dude
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How to become close friends with flirty hypocritical guys 2016-09-13 22:51:27 Post No.17565147
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How to become close friends with flirty hypocritical guys
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Well, some of them are decent people.
The problem is they don't seem to respect you if they can manipulate you.
How do i make them treat me like a human being and not a mindless marionette?
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Or or and follow me on this...you be friends with NICE guys. Ever thought of that sunshine?
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>>17565149
That breed of immature "nice" guys, who sugarcoat every word and snap as soon as you show them the tiniest displeasure?
At least hypocrites control their emotions better. Backstabs are shit though, not as if "nice" guys don't have them plenty.
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>>17565173
No nice guys will kiss your ass and give you the world and then some.
Unlike hypocritcal assholes, they have no spine and so you can walk all over them.
Versus a guy who will manipulate you to get sex.
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Best method of killing myself 2016-09-13 22:47:56 Post No.17565134
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Best method of killing myself
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I want to kill myself. I don't want to make a scene, just die.
What would be the best method? I don't want to live anymore
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overdose is the cleanest then carbon monoxide poisoning.
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>>17565136
How do I achieve carbon monoxide poisoning? It would save me a lot of money rather than getting meds or traveling to the Golden Gate Bridge to jump I hope
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Been there done that. What's worse is when you survive and you have to explain yourself. Don't worry Anon. I tried killing myself before. Do something selfless before you do it. It helped me live and eventually I didn't want to kill myself.
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Roommates or a studio?
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>>17565078
Toes
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If you can get your hands on a studio that kickass, go for it.
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>>17565088
Yes anon, that's exactly the apartment I'm looking at.
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I turned 18 a week ago and I feel fucked
I spent the whole Summer infront of my computer even though i live close to the beach all because i have no friends. I have a crippling fear of opening up to people because im a shut-in with no friends and i dont want to be outcasted. I put up a fake social facade infront of everyone
Im a handholdless virgin and dont even know where to start with women and i have no idea what i want to do with my life
What were you doing at 18 anon?
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>>17565071
>I have a crippling fear of opening up to people because im a shut-in with no friends and i dont want to be outcasted.
I am sorry to hear that you're hurting, but I think you may have your cause and effect backwards.
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What did I do at 18?
I had a girlfriend
Volunteer at my local library
Was on the student council
Was on the basketball team and my team won high school cup in the city
Had a good amount of friends
Knew what I wanted to do
And a good relationship with my mother but I hated my dad who was a conservative prick....though we made up in my college years
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>>17565071
Haxx fbi
yolosweg
I don't have any friends in real life , all my "friends" are people online with my same interests (yeah, you guessed it: anime).
In 2014 i met a 15 years old girl on Facebook that was really into me. Yeah, i know it's wrong, that it's illegal, etc... but i couldn't resist her. Please take into account i was alone as shit, so i couldn't help it.
She was really pretty, was nice to me and was really interested in everything about me. She wasn't living on my town, she was really far away but she came to my town in summer. She already had a boyfriend but she had a date with me anyway and we even kissed each other.
Sadly, for her it wasn't a big deal, i even found out that she was kissing with a lot of other guys from all ages ( i wasn't the only grown-up), so even thoug she said it was really important for her and that she loved me a lot, it wasn't true.
She went back to her town and we kept in contact anyway on Facebook and she flirted with me. She started to say she really loved me and she told me she was going to be with me. So, she was like that for like 2 days and she already changed opinion and decided to be start a love relationship with other guy she was flirting with. I got angry and cut all ties with her for the rest of the year and she blocked me.
In 2015 she unblocked me and i started talking to her, still angry. She said she felt bad about everyhting and tried to do something nice for me. She knew i had a foot fetish so she agreed to see me again and let me lick and kiss her feet. After that i tried to convince her to see each other again more, but she wouldn't allow me.
Again we didn't talk to each other the rest of the year, and she started a stupid game of block me on Facebook, unblock me, flirt with me, get guilty and block me again. There was a night when we said a lot of dirty stuff to each other and we talked about having sex even but again she blocked me. Now in 2016 story still is repeating and oh, she had sex with another guy.
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>>17565068
Sadly nothing we say here can alter the sad, pitiful existence that is your life. How old are you, bro? Getting played like this by a 15 year old? You should know better
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Hey pussy, how old is your miserable ass anyway?
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this is the most autistic thing I've see all [spoiler]day_[/spoiler]
congratulations
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Am I a cuck? So i had a fwb for 2 years and recently we decided to become gf bf. We fucked like once a week sometimes more sometimes left throughout our undergrad. I told her that i didn't sleep around while we were fucking but she told me she did the first year. At first i felt immensely jealous but got over it because we weren't dating. Now when I think about the fact that she was fucking other guys while I was fucking her makes me extremely horny
Is this literally cuckold the fetish I'm experiencing?
We're monogamous now and I definitively wouldn't be cool with her doing it again
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>>17565058
>Is this literally cuckold the fetish I'm experiencing?
Not unless the thought of watching them do it, now that you're supposed to be exclusive, turns you on. The cuck fetish is a lot more specific than the /r9k/ crowd likes to think.
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>>17565073
It just makes me think like "you're such a slut thats hot"
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>>17565076
That doesn't sound like the cuck fetish, though the bitter unfuckables would probably call you a cuck anyway. If they don't just collapse into paroxysms of REEEEE after hearing you've had sex, I mean.