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Has anyone ever taken a few classes with 2 full time jobs?

I am considering taking a few classes on Saturday. I work weekdays 2 full time jobs so I am working all day and sleeping only 5 hours a night. I have no time at all during the weekdays but I have sat and sunday completely off. Will taking 2 sat classes be pretty stupid?

Btw, the AS degree I'm trying to get has to do with my jobs. I currently make a total of 120k annually and having this degree will further increase my salary but more importantly, gives me security of keeping those jobs. I also note this because under no circumstances will I consider paying a job on hold for schooling.
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If you want a miserable existence. I mean I'm all for working hard but you could get hit by a bus tommorw. Quit one job then take classes so you can have one job that you will earn 100k + in less hours. In the long run that's more profitable anyway than slaving two jobs.
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How do people do a full time job and classes? How the fuck do you get anything done? There's literally not enough time in the day.
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>>17569577
I work ~35 hours a week and sometimes more between two part-time jobs and take 16 credit hours.

It's doable. You have to play things fast and loose, usually. I'm happy, but I know that I wouldn't be happy or able to handle this if I didn't have a romantic partner to come home to every night. I don't recommend it.

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Regardless of how nice I try to be, or be myself, whatever the fuck i do it seems people end up calling me a psycho. What the fuck do I do man? even my own father thinks of me as crazy. Think is I feel like everyone else is stupid, crazy and wrapped up in their own world. Anyways, I try my best to put up with their crap and played nice for few years but people still fucking call me a psycho. What do I do?

I am a dude btw.
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>>17569517
post a pic of yourself
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>>17569517
why exactly do they call you a psycho
something you've done has to have spurned that, since psycho is kinda specific
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you're probably a psycho

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I want to be flirty with this girl in my class but I've got no experience because lolhomeschooled.

Any advice? Should I even try it in my state?
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Where does she sit relative to you? Ofc you should try anon. Just do subtle stuff like look at her and give a cheeky smile when you walk through the door or she is. If you see her in the hallway to the same thing, or even nod or say hey. Girls like confidence and humor and money and intellect (if theyre smart.) if you have atleast two of those youre good to go
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>>17569522
>Where does she sit relative to you?
Right in front of me, we've worked together for the last 3 classes(out of 5) and I'm 99% sure we're going to do so for the rest of the semester in that class. First test is coming up and I was gonna ask her if she wanted to study together.

>Just do subtle stuff...
Some of that I'm doing but other stuff sounds solid.
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>>17569522
If you're right behind her, maybe try to spark up a convo before class. Be genuine and think before you speak. Dont get her attention and hope that you think of something to say. Maybe be like, hey if you want i can give you my number and you can text me if you ever have a question, or if youre working together on a project or something that could be the perfect excuse to meet up in thr library for studying. You dont have to invite her to your house, that could seem a little weird if youve only just met

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Not like a family member, but a proper boyfriend/girlfriend.

I've been successful in terms of career, but have not yet had the experience of having somebody love me. Do you often think during the day about the fact that the other person is thinking of you?

Bonus points if you've had an unrequited lover.
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I imagine it feels like my shoujo manga.
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I don't know. I never really paid attention when they did.
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Unrequited love:
You don't even care. It's a bit of an ego boost though.

Requited love:
Makes you feel happy.

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Is heartbreak a product of the ego?
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In a way.

They're so important to you, so why aren't you important to them? Your ego may prevent you from reconciling these two facts.

I'm assuming you mean heartbreak over another person in a romantic/attraction sense, which is the reason I'm on /adv/ right now :/
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On the topic of ego: is it possible to have self-esteem and confidence while consciously suppressing ego defense mechanisms as much as you can? My understanding on this kind of stuff is really limited, but it seems analogous to a boxer trying to win fights without blocking or dodging. It's like the only solution in that scenario is to make it so the punches don't even phase you
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>>17569687

confidence is simply the belief that your skills back up your claims.

you can believe that you are an attractive guy and a great catch, but ego means believing that you are the only guy and the best catch, and anyone who refuses you is just too blind to understand how great you are.

Self-esteem and confidence is believing that you can make a great movie and people will enjoy it. Ego means that it was the greatest movie of all time and people are just too dumb to understand your art.

you can have 100% confidence withotu any ego. truthfully we all tend to bounce around in the middle, but i just mean to say that you can be confident without being egotistical.

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Sorry for the terrible sight, but maybe you might understand how i might be feelings since its on my face and i have to walk around in public since im in college. I had this cyst that was under my skin, and since i have acne im used to popping whatever i see that looks ready to burst. However i did not pay careful enough attention and this sore appeared and its made my cheek under my right eye swell up like ive been punched. What do i do? How do i get this to go away? Its so embarassing walking around with terrible acne
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>popping pimples

Eww, fuck you, you deserve your fate for making my skin crawl
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>>17569457
What else am i supposed to do? Derms recommend popping them. It takes like 2 weeks for white heads to scab and fall off
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>>17569463
Popping pimples is one of the best pleasures in life. Ignore >>17569457 he's a gayfuck

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How can a straight edge consultant wife up an artsy punk musician bohemian girl??
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In every way but straight edge
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>>17569423

by funding her 'art'. its extremely common. women often end up marrying guys who arent their type. and the reverse happens.

you'll often find a blond basic bitch dating an extreme guy (hipster, motorcycle, punk etc) because the aesthetic and attitude interests them even if the lifestyle itself does not.

as long as you dont belittle what hse likes or does itsno problem. money makes it easier, but it makes everything easier. not saying rich, but you should eb able to support hte two of you without her working. not indefinitely, but thats the idea.
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>>17569429
So basically be her beta bux while she fucks and gives an alpha artsy chad her love?

Killing self now brb

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>start my PhD
>my supervisor is pretty young too
>she's 27, I'm 24
>we get along pretty well, our research is going well
>in the lab on a Thursday night and she says we should have a drink down at the uni bar
>we do, it's fun
>she get ridiculously drunk though
>it's kind of awkward but the chat is chill
>she asks the same the next week
>same event, only this time she cries at the end of the night
>asked again today
>I really want to say no but she's my supervisor and I don't have plans anyway

It's weird because she seems so put together. Not sure if she's an alcoholic or anything, but she definitely abuses alcohol. We get out the lab in about 4 hours so I'm wondering how to politely say "No because you drink too much" without her getting pissy at me.

Plus side about it though is she's taken a likening to me and I get pretty much 24/7 access to one of the better labs on campus and I don't want to give that up.
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There's literally no way you can phrase that with her not getting upset. I find it strange after the whole crying bit she'd propose it again though. It could be her way of trying to normalize the situation. I myself used to abuse alcohol a lot, so I can somewhat understand her line of thinking. Honestly, she's probably leaning on you because she can't on the other people in her social circle, either because she knows she'll overdue it with them and ruin her reputation, or because they already all stopped indulging her.
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>>17569398
She wants to have sex with you.
She's getting excessively drunk and hoping you "take advantage of her"
If you do, you may end up with constant hot sex.
But you will also have an extremely awkward situation and her behavior indicates a possible passive-aggressive attempt to deny responsibility that can seriously bite you on the ass.
On the gripping hand: crazy chicks give the best sex
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>>17569407
>she's probably leaning on you because she can't on the other people in her social circle, either because she knows she'll overdue it with them and ruin her reputation, or because they already all stopped indulging her.
Should I stop then? Like, for her sake? I sort of encouraged it the first week because I was pretty keen to get drunk after a really good week. I figured if she was getting me to go out then she may have exhausted other friends to get shitfaced with.

I could just lie and say I have stuff to do but I can't say that every week.

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Can anyone suggest some nootropic, specifically, for studying purposes?

I need 2 things, not necessarily in a single drug.
>improved focus
>more energy

I was using modafinil (provigil) for the last week, started with 400mg, every day, doesn't seem to do shit. Before that, all those ginko, guarana south-of-mexico herbs only prevent me from sleeping, but don't actually give me energy, awake but tired. So the food supplement stuff is out of the question, also I don't feel caffenie from coffee/energy drinks at all. I am a bit lethargic and I have to invest like a fuckton of effort to do shit. Only thing that's helped me so far is speed. I tried to get my hands on Adderall, which has a clear label on which 4 amph salts it consists of, unlike the dumpster-cooked grabage, but unfortunately, my country is more concerned about psychological dependence (amphetamines) than physical one (benzos) [Read: The requested substance is N/A in your country].

Reason I'm looking for something else is because I can't live my life on speed, I've tried it, it's really amazing, even the (15-5)% purity garbage locks me down tight, focus sharp, energy in, suppressed hunger. I never used it for partying or going out, waste of studying stim. I just wanna use it as an emergency break when needed, also the garbage I get probably has a solid amount of L-amph because of all the sweating and comedown effects, but I can totally handle that, what I'm most worried about is tolerance development.

I realize the more dangerous it is, the more stimulative it gets, I don't want to go into extremes, CNS are amazing but tougher to find than a fucking leprechaun. Provigil works for some, I'm not one of those people I guess.

I just need some spice to study hard, my days are long and my stack of books even longer. I take joy in my studies, but doesn't mean I don't get distanced, deattached, mentally exhausted, foggy and willing but not able.
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>>17569393
Use the pomadoro technique and drink strong coffee with sugar. Better than any of those drugs you've mentioned. I passed a college course with a 97 percent grade with it my first time I used it. I love it and use it for everything I do. I hope this helps.
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>>17569409
Do you mean you learn the course material in one sitting?
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>>17569454
Yes I learn most of it in one study session. I don't feel that mental fatigue because of the intervals. It's actually really great. That's why I geuss some classes are getting shorter nowadays.

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I may lose my financial aid for university in a few semesters for having too many hours. I used to be a heroin addict when I first started school years ago and had a different major, so that is the reason why I have so many hours. Do you think if I said this in a petition for SAP that they would accept it?
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That's actually possible? That's insane.
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>>17569397
To petition my SAP?
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>>17569397
I meant as in I failed a lot of those classes

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I just fucked my wifes Grandma, what do I do now! Im a horrible liar so shes going to know somethings up if I cant play it cool, how do I even look her in the eyes now? Until today my wife was the.only person I had been with, buy her grandma did some porn in the 70's and used to be super hot, plus she has huge.fake tits.she came into me out of nowhere, before I even had time to react she had her face valls deep on my dick so I just went with it, best sex of our... Well, best sex of her life anyways!! How do I keep my wife from finding out?!!
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>>17569377
You're weird man. Just stay away from me. At least have some young pussy in the family next time.
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>>17569385

Why did you tell him to stay away from you?
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>>17569377
Son, that is the most messed up thing I have ever heard. I don't even know where I start.

Back home we have a saying, a chicken that eats pig feed gets slaughtered and never eaten

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My neighbors all seem to hate me and go out of their way to snub me. What can I do? I feel like if I try to be nice I'm an easy target, but if I try for some kind of turnabout I'm just perpetuating a bad cycle. I know it doesn't really matter, but I'd like to feel more at ease in my own damn neighborhood.
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>>17569376

you ask this every month, so apparently you dont take our advice or it isnt wokring so stop asking
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>>17569435
So now I've been snubbed by the board. Oh the irony.
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Have you considered just opting out of the neighbourhood meme?

I live in an apartment. I should know every one on my tiny floor, but I couldn't tell you one of their names. Know why? Because I don't give a fuck, there's no reason to know them, I have my own life with my own friends and family. Also how do they 'snub' you? How are you an 'easy target'? These people just live in proximity to you, that literally means absolutely nothing

Hey, I think I have a problem. For years now, I've been groping girls' asses in the hallways at school.

I'm not sure if I feel bad, because they don't seem to notice, but i'm don't think I should continue in college. Seeing that Hugh Mungus video, it seems like the wrong woman will scream sexual harassment at anything even if it's an accident our nothing.

Is it wrong to touch women's asses if they don't realize your sinister intentions?

Why I do is it somewhat arousal, but mostly because I want to see if I can get away with it. I guess there's a bit of adrenaline.

Years ago I got caught by an adult woman, who yelled at me to stop and rightfully so. She didn't press charges luckily and I decided to stop, but I started doing it again, saying that no one will be upset since no one will notice?

Any fellow gropers on this board? Is it time to stop this? Has anyone here been groped before? Sometimes it sounds so stupid when I think of what I do in my head.
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>>17569360
You deserve to get punched in the face OP. What if some faggot shoved his fingers up your ass?
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>>17569364
Exactly. Op put yourself in their places. I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be happy
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>>17569374
Yeah, I'm a huge dick, I won't lie. Sounds horrible what I do. I guess I'll stop. Any tips you have for cutting bad habits?

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>said she used to party and sleep around a bit but wants to slow down and settle with you

I didn't know how to feel after hearing this.
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>>17569314
I've only done oral stuff with one other girl, and never any PIV. Am I in the wrong for just planning on staying with this current one for a few months to get it over with?
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>>17569314
Ask her to clarify?
Its okay to be confused about that. It could mean both good and bad things so I have no idea.

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I smoke weed and cigarettes.
I hve self-diagnosed myself with some minor periodontal disease on account of the discoloration on my bottom gums.
I'd like somone who knows anything about this to let me know how bad mine is or what I can do to help myself besides the obvious choice to stop smoking.
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You could literally solve that by flossing regularily
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>>17569315
You're telling me that I could continue to smoke and floss my bottom teeth once a night and the discoloration would be less dramatic?
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>>17569320

Yes, that's what I'm saying

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