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>>17567874
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>>17567874

its five thousand dollars. it sucks, dont get me wrong, its not ideal or even good its bad. but its 5000. they will set you up with a payment plan. you will default on it. and you will get away with paying only 3,300 on it after youve saved the cash

>>17567888
I'm never going to the fucking hospital again. I'm a peasant can't they just write this shit off. I rarely even went to the hospital before this year when I got ill. How am I supposed to know this shit beforehand?

>>17567859
Bump

Grow up

What happened that made you so?

>look like a normalfag
Wouldn't you want that.

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>>17567887
Just this once...

>>17567899

While what you dream of might be impossible, at least you got dubs.

Bumping once more

Hey man I can help. I personally had what you are describing for 2-3 years. I know a large amount about it and I can help. First of all I'd like to let you know that you won't be stuck like that forever and it will pass. Also it's related to stress and depression in a sense. The worst you let it get to you and the more anxious you let it get you the longer it will linger with you.

I want to help you and I'm going to make more than one post to give all the advice that I can. First of all how old are you? Male or female? Also can I get a general rundown of your lifestyle and health? Also I'd like to know about any pass drug usage and how was your childhood?

>>17567889
>>17567976
What for extacly?

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

>>17567815
Meant to say I would smoke weed more often but all my money cones from my mom.
Plus I barely know how to roll a blunt or know all the weed sizes.

>>17567815
>I lack passion
You lack passion because you suck. Passion is something you develop when you get better, and that can only come through practice. Lots.

>vidya
Nobody cares if you're good ad vidya and it's a waste of time

Everything else you said simply requires practice and effort. If you're not willing to do that, then you'll suck at everything that requires and degree of skill

>>17567810
Incredibly rude.
Why did you invite them if you don't pay attention to them?

What if it's just your wife?

Ridiculously rude. Wtf kind of question is this?

>>17567794
Accutane

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>>17567794

pic related is me. before and after Tretinoin, a face cream that makes acne peel off. unfortunately it doenst cure acne, just get rid of it, so i still wasnt able to eat most foods, i couldnt touch my face, and spent most of my day applying moisturizers or this or that to help combat acne.

i took accutane and now i look like the 'after' pic 24/7. its changed my life.

>>17567794
Do this:

>wash your face with cold water every time it feels sweaty
>wash your hair more often
>replace all drinks with water
>drink more water
>stop smoking and drinking booze
>stop masturbating
>stop eating shit like candy, chips and pizza
>eat more vegetables
>stop touching your face

Why would you lie about yourself?

>>17567792

Never admit negatives on Tinder. It's a looks-focused app that doesn't really give a shit about your other attributes. Your weebness doesn't matter, but it will be a turn off if it comes up. However, Tinder is abysmal way to start dating if you're inexperienced in the game. The markets there are over-saturated with guys like you looking for women. It will probably just fuck up your self-esteem.

>>17567792
just dont take a bedroom group or fat pic and ull get likes

>>17567773

sometimes you dont realize how much something means to you until you dont have it.

take a break. take a vacation. even if you cant stop wroking take a break from everythign else with the intent. its al ot different than saying 'i want to work on stuff' and then sitting there thinking about how you should be but arent.

just take a break from it all. at least a week. then seee what you miss.

also try new stuff.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eYFI_z7SxSI

I know how you feel, I work because I need to work but there is little to satisfaction. My hobbies feel alien to me and often I have no idea why I'm doing them at all. I just autopilot trough the week

Just such a lost feeling not knowing who I truly am and what I truly want. I feel only a constant pressure to keep up appearances. Do you also feel that whenever you are creating for a hobby or something that in no way can make you money it then feels like a waste of time?

Overreacting is putting it easy. Nudity is natural, people are born and die naked. I'd say get over it, but there's nothing to get over.

Uhm you'll be okay lol. My parents were basically nudist when I was growing up. I've seen tits and dicks and balls galore.

Oh no you maybe saw your mother's butt cheeks eww. In my country we go to sauna with all the family naked since almost birth. Seen my father, sister and mother naked hundred's of times. no big deal.

what did the sisters bf do?

study what she likes and doesn't like.

Get her something you know for sure she'll like.

I like cute shit too. One night of boozing and pizza, my boyfriend went into a 7/11 and came out with a lollipop shaped like a cute little ghost. It was unnecessary but I digged it a lot.

Idk just be throughtful. It's not hard lol

Buy her a dragon dildo.

>>17567650

I've always preferred to be friends with a guy first before starting to date. I don't do flings and it's easier to know if someone might be worth dating if you know them properly first.

>>17567650

First of all, grow a pair and stop repeating half-baked philosophy from Reddit.

If you were forgotten because you were slow, then speed that shit up and try again. If you prefer to take it slow, then go for girls that seem to want that, and don't bitch if some of them get bored.

It's not that difficult to make a choice here.

>>17567650
This honestly depends on the people involved more than anything else.

If you have two people who are very attracted to each other, and aren't afraid to show it, there's no reason for them to wait.

If one or both people has hangups about past heartache however, it might make sense in their own minds to wait. They don't want to get burned again. And that's OK.


Some people take a while, some people start hooking up right away. Neither is necessarily "wrong".

The whole concept of women getting bored isn't completely unfounded, but really the takeaway is for your own personal benefit. For the sake of improving your game, move faster with ladies you're attracted to. Get used to opening up and being vulnerable, so that you aren't the one getting in the way of intimacy with other women.

>>17567599

There is no trick to self-control. That's the whole point, it just is. Either you decide to control yourself or you don't, there's no betweens here. Some people are good at it, some are shitty and some learn through practice.

>I have so much "potential"
Yeah, pumpkin you and the other 7 billion people on the planet.

Read "The power of habit" by Charles Duhigg for starters.

Research what a keystone habit is, find yours. Mine is getting to bed at a decent time, and oddly enough, flossing my teeth. If I stick to those habits - which are very easy for me to do - everything else that's normally difficult is suddenly doable.

>>17567597
nothing wrong with doing it in person but in my experience alot of times they'll tell you to fuck off and apply online.

i use job boards online to find work

>>17567597
Depends where you live. Region?
Overall recruitment and temp agencies are very good, just be open to your recruiter.

Ive gotten hired applying to a companies website when they were hiring and also by seeing a help wanted sign in person and being lucky enough to see the owner.
Its best you walk in a store that interests you. If you have a car it helps, but you can still convince an employer that you can make the distance.
You go in and ask if they are hiring or if you can get a job application to fill out. theyll say, oh we need help now and are doing interviews stand by and well get you one. or theyll hand you a piece of paper and a time to come back or they'll say apply online.
A lot of companies might not have a store front to walk in to, but find a way to apply. If you know of a local business there should be a way.

>>17567588

Unless you look really sick all the time, it shouldn't play against you so much. Do you thinks that's the only reason you have no girlfriend?

>>17567588
Post a photo or we can't really help.

Promise not to bully, just giving advice.

>>17567612
That might actually be a problem. My head is rather thin which is why I grew my hair out.
I believe it has to be appearance since I have quite a lot of friends.
My question was more intented in a "I'm a tall skeleton what do?" - way.

>>17567617
I'm sorry but I would rather not. But thank you.