>Just got my first ever job as a cashier in a restaurant
>I start work this Thursday
>Anxious as fuck
Any advice /adv/
>>17565897
You need to understand that it's a job. Billions of people have worked jobs. I think you're a smart capable young man. You'll do fine at this job.
Welcome to the working world son.
Be polite, dress well and always smile
Do things like simple maths in the mean time to make sure you don't fuck up
Familiarize yourself with the vocabulary used at the workplace
I second
>>17565915
and
>>17565929
furthermore, if shit ever hits the fan (a client gives you a rough time without a reason - or even if he has one, heh) remember to be CALM and POLITE, no matter what.
If trouble comes up and it looks bigger than you, politely and calmly inform any higher-up who oughta be dealing with said problem asap. Don't ever panic.
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>>17565896
He tries to put his pee pee in your va gee gee
>>17565896
Assuming you're green, if you're wondering if he likes you why are you so distant
>>17565896
Young lady, you need to just ask him if he likes you. Let me tell you something, you'll never get what you want sitting around for it.
Back where I'm from we have a saying, If you have an empty glass you can't just expect to fill with sweet tea
Hey folks,
I just woke up from a nightmare.
>be in passenger seat of car
>trying to get through narrow, dimly lit streets to some place
>suddenly see huge wave of water coming towards us
>tell driver to back it up real fast
>we get swept by the waves
>other, crushed cars make it feel like a rough rollercoaster ride
>chaos, debris and destruction everywhere
>timidly ask driver (who is now diff person) "is this a bad dream?"
>he says no
>panic
>see a lamp post shrink in size
>wake up forcefully
I feel slightly scared about going back to sleep, and am longing for physical contact
What really got to me was when the person said that it wasn't a dream, and me being unable to wake up directly after that. What if I had died in my dream?
>>17565889
Son you have to understand it's just dream. You woke up now, it's not going to slap silly like I could. But you're not scared of me are you.
>>17565898
I knew some people who had died unexpectedly in their sleep, and am afraid of it happening to me
>>17565938
Son, that's all the reason you should enjoy each day as if was your last.
Go to bed happy. Tell everyone that means something to you that you love them
how do i find guys who arent interested in just sex and video games
>>17565842
>how do i find men not into sex
kek
What you need to do young lady is go to church and sit next to that nice young boy sitting with his family and ask him how his day was
>>17565863
why would i go to church in the first place
Anons, how do I let her know she's appreciated?
>>17565838
Who are we talking about here? Your mom?
>>17565843
I suppose I should clarify.
It's a girlfriend of a few months, but things are getting dry. I can't think up of things to let her know I appreciate her.
Of course, I do appreciater her, but being the autist I am I can't think of anything to show and prove that she means a lot to me.
So, I'm simply wondering what I should do to prove to a loved one that you care deeply for them.
tl;dr how to show appreciation to gf
>>17565864
Just do something small. It doesn't have to be a grand gesture or anything. Seriously just a txt saying "I'm really glad I met you and that you are in my life" will suffice
Guys i'm on a trip. And i can't sleep. Any hints on how to calm myself?
pop moms xanax
all of them
DO IT FAGGOT
>>17565833
What is xanax
Son, you need to reevaluate you life and stop taking substances that potentially put you harm.
In Texas we have a saying, "Never stick your pinky in a rattlesnakes mouth."
> My girlfriend of 2 years suffers from severe depression.
> I've tried to be understanding but have had problems with being *blue* in the past and my method of coping has always been to ignore it and force it out with metal music / vidya / exercise etc.
> Girlfriend and I have few interests in common, less now cause she doesn't play vidya with me anymore cause of depression.
Help?
she needs:
-sunshine
-social interaction
-exercise
-sleep
-fruits/veg and good proteins
>>17565801
Ignoring it isn't really coping, you're not understanding why it happens.
Every case is different so trying to explain it is difficult. Just imagine your absolute worst day, and then imagine a week/month/year of that. It's not rational or logical, it just is.
Young man you need to let her know that she needs to snap out of this or you're not going to be her codependent anymore.
Where I'm from we have a saying, If you have a whole stable horse and you needed some place far you don't pick the sick horse because you like it's colors
How do I become chad?
>>17565772
Stop caring
>>17565772
be urself
>>17565772
get money
get a place for yourself
get a car
get fit
this will get you the closest to achieve Chad status
I posted this in some of the Vent threads, but not really getting much input.
So, basically I am friends with this girl, but not terribly good friends with, and one of her close friends is giving of bad vibes.
Some history.
Let's call the Girl, M, and the Guy, R.
>Begin class with them in Late January
>In said class, theres M, and R.
>They seemed to have met in that class, and rapidly became close friends.
>Something seems off about R. Don't know what though.
>Didn't really bother with them much
>Come April, I decide to ask M out
>Says, yes, but R forces way in.
>Asks her to to go somewhere with him, and started to get kinda pushy with it.
>She denies him 3 times before agreeing
>Later that day she seemed uncomfortable near R
>Nothing much, other than acting more cold towards me when he's near
>About a month later, I over hear that R has called M while having an emotional breakdown. (He's crying in the bathroom)
>Last day that I see them, R says bye to me specifically, without reason. While M is kinda ignoring me.
I don't know. Something just seems odd about R. I would not put it passed him to physically harm either of us.
Obviously I am concerned for her, but I don't know what to do really. Ideas?
>>17565737
There's not much you can do. I mean, it's not like you found a notebook full of sketches about killing people. You only have your vibe.
I would still try to put someone on the loop. I don't really know who. Someone you trust. Just so you have an extra pair of eyes out there.
>>17565762
Yea, I guess the best bet would be to have someone trust worthy in the loop just incase he does something.
One of my friends from that class knows my concerns, and can kinda see where I'm getting that vibe from. But none of us see each other regularly anymore. I ran into R yesterday at random, and he seemed normal, but did not acknowledge me, despite being two feet in front for him
I wonder, if there is anyway I could kind of hint towards my suspicions about R, next time I see her in person that is?
first day on my volunteer work and I already fucked up . What do I do?
>Just helping kids in general at the elementary school .
>I was helping a little girl climb money bars so I pushed her up and accidentally grabbed her butt.
>I did have a hard on the entire time but I just ignored , this butt thing seett me off.
>As hard as I was trying , that made me bust in my pants.
I know, it sounds really gross and creepy but I swear I was trying my best. I felt like I needed to challenge myself and this felt like an goods opportunity. When that incident occurred I just felt ahsamed and terrible. How do I get past this event?
That's... Really fucking awkward. Um next time maybe not get involved with pushing kids up. When did the hard on happen?
>>17565651
When I started helping the kids.
>>17565655
Was it coincidence or...
I'm really hoping you say coincidence, familia
A friend and I did 4g of shrooms each at my place. He claimed he had an ego death. Heres the story
>We're 2 hours into 4g of shrooms each
>we decide to go for a walk to the park
>we're hanging out on the bleachers
>friend then says to me out of no where "I gotta go home, I gotta go sit down"
>say to him "alright, you wanna go back to my place?"
>he ignores me, and starts walking away from me randomly
>he starts walking like he had a stroke, like there was something wrong with his spine. It looked hilarious, and I was in a giggly mood, so I was laughing, not knowing what the hell he is doing
>then he falls to the ground, but it all kinda looks acted. You know when you see someone who actually can't control the way they walk verse someone who is acting? He looked like he was acting
>then he gets up off the ground, starts walking away again
>I'm talking to him but he's ignoring me
>he falls to the ground again
>this time when he gets up, he says:
>"WOAH, I FEEL FANTASTIC, I FEEL LIKE A NEW PERSON,I FEEL LIKE I WAS REBORN, I FEEL LIKE I WANNA WORKOUT. DUDE. WHATEVER JUST HAPPENED TO ME WITH THE FALLING, I WASN'T IN CONTROL OF MY BODY, THAT WASN'T ME"
>I'm just standing there feeling all giggly like "uh huh"
>he then proceeds to tell me how he's soaking in sweat
>I feel his shirt, it's just a bit grassy and dirty from him falling, no sweat
>his face isn't sweaty the least bit
>literally 2 minutes later he's acting exactly the same as he always does
>for the rest of the night he keeps saying "Dude, wasn't that crazy what happened to me?"
>I said to him "yeah man, we should look this up to see"
>We spend 20 minutes searching google for something that resembles this.. nothing. Not one story on a forum, a yahoo answer, a 4chan post, a reddit forum, nothing.
I haven't hung out with him since. I swear the shrooms were talking to me and telling me "this guy is full of shit, he's doing this for attention". Does anyone have an experience like this?
See this is why hard drugs are fuckin stupid - real or not this shit sounds dumb, and I smoke a lot of grass
I've experienced ego death once with a Salvia and skunk combo. It was one of the scariest trips of my life. It started with "reverse skydiving", I literally saw my body lying on the couch while my conciousness drifted towards outer space. I completely forgot who I was, my name, how I look, where I was from, my parents, everything was just gone. I also forgot I was high so I started freaking out about being brain dead or retarded, lying in a hospital somewhere totally detatched from reality. When I started sobering up after what felt like an eternity but in reality more like 10 minutes, one of my friends started talking so I thought my soul was trapped inside one of his teeth.
Anyways, I think you're over analyzing this shit. Your friend was probably just clowning real bad. Shrooms does that to some people. Do you have any experience with psychedelics prior to this?
>>17565676
Shrooms ain't hard drugs
>>17565727
>I thought my soul was trapped inside one of his teeth
what the fuck? i gotta do some salvia
I broke up with my boyfriend and he killed himself. How do cope with this. I feel really guilty about it
>>17565604
Show him how it feels when someone you care about kills themselves.
That'll teach him.
at least now you don't have to worry about awkward run-ins with your ex.
if he killed himself after you broke up with him, you did the right thing by breaking up with him. you shouldn't be someone's reason for living--that's way too much pressure and it's not how things are supposed to be.
he's gone now, he doesn't exist. you'll miss him and that's natural, but come on, people break up with people, and people are supposed to be able to deal with it.
>>17565604
Unsure if this is a joke or not.
Do you feel guilty because you feel as if you breaking up with him is the root cause of his suicide?
Overall you shouldn't let this deter yourself from leaving any other relationship you are unhappy with. Just note that he's probably already contemplating suicide long before having met with you and it just so happen that he killed himself after the breakup. Most people would feel sad about having lost a relationship but this guy was hanging on to it. If you stayed in the relationship, you'd probably be unhappy, miserable and he would be as well. You did the right thing by ending it and you should never feel at fault.
What's the best way to find places to take a date in your area?
>>17565601
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=gay+clubs+in+my+area
>>17565601
generally you think about what you want to do, open up google and type in "XX in YY" wherein XX is what you want to do, and YY is the area you live in.
if you get several results, ask around to see who's done what and what htey recommend.
>>17565601
Google maps. Kinda depends on what is considered a fun activity in your area.
Hey guys, I'm a senior in high school, and like all the kids my age, I'm starting to think of my near future as an adult. I'm deciding on going to college to get a degree in computer science because its a healthy industry and I already have a decent amount of experience doing it for school competitions and stuff.
Long story short I have gotten a general feel of the cost of living to attend a college outside of my town and I've made a budget including the essentials plus savings. The issue is that my family is not very wealthy so I will not be getting any financial assistance from them. I'll be attending community college for the first two years as well for cheaper tuition but that means I'll have to find an apartment myself. I'm considering picking up a part time job to work during the school year after election day (I'm a political volunteer) and during the Summer before I move out to build up a large pool of savings.
My only issue is that when I go to the city I'll have no connections and I'll have to rent a place out for myself. Many places require you to show a proof of income or require you to gross a certain amount each month and I'm afraid I won't meet that threshold with living on a shoestring budget. Once I get a place I plan on doing everything I can to find a job to work while I'm there, I do not expect to life off of the savings amassed in an eight month period to last me four years lol.
Do any of you guys have advice for this type of thing? Going to a new city with no connections? Finding a job really fast in a new city? Getting an apartment on your own? I don't want to live with room mates if possible but its not completely off the list. I'm scared because no one in my family has been put in this situation because they all didn't go to college except for my sister who dropped out in her first year.
>long story short
>where's my tldr you cuck
>>17565598
I typed out something 50x longer than this and this was my summary lol. I feel like this was way too long for a tl;dr
>>17565587
is this good idea
Look at image
Can you guys explain this to me?
I'm the blue.
Have been talking to her for 4ish months. Live in same city but she goes to school 40minutes ago... I visit. We're in I I but different ones. I live with my parents and have a 1am curfew. She has an apartment.
What should I do?
>>17565586
Sounds like damaged goods. Go for it.
She's not my girlfriend btw
>>17565586
You're both retarded kids that watched one too many romance films
>getting anxious about sex
1-800 get a load of this guy
also
>rn
Dropped