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How do I turn myself around from being a pathetic pleb? It would be nice to have a girlfriend or even just hooking up with girls in general. However, it seems that I'm so bad at conserving with the opposite of sex it's appalling.
I feel that it is entirely my social skills that are lacking in these situations because I can't think of anything good to say to girls. I've been recently talking to one from Tinder, but it seems that she is just pulling my strings. I'm always the one who starts the conversations, but at the same time, it feels lackluster.
I think nature has fucked me on being a confident male. I look around and see most of my friends having girlfriends or picking up girls with relative ease. Is this girl just fucking around with me for attention? She lives about 3 hours away from me. So I could potentially see her if thinks started to look good.
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>>17797563
Well you won't know unless you try to ask out every girl you like and attempt to get sex or a relationship.
Girls rarely talk first on Tinder. Some of them have so many guys talking to them it's ridiculous.
As for being incompetent, what it comes down to is knowing what you desire in women and pursuing the ones you think best match that. Its also about being confident and believing you are good enough as you are, and that someone could be with you as you are. If you are not happy with yourself, you may need to change something.
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Yeah, we moved on from talking on Tinder. We're now texting each other but like I said it's mostly me starting up the conversations. I feel that is not a good sign especially since my goal is to either fuck or start a relationship.
I feel if she was really into me she would be texting me too without me engaging first. I mean earlier today she was sending me emojis with her text. Does that mean she likes me or does that not mean shit?
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selfless bump...
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What do the red bumps look like to you guys?
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Looks like a pair of faggots.
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What's better and why 2016-11-26 04:04:23 Post No.17797501
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The age old question...pads or tampons?
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It really depends on personal preference. I myself like both. Pads more when I feel like being lazy, mostly at the beginning.
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Freebleeding
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>>17797501
Tampons are for sluts
Thats what my mom told me
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What do I do with my life 2016-11-26 03:56:22 Post No.17797480
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What do I do with my life
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I'm 23 and finished uni half a year ago.
Since then I've done nothing with myself, just living off the dole at home; gaining weight and developing a drinking problem. I still do the things I have to do but not much else.
My problems are a lack of social aptitude and on-and-off depression, which has been getting worse. I used to go ok when I was at uni.
I know the thing that triggered my descent was problems with a girl: we developed feelings but she changed her mind and we eventually talked about it but things were awkward but then we talked about it but then I developed feelings again and I tried to talk to her about it but she ignored me. about a month later she apologised, said she'd been busy and asked when I'd like to meet with her but I'd long since given up at that point so I ignored it. I still see her around occasionally and we maintain a facade of friendliness but I don't talk to her.
Anyway, that is the ultimate cause, but it was also a culmination of other problems, particularly with my frustration in my own inabilities and not knowing what I want to do with life.
And now I'm down here I don't see any way to get up and out. I have no motivation or drive to find work. I have no hobbies or strong interests, (and I occasionally try something but it never seems to work out) few good friends and no close friends. My social anxiety and ineptitude both makes me scared of entering the real world and fills me with despair; feeling I could never make it anyway.
And so, I simply don't know what to do.
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get a job, move into your own place and take some responsibility for yourself
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>>17797773
For what purpose though. I'm struggling to find the motivation to do those sorts of things
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You need some kind of structure in your life? Do you exercise regularly? It has been shown to combat depression. Maybe waking up at 7am and talking a walk around the block once or twice may start to help. It is a first step.
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I recently broke up with my first GF, im 27 yo male.
I got a blowjob tonight from a asian massuese and as a person who often over thinks things and stresses out, I'm terrified that i have a sti. I made an appointment tomorow with a lab and I'll see what i can do.
I feel depressed about it. I was horny after work, and I made a bad decision. I'm scared i caught something, and then it change my life for the worse. I need to remove my ex gf from my head and be wise about my decision making, but at the moment im scared i got something.
I dont know, i guess my question is what are the chances i caught a infection? She looked very clean, and she was reluctant to suck my dick.
there are no words for how stupid, embarrassed and ashamed i feel right now.
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Well you already feel like a dumbass. So let me just help drive that point home a little bit more for you, dumbass.
Sexually transmitted diseases aren't detectable the day after contact aside from possible physical effects like rash or discoloration which could be caused by other things. They take time to show up. Typically 2-3 weeks for most things. It's usually a rule of thumb to wait 2 weeks otherwise a test is inconclusive.
You are too dumb to be having sex.
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fuck, really?
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https://www.stdcheck.com/blog/how-soon-get-tested-for-stds-unprotected-sex/
yeah.
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How do I know if my bf still loves me?
When we'r together everything is fine, he never say he loves me, he's not that type, but he treats me very nice so I dont need to hear that type of things.
But when he goes to his hometown I miss him and there's nothing to make me feel loved, just the memories when we'r together, but just don't feel him, presently.
We'r together for 4y, he used to send me some sweet texts, musics, or good mornings messages etc in those situations.. but now that never happens.
I m feeling more and more hurt and maybe there's not any reason to feel that, but it happens anw.
Already talked to him about it but can't do it again, he says I'm always complaining about that shit and it has to stop.
I m feeling very stupid about this. Just don't know if it's normal or if he just lost the interest on me...
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>>17797426
Men never love women
They just tolerate you for sex
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>>17797426
Sounds like he is cheating on you. Did you check his facebook?
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>>17797435
of couse not.. why do you say that? please tell me
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if a girl posts "accepting applications for a winter fwb "on her snapchat story, how do you go about letting her know you're down
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Dick pic...
Fuck man, are you that dumb?
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>>17797421
>accepting applications for a winter fwb
she is just craving attention. dont feed the attention whore. stay away.
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>>17797463
I could use the fucking
>>17797454
how to be more ambiguous?
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Girlfriend pranked me 2016-11-26 03:28:37 Post No.17797384
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My girlfriend convinced me to have sex with her without protection. She said she was on the pill and she wanted to do it without a condom. We had sex like normal and when I was about to cum she wrapped her legs around me with maximum strength guaranteeing I came inside. She smiled at me and said "You're mine now, I'm not on the pill."
I was fucking mortified, I was furious at her and I said some horrible things to her and I left. For days I didn't hear from her and I was left to stew in my own stupidity. I seriously contemplated killing myself. She then calls me and says "So about that, it was a joke. I am actually on the pill, sorry."
I didn't believe it, I asked if she was fucking serious and she said she was completely serious.
I asked why she would do this and she said "I wanted to see your reaction." and she said she realized she overstepped a boundary and wants to make up.
I was so angry at her, I told her I didn't want to speak to her ever again. She's been pestering for me for days saying she's sorry and she didn't mean it and it was just a joke. I told her she went way too far but she said she didn't think I'd freak out to that extent.
I have to admit I still like her but that was just straight cruelty. Am I overreacting, do I make up with her? I was in a dark place after that, I seriously wanted to kill myself.
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You're not overreacting, I'd do the same as you. The next day, you should have forced her to take the plan B pill in front of you.
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You are overreacting, that shit is funny. I love girls with a dark sense of humor. Stop being a pussy, OP
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>>17797384
Have her get the shot. Take her to the apt.
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How do I convince my parents to kick my 24 year old sister out of the house?
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>>17797375
Stop being a faggot and leave her alone. Also move out yourself.
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>>17797576
But I'm still in school. She constantly acts violent towards all of us and refuses to apply for jobs even though she graduated almost two years ago.
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>>17797585
If she's that violent, record it and call the cops.
>refuses to apply for jobs even though she graduated almost two years ago
Your parents are clearly cool with it. Whether you like it or not, doesn't matter.
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who's got the best advice on looking for pot in the Chicago area? anyone on here local? I don't wanna get shot
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>>17797365
The local police prescient
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>>17797367
can they get me a medical card?
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>>17797370
I'm sure they can direct you to the appropriate medical authority
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I want to make this woman jealous 2016-11-26 03:03:47 Post No.17797301
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I want to make this woman jealous
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Basically has been leading me on. How can I make her jealous?
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Also I know it sounds petty and shit but I am hurt from being lead on like this.
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>>17797301
The best way to make her jealous is to move on and not give her more thought.
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>>17797355
OP here. Yeah I think that is the best way to get to her.
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I'm 25, am I too old to attract guys now? Is it too late? I mean I've never had a relationship before, is everyone paired off now?
It's like my prime years are over and now I look really old and I have little chance at finding love, I'm running out of time and it really gets me down.
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>>17797275
>I'm 25, am I too old to attract guys now?
im a 30yo man and recently realized that i actually find girls 25+ hotter than ever. younger ones look unfinished sort of. dont worry!
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>>17797275
>I mean I've never had a relationship before, is everyone paired off now?
Why is this?
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>>17797291
I've liked guys before but they never liked me back.
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Hey anons, I'm really terrified here and need some help.
2 months ago, I had unprotected anal sex (gay) with a friend, and today just found out he has had HIV since he was 16. He didn't shoot in me, but I'm still worried and plan on getting tested on Monday.
What are my chances? Am I fucked?
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Come on buds. Help a dude out.
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>>17797264
what are teh chances? the chances dont matter. bareback penetrative sex is the most risky way to get HIV. even if he didnt cum in you, you better hope he didnt pre cum, and if you're not exactly used to it (like it was your first time, or one of your first few times) the chances of there being tears is likely.
go get tested ASAP op. that is all that matters. no percentages, no chances, just getting tested.
getting HIV isn't the end though. my boss has had it since the 80s, and hes 75 years old and still in ebtter shape than you.
one of my first boyfriends caught it last year. hes already at what they call 'undetectable'.
according to my boss they're pretty close to finding a cure, and hes looking to get into the trials.
if you are neg, pelase get on PrEP in the meantime/
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If you're a tomboy, is it smart to girly yourself up at least a little bit more when you have a crush on a guy and want him to like you?
I dunno if it'd be taken as "oh yeah, she wants me" or "eww, what a tryhard creep"
Guys who try to make themselves more attractive to girls tend to get called creeps and told "just b urself"
I really want a boyfriend but most guys are either perverts who "know what they say about tomboys" or think of me like a sister
Is it a bad thing to actively want a boyfriend?
My friends say it's a tad pathetic and means you're not happy with yourself
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>>17797240
heres the thing. all men are perverts.
but very few men are exclusively perverts. romance is basically just friendship with the added benefit of sex these days. so if you're not into being sexy for a guy, why not just be someones sister?
that being said, you dont need to girlie yourself up. if you want him to notice you, make a move. he either likes you for you or he doesn't.
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As a tomboy, I often get mistaken for a feminist or lesbian so guys never actually approach me.
Why not, like... Fucking approach them yourself? They either like you, or not and no "girlying" yourself up is gonna change that.
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>>17797240
I can't speak for all guys but I fucking love a slightly girly tomboy. But you also have to realize you won't be dressed up all the time you're with him, you need a guy that likes your look
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Heyo /adv/, I've struggled with weight my entire life ( 4 years ago I weighed 220 ) and I'm trying to find out my goal weight, I currently weigh 155 and I'm 19 years old. Should I lose another 30 pounds and maintain there? Or go even further to about 110 lbs?
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>>17797236
Keep losing until you have no more jelly rolls
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Pegasus, what did I tell you about being mean to people, thats just wrong.
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>>17797236
>I currently weigh 155 and I'm 19 years old
height? you are female i guess? do you find yourself attractive at your current weight?