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Try to get better now? Where are you studying?

>>18040511
Russia. I study CS, getting mostly C. What I tend to notice is that my group mates make decisions and figure things out much, much faster than me, be it lectures or routine tasks, essays, and at first it made me furious, then completely apathetic. Takes three fucking hours to do linear algebra homework, meanwhile it should've been done in thirty minutes or even less.

I need help with this too. My situation is a little different, (britfags will get what I'm talking about) I aced my gcse's with A* and zero effort. I conditioned myself to think I was a God and didn't need to try. Now I've got my final A level exams in 4 month and I'm behind a years worth of work.

>>18040164
I cant tell you who I work for, its actually top secret stuff.

Make them believe you are hot and interesting.
Easier said than done of course, but doable. Since in a girls mind everything is connected to everything else, girls are more likely to confuse mental and physical attraction.

>>18040194
how?

>>18040025
sounds like the real issues are underlying and not really about politics and such.
it's never just politics.

>>18040025
Usually differences in political opinion come from differences in ideology and worldview and those can be deal-breaking

if it doesn't bleed over into other stuff between you just don't talk politics with each other

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I just saw her instagram.

She posted a picture of her and some guy saying "My better half <3"

I want to fucking die.

I am so fueled with adrenaline. I am so fucking angry and hurt and I just want to cry

Emotions need time to diminish...
They don't just go when you say "i don't want to like her anymore".

If she was this bitch with you, just remember she isn't healthy for you whenever the emotion comes back.
There is no way around it, man, you will continue to feel this for moments ahead, but you can choose to focus on something else.

Like what?... Like your job, your graduation, studys, hobbies, sports, other girls... Whatever. By doing so, not only will you stop feeling so bad, but you'll also improve the person you are.
Who knows she'll see you posting a photo with another chick, when you have improved a lot, and she will feel bad she is not by your side, feel bad for what she did.

Who knows... Anyway, the focus now is on you, not her. She might still deserve the emotions you nurtured towards her, but she doesn't deserve the focus you are giving them... Putting her so up on the list, when she obviously didn't do the same to you.

Go do something, act. Put the emotion in motion, go help someone, go help yourself. That should easy your way through all this.

stop dealing with women. focus on yourself.

Just get on propecia fast

>>18038820
Do I have to see a doctor to get that?
Google says its over-the-counter and yet nothing I can find backs up that claim.

>>18038797

wear a shower cap. it feels gay as fuck, but keep in mind that no ones in the fucking shower with you, and doing that will save your hair.

only wash your hair every other day, and if you can wash it only before styling it, that would be ideal .cold water only. if you have hot water on, put on your cap.

>>18038645
Philadelphia. Seriously. Or Boston.
Baltimore blows.

>>18038697
Reasons? JohnsHopkins is a very prestigious school.

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The midwest is where dreams go to die.
>T. Missouri

Chicago is alright, since it's a decently significant city, but it's crime ridden af.

There is this medicine, it's like viagra but it's made for younger people. In my country it's called Syalis. I'm sure you'll find it wherever you find viagra, just say you heard there is this medicine and they'll show you - or you can find it online.

Anyway, anxiety usually is what keeps the dick down, if you're sobber (cuz alcohol does that too, other drugs too). You should consider looking into it, after all, it's not the first time you have that problem.

Don't worry man, it's really a common thing... Happened with me once, I have many friends who've told me it happened (well, actually their gfs told me for suportive proposes).

I've taken that medicine once just for kicks... It doesn't get you super hard for hours like viagra, it actually makes you really sensitive. So her kissing might already lift him up. She teasing you, or whatever.
I actually hugged a girl in a club and my dick got hard... I was like "WTF?"

>>18038602

I went nofap for a month and then went to a handjob massage place to ease myself into the sexual experience - to babystep myself into sex.

Didn't get a boner.

Fast forward to now, 6 months later.

I got my hands on a genuine viagra pill. Tried literally quarter of the pill (25mg out of 100mg) and fapped. Hoooly shit, what a game changer. Penis got hard with basically physical simulation only.

I'm super excited and feeling good right now. I'm going to go back to the massage place activated with another dose of Viagra to try again. This time it's going to work; I know it.

I think once I do it with successfully, I'm pretty sure my nerves will be relaxed next time(s) and I won't need the pill later. It's just a little boon to get started; and that's perfectly fine.


Note though - Viagra is the most counterfeited drug in history. Be careful where you source it.

>>18038628
>well, actually their gfs told me for suportive proposes
lmao, imagine having your dick go soft and then your gf decides to tell other guys about it. Talk about humiliating.

A few times a year

I can't even tell if the problem is me or her anymore

>>18042693
From 2 times a week to multiple times a day depending on how stressed/busy we are.
Most of the time, 3-4 times a week.

Why don't you want to fuck? Are you just stressed, or it is enough for you, or something changed when you moved in together?

>>18042698
how long have you been together?

>>18042344
Take tine to discover empathy. A therapist would help.

>>18042347

I'm not sure what you're implying

>>18042344

My boyfriend was the same. We met 3 years and half ago, and I'm his first girlfriend after years of slutting around.

Be yourself. Communicate who you truly are, don't have a mask. Meet women through your hobbies and interests.

How old is she?

Shes 22

>>18041914

Tell her your mate got with a girl with a mo and laugh about it.

>>18041894
try to make her talk with your parent about it or anyone that witnessed you when you where off your meds

>>18041905

What do you mean

>>18041894
Tell her to get off her high horse.

>>18041801

welll if you dont want time at all, want to be surrounded by girls and want excitement at the same time, you're fucked anon.

how can you have excitement inside? the military is predominantly male so you're fucked six ways to sunday unless you are stationed in one of the nicer bases overseas.

i think you're looking for the wrong things in a career.

>>18041805
Well i'm severely fucked here anon

If I don't move out I will never get laid or go out anyways(mostly parents and I can't stand them anyways) , and if I go to a community college I will always regret not going to the military, and I will also be way too close to home for my liking
I also really want to learn how to fight
Plus would be nice to not see people from hs ever again lmao

>>18041833

you're not actually fucked. you created silly limits. again this is not what you should base your career around.

On average, no. It's not gonna change anything unless you're doing something really hard core FOR that effect.
Like the extreme fisting in pornos. Having a handful of partners is not going to change your vag forever.

Think about it, there are women who fucking spit out children, and bounce right back. (A lot don't, but that's still a 7-8lbs baby. Nobody's cock is that big.)

>>18041670
No. Ladies push actual human beings through there all the time and their vagines go back to pretty much normal. "Hotdog down a hallway" is a meme

Being somewhat of a porn conoisseur, I just can't process how girls could ever feel tight after some of the monster dongs in porn. You guys genuinely saying it won't affect how tight they feel to an average sized dick?

>stem degree
If your gpa was above a 3.0, be a pilot

>>18041498
That sounds great but my vision is shit
>glasses life

you know you can move, right?

>>18041454

>job

manage a psychic

>how much do you make

1550 a month, but i only work 5 hours a day so its pretty nice

>how much debt do you have

about 60k from school

>do you have any regrets

not yet but im still young.

>what advice do you have for a guy like me

get your recomended ones for the first two years and if you still dont know either take time off if you have the resources to go back later OR, pick a versatile degree.

any basic degree will guarantee office work.

>job
Stock brokerage
>how much
$100k+
>education
masters in mathematics
>debt
none
>regrets
Dodd Frank

>>18041542
>makes $100k+
>browses 4chan
You sure you don't regret being here? I know if I made that much money I'd be enjoying it and that wouldn't include being here....