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tips for a 25 year old single dude in college?
I'm in my second semester and I've met a few people that I've got drunk with once or twice but no one that I'd consider a friend.
tips to become a good conversationalist? how to meet people and not be awkward when talking?
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Try talking about what people like. Like if somebody is stressed, talk about it and let them express it. Listen to them and point out Som logical solutions. Talk to girls and ones initiated listen more than talk. I myself sweet-talk and compliment a lot even the most autistic of people since I need to utilize them.
Like if I met a nigga, I talk about the goodness of him, his nice dresscode, like show genuine curiosity
If I meet a Muslim I speak if the topic he speaks of, eventually they speak of their Allah so I just go in it.
See these were the extremes, you just gotta express the shit people hold deep in and respond to their stuff they want to share
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>>18042272
but how do i keep going
like i feel like im far too succinct for conversation or something, maybe i'm just autistic
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Don't be the creepy older guy who hits on 18 year olds
>be me 23 y/o in a relationship two and a half years
>both milfags
>found out we had herpes and started to get to know each other
>got a place to our selves after living in barracks together the whole time
>shits cash
>family loves her
>her family loves me
> shared bank accounts doing adult thing
>mom gives me her engagement ring my dad gave her for when the time is right
>life's cash
>but when I ask what she wants from life it's never anything but me
>great right or /no direction
>she has no hobbies but me
>does nothing but hangs out with me
>neither of us have a lot of friends but when ppl come over its either her cousin or my friends
>have the ring vday is coming up
>why not right
>but why?
Someone please tell me what they would do
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i would make sure that we both have hobbies besides each other. it is healthy in a relationship to have hobbies separate from each other. trust me. but if you love each other, go for it. just make more friends and have more exciting fun! travel etc.
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Op here
Thank you.
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>>18042238
Yea definitely find other things to do before you choke each other out from love
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hello all. i wrote a suicide note. here it is. i am not going to do it. but i was seriously thinking about it before i wrote this. i love you all and i hope you all feel ok
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>>18042229
I feel ok. do you feel ok?
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>>18042231
not really. i just feel alone. i fucked up at work today like i do every day. i hate having a job and i hate letting my coworkers down
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>>18042233
Your attitude is key bud, if you don't feel at peace with yourself seek help. A lot of people hurt inside everyday, you're not alone.
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>be me
>be new in college
>not ugly just average
>started to try irl pickup
>learn fast, become more confident, lose my betaness
>already talking to seven girls on whatsapp
>anons here warned me about becoming a social pariah if i keep doing this
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>>18042219
>one anon told me to give up, so every anon must hate me too!
No. I encourage progress and am glad you're getting out of your shell, my man. Getting out of your comfort zone and succeeding, some sad cases unfortunately always fail
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I don't see why you'd become a pariah. Just remember to never lose your honesty. Being dishonest and caught for it will make you a social pariah. Be wary of whose advice you take on this site. Tell me, do you think you'll become a pariah or are you just parroting those Anons? Explain to me how and why you will become a Pariah.
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>>18042255
They tell me i will look creepy if i try to hit a lot of girls in my calculus class.
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If you want more then just easy sex, is using tinder viable? I am kind of at a point in my life where I want a REAL relationship. Would one of those dating sites like okcupid be a better option?
Anyone on here meet their SO on tinder?
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>>18042209
Maybe try EHarmony or something?
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>>18042221
I thought that was just a scam meme website
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Try Club Penguin.
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Begun dating a girl, but...
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...I need to get my ass in shape. It's been really great and she hasn't paid too much mind to how I look but I could lose 20 pounds.
I feel self conscious and don't want her to be disgusted by me...she hasn't yet.
Any advice or similar experiences?
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>any advice
exercise lol
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>>18042124
Do it please. Getting comfortable ruins relationships.
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>>18042142
Do I talk about this with her?
She's thin so how the hell she picked me I have no idea. I care about her, so..
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I'm not one to care about my self image; I understand its importance but I'm comfortable in my own skin. I'm content that girls aren't particularly interested in me and with my buddies giving me shit for my disheveled appearance. However, the more people who tell me "Get a haircut. Your head looks like a mop." or "You should really shave. You look like you don't care about yourself at all." make me wonder: should I care more about how I come off to others? I understand looking nice for a job interview, a date and such important occasions, but if I'm content, does it really matter what others think? I'm just looking for opinions is all.
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>>18042101
If you're happy your happy, as long as you have good hygiene and can scrub up if you need to it's all good.
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If you don't really care, then why not put a little effort in? You're in a position of contentedness which is great - self image is not an issue. But apart from that, humans are superficial. If you make yourself look good, chances are that better things will happen to you in life.
It's sad but it's true. Might as well use it to your advantage
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>>18042146
>if you look good then life will get better
Not necessarily. That's a cliche and you know it.
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Late last month I posted a personal ad on craigslist requesting someone with a gun to help off myself. Got a good amount of "don't do it/let me fucked the sad out of you blah blah" sort of emails, but one guy seemed interested. He lives in the country so he said it should be easy. He also asked me what I looked like so I sent him a picture.
If I follow through, is this guy going to kidnap me and torture/rape me or to you think he will stick to his promise of assisting me in my suicide?
In Broken Arrow, OK btw
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fuck*
autocorrect
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op what's bothering you?
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>>18042100
Fucked up my life beyond repair. Have at least 40k in medical debt, all of it currently in collections. My depression and anxiety is at a constant- I feel physically ill during every waking moment. I'm done.
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Moved cross country over 10 years ago and just found my old best friend on Facebook. As kids I used to spend a lot of time at her house, shared birthday parties, went trick or treating together, etc.
I started college early (14) after I moved to Texas and want to go back home for grad school, which made me think of old friend so... found her on FB.
Conversation went as follows... feel a bit impatient but I'm not really sure if I should send anything else or just leave it. Thoughts?
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Leave it.
How long ago was this? Meaning how long since you sent that
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>>18042135
Last night, I was driving home from a party and waited until I got home to respond.
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OP again: let's say she doesn't reply back... my "what school are you going to" question was answered by looking at her FB profile and it's back home... would it be fine to ask her to lunch next time I'm there? I need to visit again for grad school anyways. FB message is my only way of contact, though.
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Should I get a life BEFORE I get a girlfriend?
Does this matter?
If someone likes you they just do, isn't it so?
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>>18042071
Depends, if you're a NEET with no ambition whatsoever then you better fix that if you want to share your problems with someone else. Everyone has problems but you should at least be able to cooperate financially esp if you live together.
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>>18042071
Why not both?
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>>18042078
Working and studying but no private life as such to speak of if you don't count internet.
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My gf doesn't like getting her pussy licked, but I can't stop thinking about doing it. What do?
Is this common with girls? Femanons help.
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>>18042050
Sometimes it sucks if it's to wet, it just feels like rolling in slugs.
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>>18042057
>feels like rolling in slugs
God I hope so
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This is so ironic because there are so many girls dying to get their pussies licked but their boyfriends aren't willing.
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I'm fairly sure that my lab partner likes me, but I don't like her, and I have no idea what to do. She's a 5/10 Asian girl, slim but very average looking. I'm not attracted to her and because of that, I didn't care what she thought of me and I was able to "be myself". As a result, I kept teasing her, making fun of her, and borderline insult her. At the same time, I was also serious when it came to the work, so I did get things done.
Now, she's texting me and sending me snaps. I didn't ask for her snapchat or number, rather, she got them from me. The thing is, I don't like her, at least not romantically. I'm pretty much using her to practice my flirting skills, so I can get a girl that I actually want.
How do I proceed? We aren't even in the halfway mark of the semester yet, so if I flat-out reject her, it will be extremely weird.
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Just keep subtly leading her on until the semester finishes. Once its over, fuck her once and go no-contact.
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>>18042037
She seems like a nice girl. I couldn't do that to her.
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>>18042419
But your conscience is okay with leading her on? Whatever helps you justify being an asshole.
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My gf of 7 months has had a friend since she was a little kid. This friend is a real party girl and just from seeing her snapchat, I can only guess how many cocks she's taken. Her birthday was this week, so tonight she's having a girls night out with her friends to celebrate, and one of these friends will be my gf.
I'm just not sure how I should be handling this. On the one hand, I know she's not a party girl and doesn't really like the club scene, but still wants to see her friend on her birthday, and I do trust her. On the other hand she'll be with a whole bunch of party girls at various clubs, and may even stay the night at her friends house.
So far all I've really told her is that it makes me a little uncomfortable, but it's not like I'm going to tell her not to go, so just have fun seeing your friend and don't be too crazy.
Was this alright? I doubt I should say anything else, right? Should I have said anything different?
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Should have fucked her real good before she left.
Oh well
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>>18042031
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>>18042031
I meant to type that I did last night but a post error occurred
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At the age of 27, I've finally booked an appointment with a therapist. I have feelings of anxiety and I've been beating myself up and blaming things on myself with more frequency in the last few years and it's gotten to be too much. What should I know about therapy? I am actually excited and scared.
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Bump pls
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while to anyone who has taken any intro to psych course you know that there isn't anything wrong with you just because you went to therapy, but to the unwashed masses it's very stigmatized, and it's likely people may think of you differently after telling them you go to therapy.
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>>18041979
You sound a lot like me when I had anxiety around your age except I didn't beat myself but I would have panic attacks triggered by certain things. I got over it after accepting these things causing them and am better. See your therapist, follow their advice and you will get better too. Changing your attitude toward yourself will help you OP.
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Getting rid of semen stains/smell from carpet
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I am a disgusting piece of shit who often jizzes all over my carpet but I am too lazy to jizz into a tissue or into a sock half the time.
How do I clean my carpet and permanently get rid of the smell (my sense of smell is shit so I don't really notice it too much)
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Soak it in more spunk.
But seriously, hydrogen peroxide works well against blood on white cotton, so it may work with cum.
Alternatively you can ask Google.
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And from this day forward I will never walk on a carpet in another person's house again.
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>>18041960
Bro do people ever visit you?
Do you throw another carpet over your carpet?