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I wanted to get sum puss on the side so i fucked a teen asian slut, had her dress as an anime girl every time and we shared pics but now since she knows my situation with my wife she wants to blackmail me and contact her because shes fucking crazy and wants to be in a relationship. She found out my wife is dying of cancer and wants to tell her so she dies quicker.
The whole reason i did such a stupid thing in the first place was that i was so stressed about my sick wife.
Shes bald, but i love her and dont want her to die like this.
How do i stop this crazy evil slut from killing my wife?
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Quite a pickle
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>>18689415
Not funny
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>>18689323
Not sure there's a way out of this one Anon, sorry. I'd probably do everything to protect my wife in that situation and make her as happy as possible before she passed but I don't even know how you'd do that

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How's my hairline? I'm using finasteride and I thought the hair on the temples was miniaturising, but my dermatologist said it's baby hair and that's a good sign. I'm blonde BTW so it may look less dense than it is.
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looks like shit my dude, you're going bald
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Just shave it anon, you'll look ten times better that half bald
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>>18689312
Doesn't look bad for a white boy. White people always have a hairline going half way up their head. I hate our genes and I can't wait until were replaced by superior dark skins.

These weak genes need to be killed off. Soon. Now.

I'm on the 5th date with this girl and she's always pushed me away when I try to do more than kiss her. She says she wants us to be exclusive and stuff before she lets me have sex with her whatever that means. What do I do? I don't want to be exclusive I just want to fuck.
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Go for someone else. Clearly, you have different goals. Be honest about it, tell her how you see this thing and then let her react however she may.
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>>18689333
With "what do I do" I meant more like "how do I overcome her resistance so I can fuck her"
Then yeah going for someone else is no problem
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>>18689478
This is where you fucked up my dude.
Look for someone else and save yourself the bullshit. Some of these bitches just ain't worth it

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How do I divorce my wife if we just moved across the country to live at my parents house for the sake of my career?

My foreign wife and I just moved from the south east of England to my home town in the Scottish Highlands for the sake of my career. I work in nuclear so a lot of work is far away from cities.

I've thought about it for a while and now I'm sure I don't want to stay married, but obviously now is an awful time to do it.

We're looking for a flat but at the moment we live with my parents. My mum keeps badgering me to get a joint mortgage but the thought of having complicated financial ties to my wife makes my stomach turn.

I've been iffy about my wife for a while because she seems to get more and more dependent as time goes on, and I'm sick of giving up what I want for her, especially when I'm one earning the one earning most of our income. She basically doesn't leave the house without me and all she does is watch TV.

I asked her to keep her job in the south east until she got an offer somewhere here, but she said she'd be lost without me, so now she's unemployed.

I've tried to tell to my parents that I'm unhappy several times over the last half year and they act like I'm being unreasonable, although that's unsurprising because I don't think they've ever cared much about how I feel, just so long as I'm doing the 'right' thing.

I don't think I have any friends I can confide in.
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>>18689202

Jesus, your feelings are not the primary factor in a marriage

Marriage is about choice, and sticking with it because you gave your bloody word. Personally, unless theres abuse or infidelity involved, leaving is not a valid option for me. 10x so if there are kids.

Grow a pair and have some discipline. Do some marriage counseling and try to make it work.


I swear, this kind of immaturity is why the West won't survive another 70 years.
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>>18689202
>My foreign wife

which country is she from?
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>>18689314
China. We met at university. At the time she was really determined and headstrong but since then I think living abroad in a foreign culture has really worn her down. I think she would be happier in China.

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What are good reasons for NOT killing yourself? I'm 22 at this point and I feel like at 23,24 I'm done for in terms of having a life which I can value highly. My attractiveness in null, my personality is garbage. Almost all of my friends are gone and nothing seems to be falling into place. And even if it does - it's quite temporary and I can't stop thinking about losing these good things quickly. Even though I am considering doing it I'm still quite angry at myself for not trying hard enough. But I also believe that, at this point, resistance is futile and it would be easier to ease the pain of fellow humans by making one fat fuck go away.
But since I'm a on-the-fence pussy - What are good reasons for NOT killing yourself?
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>>18689191
if you kill yourself you won't get to experience the pleasure on getting pity (You)s on this romanian coconut-juggling imageboard.
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>>18689194
You got me there monkey-non
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What's the rush? You'll always have time to die.

I'm turning 24 this month ,still kissless virgin.I'm really worried that i might die a kissless virgin. Im not that shy and talk to everyone, I get those hot 4 you looks at first meet from many girls but it fades eventually. I'm confident about my looks and i get complimented for it everyday even if i dress bad.i had many guys and girls hit on me but I'm not gay and really picky . Even if proceed to seduce a girl i don't know what the fuck to do. The most hurtful thing a girl said whom i loved very much was "i do not feel anything towards you " (bad translation). How to get laid with a normal looking girl maybe get in a relationship?

I have asked many guys about this and most response is " you are a fucking idiot if i look like you i'll get laid everyday " i wish i had half of their 'game' or social skills. I usually have to lie that i have kissed someone to avoid embarrassment and bulli.

Any quick way to gain social skills ? My last hope is to save up enough cash for a trip to Amsterdam. Please adv
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>>18689146
Locate girl on social event you hate, through friends friends or online dating. Then chat them up.
http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation
Then extract their phone number.
Then ask them on date.
On date chat, flirt, smile, look like idiot and be a bit bold and walk her home, attemt kiss or handholding.

Dont return back for more instructions until you have been rejected at least by 20 different girls or has been on few dates and still not sure what to do.

Key points are smile and eye contact. Treat them as you would treat boys.
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>>18689146

>The most hurtful thing a girl said whom i loved

>i loved

Dude, if you haven't been in a relationship, don't throw the L word around like this. You liked her, that's all. She was hot and funny. That's not love.

>I'm not gay and really picky

Sure you are picky? Or are you just afraid of making a move? I feel you, man. I once literally run away from a girl that was hitting on me. But you have to accept it's not about them. It's about you.
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>>18689156
I know a bitch of girl i hate , but i hate her too much and she hates me too. Fuck that bitch. I'll find someone whom i hate less i get ur plan.. but i have not ever been to an official date either. I have no idea what to talk and most girls annoy me with talking gibberish, i don't know how to respond to that.

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I'm sick of the same old day in, day out with an unfulfilling job that pays well and nothing to look forward to.

It feels like everyone must be in this situation, though. Are they?
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>>18689129
No, I don't have a job.
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>>18689134
Well I mean more that everyone's just living day to day with no great joy.
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>>18689145
I look forward to playing games, watching animu and reading shitposts on 4chan after I finish work.

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>Turn 20 years old
>No longer attracted to women at all
>They make me feel nothing when I stare at them
>Other people don't feel real unless we're communicating
>Life doesn't feel real at all, but I'm not crazy

Has anybody else had this happen to them?
Is this what happens when you become an adult?
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>>18689064
How much time do you spend alone?
I have these same feelings but there's another voice in my head that at least attempts to view it differently; I'm sure it's the only reason I haven't descended into full-blown psychosis by now.
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>>18689069
I haven't spoken to anyone on a level deeper than small talk in about a year.
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>>18689074
>that's why
It's important to challenge your own thoughts regularly otherwise you become self-absorbed to the point of nihilistic narcissism.

Then you'll just hate them but they're still people.

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Every person I meet, I am terrified of them because of first impressions.
But it's worse when I bump into a person I already know. I am so fucking scared of how much of an impression I leave on every single person on every single occasion.

Every time I finish a conversation or a meet-up with a person, I spend the next few hours being horrified of what that person thinks of me based on that meeting. I just want people to think the best of me but I am so scared of fucking the situation up that I sometimes even avoid certain people. My body temperature raises immensely and I start sweating immediately when I am talking to a person who I want to like me.

This has been going on ever since I was born (I'm 18).

To make the situation worse: Once I actually get close to a person and they like me, I become veeery attached to them and I start talking about many of my secrets. It makes them want to avoid me. This has hurt me a lot in the past when I lost friends.

Btw, just for a better image of me; I'm a male, 18, slim, 190 cm tall, brunette - blonde hair, green eyes.

Help me, please! The depression is killing me. How do I get rid of my attachment issues?
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You want the cure?

Meet twenty people everyday.
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>>18689030
How?
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I'll give you a bump OP, I have the same problms.

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My friend who I've known for 15 years got a girlfriend for the first time. From what I hear from him, he really likes her and enjoys spending time with her. But whenever we're hanging out, the guy is always out of cash because he's breaking the bank to hang out with this girl. They've been going out almost every day the whole summer and each time he's the one paying for everything. She would even bring her friends with her and he would be the one paying for them.

I told him that it isn't how relationships should be. If you were the one to invite the girl to dinner, then yeah it should be fine to pay for her out of courtesy once in a while. But when she's doing the inviting, you shouldn't have to be paying every single time, and ESPECIALLY not for her friends.

What do you think, /adv/? Is this normal? I personally don't got experience with any of this stuff since I've never went out with a girl. Just want to look out for one of my best friends.
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Your friend is being used, anon.
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>>18689010
This

>Paying for her friends
What a cuck
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Do they sleep in the same bed (always or often)? If it was a real relationship I'd think they would be "lovey dovey" hanging around the house, snuggling, talking about things like jobs, money, and everything else. The way you described it sounds like a "we just go to dinner together" thing from RomCom's.

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I am in love with a drug addict
It hurts me but I cannot leave. It all started about a year ago, he was the first time I've ever fell in love and my first sexual experience. Then I found out about meth abuse and I left him. About a month after we got back together. We where together for another good 6 months and again he was doing meth. Which is not that bad occasionally but he repidedly uses drugs in a short period of time. Anyway I broke it off with him again and I had the worst time I've ever had, but eventually I got back together with him. He ultimately swore to never do stimulants again. Now however I no longer feel the same love I felt before but I am in a trap where I just can't seem to find the courage to leave. Since stimulants are no longer the primary drug of use, him and his rich friend have been trying benzos. I was not aware of this till the other day. Where they picked me up and drove around. His friend was hitting curves and it was overall a terrifying experience. His friend is a drug dealer and he is rich. Hes an asshole and my boyfriend just follows what he says. He brags about all the money he has and all his drugs, is mean to his other friends too. Ideally my boyfriend and I would run away forever and this would all disappear, but I know I am too late and it will never be the same anymore. However I love him so much I would like for him to do good, and the only way I can think of him doing better is by staying and at least trying a little. Please friends help me.
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>>18688965
>I won't leave
ftfy
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I want to leave so bad but it feels so cruel to just do so I am really just looking for encouragement and solutions or maybe I'm all wrong being confused really is the worst thing in the entire world
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>>18688965
Former addict here, first of all you shouldn't even know these words and these situations.

You're not doing anything wrong. You're being loving and supportive and you're trying your best the mother and heal a wound that you can see.

Its not your wound though, you didn't cause it and you're not gonna heal it. He obviously knows of it and obviously not making a real effort to deal with it. Addiction is not solely about the substance it's a deeply social and emotional issue and he's obviously not changing any of those. Look at the company he keeps. You love him so you think he's not like his druggi and drug dealing friends but people who are alike get together.

I say just educate yourself, read books about relationships (non fiction) and build an image of what you want and go for it relentlessly. If you're offering so much to a shithead that risks your life what could you offer to someone who would genuinely be starving for your support and help and make full use of it?

You owe it to yourself and the future guy to leave the dead weight and give love to someone who uses it to build, not to manipulate and drag you into deep dark shit.

Best wishes!

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Only attracted to white women, what do.

Also seriously beginning to resent my own race. The whole media pushing for everyone to be this and that isn't helping at all. It's doing the opposite, actually. You have to be a literal moron to buy into it.
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>>18688907
>The whole media pushing for everyone to be this and that isn't helping at all. It's doing the opposite, actually. You have to be a literal moron to buy into it.

I don't quite understand this, also what race are you, and do you live in the us?
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>>18688907

>Also seriously beginning to resent my own race.

Its funny you mention that because I'm beginning to resent shitty /pol/ bait.

0/10
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>>18688907
Why resent your own race?
Dont be a faggot anon, love your own background.
And not all white people have the same background cuck.
Im chechen and welsh.
Figure out what you are before you say "white people"
And latina's are suppirior imho.

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So let me tell you first how stupid I am. Im a married guy who decided to see whats out there and if I could get some on the side.

That said, I put an ad on craigslist and met someone.

We exchanged emails (throwaway) and I met her in person. We talked a bit via text after that and exchanged a few dirty pictures of each other.

Now I feel terrible and dont want to go through it. Im lucky to have the woman I do and i dont want to fuck it up. In addition ive got family in the hospital and im stressed out.. But when i tried to tell the other woman that I cant do this and have a lot going on, shes saying shes going to post my convo on facebook and out me.. Even said "lets see if anyone recognizes you".

So I guess I found a real crazy one.. And it serves me right. I have no idea what her facebook is..

Is there any advice you can give? Any legal recourse? Im a poorfag.
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>>18688846
use your Facebook privacy settings
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long con you have to become undesireable to her... if she's crazy it's because she thinks you're attractive and wants to keep you at all costs. just act unattractive and shit, i dunno
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>>18688874
haha yeah say you live her and then wear a tank top with bbq sauce on it

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How to deal with nerves before a date?
Going on casual date. Wanna step it up and tell the girl I'm really into her. Not sure how to manage my nerves.
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>>18688807
this is the normal peak anxiety time for someone trying to achieve something, especially something they are afraid of

just be cool and try not to fuck up. eventually, somewhere in the middle of the date, you will *probably* relax enough to tell her you like her.

I like going for quiet women, because they're less likely to score dates and therefore more likely to be receptive when you tell them that you like them. Everyone is probably feeling pretty lonely in today's world, though, so this girl should at least be happy and flattered, if not interested.
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>>18688807
If you specifically wanna tell her that you like her then maybe you could practice sayig it into the mirror or something. Like two or three sentences.
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>>18688807
>Wanna step it up and tell the girl I'm really into her.

Why? Dating her isn't enough of a way to say "I'm into you"?

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My ex keeps bashing my friends and questioning my lifestyle now that I go out and have fun all the time. She says shes super happy with her new boyfriend but she already cheated on him with me a week ago and they have been together for a month. If she is so happy why is she still talking to me and caring what I am doing?
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>>18688763
>Happy with her BF
>Cheating on him with her ex
She's fucking miserable, pump and dump and then cut contact if you want to twist the dagger.
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>>18688763
tell her bf, then cut contact with her`
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>>18688767
>>18688774

Thanks bros. I want to cut contact with her so damn bad but its tough. I am still head over heels for this broad. I already know she is willing to cheat though.

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