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How do you make online friends and be an interesting chatter? I'm too fucked up, so this kind of thing doesn't come naturally to me.
>t. new to Discord
>kind of afraid of venture onto social media, always concerned that my identity should be *better*
>never learned how to be spontaneous
>don't know how to properly talk about my interests...books, comics, games, and, unfortunately, camping and other wilderness shit
>was once scolded "you don't know how to talk like a person"
>pretty much an autistic gril in real despite therapist's insistence that I'm not
>as you've guessed, I only have one very good friend, no other acquaintances
Wut do?
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>>18690407
idk post your discord server
i'll add you
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>>18690407
ill be your friend anon.
you can practice chatting with me
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>>18690407
Best way to improve is by talking to more and more people. Try just talking in a competitive video game. Not even lying when I say playing overwatch with a mic builds your leadership and talking skills. It did for me. Btw id be happy to be your friend. Kind of craving an actual internet friend and its kind of hard for me
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Simply asking out of curiosity.
How much power does a suicide note have?
Say someone leaves a note and claims they have no family or friends to claim the remains, no possessions to distribute, they don't consent to being an organ donor, and they want to be cremated asap.
No legal will or anything like that, just a suicide note. Would that be honored or would they still do the whole process or trying to find next of kin, harvest organs, etc...?
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Suicide is beta af.
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>>18690269
why the fuck do you care? you would be dead retard.
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>>18690269
No, the cops won't trust the note and they would want to be absolutely certain you weren't murdered or anything. Also the government doesn't like to pay for your shit. Remember you can't die for free, someone's gunna have to pay for it.
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How bad is coca cola? 2017-09-04 11:51:35 Post No.18690156
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Should I start now again? I feel big craving and I got 1.5l for my pizza for free, so what? should I drink it? is it really poison? I remember it felt so good coming back home from an exhausting high school day, drink some cold coca cola feel the taste + energy, dick got hard and I fapped to porn 5 times after. I want to relieve those feels should I?
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How longs it been? If I take a sip now it's so sweet it makes my mouth almost hurt.
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>>18690166
Not OP, but how long do you have to not drink it for until it becomes too sweet?
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>>18690156
It is just caffeine, sugar and water.
Or if you are talking about light version, then caffeine, water and substance which half internet claims is poison.
And it can pretty neatly dissolve teeth and iron.
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It's hard lads, what do you do when everything feels so hard? 2017-09-04 10:45:06 Post No.18690013
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It's hard lads, what do you do when everything feels so hard?
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You continue to suffer through the days with the hope it will get better.
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>>18690013
It's hard mate. Pretty much everything that keeps me going is rage and hate. I am cheerful person tho. I just put that hate in motion that produces smiles and laughs.
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How do I stop being afraid. 2017-09-04 10:40:09 Post No.18690004
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How do I stop being afraid.
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Recently I've read about the case of Junko Furuta.For those who don't know about it, it's a terrifying case about 44 days of pure torture to a High schooler. I read the details and I'm just really fucking disgusted. I had to go outside today and I WAS TOO FUCKING SCARED TO GO OUTSIDE. I can't even close my door and turn off the lights in my room. Good thing I live with my parents at the moment. How do I stop this?
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>>18690004
seek professional help, being this paranoid is not healthy
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What about terrorism?
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>>18690012
For some reason, I don't really care about them. But this fucked me up
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My father has been having an affair for the last 6 years.
I have known about it since the beginning as he is appalling at covering his tracks. I am baffled at how I am the only one to have discovered his secret. He is constantly texting the bitch and I have read the text conversations when he leaves his phone unattended. Needless to say I struggle to find any respect for the man.
I have been a pussy until now and tried to block it out of my mind with some success (I used to be able to go weeks at a time without thinking about it) but now, since I will move out of the house in the next 18 months I am increasingly feeling like I need to do something about it.
I cannot see any course of action I can take that won't result in the complete destruction of everything, especially for my mum.
Leaving this situation unresolved is increasingly not an option as I am losing a lot of sleep over this.
What do?
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The fact that you didn't tell your mom/his partner 6 years ago when you first discovered it, makes you a really shit person. Seriously.
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whatever you choose, it will hurt.
hurt you mom, hurt you, hopefully you don't have siblings.
can your mom manage to live on her own? is she passive? is she aggressive?
if she is passive, she will internalize it, and do nothing, and undoubtedly live with the pain knowing all the love she put in was for nothing
if she is aggressive, will she pursue divorce, does she work? does your father make enough? will he be splitting half? will she get the house? will she be out on her own?
you need to think carefully about this as easing your burden won't ease hers unless she has a solid plan to live in case of divorce.
just think it through anon
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>>18689897
>ripping your family apart whilst still being dependent on them
Sounds like a great idea for OP! Perhaps instead of berating him you could offer some advice
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Black men dating white women, i have problem? 2017-09-04 09:46:14 Post No.18689804
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Black men dating white women, i have problem?
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I keep getting pissed and jealous.... every time?
How did you guys overcame this?
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I didn't be racist in the first place so ther was nothing to overcame.
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>>18689836
This.
But more seriously, you need to realize that interracial pairings aren't actually that common, even if it's being pushed in the media. Part of you probably thinks that they're stealing your women, but if you can't get a white girl it's actually because you yourself are undesirable.
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Why does it make you jealous?
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Am I in love with my best friend...emotionally cheating...what should I do? 2017-09-04 09:33:31 Post No.18689738
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Am I in love with my best friend...emotionally cheating...what should I do?
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I'm in my third year of law school and met my best guy friend the very first year. Ever since then we hangout almost everyday exclusively, he's always there for me, we have so much in common and I don't think I have related to anyone better in my whole life...I really think of him as my best friend.
I also am dating this my boyfriend who I met last December who I'm super attracted to and love very much.
I use to not think I had feelings for my best friend until last night when he told me he got a job and is moving to New York across country after graduation.
I got really really sad knowing I'd probably never just hangout with him watching movies on his couch anymore or ever again but then I started to cry when I realized he'll probably meet another girl in New York and stop talking to me and being there for me.
I don't know how am feeling right now
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In b4 the "So you just cucked your best friend and you feel bad about it OP?"
Look, it's simple. Talk to him about it and how you really feel about him OP. But before you do that. Drop your boyfriend and then talk to your best friend.
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>>18689738
So you had two bf's, both knew and both were ok with it and now you have only one. Boohoo
Yes, your friend will meet other women and if you were any kind of friend at all you would wish him the best and hope you find the right woman for him.
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>>18689776
>Drop your boyfriend
That will never happen.
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Last Friday night, I met up with this girl for a date, which wasn't really planned. She messaged me at about 8:00 or so asking if I wanted to go to a bar after work. I agreed, and we met up at a bar then went to a coffee shop til about 1:00am. We had good conversation and we made out when we parted our ways. So snap her the next day saying that I hope I didn't keep her up to late (kind of joking around), but I got left on read. What gives? I want to see her again, but idk when to bother asking or whether or not I fucked up somehow. I need some sort of advice in this.
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Wrong board
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>>18689705
She's probably just confused about what she wants right now anon, don't worry too much about it
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>>18689708
Nvm, my app bugged out. Pls no bully
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I fell in love with my friend. We did a lot with each other and I loved being in her company. Then some tall guy comes along and I'm left in the dust.
I'll be honest, I've never been hurt like this before. I mean, I'm getting older, I haven't had any real relationships at 30, and I'm afraid I'm close to offing myself.
I don't know what to do.
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You got cucked? Be honest, that's how I read it. How tall are you?
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>>18689707
5'8
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>>18689703
At least you weren't married to her. It happens every day.
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girlfriend and I going to different universities 2017-09-04 09:24:36 Post No.18689692
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girlfriend and I going to different universities
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My first girlfriend and I are both 18 and heading off to universities 6 hours apart by train.
The problem is ... we like each other so much that we are both willing to maintain a weekly meeting schedule.
Today she told me that after thinking cold and logically, she wants to break up and cut all ties so that it is as painless as possible. About 3 minutes later she changed her mind and completely apologised about everything.
I don't know what to do ... I like her so much and can imagine a future with her. We've known each other for 8 months and it just gets better and better.
I feel like I am being overtaken by my emotions. Most of my mental justifications for staying with her are philosophical ones, referring to the pointlessness and worthlessness of life anyway. It feels toxic. I no longer have regard for my wellbeing.
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cont.
What do I do without facing such hard emotions?
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She is doing you a favour, you stupid stupid you.
God damn you're stupid.
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>>18689692
>first girlfriend
>We've known each other for 8 months
End it and live your life for a bit. Stay in contact but don't pawn your soul off to some girl you barely know. If things change and you're able to move closer and you're both still interested in the relationship, go for it.
It's a painful truth but the likely outcome is that one or both of you will meet someone who fulfills your needs and doesn't live 6 hours away.
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How natural is sleep paralysis? I seem to get it at least once a week. I wake up in the morning paralysed and I have to really strain myself to forcefully wake myself up. Like make several attempts at pushing myself until I'm awake, which feels exhausting. I don't have nightmares or visions, but I can hear voices. It immediately puts me on edge for the morning and the rest of the day. My twin brother has the exact same experience but we dont know many other people who suffer from it. I've had it for as long as I can remember, but I don't think it was this frequent during childhood. Is there a way to overcome it or atleast diminish it?
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>>18689646
Doctor.
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>>18689646
It's pretty normal, well not normal but in the sense of a lot of people get it. Go to a doctor, he'll help you
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Try the doctor or adjusting the way you sleep. I would always get sleep paralysis when I tell asleep in class in highschool. The way I would wake up is by attempting to scream and opening my mouth back and forth. I guess sleeping on the school desks with my back slouched is why I got it. If you sleep normally see a doctor, otherwise, still go see a doctor anyways
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How do I get into smoking?
I've smoked a few times with my friends, and most of the time it gave me a headache, sometimes it made me feel good, the other times it made me horny as fuck (lolwut).
I'm thinking maybe I tried some strong brands. I don't plan to be addicted, I only want to smoke socially/recreationally and not as an anxiety dependent like other addicts.
Are there good noob brands to try for newcomes? Also what is the right technique to smoke?
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>I don't plan on being addicted
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>>18689644
Smoke cigars. You're not supposed to inhale cigars. And I'm talking like thos small ones that come in packs, with he plastic mouth holders.
Besides they actually smell nice to other people.
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>>18689644
You'll get addicted. As long as you know that, smoke whatever brand ya want. It's all cancer at the end of the day. And ya know what they say, cancer sells... Wait, do they say that? I eh... I have to go
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hey /a/
I have hundreds of anime dvd's and boxsets that I don't want anymore. What would be the easiest and fastest way to sell them all? I'll probably end up just throwing them all away, but before I do that I want to maybe look at selling them.
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>>18689549
Why the sudden urge to get rid of all your anime shit? Anyway, the only advice I would have would be Ebay or Amazon.
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>>18689550
This.
Also keep in mind no one will buy anything moeshit
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Give them to me
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Ok, that's it. The entire female gender is disgusted by me.
They're usually drawn in, cute ones, because I have a pretty attractive face and I appear to have a lot of self-confidence. But again and again I have to see them lose interest in me, so fast that I can't possibly know what I even did wrong.
Then they just get super creeped out by me, avoid me, or pity me. Every time.
The level of difficulty is just way too fucking high and there's no way I can ever get better.
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>The level of difficulty
Difficulty for what? Can you make female friends?
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>>18689419
Define "friend"
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>>18689435
You can hang out with her, talk and have a good time.