How do I divorce my wife if we just moved across the country

>>18689202

Jesus, your feelings are not the primary factor in a marriage

Marriage is about choice, and sticking with it because you gave your bloody word. Personally, unless theres abuse or infidelity involved, leaving is not a valid option for me. 10x so if there are kids.

Grow a pair and have some discipline. Do some marriage counseling and try to make it work.


I swear, this kind of immaturity is why the West won't survive another 70 years.

>>18689202
>My foreign wife

which country is she from?

>>18689314
China. We met at university. At the time she was really determined and headstrong but since then I think living abroad in a foreign culture has really worn her down. I think she would be happier in China.

>>18689320
Ummm, not to be that guy - but if you've been feeling iffy for a while why didn't you break up/divorce before the move? like it or not she's stuck up there with you now and if you leave her you're going to come off as the bad guy.

>>18689433
Because I just wasn't sure. She was pretty useless when we moved and I found that I had to do most of the cleaning, packing and decision making.

>she's unemployed
Worst time to get a divorce op, as she can seek lods of alomone. At least wait until she gets a decent job.

>>18689484
again - you must have had an inkling that it wasn't quite right and that you were in the relationship because it was there, believe me we've all been in those relationships. You can't take the plunge to leave because of the unknown. BUT relocating was a perfect chance to take stock - now youve moved its a little less so.

>>18689320
>falling for the Asian wife meme
Laffin at ur life m8

>>18689498
Do we have alimony in the UK? If you've got little to no assests then divorce should be easier?

>>18689512
https://www.firstwivesworld.com/index.php/experts/item/5127-breaking-up-in-britain-are-the-uks-divorce-laws-better-for-women

UK is even more on the woman's side then the us

>>18689505
Yeah I know I ducked up but what can I say? There's a lot going on in my head and it's hard to pin it all down succinctly. For instance I've saved a lot for a mortgage deposit and I am and was scared that if I get divorced I'll have to half the £30k I've banked with her.

>>18689542
Slowly move your half into 'untraceable' assets? Gold coins and the like? yeah it'll take time - you can't just make 15k disappear over night.

Realistically what do you want to happen? what outcome are you after?

>>18689202
What a dick you are. You move her to the middle of no fucking where, with your parents and away from anyone she may remotely know and bitch she doesn't go out.

Least you can do is give her a big chunk of money so she can either go home to China or start over somewhere else.

Wish she was in the US and you'd have to give her alimony since you want to dump her on the side of the street.

>>18689542
Dude you're fucked... Like you are fucked. You got cucked by an asian, cut your losses now. Money isn't anything, give he what she wants to get rid of it.

don't think about the money youre losing, only a fucking idiot would care about $15000, instead of being happy for the rest of your life.

This really isn't the place to ask

>>18689506
>currently falling for this meme
aaah help

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>>18689248
>Stay in a marriage that you hate just cuz lol
Retard

>>18689202

While not the same situation I was married to a girl that I constantly had "iffy" feelings about. She was also really clingy and dependent. We would end up have the possible divorce talk once a year. Eventually I divorced her and it broke her heart. I thought I was fine with everything until the divorce was finalized. I don't know what snapped it me but I finally realized what I threw away. I destroyed a perfectly good marriage because I had some personal issues. We could of worked on things, I could on made more effort. But no, I fucked up and am now alone. Doesn't matter what good looking girl I hook up with or get a date with because I still think of my ex constantly.

Moral of the story is, talk to her, do everything you can to work on your issues together. Make sure that if you do divorce you can do so knowing that you both tried everything to make it work. If you two try to work out your issues and you are still unhappy then go ahead and divorce. Remember that life has it's ups and downs. You could just be in the middle of a down time. Is it worth ending your marriage and having to start all over just because you could not stick it out for another year or so?

>>18689320
Jake?

>>18690582
Married anon here, this is good advice.