I'm 26 and no guy has ever been interested in having a romantic relationship with me (only sex)
Am I just unlucky or is there something wrong with me?
I haven't had sex in years by the way, before I get called a slut.
>>18688646
Kill yourself with your shitty bait.
>>18688646
>Am I just unlucky or is there something wrong with me?
A bit of both. Ask yourself "How do I meet these guys?" and "Do I bring something to a relationship beyond sex?".
Proably bait, but I'll bite.
From where do you meet these men? The situation is an important factor.
As for relationships, what do you bring to the table? A serious relationship can be summed up as a sort of business transaction.
If you've only offered sex in the past, that's usually all you'll recieve in return.
Also, who is that semen demon?
I have a best friend (we're both girls) since high school, so like for 7 years. Maybe 2 years after we first became friends I started dating a guy. Obviously I introduced him to her, and we'd hang out in groups with her boyfriend at the time as well. After 4-5 years of dating we broke up, very complex, fighting and tears all round and I'm still not over him to this day.
When I was dating this guy they never hung out alone, only when I was around. I was overseas once and my bf told me she called him to hang out in a group but he made an excuse and said no. Ditto texting, he only ever texted her to remind her of my birthday or to ask about me if we were fighting and not talking.
While we were dating my bf would tell me how he thinks my friend has a bit of a thing for him. After we broke up my friend said the same thing about him towards her and gave a smug smile like she thinks she's really hot. (They're both arrogant)
I moved away to another city shortly after breaking up then returned. I asked her if she'd seen him around, and she said she had bumped into him with his friend at a shop but that was it. Later, a mutual friend of ours told me in private just recently that while I was interstate she had actually thrown a party, invited him, and drank with him. She blatantly did not tell me any of this.
I want to get second opinions on whether this is totally inappropriate of her to do. I feel like the fact that she didn't at least tell me was a big no no.
It's all circumstantial, but understandably suspicious. I'd say talk to her about it and see where it leads.
Secondly, you'll need to ponder the idea of them beinf together and if you would be comfortable in maintaining a relationship with your friend in that circumstance.
>>18688572
I cannot even fathom how that would be okay. She's known me longer than him and it's obvious serious exes are off limits. it's bad enough she was supposedly drinking and partying with him while I was still crying about him interstate.
>>18688564
Since she is your best friend it is a big no no. She is your friend and already omitting this so ask her does she expect to socialize with him and you too.
If you really don't want to see him since you are not over him and your friend does for what ever reason you lost 1 friend. Your soon to be ex friend owes you at least an explanation why she is so insensitive to you.
Best case she says sorry won't do it again and she doesn't do it again and worse case she says fuck you you don't own him.
I think both want to hang with each other and I think you care way too much.
What does it mean to be a man?
>>18688450
But a miserable pile of secrets?
Nothing, it doesn't mean anything. Like anything else, you put your own meaning onto it.
>>18688450
You have to find your own definition which you are able and willing to pursue.
So i have this neighbor with whom we are very good friends. He happens to have a massive cock, it bulges massively on his pants and its driving me crazy. Im a guy. And he pretty sure is hetero, so no chance there.
I was thinking yesterday about making a plan to be alone with his cock. It goes like this: I would tell him to watch together a movie and smoke some weed and drink beer. Would get him very stoned, then spike his drink with a cocktail of sleep pills and viagra. Should be enough to get him into a deep state of sleep, so i can play with his thing for a couple of hours. Then at the morning he should just have a terrible hangover and not remember anything.
Would this work? Any advice?
>>18688330
Rape is bad, anon.
>hetero
I meant pretty sure hes 100% hetero, no chance for getting him interested in a blowjob from a guy.
>>18688334
but rape is a forceful and violent act that leaves the victim feeling like shit. this will not have any of that. he wont remember, wont have any ripped tissues. no memories or evidence, no rape. but please, dont moralfag me, ive seen you guys encourage real shitty bevahior here, this is nothing.
I live in same apartment with her. Sometimes i see her and feel attractive to her. I eagerly want to date with her. How can i do?? Btw she is beautiful.
>>18688282
Are we talking flatmates/roommates OR family members? Because the advice we can give you will be wildly different.
>>18688289
Oh i didn't post it. She and I both are stranger for them
>>18688295
So do you live in the same apartment "complex", then. Not the same "apartment".
Well, here's some advice. Forget about her. It never works when you are already so invested in a stranger. Leave her alone and try to meet girls at party or something.
Best non-degree jobs?
I have a Associates, but it's pretty much just useful being toilet paper. Any good careers for people without bachelor's? Anything I can get that will not take a lot of money or time to train for ? Some ideas I had were in law enforcement or CDl truck driving .
Also any certificattions that would help boost my resume?
Locksmithing, for $1,200 you can get a certified through an online school.
Invest $5k into equipment and a van. Mobile locksmithing is the only way to stay afloat.
Do actual locksmithing and not breaking locks faggot.
Don't undercut other locksmiths prices either. They'll break your legs.
Locksmithing can earn you anywhere between $40k- 80k annually. The hours are what you make of them. Also, digital locks and door frames are essential too.
One last thing, if you're going to locksmith. Get your CCW and carry ALL. THE. TIME.
Niggers will try to take your shit. Seen it too many times.
>>18688274
Do you have any particular skills or even hobbies we could start from?
There are plenty of jobs in machinery and facilities operation and maintenance which don't require degrees, but pay well. I have friends who work for the port authority or some private company who's contracted by the merchant marine fleet, who make 65k a year testing oil or inspecting tanks and shit lime that. Depending on your state, there are plenty of licenses and certificates available for that kind of work, like wastewater treatment licenses, confined space entry and pressure vessel inspection licenses, or even just OSHA.
Other options for driving style jobs are truck driver or bus drivers (make surprisingly decent money). I just talked to a guy at Disney World, they are shirt staffed on bus drivers and get a bunch of perks.
>>18688302
That actually sounds like something that would interest me. I'm gonna look into that.
>>18688337
Well my hobbies do not fall in line with what I'd want to do. I enjoy being mechanically inclined and working out. I have experience with customer service, delivery jobs and being a mail man assistant
Do guys pretend they don't like girls so as not to scare them off?
Or are they just not interested?
>>18688247
both
>>18688249
How can you tell the diff?
>>18688247
Both. It depends on you.
Hey /soc/,
How do I find a serious bf? I have no problem finding orbiters or guys who just want to fuck, but I'm having a hard time finding men who want a serious, committed relationship. I want something long term, but I'm having a hard time getting past the first date or two.
I think I have a good personality, and I'm conventionally attractive with certain assets. My only negatives are I'm mentally ill. Also I'm a little autistic and awkward but hopefully it's cute. Are these two negatives enough to make me shitty-gf material? How can I fix this to make myself more desirable?
plz help I'm so alone
Are you a roastie?
Most guys are like that, eventually youll find someone who accepts what youre like because changing just to make yourself more desireable wont change anything youre just making a fake image of yourself. How old are you and what do you mean by mentally ill?
Be honest and serious you'll find a good guy
I'm obese, homesick, depressed, I have no friends or know how to make a normal conversation, and my GPA is 2.1 . I hate university and myself for feeling like this but I know quitting is not an option. I just need help on just surviving university without any bullshit. I'm not gonna go to a normie club or whatever just so I can "fit in" or find new friends, I know that I'll be a cringefest for everyone.
Lonely anons, how did you survive university both mentally and physically while maintaining your grades?
Survive out of fucking spite, I hate university but ive already fucking paid for it so im going to do my best. Going to clubs is a good idea and focus in losing some weight, if youre obese then I suggest maybe eating less and walking a couple miles a day, exercise will relieve stress and weight so its a no brainer. Take care of yourself anon :)
Oh and stay in contact with your family, it'll make a massive difference to how you cope
>>18688218
>Oh and stay in contact with your family, it'll make a massive difference to how you cope
I'm gonna do that, thanks. How do you deal with the anxiety of going to the gym? I feel like I'll be laughed at and honestly I'm worried of someone taking a picture to make fun of me like I always see on social media
Eyes on the prize.
TL;DR I feel that my gf is not physically attractive enough but I don't feel like breaking up because I like her personality a lot. I can't get the thought out of my mind that I'm "settling for less" but I'm also afraid of what I could lose.
The story:
Two years ago I planned my trip to Thailand for the first time. I had read about how easy it is to get girls in TH as a young white male (and I'm not too bad looking either). I went on one of the larger thai-westerner dating site and could see it was no lie. Got so many likes and messages from girls from average to really good looking. There was this one girl though who I talked to more than the others. She was about 5/10 but her sweet manners and common interests got me into her.
Flash forward. I've been to TH a few times and dated this girl. She really is sweet and loyal and very dedicated to the relationship. She has only been with one guy before me (could be a lie but I give her the benefit of the doubt). I wish she had been a virgin, but I digress...
To the problem: I have these almost OCD-ish thoughts running in my head that I'm missing out on all the other much prettier Thai girls. That I'm settling for less than I should. I always thought I was a LTR type of guy but with all these options that image is cracking. Before our relationship was serious I banged a few really pretty thai hookers and, when reflecting back upon it, I know I was a lot more turned on then compared to when I do my GF.
Wtf should I do /adv/? Stay with this sweet, caring but not very attractive girl and risk settling for less than I could have.
OR
Go through the pain of breaking up with this girl that I feel a lot of love for and break her heart but have a chance with a more attractive girl (who may or may not be just as sweet in personality).
Reading through this I see I sound so shallow and rotten but I can't help my mind running these thoughts on me. Probably my OCD coming into play too. Fucking hell...
kill yourself nigger
You are a fucking faggot op. Stop this bitch ass whining. You want to fuck a hotter chick then Just do what you wanna do
>>18688156
"settling for less than I could have" dude, you're a fucking dick to think that way. you love her, don't you? even if it's not for the looks, if you guys are in love than nothing else matters. ffs, she could be thinking the same thing. diiiiick.
A very simple question - how to get rid of emotions? I don't want to feel anything - positive or negative. I just want to exist without feeling much of anything.
>>18688099
And they say teenagers have it easy
>>18688099
Escapism.
Anime, vidya, shitposting, rampant fapping.
You're not feeling stuff when you're spending all your day grinding in some MMO.
>>18688099
Read "Mindfulness in Plain English"
Learn to stop chasing and avoiding things.
Learn to meditate and essentially think of absolutely nothing.
>21 years old
>in love with a girl who's 17
>she's extremely mature though, more than me in some ways
>I've thought she might kind of like me too, but the age difference is there
>besides that, I've got my own issues I need to work on
>I want to become a better person, because she deserves to be with someone great
>she's a senior in high school this year
>afterwards she'll move away to go to college
It just makes me really sad every time I think about it. She's the only girl I've ever cared for in this way. I want her to be happy, but it makes me sad every time I think of my situation, because I can't see it turning out like I want.
>>18688063
>>she's extremely mature though, more than me
Naw, its not that she is mature its that you are very immature. Quit poaching high school juniors
>>18688070
I think it's both. But I'm working on it. I want to grow up, I'm really trying. I respect her so much as a person, but it just makes me sad that it just doesn't seem to be working the way I'd like.
>she's extremely mature though, more than me in some ways
GEE HAVEN'T HEARD THAT ONE BEFORE
Why do 4chan ppl like to watch #REKT videos? Image totally unrelated.
morbid curiosity
shock terapy
>>18688059
Because alot of people here are anti-social losers and like to see normal people die gruesome deaths or have other bad things happen to them.
Should i kill my neighbors dogs? They literally bark non stop 7 am midnight 5 am 3 am all day long all morning long and most of the night
I tried reporting it no one does anything I can't even sleep in my own bedroom it's so bad I literally have to sleep on the floor of a storage room we have just because it's quiet.
They've been doing it for ten fucking years I want them DEAD
>>18688034
Move? Seems easier than murder and possible repercussions.
Get some vermin poison and stealthily distribute it around where the dogs usually stay.
>>18688034
Buy some earphones you raging faggot piece of shit:
https://www.amazon.com/Hearos-Ultimate-Softness-Earplugs-20-Pair/dp/B001EPQ3H4
Alternatively, you can post your address. I would be happy to give you a dirt nap, so that you can enjoy the sweet embrace of eternal silence and peace.
I had sex with my ex, fell for her again
She doesn't feel the same way
I could really use a hug right now
It's shitty because I woke up the morning after with the feeling that it wasn't real. I had a dream where she told me she wasn't into me, then when I woke up, it felt like she was so far away even though she was right there. It sort of softened the blow.
How can I make my heart stop hurting
>>18687991
Love yourself enough to know you don't deserve to be hurt.
I'm sorry man
You did it for the sex or you were hoping that she would fall back in love?