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I honestly don't see a problem. You are going after leagl girls and you are still young enough to where a 18-yo will probably still go for you. Once you get into your 30s though it will probably be difficult to hook up with 18yo since you will be considered "old."

>>18685174

There certainly are countless great women older than 19, but there is no way to transmute an apprecieation of their greatness into attraction.

If you're only into 18 or 19 year olds, I do pity you, but I certainly don't blame you; no man chooses what to find attractive. I honestly think the best way you could "get over" your preference for girls of that age is to spend lots of time around them (because I find them mostly insufferable...). Either your preference for them will cool, or else it won't.

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>>18685174
It is just a number. However i dont see a problem?

Don't overthink, let things happen naturally.

>>18685175
Fair enough, but what I want to do is start to flirt with a ton of girls and it's a bit hard to let things "happen naturally" when I'd be the one starting these conversations.

>>18685159
If you just go up to a woman and literally say "do you want to go for a drink?" It's generally ok, you probably won't get arrested for harrasment.

>I want you
>what about my bf?
>what about your bf? I don't want him, I want you
The gist of it

>>18685173

How should I play it more specifically though?

That's why you should never date girls that like going to bars or clubs

>>18685089

Bump

Anyone here?

>>18685089

Bump !

give it a week or 2 anon, good luck she seems genuine

Whenever you have time and feel like grabbing beers, obviously.
Just be genuine anon. Don't play women games, ever.

yeah 2 weeks sounds about right.

>>18685077
Sometimes it can help when you have little to no experience. Once you get at least 2 years it means fuck all. If your gpa is 3 or below don't even bother putting it on your resume.

It's the Gpa that can get you through the door, it's the interview that lands you the job. I always personally thought that if you get called for the interview, you are qualified for the tasks in hand. It's the interview to see if you are a normie. And you can't exactly put that on a resume
>Normie, NYC, 2010-present

So yes, strive for a high gpa.

Im an accountant, but GPA's seem to play a role in landing an internship. Which in turn lands you your first job.

I never did an internship had a 3.0 gpa, but I worked as an accountant for my dads company couple years after graduating. After that it was a joke to find a better job. I was hired 4 weeks or so after i started looking. I interviewed at small and medium size companies in person. Not once was I asked for my gPA in any stage of the interview process.

Let me try to post this in the most straightforward manner.

Yesterday, I drank much, went to a midnight movie, went home when finished, started looking through craigslist casual encounters, tried for females first but I didn't have enough cash then, saw a transexual, contacted him, went to his house, panicked and told him that I wanted to get out but I didn't succeeded, got a blowjob, kissed, fucked him a bit, but I didn't finish at all because I didn't feel comfortable at all (not to mention the exhaustion). He asked for my name and address (to which I lied of course).

I went back home, and tried to go to sleep but the fucking regret doesn't allow me. What should I do?

>>18685104
Also, protection was used but either way I'm getting myself checked.

Self-bump.

I don't have sex. But yeah, I feel like that after fapping

>>18685052
I think it's something to do with prolactin release or some shit? Chemical reaction of some kind

I wouldn't say I feel shame but I do tend to start crying and feel pretty emotional. After my first orgasm from my boyfriend I started crying uncontrollably. I've gotten better about it though and I don't cry anymore

You need to be honest with her. Particularly, if you are indeed "ending things" or vice versa.

You will never be wrong when you truly express yourself.

I would say something like this:

" Name, I love you, we have been together for over 2 years. I am committed to being with you and care about you deeply. I understand that in the past I have lied and that has caused you to lose faith in me and my integrity.

I lie to you because I don't want to hurt your feelings. I enjoy doing these things with my friends and to be honest, I do feel guilty that you do not necessarily approve. However, these are my good friends also of many years. How would this bode for their feelings and my integrity if I opted out of all their events and outtings?

This will be a continual problem in our relationship for years. It comes down to insecurity, as you know I love you. But at the same time you have to trust me and not be possessive of my exact whereabouts, conditions and of whom I'm with. I understand that you care about me and my security and I can assure you that I will communicate this. However, both not going out with my friends and other events and you being upset is a lose-lose situation. But so is the later, as I enjoy time with my friends and see it as being healthy for me.

I understand that this may seem insulting. These are my true feelings. If you are unable to accept that I will spend time with other people we are bound to fail. I am social and will continually in my life be "going out".

Maybe we are not meant for each other, regardless of our love.

>>18685147

Bump

Your inability to be clear and honest is enabling her behaviour towards you.

My ex of 8 years. identical story, ended terribly. You create the relationships you deserve, this goes for women, family, friends, colleagues, teachers, neighbours etc.

You are in control. Begin by acting like it. Recognize that you effect people.

Maybe. She could have regretted it and accuse you of rape, or she could have a crush on you. Not enough information to tell.

>>18685097
She told me I was cute and that I looked much older than my age and asked for a threesome during her drunken tirade, but the day after she told me that she was sorry for hounding me and that she said sorry for forcing me into a kiss also said sorry for flashing her tits in front of me. But then she said she wanted me to help her get with my friend so yeah if she regretted the kiss than for sure she would have regretted sex.

>>18685141
Maybe not. I don't regret any of my drunk hook ups.. we'll just one because he was a frat boy that I had just met

Be grateful it's still a lease not a marriage, so she can divorce-rape you.

Go cut your loss away. Next time be wise with sharing shit to another woman.

Idk but just wanted to say I'm loving this new suicidal meme

>>18684988
>new

Mexico would be a better alternative. US is a shitstorm economically and it you aint gonna get rich, being a broke-ass bazilian. Not to mention Good ol 'murica is about to become a parking lot--kim jing fatface is dead set on pushing the big red button. avoid US at all costs.

>>18684924
Fuck off were full

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What marketable skills do you have to be an American? We got enough NEET faggots wasting our time.

>>18684909
Stop being afraid of madness.
It's not just going to happen for no reason.

>>18684909>>18684916
Wut is mental illness dot com

>>18684909
You can't prevent it. When you get into your thirties probably your chances of developing it are slim. The causes of it are probably both social and biological and they are out of the person's control.

Why not just focus on what's going on in your life?

>>18684812
Online hate crime

>>18684841
this is going on in my life.
id really rather not watch my entire race go extinct in 2 generations thankyou.

>>18684808

that sounds petty as fuck and really really dumb. its not like anyone watches cowboy bebopfor the girls. This sounds like something thats gonna get worse and worse. how insecure is she?

>>18684815
Very. But I love her very much and we get along well despite that ;_;

>not watching Chinese cartoons together
>not sharing waifus

What a sad relationship. She has no business dictating what you watch.