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>>18180763
>pretty good university
>advise

Help me, I've been trolled.

Adoption might be the best man. Talk to you significant other for sure though. Some things shouldn't be handled alone

>>18180732
tough rap anon. Just remember having biological children isn't the end all be all of existence. but also remember everyone's life is fraught with something, whether your children have your disease or not there lives aren't guaranteed to be easy. What does it mean to you to have children? If it was a 100% chance they would inherit this disease would you still consider it (knowing that with some struggle its survivable)? You gotta stop thinking of it from a depressed state. try to get your mind to a slightly more objective neutral ground. I hate the act of pain comparison but maybe try imagining someone born a slave, who decided to have children knowing that they to would be born slaves. Sometimes just the prospect of continue your heritage is reason enough (or maybe for you its not). Maybe your child could bring some great good to the world, maybe even find a cure for the disease themselves. maybe modern medicine will make the disease easier to live with in the future. maybe they wont have the disease at all. there's a lot to think about OP but you cant be depressed all the time and think about it.

don't be a selfish breeder, having children for your own ego, not caring if they live a good life

if you can detect the autoimmune disorder in the womb (and abort if positive) then yes, have kids

if not, don't

adoption is another barrel of shit where you often get heavily abused kids. maybe pick a sperm donor that looks like you?

Can someone just give me a few things to go on? maybe some issue you care about. I have like no ideas at this point.

>>18180687
Write about the Jews. /pol/ can give you tones of material.

>>18180687
for my freshman college "argue about something" essay I did "why the schulze method is better than plurality voting"

yeah i quit a job that i hated around a year ago. granted id been there for 2 months max, but it was horseshit

no back up plan, but it was so bad i had to get out of there. i had some savings i could live on for a while until i found something else

then eventually i found something else and now im good again

I quit a job I was at for 7 years. I was in a management position but I kept getting more and more responsibilities without compensation. So I got fed up and just walked out one day after the owner of the company was an hour to a meeting I had scheduled with him to discuss what was going on.

I had like $30K in the bank so I wasn't too worried. I ended up taking almost a year off and blew through almost all my money going on a bender.

Anyway, I decided to go back to school and finish my degree. Before I finished a buddy offered me a job in construction and I took it cause it paid well. That job segued into my current job. Which is 100x better than the job I walked out on. I've been here for 4 years now and I'll only leave when they shut the doors. The only reason I got where I am though is because I'm one of the hardest working people you'll ever meet, and it's paid off. So my case is an exception and it involved some luck and things just falling into place at the right time. I wouldn't suggest ever leaving a job without having another one lined up. I will never do that again. I got lucky once, but it won't happen again. So get another job before you quit. Put your two weeks. Leave on good terms.

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Do it Anon, don't work for that bitch. You'll find another job man. What was your job and salary? You don't have to give too many details.

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>>18180683
I'll date you. What's your number?

>>18180683

It's not that they don't exist. It's that they don't exist:

>within 100 miles of your location
>as unattached, single individuals
>aren't gay
>combination of the above

>>18180683

honestly you should highly consider making friends from communities such as /lgbt/, /soc/, programming and martial arts, etc. who aren't necessarily gay. They will have friends, of whom you may find an intersection between your interests, being attractive, and being gay. Believe me, it'll happen sooner than you think. Especially if you make friends with women, they love to try and introduce gays to each other.

>>18180610

>what does it take

being relatively attractive, some balls, and most importantly of all: some luck.

>how is it done

go to a bar, scope out some chicks, preferrably a chick who looks over at you when you look over at her. then go talk. follow the mood. depending on what activities are available invite her to one. be nice to all her friends, if you try to take her away from her friends you will likely get shot down. easier to just mingle with everyone but have some fun with her.

if theres pool, invite her to pool, if theres darts, do that, dancing is best though.

>>18180621
There are bars with pools? Where can I find these bars with pools? I love swimming. Op btw

>>18180675


pool is a game.

whatever hell you rain down upon her, remember it's your dad who's gonna have to live with her and clean up the mess

Have u tried to tell your dad what you see?
Have you factored out jealousy?
What makes her evil? Have you confronted her?

You disliking her enough and your father being concerned about it should suffice. Make it super obvious. Just be petty with household things. If your dad's not a total shit and she is actually horrible, he should want to fix it.

Bait her into physically assaulting you / abusing you and get it on video, show to your dad

profit

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>>18180506

I recently turned 21 and I think that it's better to think of it not in terms of WHAT drink, but the TOTAL ALCOHOL. You will have no tolerance and 2 beers will make you fall asleep. A beer often has a similar alcohol content as a glass of wine, which is similar to a swing of scotch and most other hard alcohols.

For the taste, I would go out somewhere and get like one margarita with food, and drink it slowly. It'll taste good and you'll get used to the feeling without having to get accustomed to the taste of beer. Just realize that a margarita has a lot of alcohol per glass.

If you go to a tap and say you just turned 21 (and show an id), then they will usually let you sample different types of beer. Usually a few light beers, Guinness, and an IPA.

You could try a glass of wine with dinner if you want to drink for pleasure.

>>18180519

*bar, not tap

>>18180506
Bump for curiosity. I'm turning 21 next week and I'm tired of being a stick in the mud at parties

>>18180395
>she doesn't get the point. I wanna do it with her, and feel her and all that. She's the woman I always wanted, a hooker would never be the same. Worst part is she'll usually walk around naked, and, damn, she has the kind of body that drives me wild.
and what'd she say when you told her this?

start there

>>18180407
Usually she'll say she needs some time to try to recover from this "fear of sex", and she was happy when I said I wouldn't break up with her just because of the lack of sex. She was kinda glad when I said I don't want a hooker. But she doesn't get why I find her hot, she's got a low self-esteem since ever.

OP here. During this time, I've been requesting fakeshops, faceswaps and captions at /r/ and watching Felicia Clover's porn videos (they're much alike) to "relief" myself. But it is way not the same as having sex with her.

>>18180307

Nice blog

Honestly, I'm just not sure how I'm supposed to feel at this point. Where before I was ambivalent about seeing how things went, now I'm just downright apathetic. Not to mention that I'm spending most of my free time with her, that I could better be using dating other girls. I'm not in a position where I don't get dates, so this seems like a spot where I'm just poorly using my resources to get what I want (a girlfriend).

I'm just curious what you other anons position on this is?

>>18180312
sorry bro, my blog post got too long before I could ask my question. Hope you can find it in your heart to forgive me

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Become a tradesmen.

Is a good life. I made the right choice.

Yes. I'm about to graduate and regret making it this far every single day because I decided on a major that is useless without grad school. I've dug my own grave.

Do you have any idea how many people think they can make it as a writer? By all means, pursue that as a dream job, but don't be stupid and not have a backup plan, because your chance of failure is greater than your chance of success.

No don't ignore it. She WILL cheat on you and try to act like a victim when it happens. You're both really young and I was in your exact situation not too long ago. I'm only 23 and dated a girl for 4 years and we had similar discussions to yours. You can probably guess what happened.

>>18180287
Thanks man, so what should I do then? Should I talk to her about it? Like explain to her my feelings about it and ask her whether she wants to continue on and stay faithful or can I just not trust her at all? (asking someone on the internet if I can trust my girlfriend lmao nice)

>>18180283
Other girls
>oh how sweet and romantic, i saved myself for you and now i can live with you for the rest of our days.

Your girl
>i want to experience other dicks.

I mean you can try and convince her it's wrong but you can also try to convince a chain smoker it's wrong but in the end their urge and excitement can be of greater value to them than anything else including you.

You can dodge one bullet by taking another, sign up for a threesome.

>>18180269
"By this event" doesn't sound like the event caused it, it sounds like millions of Americans knew by the time the event happened.

>>18180269
Did the event cause it or was it something with a common cause

>>18180291
An event happened and because of it "millions of Americans knew"

Well FUCK YOU TOO THEN!

Nah jk, but shamelessly gonna try to self bump once.

i became the same recently
i go to the kitchen drink something, then start thinking of life due to going off the computer-induced zombie/numb mode, and i while i'm drinking i throw the glass at the wall

no idea how to stop it besides the obvious relaxing and do relaxing activities

maybe you could use the anger energy to do actual work

>>18180216
Either workout, smoke weed or jerk off.

I do all three, docile as a motherfucker now.

>>18180200
>Would you cheat on an SO?
Never. Being in a relationship is a commitment, I won't sway from a commitment.

>Would you fuck a girl/guy with an SO?
Yes. Pussy is pussy

>If your SO cheated on you would you break up with them?
Yes. If she cheats she's a whore. You don't date whores

>>18180200

the one time i cheated i told her right away and she stayed with me but i dumped her five months later. i was 18 and really only dating her because she wanted to date me.

fun fact, that girl i cheated on her with happened to walk by me last month, turns out she works by my apartment month, just seven years later randomly ran into each other.

turns out shes seeing a guy and she just cheated on him with me.

lifes funny

>>18180200
>Would you cheat on an SO?
No. If I don't love them anymore I'll break up with them. Cheating is shitty.

>Would you fuck a girl/guy with an SO?
No, I'm not going to help betray someone.

>If your SO cheated on you would you break up with them?
Yes, my ex did actually. And I broke up with him. Note that I had the same opinions before that happened.