i'm looking for a undergraduate school where I can study architecture, physics & chemistry. any ideas? Hopefully next winter. It'd be best if I have free reign or something close to it
You can't study all three, this isn't high school. Architecture alone is a lot of work. It'll involve some physics, but not as much as a physics major alone. Chemistry is a completely separate thing.
>>18178031
shut your fucking mouth u stupid
>>18178031
notice I didn't ask whether I can. I was asking "where?" it's not my fault your a fucking couch potatoe, "seems"
>talk to girl who goes to same bar as I do last week
>has a kid, same as me
>hit it off, get number
>text her but she seems disinterested
>take my loss, no big deal
>go to bar this past week
>as I walk out, she is walking in
>ask her if I can hang out with her and she says yes
>we are drinking playing pool and just vibing big time
>closing time and she asks me if I wanted to go eat with her
>we go, have a blast
>lots of kissing and holding and we talk about hanging out during the week next week, since I have my kid on the weekend
>since then, one text
What should I think of this? I figure she is just one of those girls or are very weary.
Pic is bartenders ass
>>18177996
Got any better pics of the bartender?
Nothing?
>>18177996
Why didn't you fuck her?
>be me
>junior in college
>closet homosex
>only two friends irl
>used to have more but I am kind of an asshole and can't keep friends
>keep meeting and falling for straight guys only to shoot it down before I get too attached
>friends don't really hang out with me much anymore
>started drinking alone
>really need some kind of companionship but any time I make friends I start falling for them
>don't enjoy life
>very sad
Wut do? Coming out is not an option and getting a bf is not one either. Fundamentalist Christian parents are paying my tuition. I'm getting depressed. Need someone to talk to. Feel so alone.
>>18177990
Most universities offer some kind of student health services that include mental health and/or therapy. Go see a therapist.
>>18177995
Christian college.
In a disturbingly similar position, OP (except 22 and closet-bi). Campus therapy is a solid option, my first therapist was new and not helpful, but the second is a very warm and smart lady. Give it a go, it's helped me personally more than drinking has so far. LGBT centers may seem cringey but (at least at my uni) offer some rather helpful peer advising, and it's just nice to talk to other not-straights.
Why do you think you keep falling for new friends? What do you think drives others from you?
I have major beef with a former friend and by proxy his brother. (Technically, they have a major beef with the entire group of my friends.) I'm in my late 20s, have a good corporate job, and I'm not the kind of guy to get into stupid petty fights at this point in my life.
My work friends want to go to this concert in two weeks and really want me to come. I know that this dude and his brother are going to be there, and they have said that if they ever see me, to expect to get my ass beat.
These guys WILL fight me if they see me, there's no getting past it, and I definitely can't get any of my friends to come back me up. Should I risk going to this concert and getting my coworkers mixed up in some stupid shit?
These two dudes are at like every concert I want to go to though, and I'm not afraid of holding my own, just getting into fights at my age when it could impact my career.
>>18177964
You're an adult now. Call the cops if they lay a hand on you.
>>18177972
The cops aren't going to get to me by the time two dudes have already jumped me. Sure I can call them after and press charges, but these are the kinds of guys that don't give a shit.
I don't associate with these kinds of people anymore, that's why they're "former" friends.
>>18177991
Right when you arrive, tell security that some guys tried to start shit with you in the parking lot. Help them identify them and get them booted. Once done, file a restraining order or maybe even file one now.
So, proms tomorrow i got to a fairly small school a 1A. I have a date to prom how do i get laid at prom with out getting caught in the act and how do i but it out there that i wanna get laid at prom? Btw im a girl and my date is a boy
you are a girl asking how to get laid? Something is wrong here.
>>18177956
>Step 1: Be a Girl
Actually, that's about all there is to it.
>>18177956
>you are a girl asking how to get laid? Something is wrong here.
Hes shy and alittle awkward
Has anyone here had experience with threesomes or sharing? Is it worth trying? if your answer involves the word "degenerate" dont' bother I've already heard it.
>>18177932
I have, but in every situation I was either the 'other' guy, or it was a situation where all three of us were new to each other (at least sexually). I've never had group sex with someone I was actually dating, though I would like to, I just don't date much these days.
the closest I got to that was I had a threesome with someone, and then later started dating them, and when we dated we promised it to be an open relationship, but it did not last very long as they were an exchange student and i knew they would be gone by the end of summer.
good times though.
can't really advise for or against it if you're in a relationship. i have no experience from that perspective.
>>18177932
>>18177932
I did it four times with my gf of 8 years, all with extra women
First was kinda good, but just as good as doing it as a couple
Second sucked, got tricked by roastie, only came at great cost
Third and fourth were with the same girl. We never, ever considered poly, but the three of us are so into each other now that we have even been considering that
Is it worth it? If done right, can't recommend this enough. Problem is getting the ideal situation. Relationship has to be pristine perfect, both must want it, be in common accordance with whatever rules are set, and get a girl who has the same tastes and pace in bed.
I tried it, was the third, a guy that joined a landwhale dykie couple. It sucked because I always felt like I just wasnt as important. We said we loved each other but it just felt like I was being used sexually.
How do I stop pitying myself?
I'm the typical mid-20s /r9k/ lonely virgin loser, but I'm too swallowed in self-pity to actually try and change.
>>18177920
you don't, you just do things to improve despite the pity. you don't let the pity enable you.
>>18177921
I think I'm addicted to the self-pity.
I can't imagine myself 'normal'.
You sometimes get brief moments of motivation, right? When that happens, use one to start a fitness habit. Get to a month long streak at whatever interval you're doing the workouts. That will give you a foundation of self-esteem that comes from hard work, and being in better shape will make you feel better in general. Once you have the habit, it will be easier to maintain than it was to initially get started.
Cannot beat this level on DOOM and am filled with game rage. I know it's not a serious thing but how do you guys deal with the game grumpies /adv/? Any tips?
>>18177889
I just take a breather and come back to it when I've calmed down.
>>18177889
It literally goes away after 5 minutes. Just take a break from the game.
>>18177889
git gud, n00b
Yesterday me and my gf was fucking, I wore a condom but for the first time ever I nutted and didn't pull out. I think the condom caught all of the cum, but I'm only 20 and I don't want to have a child is there any chance she will get pregnant?
>>18177843
>condom on
Unless it broke, you didn't cum inside her
You came inside your condom. That's what the condom is for. You're fine.
Pay attention in biology.
>>18177862
I slept through hs. I was just wondering I did cum in the condom
>>18177872
You can do a little test when you cum in a condom like I do: try to not take it off inside out then squeeze the tip with the cum. If you don't see anything leaking, then you're safe.
>be me
>college
>best friend drops out
>left with nobody to really hang out with
>spend all my time alone.
I'm fucking done, I don't know if I can deal
>>18177604
If you need that friend to have enough social interactions you won't get it anywhere else either.
Think of college as a fortress, you can learn and not interact with people at all or you can talk to random people and try to build up friendships or go to parties and that's that.
Outside of this fortress you will not have a choice and have to friendly chatter with everyone.
>>18177679
What do you mean
>>18178344
I don't know what he means but take it from me, in college at me senior at 27 years old. Get it fucking done, because you'll be really sad when you're making shit money at my age.
My entire life, I have gone to my dad on advice on what to do in life.
My teen years were weird because my parents' marriage was degenerating. So I just went out and hung out with a new crowd of kids - kids who wanted to smoke, drink, and do drugs, instead of the children of successful parents that I used to hang out with before.
My dad left the family home when I was 18, but this was fine - I went to university, I still talked to my dad. I still got advice from him.
Now I'm 25. I'm in a stupid spot in life - I quit my job for basically no fucking reason. I've been NEET for nearly two years now.
I keep thinking of stupid (as in illegal) things to do... and I also think of some LEGAL things to do, but then I'm not doing them.
Normally I would ask my dad what to do, and I would get my advice from him. But I am not on speaking terms with him now. Basically I was asking him for advice during a low point in this last job, but he wasn't responding (for the first time, really). I don't really know why. But now, he's getting married to a new woman.
I mean, I don't really care about that. He can do whatever he likes. But yes I am not on speaking terms with him now. One reason for this is that he wanted me to get some of my stuff out of his flat. I thought this was hugely ironic, because when I was 18, he refused to get his stuff out of our family home. He said "do what you like with it, throw it in a skip, I don't care". Which basically means he refused to make the effort to deal with it.
(contd.)
>>18177557
(contd. from last)
But he then expects me to make that effort when it comes to his flat. So I told him to fuck off. So that's one reason I don't speak to him now. Clearly he has stopped caring about giving me and my brother advice (he paid even less attention to my brother over the years than me). He only cares about himself now to be honest. It's like he's been waiting to become a bachelor again for many, many years while he was still in our family home... and now he has that chance, he's taking it, and he can't give a fuck about the rest of his family, including his kids.
Anyone else know this feel? And should I just suck it up and get on with something? Maybe one reason I feel so unsure of what to do next in my life, is because normally I would get assurance from him. I'd ask him, and he'd give me advice, or just reassurance. But now, like I say, I'm past talking to him, because he has been illogical and unreasonable. I'm not going to cave to his double standards this time, basically.
What should I do? Am I being a faggot? Probably I am, but still, I need to move forward somehow. Apologies for very long essay.
You don't need your dad to tell you to get a job.
>>18177565
Yeah probably I guess. I quit though because my mum's friend had pushed me into this job. And also at this job, there was this fucking woman who was telling me shit to do - even though she wasn't my boss. That pissed me off.
I guess I was at an angry and depressed point and I just wanted to tell everybody to fuck off because I want to do my own shit in life.
I keep thinking of travelling - because a) I have the money to do so, because I have saved money from working for many years. And b) because many of my old school friends have gone travelling. So I think why not? It would be perfect for me to learn how to take decisions for myself, and learn the consequences of them. Learn to become independent, most importantly.
But then I feel some guilt about it, for two reasons: 1) some of the money that I have (maybe 60% of it) was not stuff I earned, but stuff which my mum saved in my bank accounts for me throughout my entire childhood - birthday present money, stuff like that. She hoped I'd spend that on a house deposit or something like that. So I feel guilty about spending it, BUT my brother spent all of his equivalent money, on trips with a girlfriend of his. So then I think, why not spend it?
And 2) if I go off travelling, my mum will be in this house by herself. Both her and my brother have stressful jobs, and not very enjoyable lives. Both are socially isolated (like me I guess). Although my brother does have a girlfriend, and I think he enjoys his job, at least somewhat. And he's able to buy nice stuff for himself, because he earns a relatively decent amount.
Don't know. I think my dad always instilled in my this idea that I need to fucking take risks. He wanted me and my brother to become tech entrepreneurs. Like fucking Steve Jobs. Steve Jobs went to India, and I think that's another reason I want to travel. But then my mum obviously wants me to be sensible. I don't know.
(contd.)
>be me
>switched schools about 6 months ago
>my previous class was pretty "nerdy" and "dorky"
>my new class is hot chicks and pumped up fellas doing crazy parties 'n' shit
>birthdays in my previous class were more like beta meetups in which it was male only (girls in previous class were also like that but ugly af so we didn't even bother inviting them)
>in my previous class we would probably just chat, browse 4chan memes (yes the 6 of us browsed 4chan memes together it happens) and eat
>in my new class tho, we have this really cool parties in which 10/10 girls grind on you just for fun and mess around like there's no tomorrow
>one of my friends from the previous class has the birthday the same day one from the new class has
>obviously the new classmate's party will be a much more of a win win
>my first group friend though has a special place in my heart, since we know each other since the age of 7 and have been best friends since, we once had some disagreements but we have been mostly together through our lives
>i will be going to the first guy's birthday party, my friend's
>this may or may not ruin my "reputation" amongst the mates in the new class (and i will miss out on some HOTHOTHOT girls which seem to lower their standards a lot during parties)
am I doing the right thing?
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God, I hate americans. Their problems are so fucking stupid.
man delete this thread
this is sad
I'm a good looking TA at university. I have many qt's coming to office hours and rubbing legs with me. I can't do anything with them during the semester or I will get fired/lose funding.
My question: What is the best strategy to obtain the qt's post-semester. Or should I just bang them now and hope for the best.
Regards,
Kind Anon
there is no strategy post semester
they need to sleep with you in order to pass
Connect with them on social media
>>18177370
>Connect with them on social media.
This.
Alcoholic that's been alcohol free for about a month here. I feel like I bring up that I've been sober pretty damn frequently when I'm around people, but that's because it's on my goddamned mind every second that I'd love a drink, and partially because I guess I want people to congratulate me or something.
Is it understandable and tolerable this early on, or should I shut the fuck up?
>>18177338
>partially because I guess I want people to congratulate me or something
Yes, you're being annoying
>>18177338
It's probably irritating, but if it's helping you it's also acceptable.
>>18177338
I dunno. I found when I stop smoking people are like
"Oh you're stopping smoking?!" and it keeps going "oh you remember when you smoked!" and it makes you smoke again. They want you to smoke! "he's fucking smoking that cunt."
it's best noty to say anything. I think. the bloke that stopped smoking 60 a day then died said not to suppress it, but I think you should not say anything and have a juice.
Basically some time ago I tipped my father off about life changing career change. All he has to do was apply to the job. He basically bitched and moaned about me not doing to applicaton..so I ended up doing it. He also bitched and moaned about about going to the series of interviews...doing paperwork and reading the HR paperwork...eventually showing me them and sayings " read this and brief me on it later". We went to family dinner recently and my mothr gave my father a bit too much credit and eventually my aunt called her on her bullshit saying I deserve more credit than I'm being given. My mother proclaimed my father would have found it anyways and what I did made no difference. ( Mind you my mother is a shell of a woman and would have my fathers ..or anyone's back side from me )...anyways I have decided he doesn't deserve this job nd I want to take it from him. Thinking about it..all my life my parents acted like this kids...and treated me like shit...Now I'm going to get them back. I need to cut him off his high horse he has been acting like a total high horse piece of shit since he got this job.
Also mind your the dynamic of the kid getting their parents job is FUCKING BULLSHIT....
>>18177337
You did the good deed for your dad.
It doesnt matter they dont thank you.
All what matters is that you made someones life easier.
Dont be dumb and carry on with your life.
>>18177337
lol what kind of twisted fucked up individual seeks vindication by hurting their parents. theres a saying that if you steal from your own parents you'd steal from anyone. Basically means you are worthless. You could blame your parents though for raising you to be worthless.