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Unless they are naming you personally there is fuck all you can do. It is just people sharing opinions. What is the page about? PETA? Scientology? Gender fluidity?

>>18183480
>There's a page that is making fun of me, my friends and our values

The fact that you don't say what it's about makes me think you deserve it. What are you, bronies or something?

>>18183480
First off, no you can't

Secondly; What is the page about, you're keeping information from us, which tells me you're trying to hide something from us

Stockholm Syndrome to a T

Hitting your significant other is not acceptable behavior

>>18183453
desu I think you did deserve it
and the fact you come here to bitch about your boyfriend behind your back, for shame
kill yourself

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>tiny bruise
CALL THE FUCKING POLICE WE GOT A WOMAN BASHER ON THE LOOSE

>>18183450
You should kill yourself, or tell him how you feel so he can find someone less trashy and dumb

lol bait

>>18183479
There really isnt anything trashy or dumb about rejecting a partner based on their sexual appeal

Relationships are just as much physical / sexual things as they are emotional - both parts are very important for a lasting partnership.

>>18183440

Still retarded. By 'student loans paid off consistently' I meant I make the standard payment the government decided on.

How much was the balance?
How many late payments? And how late?
Any other charge offs or bad debt on file?
How long have you had your credit for?
Any recent(3 month or less) inquiries?

If you let the card expire and don't renew it, can it still affect your credit score adversely? Isn't that like extorting a person to keep buying a service?

>>18183439

bump

This is the right board for this question, isn't it?

A classmate who transferred had a gold in IPhO.

>>18183439
Our transfer acceptance rate is usually below 3.5% per year. I know a girl who transferred in, but she had a perfect GPA at a different high-ranked private school and lots of extracurriculars. And was female.

>>18183427
Your life sounds a LOT like mine
Did much of the same things.

I got out of it slowly by doing a little bit every day
Spend some time every day something "productive"
It doesn't have to be much
It can be just walking around outside and appreciating nature.
Jogging, cooking, reading
It all counts

Just do something that requires you to break routine a bit

I eventually went back to college.
I fucked that up a bit, but I'm back on the road. I've had jobs. Made friends.
Have a career in the military in front of me now

Just got to do SOMETHING
It's easy to fall backwards into just waiting for the day to end.

thanks

>>18183468
>depression+anxiety
>i have the military in front of me
Do you like pain?

I don't think there's a real "norm" other than like, an extreme. Like you go a decade without even going on a single no strings attached date or something.
Just whenever you're ready. You sound like you need work on yourself before you get back out there anyway. Because when you think of yourself as garbage, nobody really wants to get with that.
Work yourself up, nobody can love you if you don't love yourself. Yadda yadda yadda.

your low self esteem re: being alone is dangerous because its unattractive! love yourself and you'll be able to love others better

>>18183410
>low self esteem
I'm a 32 year old janitor, was a virgin until 27, my relationships last 3 months on average, and my business degree must be useless by now, I've never gained muscle in my life, and I only have one friend. I earned my low esteem, yet I hope to turn this ship around. So many little improvements would make a huge difference.

>>18183367
Hang out with disabled, retarded, unsuccessful and sad people.

INSTANT EGO BOOST

>>18183375
so go on 4chan more often
>ha ha so funny i'm SHAKING

>>18183375
welecom to fourchan

>>18183367
say some funny or smart things some time, relax, and get an expensive haircut. this will literally work.

you insulted your wife's taste in pals.

probably should have kept it to yourself. no one is forcing you to be buddy-buddy with her friends, could have always been cordial yet distant.

on the plus side, s'long as your wife isn't a crazy bitch, it will blow over. apologise and make an effort to chill with her friends.

>>18183353
You need to practice some tact with your communication skills; everyone needs friends. If you don't like them, there shouldn't be anything wrong with communicating that, but saying you never want to hang out with them again is selfish; especially if she wants to do couple related things in groups.

>>18183353
My ex's friend(s) poisoned what we started when dating early on. Months later I agreed to another go, but this friend was still in the picture so in the back of my mind I kept thinking when will this bullshit happen again.

Broke up. I really loved this girl but I wasn't going to give up self respect and dignity. We started talking again months later and things were great. Then all of a sudden she goes cold. Very sure this friend gave some bullshit advice and told her to date the guy that she likes i.e. who kisses her ass

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>>18183330
depends, did she ask you to touch her hair or did you ask her?

sure?
nobody here will be able to tell you anything remotely useful without further context

>>18183350
It kinda just happened. We were just touching eachother's hair and smiling like retards.

>>18183202
Is she fat?

Is she ugly?

If both are no, there's no way I would allow this. Even if he doesn't intend to, sooner or later something will happen between them, it's practically inevitable, especially if he only sees you a couple of times a month.

If you say you're not comfortable with it and he doesn't understand, I'd say that's a major red flag.

>>18183202
Don't allow it

>>18183224
He's definitely understanding. He's essentially asking my permission and if I say no he won't do it. I'm leaning towards no, for pretty much the exact reasons you brought up. The only reason I am actually considering it is because it will be easier on both of us financially. We are trying to save up to move in together in a couple years, so obviously the money he would save would help with that. Things happen though, even with the best intentions...

>I don't know what I want to do in life other than voice acting
too bad, that's not a standalone job.

So no hope? I don't want to work a shitty job just to make ends meet, that doesn't seem like living.

I'm sure it is for morgan freeman and I believe it was for mike rowe

I constantly meet new people who say I should look into doing it myself though

>>18183168
Come on, read everything, underline the main words of each paragraph and memorize them. Do not just look at the pages thinking how fucked you are.

If you fail, take it as an opportunity to take responsibility for your actions, and so to change. You may become an upgraded version after this

>>18183168
I can read fucking 700 pages in 3 hours dude.

Sit down, put some headphones on and read the shit out of that.

Also: Take pauses after each chapter, because by the looks of it, your brain might just be fried if you read it all at once.

>>18183168
>reading
No.
Look at the key concepts/definitions & then do the review questions.
Maybe watch a couple videos on the subjects presented in each chapter.

Reading is a fucking horrible way to learn, with the amount of fluff & uselessly in-depth details presented in modern textbooks that you will NEVER be asked about/have to apply.
You want to understand the broadstrokes well so that you can apply them & some critical thinking to solve your problems, not the nitty-gritty bullshit- not unless the prof specifically points it out as 'you need to know this nit-grit here or else'.

>Racking up debt to become a teacher
>"But it'll be more fun :)"

>>18182993
Yeah I know it sounds like a stupid question.
The issue though is the debt will be low/manageable and I'd be able to pay it off pretty quick if I live at home for a bit after graduation. That and I'm already here and already have some debt from the dorm (off campus costs far less money).

Basically what I'm asking is more does the distinction of a "commuter school affect the academic quality much? Also I'm concerned that I won't quite get the aid I need because I'm a transfer student. I'm not totally sure how it works. I get federal grant money and a state supplemental grant at my current school to cover 100% tuition so I don't know if I'd get the same thing at the new one. If I did though I wouldn't need to take on any debt for the next 3 years.

Bump

I'm leaning towards transferring but want a second opinion.

I feel like I let him down. I didn't do enough to baby proof the house. I should have brought him with me to work that day. My coworkers had been begging me to bring him in. My wife even asked me to bring him that day but I took it lightheartedly knowing it was going to be a busy workday and not an ideal day to bring my boy to work. Now I wish I had. I'm so upset with my wife. I needed her to be there for my boy. She knew how much he meant to me. How can I forgive such irresponsibility? She's pregnant and now I'm so scared for my human baby coming in a few months.

Humphrey was an amazing baby. He'd do this bunny hopping motion when chasing me around the living room. I bought him a bacon play toy that he loved. It was adorable seeing my boy chew on his bacon. I buried him with it. My home doesn't feel like a home anymore. I feel so alone and empty when I'm home now. I find excuses to just get away just so I'm not home. Im mad at myself. Why did I choose a home with a pool? Had I bought someplace else I might still have my baby. I can't sleep. I've been away for 72 hours now. I want to wake up from this nightmare. I want my baby. How do I forgive my wife? How do I move on when my child was ripped from me so early? I'm a complete wreck. You were everything I had wanted and more. I was a daddy, now I'm just miserable

>Habit of overeating til his tummy ballooned.
This is not safe, at all. I've seen ruptured lining and it isn't pretty How can you belittle your wife when you do something equally irresponsible and think it cute, and it might have contributed to your own dog's death.
http://www.greenbrier-emergency.com/food-bloat-overeating-in-dogs/
http://www.mvtimes.com/2011/10/05/overeating-can-make-dogs-very-sick-even-kill-them-7852/

A large majority of English bulldogs just drop dead anyways. I worked for a vet for 7 years and this happened at least 4 times to their devastated owners. Are you sure he drowned?

It was to the point where we had pugs with less genetic issues than English Bulldogs. It is hitting a critical point to where I'd invest in pretty much any other breed until breeders get their shit together.

Are you sure he drowned and didn't just drop dead and fall in the pool? Their average life span is 6 years, less than an Irish Wolfhound.

http://www.cbsnews.com/news/beloved-dog-breed-may-disappear-due-to-health-problems/
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/Dogs/My-Bulldog-died-suddenly--Was-fine-and-then-within-a-minute--dead/show/721645

>>18183011
I made the mistake once. When I realized he was overeating prone I moved onto smaller controlled portions. I found his big belly to be cute but that happened once and never again.