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Hey /adv/

I have seemingly infinite amounts of stamina relative to my girlfriend and it's been causing little issues of late like me not cuddling with her to sleep because I'm not tired and have 5 hours of energy left. I typically go to sleep at 5-6 am and wake and about 10am which works fine with my work schedule. She works more sporadic shifts that range from 6 am to 11 pm occasionally. In either situation by the time the day is coming to an end she has absolutely no energy to do anything and occasionally after a few hours of activity during the day she'll get worn out as well.

the root problem here isn't necessarily a lack or abundance of energy in us but rather her perception that she is failing to satisfy the relationship. Shifting her perception of the situation could help make her feel happier. I feel like the two options are a) comforting her into a state of accepting our conditions, b) helping her increase her stamina. I'd prefer for her to increase her stamina but I have no idea how. She's in great physical shape and can dance for hours on end.

I think it may also be a variable that the activities we do don't necessarily give her that edge of Adrenaline that would hook her on the activity.

Anyway, any suggestions on what to do?

Also, recently beat ds3 any suggestions for a good fashion souls build?

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Is there really any reason to go on tinder if you're a guy and not Chad?

I've gotten four matches, two of which are landwhales and two alright grills in 2 days sweeping right on everybody, and I'm maybe a 6 with a respectable body. Should I just uninstall it?

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Did a bong hit a couple of weeks ago had a seizure and ever since I havent felt right. Went to doctor, everything is fine got my vision tested. I constantly feel out of it or "floating" It's worse when I'm in my car driving though. It sometimes looks like the road or environment wobbles and then I get a sense of panic. Whats wrong with me?
sorry repost is it depersonalisation or derealization?

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Where might be a good place for an introverted girl to meet someone? I'm in my early 20s and I really don't like the idea of tinder, or any other daying app because I'm not just looking for dick.

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So theres this guy that admitted he liked me but doesn't feel ready to be in a relationship with me Cuz
>he thinks I look too young (15/16years)
>He's 21
>I'm 19
>thinks that people will see him as some perv/too old for me (looks wise as well, but I don't.)
>says "I hope you understand and wait for me"
What does he even mean? Is it really important the age thing? I think he's exaggerating

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pretty sure this faggot guy cucked me out of the blue, feels pretty bad but guess that's what i get for letting myself not be an emotionless edgelord 24/7 and falling for a 3D person

need some cheering up so wise words or other emo cucks who could relate would be appreciated, thanks /adv/

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I'm going to be going to Japan (from America) for a couple weeks visiting my Uncle stationed there. He said he couldn't hang out all that much so I should spend the time exploring. My questions run along the lines of, how much Japanese should I know before going (know a bit but can't hold convos)? Are most people very racist towards foreigners like in stories? And probably the most cliche, but what's it like picking up girls as a 6'4" blonde american anon? I'm not beta but I don't really chase girls. Would there be a niche for girls who like foreigners or should I just worry about sight seeing? Any japanons or previous travelers would be great.

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So I've started scratching into my left arm. I know it's so cliche. I think I'm going to visit my university counseling center tomorrow. Do any of you have experience with this, and what helped you stop? Also I'm drunk right now, which probably doesn't help matters. Have two papers due Thusday, total of ~25 pages, and I haven't even started because I can't muster the energy. Just doesn't matter anymore. My brother is going to be an astrophysicist while I struggle with learning economics. I'm convinced I'm going to die by suicide before I'm 30, though whenever my parents call to check up on me, I tell them that I'm fine because it's easier that way. I've told them for a year that therapy helped because that's what they wanted to hear when really I didn't get anything out of it. I hate talking, can't do it face to face, and if I were to open up with my parents it'd have to be through text because I also can't do it via voice. Wanted to join the Air Force, but my bipolar diagnose put a stop to that dream and I've been deeply unsatisfied since then, two years ago. Am I rambling?

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I'm just looking for advice on this situation I'm in, anything would help!
>match with insanely gorgeous girl on tinder that goes to my uni and has same major
>start messaging and despite all my best efforts she seems completely disinterested and gives like 5 word responses
>figure it is a lost cause but randomly just ask her if she wants to get froyo with me at spot by campus
>actually says yes
>start sweating bullets figuring this could be the most awkward date/meet up of my life
>we both show up and immediately hit it off, non stop talking and laughing the entire time, ended up sitting at the place talking for 2-3 hours
>i walk her back to her place and we exchange numbers and i ask for another date, she says yes and i tell her the locations and plan to pick her up, hug and leave
>i text her and its back to the tiny responses and im not sure how to keep this up

Has anyone had a situation like this? or know any sort thing I could try to make this girl text more? maybe I'm just over thinking it and just need to wait for the date or something.

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Long story short, I think a perv has my nudes
>random Instagram account dm's me pretending to be a hot girl
>I'm drunk as hell so I believe it
>"she" asks for nudes, I send them.
>check back later and realize it's a fake account
>account is now deleted
So does this mean I'm fucked or what? Help me out a little

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I took a drug test today for a new job, I smoked 11 days ago. I only took two hits but I'm freaking out. Am I going to pass?

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F, 27
I've felt uncomfortable with my name all my life, I remember trying to go for a different one for the first time when I was 7.
While I've never found a name that I actually want, I've gotten more and more reasons to feel uncomfortable with my name (I'm not really happy about my family/country/ethnicity, I have problem rolling the r's in my surname, it's too long and way too common to the point I've met many other women with same name/surname, and I just don't consider it aesthetic).
I might immigrate to another country soon, but even if not, I started traveling a lot so I hope I'll make lots of new acquaintances.
But I'm not sure how to deal with people that already know me saying treating it as a stupid thing. I don't think it's a huge change, but I do feel uncomfortable with my name and changing it should only concern me anyway. Similarly, I know I'll get shit if I choose a non spanish surname (while traveling, I'd rather not always stand out as a 'spic', I've been mistaken for several other ethnicities and I like it that way).

What should I do/avoid doing with the name change?

Thanks in advance

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How does a transbian find a girlfriend? I want a ladyfriend that accepts me as I am and would be willing to go through in vitro to carry my babies.

I'm 28, starting hormones next month and surprisingly skilled with make-up. Once hair removal takes its course, I should be passable despite my 6 foot tall frame and 18 inch wide shoulders. My voice sounds like a husky femme fatale from a 1950's film. I'm into goth make-up and noir dress. The confidence it'll inspire, along with my passability, will find me a woman to chose from. Where do I go to find her? What must I do to ensare my fellow switch in a druidic fury of plant snares that will crush our bodies close as copulation ensues?

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When I was 18 I was in a really bad car wreck. I slid my car off the road going about 50 and wrapped it around a big tree. The impact was right in the driver side door, and I was out cold until the ambulance arrived. So maybe 10-20 minutes? When I was in elementary and middle school I was a grade student, and always scored in the 99th percentile on all the standardized tests. I was in all the gifted programs, and even had my IQ tested in 7th grade, and scored 130. A lot of things came naturally to me. I had no problem remembering things, and concentrating for hours on reading books, and things like that. School was a breeze, and I got a 29 on the ACT, before the accident.

All this to say, I thought I was a pretty bright kid. But now I'm 21, and taking classes at a community college. I'm currently getting my ass handed to me in an anatomy and physiology class. No matter how many times I read the book, and ask questions it just doesn't make any fucking sense. Whatsoever. I really just can't wrap my mind around any of it. and it is a community college course. Granted, it is a lot harder than any other class I've taken, but I legitimately can't concentrate on it, and I feel like I can't learn any of it.

I can still read and comprehend "advanced" literature, like Dostoevsky and Julius Evola, and other dense philosophical pieces from the 19th and 20th centuries. I still have interests in the humanities, and I'm doing well in statistics, but for the life of me, I can't grasp any of this physiology bullshit.

Could it just be that I'm not interested, and therefore I'm unable to concentrate? Because it seems like with the things I'm interested in, I can at least make a little bit of headway. But trying to learn A&P is making me feel impaired. The doctors did several MRIs and cat scans, they said I was concussed, but didn't have permanent brain damage. So I'm not sure why I can't learn this shit, which I need for my major.

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I need advice on how to turn my life around before it's too late. I'm 23 year old and morbidly obese (450lbs). I have severe anxiety and depression to the point that I have zero motivation to do anything but wait for each day to end, even things I used to enjoy fail to hold my attention anymore and I even have to force myself to keep up on personal hygiene. I have no source of income and essentially leech off of friends to even have a place to live. My physical conditioning is non-existent so even simple things like household cleaning leave me tired out and in extreme pain. I only have a high school education so I'm not qualified for any worthwhile job or career, and even if I were I can't begin to think of a job or career I'd enjoy, and due to my poor physical health even simply standing for extended periods is nigh impossible.