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Option A:
>live in dorm with 4 people, 2 rooms 2 people each
>have money to get a car
Option B:
>live in a dorm with 2 people and i have a private room
>it's more like an apartment, not cramped like A
>no car, not immediately anyways
>I'm a male, pretty asocial, doing pre-engineering
What do you think? Any personal experience?
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Depends,if u have a high tolerance for annoying shit, if u want a good grade I advice u take the one with a private room
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>>18189241
Whichever is cheaper.
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>>18189241
Option b. You need privacy. Imagine jerking off. If you live in a dorm room, every one jerks off in the bathroom. Do you really want to jerk off where 3 other dudes already had?
Also, take the bus for a bit. It's not that bad. I used to, just get a bus pass.
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Fucking help me. Please.
So a bit of context:
Current relationship I'm in with gf has made my world and shit and God I love her. Recently, she's been talking about how she can't wait to have sex with me. I'm a virgin and she isn't, she's only been with a few guys in her life. She's really enthusiastic about wanting to fuck me and I don't know how to feel about this. I never much cared for sex as edgy as it sounds but now I feel a bit intimidated and well, I just don't know how to feel about this.
Wot do.
If you have a question, just ask.
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Have sex be safe, first time for most is almost always awkward, that's what makes it memorable
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>>18189246
I just feel like I'm get my dick blown the hell out. She wants into some pretty kinky stuff so like, how do I prepare for that?
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>>18189428
She knows your virgin so you can just ask to take the kinky stuff slow and just enjoy it.
Everyone would be nervous to jump into kinky stuff the very first time they have sex. Also sex is good only if both do enjoy it, talk to her.
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Hi s/adv/irgins,
In short:
> 24
> software engineer at a big company in London, earn a lot, save a lot, rent my own flat, killing it career/money wise for a while now
> don't drink/smoke/do drugs
> dress well/look good, too thin, have started working out again this year but will take a while longer to look great without a shirt on
> last "proper" relationship was 4 years ago
> 2 years ago had a short relationship with a girl that was a psycho; experience demoralized me and I took a big hit to my self-confidence
> since then nothing, haven't met lots of single women, the ones I'm interested in are taken
I don't think I'm depressed, but since my last experience, I've been periodically going through episodes of loneliness, in which I become very sad and lose energy to do things. I've tried using OkCupid and Tinder but I don't receive lots of matches, don't get replies to most of my messages, and haven't managed to date anyone through these apps in 3 years of on/off use. I've stopped using them because they eat up too much time for no results.
There aren't a lot of women at my workplace. I go to social gatherings with my friends but rarely are there women I don't already know at those. I used to go to meetups for stuff I'm interested in but those didn't have lots of women either. I travel a lot but it's mostly alone and I haven't had success meeting anyone so far that way.
I know I have a funneling problem. What can I do to fix it?
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Hit da club nigga
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>>18189178
> funneling problem
What does this mean?
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OP you are pretty much me, but younger. I am 29, work in a small town in the NYC area, make an ass ton of money for which I have no use for. Unlike you I do like to drink alcohol, my only hobbies are reading and playing video games. I travel once or twice around the world a year alone. Last and only relationship was two years ago.
Sometimes I think I am just wasting my fucking time. What's the point of grinding this money anyway?
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I'm probably sounding like an idiot, but I need help buying a new mattress. It sounds so simple, but wading through the endless stream of marketing, personal opinions and false information makes it really hard for me to make a decision.
how much money should I drop on a new mattress?
are ikea mattresses good enough or do I need to go to more expensive, specialized shops?
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>>18189166
Go to shop. Try very one and each of them personally with your own back.
Dont buy the cheapest and definitely dont buy the most expensive either.
I have found out mattresses from foam are easier to transport (you can roll them without damage), it doesnt alert your surroundings when you have sex and has 9999 options on hard / soft and other features.
Just ask clerk in shop to give you run down. It is very subjective which you want. Also take measures of your bed so you know the size of your bed.
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>>18189217
This, but also haggle them on the price. Write down the make and model of this mattress and threaten to take your business somewhere else.
The Markup on mattresses is insanely high, so you have a lot of space to negotiate.
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>>18189610
good to know!
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I just turned 18 and this is giving me a bit of anxiety...For awhile I wanted to do computer science but I'm just not good enough at math and my mom told me to make sure it's something I wanted to do
I wanted to do photography but my brother said photographers don't make a living so now I'm just really confused at what to do, I want a STEM career but like I said MATH (pic unrelated)
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Find the most comfy way to support yourself, then focus on your photography till you hit grandmaster level and can make a living off it.
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I'm studying Comp Sci right now and my math foundation was awful. I started at a community college, taking Intermediate Algebra and worked my way up yo Differential Equations.
If you tell yourself you're bad at math, you're only holding yourself back. Just take the classes and build a solid foundation. I spent hours upon hours studying but I got through the material and got accepted into a top 10 Uni for my major.
Just pursue it and I think you will surprise yourself.
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What are you good at?
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I'm not sure of my sexuality.
As of now I have a gf, and I am sexually turned on by her, however I have had crushes on other men. I could never picture a relationship with them though, only the sex portion. What's this mean?
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It means you're bi. Next question.
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>>18189111
Go to swimming pool. Stay in showers for a while and find out if some bqtie catches your eye.
And no, you can be bi sexual and still keep your gf. Get her into pegging / prostate massage to experimence both worlds.
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>i could never actually date men, i only have sex with them
-every gay guy before he realizes how gay he is
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should I buy crocs?
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>>18189110
Only as a last resort when you are about to walk on broken glass and there is nothing else.
>>>/fa/
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>>18189110
I use them at home and work (they are lucky I don't just wear socks). They are comfy as hell. If you are not concerned with getting laid, then wear them.
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Going for your dream job/life
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I'm hoping for some advice on pursuing your dream job or life. How did it work out for you? Did it crash and burn, were you successful? Where are you now? I'm just about the turn 30 and I have always made the safe decisions in life. Its worked out pretty well but I find myself overwhelmingly unsatisfied. I really feel my work life balance is probably totally screwed. Not to mention my once awesome state is being fucking overrun with people making cost of living rocket out of control. Even with a 6 figure income I watch the opportunity in my city dry up plus its just not the same place I grew up in and loved. My girlfriend and I are ready to move and start over from scratch, but like anyone I have the fear that if I'm unsuccessful I'll have shot myself in the foot. So people who said fuck it and moved and tried for their dream job and life, how did it go? Would you do it again success or failure?
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>>18189109
It depends. What's your dream job? Are you suddenly thinking of pursuing acting but have never hit the stage a day in your life? Want to write the next great American novel but haven't written anything more grandiose than an office memo in ten years? You're not gonna make it.
The problem is getting your dreams perverted and fucked with too, because so much shit is out of your control. I got a job doing social media for a division of SEGA, which was a total dream for me. I fucking loved it, creating content, doing stupid shit with Sonic, showing up to community events with games, etc. I got to flex my creative muscles and work for a company I loved. But they sold off that division, and instead I ended up with bosses who didn't give two shits about community or content, and I spent most of my time updating websites, filling out spreadsheets, and making Facebook ads to show profit, profit, profit. New leadership kept giving me more and more bullshit stuff that they thought they could force me to do, and I eventually ended up hating the job and the dream was dead.
But all of the profit driven shit I did pushed me into digital marketing, so while I do nothing creative now, I make 3x my former salary working for a much more successful company fucking with spreadsheets all day, with my dream of writing one day all but dead.
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tell us your dream job and we'll go from there.
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>>18189138
I currently work as a General Contractor, all the permitting and legal bullshit is making me go slightly crazy. Not to mention dealing with constant project delays fucking up time lines and job profit. I have been brewing beer for about 6 years and really enjoy it. So I would be looking at moving somewhere where there isn't a brewery and opening up shop in a tourist town or small city. I have never been able to work for a company so that is out of the question and I really would like to be out of construction. If it all goes to hell I'm sure I could go back into being a contractor but it would be less than desirable.
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I got fired and don't believe my boss's reasoning
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How do I get information out of my former boss to figure out why he fired me? I delivered pizzas for a new pizzeria in town for 4 months until last week. After my shift, before I even got home, my boss called and said it's been very slow and there's no more room in the schedule for me, so he has to let me go. I was one of three drivers and worked most days alone until the night rush, including 5 full days the week I was fired. Today I saw a car I didn't recognize with the pizza shop's topper on it, meaning they have another driver and probably were looking to replace me. I pick up my last check on Friday, how to ask my boss why he fired me without seeming like an ass?
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Stop being a bitch about it and ask him
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>>18189082
Of course I'm gonna ask him, but I want to do it smoothly so I get the truth and not a lie or him just telling me to go.
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>>18189075
his reasoning isn't going to change anything
get a different shit job, and preferably one where you don't have to abuse your own car.
>they give over paid warehouse salesman their own company cars and gas cards
>you have to drive down pothole ridden residence streets in your own personal vehicle to get a 2 dollar commission if you're lucky.
I get that the pizza sells itself, but it sure as shit doesn't deliver itself.
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I'm currently coming out of depression, and so now I feel emotions again, far more than I have for the past year (I was extremely apathetic). For example, I've started crushing on a girl, but it's making me feel like shit because I don't know if it'll work out etc.
Everything seems to give me massive mood swings and I'm afraid of falling back in to depression. I'm currently practising mindfulness but I am worried that is just going to make me apathetic again.
I can sometimes just let the feeling slide but it's very persistent. Any advice?
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>>18189066
Sports, meditation and a good weekly routine help you feel grounded.
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>>18189097
I've been missing out on sport recently due to illness, I'll have to get back to the gym. Thanks.
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>>18189066
To feel is wonderful. Now you must learn to control your emotions, this takes time.
Fear is paralyzing, it kills you dead. Find understanding of yourself somehow.
Are you on any drugs? And how is your physical health?
It takes time for your body mind and soul to recover from long term depression.
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>get set up on date.
>girl is fat, but still really cute
>laptop bag, thick glasses, frizzy red hair and freckles, like a fat nerdy brave.
>Say our hello's at the resteraunt.
>she has the tiniest, mousy voice, like Kristen Shcaal
>Dinner was ok, she was obviously shy, though she pounded back enough ribs to feed an African village, deffinately got her and my money's worth.
>Look up whats playing in theaters. Nothing either of us want to see, so go back to my place and watch a movie on my TV.
>Its a funny movie, but she laughs at absolutely nothing, and at one point pulls out her Laptop and starts playing games on it.
>apparently not a fan of Seth Rogan.
>Her desktop background is of a Predator.
>Ask if she wants to watch Predators.
>Says she's seen it too recently.
>Awkward silence as I sift through DvD's.
>She goes back to playing games.
>Fucking losing her... quick.
>Says no to Avengers, Deadpool, ect. ect.
>She hooks her computer up to the TV.
>We play some anime fighting game that she proceeds to destroy me on.
>She obviously is getting tired...
>She asks if she can crash on the couch, shes too tired to drive.
>Crashes on my couch.
>Was gone in the morning.
>Hasn't texted.
>Friend who set us up just tells me shes been busy.
She isn't calling me back is she.
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>>18188965
You fed a fat, rude, autist. Congrats and move on
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>>18188965
Where do you make a mode? I do not see it
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>>18188965
she will when she weants more ribs
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>dad's ex wife is a textbook narcissist
>divorced two years ago
>when they moved out of their rental she "accidentally" took some of dad's stuff
>stuff has no value to her (irreplaceable photos and family heirlooms)
>held this stuff hostage to dad for two years, refused to meet up like adults and give it to him, told him she destroyed the stuff, told him she has it in a storage, etc.
>she reached out to me about a month ago and asked if I we could meet up and I get the stuff
>I said okay, thinking this would be an easy transaction
>every weekend she has told me to save time for us to meet, she gives me a location we can meet at, I save the date
>only for her to cancel just an hour or two before
>she's done this to me every weekend for a month
>I have made time in my schedule to do this, and she cancels every damn time
>be today
>she wants to meet up at a random ass apartment over an hour (in traffic) from where I live
>unsure if she will cancel on me
>really wanted to bring my bf or just anyone with me so I'm not alone because she's a psycho
>everyone can't come with me because they're at work
If she cancels on me, what do? I am so fed up with this. I know if I show frustration towards her, she just immediately martyrs herself and threatens "W-well, I am just trying to give your dad his stuff back, if you don't want it I'll just throw it out." However, I feel like she's just gonna keep giving me the run around.
But, if this actually goes through, is meeting up with her alone a good idea? Should I tell her I can't until someone can come with me? A little back story, she tried to claim that my dad beat her when he didn't lay a hand on her, and literally almost destroyed his reputation considering the field he works in.
wat do
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>>18188890
Also, the apartment she wants to meet at, it isn't even her living area. It's literally a random apartment as far as I know. Maybe her friend's place, I have no idea. Also the exit is like bumfuck nowhere. Not even a restaurant for miles. I asked if we could meet up at a public place, and she said the front of the apartment is "public"
The whole thing has got me creeped out and I don't wanna go alone. If I cancel on her, we'll probably never see this stuff.
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Ya, you're going to die.
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>>18188890
Physical possessions aren't worth risking safety over, just let it be until/unless she'll meet you somewhere you're comfortable with, or you can bring someone with you.
It's just not worth risking your safety, and I'm sure your dad would rather you are safe than have the stuff.
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For the longest time I was your typical shut in. Recently I've been working on improving myself (dressing and grooming myself better, socializing more, having a better mentality, etc). I've recently noticed that in public, women are checking me out a lot, and while it's a nice confidence booster, it's something I still can't really get used to so it's triggered my natural aspie response of acting "cold and stoic" and gives them the idea I'm not interested. It's part being awkward and part being content with being alone a lot, for the most part.
This is still the opposite effect of what I want though, naturally. So if anyone has had a similar experience, of going from getting no attention from women to suddenly catching women checking you out a lot or anything of the sort, I'd like to hear about it, how you dealt with it, etc
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>>18188888
bump for these quints
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>>18188888
Opposite here, I was a normie who became a shut in because fuck other people.
Do yourself a favor and lie about your name and party with people in places you'll never revisit or do ever again so you can learn how to socialize with 0 consequences.
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>>18188888
Listen to Bateman >>18189000, the trips don't lie.
>be 20
>work min wage as receptionist at dead end job, $12 an hour and $2000 bonus given every 4-ish months.
>the comfiest fucking min wage job i could possibly get
>do nothing half the time because there aren't enough clients and then take 1 hour break.
>everyone loves everyone.
>will make around $20,000 to $30,000 this year.
>able to save more than 3/4ths of what i earn because i live with mum = $15-23k yearly
>no one to yell at me and no possibility of getting fired
so the only way i can/should leave this place is if the job i jump to pays nearly $20 an hour. how the hell am i suppose to do this?
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Sounds wrong.
20/ h is 41.6K
You make about 31K , which is 15/h max.
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>>18188887
If you're happy why would you quit. Stay happy until depression kicks in then look for something else.
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>>18188887
>how the hell am i suppose to do this?
You don't. They slapped the golden handcuffs on you.
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How long to wait to ask to be friends after a breakup and talk about what went wrong? I'm not fully over it yet.
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>>18188855
You don't.
Move on with your life.
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>>18188855
The best is never.
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>>18188865
This.
That desire to talk about it is strictly a product of the fact that you're still not over it. In time, you will be, and you'll be glad you never went groveling back about friendship or closure because you just won't fucking care anymore.