[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Search | Free Show | Home]

Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 1973. page

This is a blue board which means that it's for everybody (Safe For Work content only). If you see any adult content, please report it.

How much sex are young people having regularly (I'm talking about 18 year olds)?
Like once a week?
34 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
>>18195216
When I was 18, 4-6 times a week.
>>
>>18195216
>Like once a week?
Hahahaha, no
>>
None for me.

Didn't have sex till I was 23.

File: channing tatum.jpg (18KB, 400x400px) Image search: [Google]
channing tatum.jpg
18KB, 400x400px
My (ex) boyfriend and I had been together for 2 months. It was my 19th birthday yesterday and we got drunk together so I told him about a sexual experience I had 3 years ago. Basically there was this assistant teacher that I had a crush on and when I was 16 we fooled around (everything except penetration). When I told my boyfriend this he laughed and then got really quiet. For half an hour things were really quiet and awkward until he suddenly stood up and said he had to leave. When I asked him why he replied that he just wasn't sure about what I had just told him and he had to think about it. I got mad and asked him if he was so insecure that he couldn't even handle something silly like that that was 3 YEARS AGO. I didn't really mean to "attack" him like that but it made me angry that he would use something like that against me. He looked at me like I was crazy and said "are you fucking kidding me? we're done" and then left.

I don't know what happened. How do I approach this? How do I convince him to act like a normal person? How do I help him with his insecurities so we can be a normal couple? I don't know what to do...
130 posts and 16 images submitted.
>>
>but it made me angry that he would use something like that against me
You are interpreting things wrong here. I don't think he is using something against you. He is just uncomfortable with what he heard.
It's pretty weird to be "fooling around" with an adult in his twenties when you are just a 16 year old girl. I get that girls are attracted to older guys and guys are attracted to younger girls, but that's just gross and worrying.

>How do I convince him to act like a normal person?
Lol, why don't you consider for a second that you are in the wrong here and that it isn't your boyfriend acting "unnormal".

Anyways. Tell him you are sorry that you got angry yesterday and then give him time to swallow what he heard. If he can accept it, he will come back.
>>
Keep your mouth shut about past sexual history. No man interested in you wants to hear about you fucking or sucking someone else.

If you want him back, apologize. And mean it. Stop trying to change him, because he's right to feel disgusted by you if he has invested himself emotionally in you.

>insecurity

He doesn't wanna hear your hoe stories, accept that or find a cuck. It's emasculating and degrading.

You're only 19 though, so you probably don't understand how that can hurt someone. Not entirely your fault. But yeah, work on it if you like him.
>>
>>18195208
I hope is bait.

You were wrong for flipping out over what was a reasonable and respectful request to take some time to himself.

That story is, frankly speaking, somewhat disturbing. You know all those news stories you read about "Teacher Arrest for Sexual Affair w/ Underraged Student"? Well that's you. You just told him you did that. Who wouldn't be freaked out by that?

What's more, you confirm the fact that you were immature at the time for engaging in such a relationship and remain immature for not understanding how someone could find it disturbing by flipping out the way you did.

File: Success with Woman.gif (2MB, 2272x2783px) Image search: [Google]
Success with Woman.gif
2MB, 2272x2783px
So I made some friends through church, they're nice encouraging people.

I'm listening to Frank Sinatra and I'm pretty happy. But I'm only having happy feelings toward suicide.

It's not that bad? I mean 7 billion people are alive right now I don't think I shouldn't be allowed to do it?

It just upsets people when I mention it and it's mostly all I think about.

I'm leaning toward yes and I want encouragement to do so basically.
6 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18195154
Your pic and post seem to be unrelated on the surface.
>>
If you die in your sin and without Jesus, you have all eternity to regret it. Making friends is nice but the most important thing is your SOUL. God exists and He wouldn't have sent his Son to die if it weren't of absolute necessity.

John 3:16
>>
>>18195171
You christians are pagans.

What is the most alpha way to greet a girl upon meeting her?

I'm meeting a girl in an hour, and I'm planning to hug her, kiss her on the cheek and tell her she "looks great and smells even better".

Do you think this is cool, or am I overdoing it?
27 posts and 4 images submitted.
>>
>>18195119
dont bring up smell thats just generally kind of creepy
>>
>>18195123
Really? Since girls put an effort into smelling nice, I would imagine they'd enjoy a compliment on that.
>>
>>18195134

most products that are advertised as 'making you smell nice' are a polite way of saying 'at least you don't smell like armpit'

not about smelling good its just making sure you dont smell like a gym sock. same with guys and cologne

File: 3f0bbb40e98584ad.jpg (254KB, 869x1248px) Image search: [Google]
3f0bbb40e98584ad.jpg
254KB, 869x1248px
Why is it so hard being an ex-Muslim?

I can't stand those fucking hypocrite people and force me being religious. I live in fucking europe and everyone in germany is like: "sadly, people here try to create hate against muslims, bla bla". Why is everyone in europe so fucking tolerant towards this shit ideology and their people?

. If I would ever say I'm an ex muslim, I would be worth shit to them and my family. The worst thing is that every religious muslim thinks that everyone who doesn't believe their crap is automaticaly worth 0 and you're like instant dead for them. You won't have any rights to speak or talk, even when you were a great friend or whatever, they would just call you "unbeliever" behind your back. If you ever say that you don't believe in Islam anymore, they will just betray you and talk behind your back like fucking rats

I hate this fucking thinkwise and the "we're so tolerant, let us mix everything up, because we're the same", it feels so fake and I hate the fact that I'm born as a muslim. I just hate it everytime if someone asks me what religion I follow. I'm glad I don't believe in this shit anymore. I want to be free finally

I'm really scared about the future in europe and I'm scared that the majority of the people here would be muslims in the next 20 years..

This ain't a /pol/ or whatever you call it thread, im deadly serious.

Sorry, english isnt my native language
52 posts and 4 images submitted.
>>
>>18195105
Cos you left the true path.
>>
>>18195105
>I'm really scared about the future in europe and I'm scared that the majority of the people here would be muslims in the next 20 years..

>This ain't a /pol/ thread

Sure.
>>
>>18195127
what makes you think it's a /pol/ thread?

File: FrownyFace.jpg (29KB, 620x397px) Image search: [Google]
FrownyFace.jpg
29KB, 620x397px
Is premature cumming your own fault and something you need to get a grip on?
10 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Yes and no

There are usually deep psychological causes to that condition, and some physical / psychosomatic factors from your lifestyle can have a great impact. For example, my sexual stamina and the quality of my erections suffered greatly during times where I was very stressed with work and slept very poorly, with little physical activity.

Overall it's usually a sign that you need to improve your lifestyle / health conditions, but if that doesn't do it you might have to look into deeper causes.
>>
Is not dealing with it being inconsiderate to your partner?
>>
>>18195156

>Is not dealing with it being inconsiderate to your partner?

No. Not giving appropriate foreplay is inconsiderate to your partner. Dealing with a physical condition is not an obligation you have for anyone but yourself. You SHOULD work into feeling more healthy, mentally and physically, and it'll help your orgasms. But never associate it with a duty to your partner, it's counter productive. A lot of it can come from you feeling stressed or some kind of performance anxiety, and telling yourself this is work that you should do to keep your partner happy is about the most self defeating thing you can do in that situation.

Alternatively, if you're the partner in question, it could be that your premature ejaculator boyfriend is just sexually selfish. It's impossible to know without more information, but suffice to say it's a complex issue that is never solved by putting pressure on the other person.

File: hands.jpg (26KB, 830x553px) Image search: [Google]
hands.jpg
26KB, 830x553px
Wondering if anyone could help me, I constantly feel like my hands are dry and chalky unless they are smothered in hand cream. When they feel dry it honestly makes me want to puke when I touch anything slightly rough/texture, even paper. I feel like my hands are hypersensitive to everything.

I have arthritis and reynauds although they're not so bad now the weather is heating up.

How can I sort this out and be able to touch things and not feel like my hands are dry?
6 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Anyone?
>>
Umm, soak them in water?
>>
>>18195070
Go to a therapist. This is a hypersensitivity issue and they have methods of dealing with this.

File: 123148jve9vq9v39plybvq.jpg (98KB, 740x1110px) Image search: [Google]
123148jve9vq9v39plybvq.jpg
98KB, 740x1110px
>Best friend's rent went up and wants me to move in with him

Pros:
I can fuck my friend as much as I wanted. No homo.
It's closer to my work then where I live now. (12-15 vs 30-35 min)
Cheaper than most places in that area
He's got two cats that are fucking awesome

Cons:
Paying rent
Living with an extremely lazy smart-ass friend.
He's got two cats that shit. A lot.

As of right now I'm living rent free with my rents without any worry. Will end in a year or so though. I should be saving more of the money I make, but I'm also lazy with funds. However I do have a decent amount stashed for living on my own with crippling debt in about 3-4 years.

Thoughts? Opinions? Questions?
10 posts and 5 images submitted.
>>
How much is the rent?
>>
File: lolibaka.com_586104.jpg (205KB, 627x885px) Image search: [Google]
lolibaka.com_586104.jpg
205KB, 627x885px
>>18194997
$460 a month
>>
My only real problem is if I say yes and then when/if I find a better job and it requires me to move. I'll feel like shit saying, "Welp, it's been fun while it lasted, but I must move on."

Which further pulls me away from wanting to move in with any of my close friends. However out of all of them this guy I know for a fact would pay his rent.

File: straps.jpg (891KB, 1836x2342px) Image search: [Google]
straps.jpg
891KB, 1836x2342px
What should I do with the straps of my school backpack? I leave them hanging but I feel like I look dorky because they're very long.

I don't want to cut them because the threads would just unravel then

Wat do? Wat do you do?

Posted that on /wsr/ yesterday and was redirected here. I got the advice of rolling them up and duct tape them, but I feel like that would look even dorkier
6 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Cut And use lighter to burn the end
>>
cut, fold and sew a hem where the end meets the strap... pretty simple enough. Sewing machine'll look cleaner but by hand should work since i doubt anyones nose'll be all up in your strap business
>>
The straps aren't the only part of the bag that looks dorky.

File: 035.png (79KB, 457x472px) Image search: [Google]
035.png
79KB, 457x472px
So I just tried to post on a board from my mobile phone using mobile data and not my home wifi.
and it said I was banned from August 2015. But the thing is, is that I only started using this site in January and my phone is brand new.
It also said my appeal for the ban was rejected, which is even weirder, because now I know this is something i'm not involved with.
Is it possible someone had my mobile data IP address before me from 2 years ago?
Can someone explain to me what all this is about?
6 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18194951
You see, there are ~4 bilions IPv4 addresses. In practical terms, only ~2 bilions are usable in every day scenarios.

And the number of online users grows each day. We are in process of adopting IPv6 to counter this problem, but that wont become standard in a looooong way.

So now when you connect to internet, you (in most cases) share your IP address with others people (from same ISP). That said, if somebody behaved like an asshole on 4chan and got ban, he could switch ISP (there are 999 ways how to get new IP) and you are just innocent victim.

If you really care, contact your ISP that you want to buy (or rent) your own STATIC PUBLIC IP. Note that most ISP will simply tell you to fuck off.

>>>/g/
>>
>>18194951
I can't post from my phone either due to my IP being banned. Mobile IPs are used a lot and idiots from the past can fuck you. Take it as a blessing, too much time spent here is horrible for your mind
>>
>>18194951
Drive a mile in any direction and reboot your phone.

Not sure why your appeal was denied. Perhaps they couldn't figure out from the IP address that it was cellular data?

File: Fight_club_RVB_72 (1).jpg (1MB, 2126x3007px) Image search: [Google]
Fight_club_RVB_72 (1).jpg
1MB, 2126x3007px
What did it all mean?
9 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
File: ced.jpg (19KB, 480x360px) Image search: [Google]
ced.jpg
19KB, 480x360px
take what you will
>>
>>18194917
Materialism is garbage and that the only way to succeed is to gain influence and success through your will to power.
>>
Don't let yourself become a nice guy or you will explode in vindictive rage one day.

File: beard.jpg (786KB, 4841x3632px) Image search: [Google]
beard.jpg
786KB, 4841x3632px
Hey /adv/

I started using Minoxidil for beard growth about one week ago and already see a little progress. Altough most of users say they first saw progress about after one month so I'm very satisfied with it.

I wanted to ask, does anyone here have experience with it.

Also I was wondering as many say that after 6 months the beard is terminal and it's no problem to stop using Minoxidil as the beard stays. Wanted to know: Will minoxidil kill the natural beard growth? Or after using it there still grows more hair?
8 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18194886
You are fucking stupid for haven't researched it. Once you stop using it your hair goes away. And it will only be babyhairs that you'll get not big ones.
>>
Minoxidil's effects dont last, treatment must be continued indefinitely.

It's literally a waste of money.
>>
>>18194886
>beard growth
Lol. You are an idiot. You either have one or dont. Be haooy you dont have to shave often. I hate shaving and hate beards.

Swallowing pills is mostly unhealthy. Read its side effects
https://www.drugs.com/amp/sfx/minoxidil-side-effects.html

File: hobbes.gif (19KB, 1680x1050px) Image search: [Google]
hobbes.gif
19KB, 1680x1050px
I've been wondering about my girlfriends relationship with her younger brother (2yrs) growing up. When I first met her, it seemed like a normal sibling thing; text or call every so often or see each other at holidays

What bothers me is her attachment to his ex girlfriend. When they broke up, these two girls started hanging out more and more. Like the ex latched onto my girlfriend as a way of not moving on and my girlfriend filling the void of not seeing her brother. She isn't really that great of a person hence why he moved onto a better deal

Anything this girl says my girlfriend gleefully goes along. Girl: "I want to go to the city!" Girlfriend: "OMG great idea! let's go!" whereas if I say the same thing, its more like "let me look to see if I'm free that day" blah blah excuses

I feel like this is going to become a misery loves company type deal. I've brought it up but I'm sure she won't see it or believe it until I'm out of the picture

Anybody ever deal with this before?
6 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18194844
yes. It's always a shock when you first realize you are not the first priority in your gf or wife's life though it may have appeared so for a short time.
>>
>>18194844
It sounds like you're a little jealous.

It's normal for girls to treat other girls differently than they treat guys. She might TELL the girl "omg yeah let's go!" But what she's thinking is "that sounds fun as long as I'm free that day".
She just knows that it's better to respond positively when making plans with this girl- maybe she's trying to impress her or gain her approval for self confidence?

At any rate, it's not that wierd and you shouldn't read in to it or compare yourself to a relationship that is obviously very different than the one that you have with her for understandable reasons.
>>
>>18194867
>trying to impress her or gain her approval for self confidence

this is part of it. of her other better friends, it's this girl she's latching onto

File: cPumWMS[1].png (18KB, 392x320px) Image search: [Google]
cPumWMS[1].png
18KB, 392x320px
Why do I get a "connection error" every time I try to post from the quick reply window on this dumbass board ? It's ONLY on this fucking board, and it's a constant across computers and IPs, at work, at home, at school.

It's been several years too.
9 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
>>18194837
disable addblock you retard
>>
>>18194841
Nice try, NSA.

But it's true, OP.
>>
>>18194837
It's because adblockers detect the url for posting on /adv/ as an ad (because of the name). Create an exception rule.

File: 2016-01-31 21.41.06.jpg (41KB, 500x710px) Image search: [Google]
2016-01-31 21.41.06.jpg
41KB, 500x710px
> be me
> 19, mentally ill piece of shit
> cant get a real job, become camwhore
> struggle with anorexia
> discover pro-ana shit and use it to fuel my eating disorder
> start losing weight after months of being 'recovered'
> pic kind of related, leg goals
> how do i stop being a piece of shit
> where are my fellow pieces of shit i dont like being alone in this
113 posts and 16 images submitted.
>>
ugh... i remember my pro-ana phase. that shit wasn't healthy.

anyways, seek therapy and find ways to occupy yourself that aren't food and looks.

but damn i remember how wonderfull it feels to have an empty stomach for days and see the scale go down.
>>
File: 3247234478485.jpg (5KB, 281x180px) Image search: [Google]
3247234478485.jpg
5KB, 281x180px
>>18194807
>>
>>18194812
but everybody cares about your tfnogf posts, right?

Pages: [First page] [Previous page] [1963] [1964] [1965] [1966] [1967] [1968] [1969] [1970] [1971] [1972] [1973] [1974] [1975] [1976] [1977] [1978] [1979] [1980] [1981] [1982] [1983] [Next page] [Last page]

[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Search | Top | Home]

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


If you need a post removed click on it's [Report] button and follow the instruction.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com.
If you like this website please support us by donating with Bitcoins at 16mKtbZiwW52BLkibtCr8jUg2KVUMTxVQ5
All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties.
Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from that site.
This means that RandomArchive shows their content, archived.
If you need information for a Poster - contact them.