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>go out
>get tipsy
>feels good mang
>dancing like igdgaf
>see cutie from class
>approach her and we start making out
>find somewhere with more privacy
>she wants me to "be rougher"
>start biting and sucking her neck
>don't know what I'm doing but she digs it
>says "don't give me a hickey"
>ok
>ask her if she wants to go back to my place
>says "i'm not that easy"
>make out some more
>puts my hand on her breast, outside of bra
>starts caressing my dick, outside of pants
>i say "i can go back to your place"
>she says "i'm not sleeping with you, i'm not looking for anything i just wanna dance and have fun"
>mfw getting blue balled
>go home alone
>i have her on FB, so i message her two days later "so, did i end up giving you a hickey? just lowkey wondering"
>4 hours later, no reply hasn't even opened it
>mfw i ruined it
is there hope or did i fuck it all up
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Hope for what? If she was being genuine and just wanted to have fun i wouldn't be hoping for anything
Plus that's a weird message to send i feel like. Unopened though so i guess you wait and see what happens
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>>18190520
don't lose sleep over it, m8. if she's into it, she'll get back to you. you should be out there on the grind looking for new girls either way. she's definitely does not sound like girlfriend material.
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>>18190534
i don't actually know what i was trying to achieve by messaging her.. an autistic move for the books that's for sure
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>gf likes going to EDM shows
>I literally enjoy listening to my own shits more than EDM
>want both of us to have that activity where we can have time to ourself
>OK with letting this be her thing but don't want her to slut around
Is it at all possible?
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>>18190502
>>OK with letting this be her thing but don't want her to slut around
Then why did you pick a girl who goes to EDM shows? You might as well buy a chastity cage for yourself, cuck.
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>>18190502
EDM shows are filled with frat guys, sweaty smelly people, slutty women, and druggies... Which one is your gf? If shes neither; shes going to be surrounded by retards doing retarded things. So yes, she might be a slut if she goes alone, chances go up if she goes with her equally stupid friends.
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>>18190651
Women will always encourage other women to cheat. She will go with her friends for sure.
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I'm thinking about gaining weight. Something about being bed ridden and constantly eating kinda excites me. What is the best and healthiest way to gain 400lbs?
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>>18190497
go on to tumblr. there are a lot of feederism blogs on there. and you'll also get validation for wanting to be a fatty.
Well anons, shit really hit the fan today.
I've been dating this girl for almost 2 years, and it crashed in flames today. We thought it'd be forever for the longest time, but it was too damn good to be a reality. Recently I've been thinking about killing myself, things in life have been horrid, this is just the icing on the cake. Part of me wants to stick around, and try to pursue being a musician as it's always been the thing that's made me happy, but the other half of me is done, i sold everything away for her and of course it fucking all went down the drain. i dont have any family that cares really, my relationship with my father is sour cause he was abusive to me as a child, mom and sis love me but i think they'd be better off. most of my friends are online, so i doubt anyone would notice me being gone really. the only thing thats keeping me here is my love of the sound of sweet music, the desire i have to create music, and my fear of death. my girlfriend was on that list but she's gone, and as much as i want to moap and say i love her, cause i do, i just want to wipe her from my mind. so anons, i have nothing but music again, and im not even good at it.
So anons, should i stick around and try to pursue a career thats almost literally impossible for me to succeed, if so, how do i find that motivation, cause with all of this shit its gone. If things are too fucked, how do i overcome my fear of death, and what are some good methods of going out that won't hurt too much and leave too much of a mess.
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I usually just spend my time alone. I've developed a caring for all living beings and i slowly started to feel happier with the freedom to be myself for once without having to deal with others expectations.
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>>18190506
You can find enjoyment from slow progression on improving your craft
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I don't want to sound like I'm saying you should let yourself crash and burn to find the motivation, but sometimes in our darkest places when we have nothing else, we turn to those passions we thought we had no motive for. Play your heart out, find distractions and push through.
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Hello /adv/ help me out if you can.
Short story:
Known this girl, a work mate, for a year. Got on like a house on fire right from the off but she had a long term boyfriend (5+ years). Me 28 her 31. Got the hots for her big time but I thought someone of her age in a 5 yr relationship was basically a 0% shot for me. Hang out all the time at work and with the odd weekend hangout, often with another coworker of mine (female).
We've always been flirty and touchy - not in a romantic way but a silly way - play wrestling, me bear hugging and picking her up etc. when we get drunk we do silly things like she'll spit water on me, been in a food fight in a restaurant. for people of our age in a professional environment probably a little bit inappropriate but not ridiculous for the workplace we were in.
Anyway, about a month ago she broke up with her boyfriend, to my surprise. This also coincided with me leaving the company for another job, still in the same city and very close to where we all live and work.
Got a bit of Dutch courage at my going away drinks and put my hands around her waist which she didn't seem to mind. Unfortunately had to go to a dinner with her and the aforementioned other work mate and whilst I was holding her around the shoulder for the walk nothing happened after then. I think the other girl has a thing for me and my crush is probably mindful of it.
Here we are a month later and I haven't seen her that much, apart from a group exercise thing and another dinner recently unfortunately again with the third wheel above. She hadn't sought me out in that period, but we were on the cusp of some of our usual drunken silliness before he evening ended and we all walked home. Even though she lives so close, with the way our houses are I would never has pretense to walk her home.
Anyway, what do now? I'm thinking of sending her a text asking what she's doing on Friday, as I know our common friend is busy. It's just tough to see where I stand. Any advice?
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>>18190425
call her and suggest you go on a date
also, don't hold back too much
there's probably a ton of tension between you two
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>>18190461
Call or text? I had been leaning towards a text asking her for drinks but without being blatant about what I want from her, however I know that's the cowardly crap that women hate. You reckon a flat out phone call asking to go on a date is the way to go? In deep friend zone territory so I know it might sound strange as fuck to say "do you want to go on a date?" Or is it?
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>>18190476
>Call or text?
i'd just text and ask her straight up
if you can't convince her to open up at all then just move on
if she opens up a little you'll just have to keep chatting for a bit
if she opens up a lot then suggest going on a date (as long as she's not being overly depressive/complaining, then you should probably consider avoiding)
but honestly, there is no guarantee no matter how bad you want this one person that you will have her.
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Meet this girl on tinder about 2 months ago
We went on a date and really hit it off. Liked similar music, kept conversation going the whole time etc etc
Skip forward about a week and we're officially together and enjoying ourselves. Still no dull moments at all, hanging out everyday that we both didn't work after uni and sometimes hanging out after work. This is about 3 days a week and usually 5 nights we spend together
Some of the nights we fuck, others we just chill
So after knowing each other about 3 or 4 weeks spring break comes along and she invites me to myrtle beach with her friends
We all have a good time. Only one weird moment i couldnt get off during sex because i was super dehydrated but that's whatever
Fast forward to the next week and we're back to school still doing fine
That weekend while I'm at a friends she calls me and says she needs time to herself and basically ends it there
She would always tell me about how I'm the nicest guy she's ever met, she really doesn't want to fuck up the relationship, she loves spending time with me etc
It just popped out of nowhere
Tried just being friends because i don't want to go back to being an antisocial fuck
Went to a local concert together and i spent the night at her place after. After she fell asleep she kept unconsciously cuddling me and i brought it up the next morning. She apologized
Make plans to hang a few days later
Few days later just a few hours before she says she can't do this just friends thing
Im just so destroyed from her. Previous year long relationships didn't mean shit compared to the one month spent with this girl. All i want is her back in my life i dont even care about the relationship anymore (although that would be nice to have still)
I guess i just don't know how to go about getting her back or if i should bother with her anymore
TL;DR
Got with girl, girl left, i just want that social life back
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Feel like i should also mention
Was depressed for a long time but worked on myself and was better about 3 months before i met her
Now this passed month without her had been awful
Suicidal, constantly upset and sad
I've started hallucinating but idk if it's connected to her but I've been having like visions of people dying
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Always did shit for her too
Would drive 40 minutes to her place late at night with food because she was lonely
I just don't understand where the "i need time for myself" came from
Literally the only explanation that makes sense is that I'm too good for her and her subconscious couldnt just let it happen
So she left without really knowing why and made up a bullshit excuse
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>>18190525
Seems like you have a classic situation. She's not for you man, women will often be flaky like this. It's probably not your fault (tho you could have been a little too clingy or something that women are turned off by).
Let her go. She's got problems and it's not your job to fix them
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How do you get over someone that you thought would be your forever? Is there hope of getting back together and if so how does that work?
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There's no hope of getting back together and it actually being fulfilling and good. There is hope in that you will eventually come to terms with the fact that it's over, and be able to feel deeply about another person again.
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the highschool girl at my job who I would totally do but I don't want to deal with the potential legal troubles?
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It depends. If they were your spouse/significant other for years and you had a meaningful relationship, sure there's a chance you can try and work out your differences.
If it's a one sided affair where you crushed on them hard for like a few weeks or months then move on. It doesn't matter what you said and did and it won't matter now. The only thing perfect was your fantasy of it.
Any anons have experince with black women?
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Also im white
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>>18190382
If they're quiet and introverted, treat them as if they're a white girl
If they're loud and extroverted, be ballsy and a bit touchy. Be sure they like you though
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>>18190454
Okay, are the extroverted ones blatent about their interest or are they the same as other girls?
Alright, so I got this cute ginger sophomore girl's number about a week ago.
My end goal is to make this girl a long term gf and my prom date. (Prom is May 13)
With this is in mind this is in hard mode. My phone is broken and access to social media online is blocked.
So I have to do everything in person.
How should I start talking to this girl out of the blue?
Should I approach when she's with her friends?
I'm 5'11" 180 and in good shape if that matters.
>pic unrelated
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I think you're pretty well off just talking to her irl since that seems like your only option. Is she in anyof your classes?
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>>18190395
No, but I see her every other class day with her friends.
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>>18190368
>long term gf
it's hard to do, but make sure she is of good character to the extent that you can without ruining your relationship with her
women want commitment. if you want her to be long-term gf, invite her to an outing with you and your friends to show that you're including her in your life and not ashamed of her in any way
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Odd question, but is it ok to be a 27 year old attractive dude and never have had a girlfriend before?
I've had female friends make jokes about me "meeting so many girls" (which isn't true at all, they just assume this). Shit like that makes me feel really pressured.
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>>18190366
>pressured
stressed by it or pushed by your female friends to date?
also obligatory post face if you're pretty anyway
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Yes dear, it's fine.
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>>18190388
>pushed by your female friends to date?
I guess stressed. My female friends don't know I've never had a girlfriend. For some reason they assume I mess around with girls a lot (which I don't). I have no idea why they assume this.
>post pic
No.. I don't think I'm attractive. Infact I feel really unattractive. But I've had people tell me otherwise. I'm not trying to be an attention whore.
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should I give up on my childhood dreams and get newer more mature ones?
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>>18190347
That depends on what your childhood dreams are.
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What are your childhood dreams and what probability do you have of accomplishing them?
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>>18190348
making videogames.
right now I want to change it to becoming a writer and musician.
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Mother favors abusive oldest son.
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So I have this brother who has been an abusive prick ever since I was young. He would throw things, push, and hit me as well as verbally torment me if I ever did anything to annoy him. Did I mention he's almost 30 and still living at home? Yeah.
Whenever I tell our mom about this she would blame me for it. Saying I shouldn't have done this or that, basically anything to claim his innocence.
Here's the thing, before a month ago she didn't like him either but now she 'wants to have a better relationship with her kids' so she's starting to show blatent favoratism towards him.
I already have horrible anxiety and panic attacks as it is but now that I know I will not even be slightly believed when he attacks me... I feel trapped.
I'm trying to just avoid him and keep from thinking about him but my mother just doesn't understand why I feel uncomfortable when she sings his praises around me. And I feel she thinks I'm being overly sensitive or paranoid because she equates panic attacks as being crazy.
I don't know what to do, guys...
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Next time your brother does some bullshit to you, call him right the fuck out in front of your mom. He needs to know his place.
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>F 17
does this look like reddit
regardless, about your actual problem: you need to assess what you can do to make your situation better.
Your brother sounds unstable as fuck and there's no way you'll change him
Your mother doesn't exacty sound reliable either, and to take decisions like "have a better relationship with him" when he's 30, and going about it that way sounds like extreme bullshit. I'd advise against your trying to change her mind/making her see the light. Been there done that, and again, this situation has been going on for 30 years, there's only so much a 17yo living at home at the mercy of these adults can do.
So the most useful thing you can do is to focu on yourself, and on your system of support. Talk about this situation when you need to let off steam, but try to keep your whole life from being affected by this issue. If you find yourself stressing about it daily even though there's nothing you can do or nothing of note even happened that day, then its problematic.
Find friends you can talk to about this but don't drown them in it. If there's free counseling/therapy at your school, go there, it helps a lot. Talk about this on /adv/ too but don't, don't rely on it as your only platform. Face-to-face conversations are 10 times better. Treat yourself ever so often, and don't hate yourself for fucking hating the situation.
If you can distanciate yourself from this toxic situation, do it: this could be getting a non-stressful job that keeps you away from home, going to friends' places, to the library a lot, anything. I managed to board at my school for my last year of high school and it did fucking wonders for everyone involved.
And always remember: you're dealing with a manchild and somewhat of a womanchild. Any arguing won't convince them and will only rile you up for nothing. You're 17, and some people (friends or adults) won't take you seriously or understand the scope of what is going on. Find people you trust.
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Definitely get out asap. I am assuming the place you live in states that when you turn 18 you are a legal adult. If that is the case and you plan on going to university or college, I highly recommend moving out, with or without letting them know (your choice). Either live on student res if you can afford it, find a room on Craigslist, or ask a friend if they are willing to take you in and let you live with them while you study.
There is no sense in keeping such negative people in your life, especially if they are your triggers for anxiety/panic attacks.
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i've decided to quit accounting and major in cinematography...and i've been happy full of dopamine all day and less anxiety...i wanted to live lavishly, but i realized if im really good at what i love (which wont be a pain) i can make more than them...and in california they start off with 60k a year....this may sound weird but i'm scared i might get alzheimers when i'm old because i don't understand calculus...someone prove me wrong...
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10/10 would honor kill
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>>18190309
wew. Did you come here and post all that just for attention and validation? It was a dumb decision. Maybe you'll get Alzheimer's so you won't have to worry about remembering it.
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>>18190309
>but i realized if im really good at what i love (which wont be a pain) i can make more than them
oh boy
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There was something I was thinking about going to my program coordinator for, but I'm not sure if I should.
Basically, from what I could tell, a test I took today had 100% of its answers in the review our prof gave us. Word for word or very identical to the exact answers. We could bring our own notes to reference during the test, and those that happened to bring a copy of the review basically had a free pass on the test. No thinking needed, just copy the notes they brought with them. There will be other classes taking this test later in the week, and as they learn this news they’ll get easy As too.
I wasn’t one of those people. The test’s questions covered only two questions/topic that were on the review, but there was A LOT more we were told to study for. I wrote 30+ pages of notes for this test but they were almost completely useless because the clear majority of what we were told to study wasn’t on there. ¾ of the test was about a single topic I barely studied for because I was so focused on everything else.
Do I have a right to be angry? Is there any point in bringing this up with a higher power?
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>>18190244
>do i have the right to be angry
of course, there is no legal restrictions on being angry.
>is there any point in bringing this up with a higher power
god cannot save you.
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>>18190244
>Do I have a right to be angry?
No, you win some you lose some. Your fault for not bringing the review your fucking prof gave you. You fucked up.
>Is there any point in bringing this up with a higher power?
Dont be a snitch you fucking narc.
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>>18190250
I just find it unfair that people who don't study or understand the material could expect an A, while I'd be screwed over of not not thinking to bring the review answers with me among all the other things I had. I assumed that what I had would be good enough, and that the review was meant to practice the course's material, not the actual material for the test.
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/adv/ I fucking need help, please don't ignore this.
I feel like I am losing the battle with my demons. I feel worthless, like no one really wants me except my family, I have low self-esteem and self-confidence. I don't know what to do, I hate myself and can't bring myself not to. I am not looking for a therapist I just want someone to understand what I am going through and help me through it, but no one can offer me advice or help. I feel like I am fucked in the head and that I am a lost cause because no one wants to hang out with that guy who has issues.
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I plan on jumping off the GW bridge. Wanna join?
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mP-BD4HdGo
This man has the cure for your battle with demons. Please check out his videos for advice.
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>>18190238
No thanks, I'm too far away. I am scared to die anyways.