Is going on a date with the same person once a week too often?
I'm starting to overthink things again and it's really fun
>>18189642
Are you retarded? My gf of 3 years who lived over 60 miles away from me was pissed that I would only hang out with her once a week because the drive was a bitch and I hate long drives.
Once a week is fucking standard. I'd be more worried if you were doing it less than more.
>>18189642
It depends on the girl, but I think most of the normal ones would be flattered the more you'd like to see them. Just fucking ask her what she wants, how are you going to get into a relationship if you can't communicate with her?
>>18189642
Depends on her personality. If she's really introverted, between that and newness of the relationship, it might be off-putting. Anything other than high introversion and you should be fine.
Is being celibate unhealthy and should be of concern? I jerk off/use sex toys and look at porn instead.
18m
>>18189628
As long as you don't abstain from release all together you'll be fine.
>>18189628
27m and virgin, same "hobbies".
because of relationship failures I started not to care and enjoy being alone. I plan to stay celibate as long as possible to avoid emotional rollercoaster. I'm currently trying no-porn no-fap because it's no more sane for my perception of sex.
You will know when fapping will become a problem. As for being in long-term celibacy I think it is OK as long as you maintain normal contact with women to not starting to consider them as self-centered stupid cunts, which is a defense mechanism that can naturally develop in this situation.
>>18189773
>I'm currently trying no-porn no-fap because it's no more sane for my perception of sex.
>You will know when fapping will become a problem. As for being in long-term celibacy I think it is OK as long as you maintain normal contact with women to not starting to consider them as self-centered stupid cunts, which is a defense mechanism that can naturally develop in this situation.
Why bother with any of this? If you resign yourself and don't care, what's the point of keeping this sort of maintenance?
Welp you sons of bitches didn't give me any advice last night and I scored a 60 on the ASVAB today. 5 points is all I needed. 5 FUCKING POINTS.
All jokes aside though, My recruiter claims the math portion is what sunk my score. Any ideas on improving for a re-take a month from now?
otherwise i'll be joining the navy. They'd take me with my score.
Haha. Seriously that shit was easy for me. But if you can retake in a month find a asvab math study guide and just study. You DO not want to goto the Navy. Airforce or Coast Guard is where it's at. Don't settle for less.
>>18189666
You're right, I'll keep studying but I don't want to leave anything to chance and not make it this time. It's because I have a g.e.d they want to make sure I'm not a tard.
>>18189666
>>18189666
seriously DO NOT GO NAVY. NAVY IS TERRIBLE.
Air Force is ight, I'm currently in it.
Coast Guard looks fucking cozy. I would've joined that if I knew the up&up.
>be me
>18, just lost virginity last night.
>lasted a decent amount of time, like 40 minutes (she was surprised by this, and she said so).
>wanted to eat her out.
>she says no, that she doesn't like it, and gets off from actual penetration.
>I say okay, and we have sexual intercourse for the sole purpose of recreation.
>she says she did get off, and I sort of felt her body twitch like she did, but I don't know (having never been with anybody before).
>she says sex was fine, but I was "pretty good" especially since it was my first time (I should probably mention that she knew this beforehand).
>I didn't even really enjoy it though. She says she had fun, and she was pretty happy afterwards, I could tell, but it felt weird the whole time, and I couldn't even really finish (I sort of did, but I didn't even really feel it and it was only after I pulled out when she said it started to hurt).
>mfw I realize I didn't even enjoy it that much.
Is this normal? I sort of expected it to feel really great like everyone says it does, and while it didn't feel bad, it didn't feel close to great.
She feels like it's her fault I didn't have a great time, and I explained that it wasn't, because she was really trying to make my first time good.
Is there something wrong with me?
>>18189605
I'm pretty sure everybody's first time sucks. It'll get better lil nigga
What was the hardest part during intercourse?
How did you confess your virginity to your girl?
>>18189605
Who is this person to you?
When I was younger I had a period of severe anxiety that messed with my life a lot. I had a lot of symptoms typically associated with anxiety, but there was also this shit and I don't know what the fuck it was:
> sudden compulsions to harm myself (usually didn't act on but once I tried to strangle myself in public and didn't realize what I was doing untilI gagged)
>extreme anger/violent compulsions towards others. Never acted on. but it was intense. Wouldn’t realize what was wrong with these feelings until after they’d passed
>weird paranoid ideas that people were plotting against me, seeing laughing faces everywhere, I was afraid of going near someone who didn't like me because I literally thought they would kill me. Thought my food was poisoned because it tasted funny a few times.
>I seriously believed I was in a parallel universe for a week based on evidence that made no sense in retrospect, and took no one else believing me as more evidence of this. I don’t remember ever realizing it was wrong, it just faded out of my mind or something.
I actually asked this earlier but it died with few answers because I fell asleep. Some anons said it was schizophrenia or something like that but that doesn't seem possible to me. This only lasted for about 6 months, and after I entered a much lower stress environment they disappeared pretty quickly. For the past 6 years since then I've been fine. Also, more often than not I did have some awareness that this shit was crazy and was able to hide it well it enough to to get sent to a shrink.I had "normal" anxiety symptoms too. Schizophrenia doesn't work like that, does it?
>>18189573
It sounds like paranoid schizophrenia to me. Honestly, you should ask a shrink, not some fuckers on 4chan. I'm not sure there's much anyone here could do for you. Mental illness is a really tricky subject, and even professionals need to do some guesswork when diagnosing.
Best of luck.
>>18189964
I don't have the money to see a shrink, and even if I did I'm doing pretty okay now. Sometimes people who seem to know about psychology pop up here so I figured it was worth a shot. Thanks anyway dude.
>>18189573
Sounds like demonic possession. Or the pc term "negative being influence"
I'd give that a try for research.
Maybe the gobment is zapping your brain with haarp.
Question for fellow guys: how do ya'll take care of your faces? What products do you use after shaving, before going to bed, etc.?
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How do I get a gf like this u guys
>>18189442
My skin really cleared up when I stopped shaving every single day. I'm not saying go full neckbeard, but give it a few days in between shaves if you're struggling and see if it improves.
>>18189462
I don't have acne issues. It's just that some guys have skin that really glow, and I'm left here wondering how tf they do that.
Hey /adv/ i don't now what to do, these latest years i had a "best friend" well he is not really even a good friend, it's a living toxic cesspit, always when i hang out with my other friends and he is in inside, he tries to make me his personal stair, he tries so hard to "joke" against me extremely constantly to the point to make me feel uncomfortable, normally i would send him to fuck himself and never see him again in my life but i have my circle of friend that i dont want to lose, they are good like always and i dont have problems with them, but the problems come when we go outside and that fucker always comes in, and i cant say to him that i dont want to be friend with him anymore because i did before and that only creates more tools for make fun of me
What i can do i feel stucked
Maybe try to talk to him again, and really put your foot down like "You need to stop doing x y z because it makes me feel ___, or get out Of my life".
>>18189448
I did exactly that, and he said "ok oh sorry" in just 3 months gradually the fucker started to be annoying again, he's not going to change that's for sure
>>18189441
i had a friend like that. the guy did something particularly mean and humiliating to me once so i confronted him and told him to apologize. he just laughed me off, and i just cut him out of my life without a word after that. no big scene, not even a text, nothing. he'd try to message me but i never responded. my life has gotten much better since.
i thought i'd lose my friends too, was really worried about that. i thought i'd look crazy. so i talked to a few of them and explained why i did it. to my surprise, more than a few of them held some similar feels towards him to one degree or another.
maybe your other friends feel the same way OP. either way, it is worth the risk to get this guy out of your life. toxic people hanging around your life fucking suck, and just drag down everything you do with them.
Is murder the only way to take the power back?
>>18189406
No, start a rap metal band and grow dreadlocks
>>18189406
From a girl or a guy OP?
>>18189418
Literal dreadlock rockstar
I be hiring a hooker for a 12 hours straight in 2 weeks from now, and I would like to bang her for the most possible time.
Will viagra help me? I am not interested in hours of pleasure, but hours of sex, pure straight, raw, dirty sex.
Also tips to endure more, that I can do in 2 weeks.
>>18189362
You're going to need a banana, 5W-30, vick's vapor rub, apple juice, and a blender.
You're gonna need a bigger dick.
>>18189362
why 12 hours in a row? why not 12 x 1 hour each week? you've been duped.
I need help, /adv/
I feel like a good chunk of my life is dominated by fear
>I don't listen to new music for fear of not liking it
>read books because I'm afraid I won't understand them
>or make follow up calls for applications because I'm scared I'll come off as weird or whatever else
and so on...
Does anyone have any advice on how to combat this?
push through it, that's it. i'm sure have heard that a bunch of times already, but there aren't many ways to reason yourself out of fears like that. just push through it, and you may be surprised by what you find. if doesn't work out, whatever. zero repercussions
>21 yo virgin because never ever asked a girl out you forgot to mention that
>>18189360
take small easy steps against your own fears. I would really start off with the music thing. If you dont like stuff thats completely fine, not everything is made to be enjoyed by you and different people have different tastes.
You also being afraid of not understanding something is a fundamental mistake. Understanding that youre not understanding something is the first step in personal growth, as it gives you a clear goal to achieve, if you so set out to reach it.
All i ask of you OP is that you try.
So essentially, I pissed off the wrong person and now anytime a company does a background check I'm going to be labeled as a horrible racist and I'll never be hired.
What should I do now? Should I just go on welfare? Can I try starting a business? I will never be employable again and I'm only 20.
>>18189328
you'll be fine, most places DONT do background checks. whwere does this racism pop up?
>>18189328
9mm Aspirin seems like a good solution
>>18189328
Stop saying racist things and apologize.
/adv/ I'm ready to kill my dog.
He had been nothing but good up until my gf had her baby. Now that we have a newborn in the house all he does is destroy anything he can. Shoes, baby belongings, chewing on doorways. Ate my coax line out in the backyard, twice now. He counter surfs and will pull anything down off the counter. I'm doing everything I can to keep up with the baby and this shitty dog but I'm fed up. The most frustrating thing is this dog has everything to keep him entertained - a big backyard, all the chew toys in the fucking world, another dog to play with. And yet he behaves like a fucking asshole. My other dog isn't like this at all. Just him and I've had it and I don't know what to do but I'm ready to slimjim this fucker.
Anyone else been able to fix behavior like this?
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How about you fucking give him to a pound instead of killing him? Or you start establishing that you and your girlfriend are the alphas of the house, just hold him down for a few minutes
>>18189317
This, the fucker thinks he owns the place.
Hit him with a newspaper and hold him down.
>>18189317
wouldn't the pound just put him down?
Tweezers dont seem to work nor has a needle or pin anything I should try before digging out this splinter with a knife?
Another view
About to douse that shit in hydrogen peroxide
use a knife and have some rubbing alcohol/peroxide/neosporin with you
what are some things that make you think a guy's gay? other than being OP.
>>18189266
He sticks his dick into men's butts and dislikes fucking girls.
Or he likes Lady Gaga.
Likes dick? I don't know
There's something just instinctual about it. When I was a kid, me and all the other neighbor kids would target this one little fag with all kinds of merciless bullying.
Before we were even old enough to know what sexual orientation was.
But we could all sense something about him that made him a target.
He was weak, and had to be removed from the herd.
His name was Trevor.
I haven't heard much about him since then but last time I ran into his parents they told me he's off living with some big firefighter boyfriend now.
Coincidence? Maybe.
As for the true blue telltale signs of a faggot? I'd say that stupid faggy lisp they all pretend to have is the number one giveaway.
I'm serious
>>18189252
either a hitachi magic wand or a lightsaber
>one brings pleasure
>the other brings DEATH
Depending on it's size, either a dildo or medicine that's stored in those small glass tubes, where you have to break off the tip to use the medicine in it
Those Hitachi massage sticks, u got robocucked op.