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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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So this girl said yes to a date and hasn't exactly responded with her number. I texted her through GroupMe, and yeah it says she hasn't seen the message yet. What do? Should I say something else? What?
My two female friends said I would be annoying her but I don't see how since she hasn't even seen the first message. I know she isn't ignoring me too because we are in the same organization and she wouldn't want to make that awkward on purpose.
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What the Fuck just happened?
I met this girl online a few days ago. We really clicked. We need up telling each other that we liked the other. We spent like 9 hours talking today. And mid conversation she closed her account.
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>>18187418
Do you ever see her in person?
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> be me, student in SoCal
> sleep deprived and tired
> decide to go for a ride around the neighborhood
> apparently run a stop sign
> woopwoop.mp3
> get pulled over and promptly given ticket
The officer said I can do traffic school and community service to make up for this and get it removed from my record (I told him I was a broke student with $6 in his bank account)
Now for the biggest problem:
The court date is for the first week of June, but I need to move to Arizona by July for university.
> can I go to court, do the traffic school, and the community service, all in 1 month?
> how much should I be looking to pay for the ticket or traffic school?
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>>18187258
hey neighbor, hollywood here.
if i were you id go ahead and take out a line of credit and pay the ticket that way. you're already going to be in a shitload of debt from college anyways, and its bound to be less than 500. google says:
> For example, California traffic tickets issued to Cali drivers for speeding at 15 MPH over the posted speed limit have soared to $360, but the base fine for this type of citation is a mere $35.
its not much and bound to be more time savvy.
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>>18187271
Does it mean anything that officer told me he appreciated my attitude and respect (apparently people were giving him shit all day), and that he put in a good word for me with the judge?
Also, I was thinking of leasing a car from Uber to drive for Uber. Will my ticket show up on my record, prohibiting me from getting approved to be a driver, or will it only be official after the court date.
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>>18187305
if he actually goes through for it that can be good.
honestly dude id just take the ticket and and pay.
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Hey /adv/ I had a quick question. How the hell do I kick my dad out of my pad?
If you need specific details regarding this stupid predicament, please ask away.
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>>18187243
It's hard to suggest an answer when you haven't accurately stated your problem. We all got daddy issues. What's yours?
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>is he on the lease/paying rent?
Follow the legal eviction process
>No?
Tell him to gtfo.
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>>18187257
He hasn't payed rent since Jan 2016, he tried to give me a measly $300 4 months ago when my rent is $1895.
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What the fuck is even happening anymore? 2017-04-04 03:09:37 Post No.18187190
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What the fuck is even happening anymore?
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I am a senior in university.
I study Earth Science because I had to rush to pick a major, I chose it because I had some credits from 100 level classes I took previously
I had a good experience and thought "Oh, I need a major, and this seemed alright, I'll major in this"
I'm so close to the end now, but it has been hell. upper level courses in this major are a fucking shit storm and I hate it.
I am currently taking a topography class that requires us to make a presentation for every article they assign us to read on the chance that they may randomly pick one of us to present it.
I am the only undergrad in that class at this point
last week I got a ton of other assignments piled on me and I didn't have time to thoroughly read the article they assigned and I didnt have a presentation made, Guess who had a present that following class?
I looked like a fool and I hate how stupid these classes make me feel... every semester since junior year has been a destruction of my self-esteem.
I dont think I can stand working in this field, but I have invested so much effort into this major and I feel like its too late to jump out and start new.
I fucking hate university, I hate the academics, the studying, the subjects dont appeal to me.
I am the glowing star to my family, first to attend university and on a free-ride scholarship nonetheless.
I feel like so much rides on me being here and I am hating every minute of it.
Quitting and going home empty handed would be a disgrace that I dont think I could bare.
But I have no clue what else I want to study and being here for more years sounds like a fresh nightmare.
My plan was to force through this semester and take an extra semester to clean up random credits and graduate by December, then Id have a BA in Earth Science and a minor in Business Management
But as I get closer to gradation I realize more and more that I have no real plans beyond that...
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I feel fucking lost, the path ahead beyond school seems so bleak. I feel like university has only cemented feelings of insecurity and incompetence within me.
What little plans I have had for after school was to get into entrepreneurship. perhaps run my own business and finally feel like I am handling my own destiny. but I feel like I dont know anything about that and I dont know how to build credentials to operate any sort of business.
I just feel lost... on what to do for the future in general.
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On my current day to day I am in classes from 10am to 6 pm with just enough time to get some lunch or something
Each weeknight I am reading and working on assignments until I go to bed.
Friday and Saturdays I get some time to relax, but I feel like I never get to do all the things I wanted to, before I know it Sunday is here and I gotta prepare for next weeks classes.
I just feel mentally tired I suppose, my classes are all very demanding this semester...
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Dear anon,
I'm not very familiar with posting on 4chan, but I was just about to post a similar post regarding uni.
I'm sorry you feel this way and that things turned out like they are. I don't have much advice to offer, but I can share my experience so far.
I am also a senior in unI but in the uk (by the sounds of it your are in the us or similar system). I love my dispcipline but hate my specific uni/department. I came to uni feeling like I was on top of the world, having grown up in an underdeveloped country. I lost many of the things I loved to do in life and the past three years have been a blur of panic, self doubt and lots of insecurity. I still perform well (top of class) till now. But I feel like I don't know anything and I don't know where to go from here. I am struggling so much to stay above water that I forgot to learn and love learning. I am trying my best not to go back home, because I'll never be able to esCape that nightmare. I really like it here but in 1 or 2 months I'll be forced to go home as they don't like to sponsor foreigners here no matter how decent they perform. Especially with the whole brexit thing.
I think you should push through your degree and try to do your best. Giving up may not set good perecedent for your future employment.
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This might be the wrong place to ask but I'm not sure where else to ask this anonymously.
When I was younger I had a period of severe anxiety that messed with my life a lot. I had all the normal anxiety symptoms but there were also some really bizarre ones that I have trouble finding anyone say are specifically associated with anxiety disorders. Some of them included:
>sudden compulsions to harm myself (usually didn't act on but I remember once I tried to strangle myself in public and didn't really realize what I was doing until it made me gag)
>extreme anger and violent compulsions towards others (never acted on)
>weird paranoid ideas that people were plotting against me, seeing laughing faces everywhere, I was afraid of going near someone who didn't like me because I literally thought they would kill me. Thought my food was poisoned because it tasted funny a few times.
>once I seriously believed I was in a parallel universe for about week based on evidence that made no sense in retrospect, and took no one else believing me as more evidence of this
Does anxiety just make your brain weird? What did this shit mean? It was years ago but it still weighs on my mind a lot.
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Help would be appreciated.
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>>18187172
I'd get checked by a shrink asap OP, what you described as just "anxiety" sounds more like delusions
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>>18187172
Go see a shrink, that's more than just anxiety.
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Whenever i read non fiction books, i zone out and get distracted easily. Is there any way to increase my focus so i don't drift off into day dream land?
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>>18187110
same
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>>18187110
Avid non-fiction reader here. I don't zone out at all if I'm reading something I'm interested in, sometimes I literally have to pull myself away to do some real work.
Is this for school? Or for fun? If the latter, just read something you're actually interested in or just read small snippets everyday. Reading is a skill just like most other hobbies.
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Read slower. If you can not focus, do not read on 'autopilot' slow down or stop. If you hear the words you read in your mind, and the words/voice gets softer or further away, then you are losing your concentration. Make sure you understand what is being said, not just read the words, not just hear the sounds in your head. Really think. What does that mean. What does that imply. How does this relate to x. Is this logical. Do I agree. Can it be expanded to a general case.
Stop. Think. Re-read last sentence or paragraph. Did I understand that? Do I agree with that?
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Text to oneitis, over the top or no? 2017-04-04 02:16:48 Post No.18187041
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Text to oneitis, over the top or no?
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I've been texting back and forth with an aspie girl (very smart but socially retarded) who I've been trying to date for months now. Asked her out twice and she flaked but never said no or anything. She's into occult shit and over the past few weeks she's done shit like analyze my dreams and give me advice on sigils (basically wishes you write on paper and burn). As autistic as she is, definitely knows I like her romantically by now so I think it's a good sign she's still chatting with me. Really want to end this though, for better or worse, so that said here's what I came up with. I'm proud of it to be honest, but I've been deluded with stuff like this before. Thoughts?
>Hey, any idea why my sigil is taking so long? It wasn’t even anything too much, just that a certain former lab partner who I like and find fascinating would finally get coffee or go on a walk with me, and maybe give me her phone number so we can talk on something other than facebook.
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>>18187041
When I say text I mean fbook messaging.
>fuck me, I know
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>>18187041
you should literally kill yourself. she flaked because she's too scared to tell you no and hurt your feelings.
just say "hey can I have your number?"
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>>18187070
this is more romantic tho. Wouldn't that theoretically make it harder for her to say no?
You're probably right about the too scared to say no part. But she's not the kind of person who would have problems with totally cutting someone off if she was uncomfortable, so she has to be enjoying some part of this.
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are there any decent paying jobs that are pretty much just manual labor? im kind of a dumbass and dont see myself going anywhere in life in terms of actually getting good at any sort of skill, so if there was some sort of job that was just like, moving shit around all day that'd be dope. Im not entirely sure what I'm asking for here honestly. any advice?
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>>18186961
Check the local chicken plant and apply to work a forklift.
Construction if you think you can get a manager position.
Lowes / Home Depo if you think you can get a manager position.
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>>18186975
any kind of specific education needed for those? thanks for the quick reply.
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>>18186961
Obvious answers:
Anything dangerous/miserable where no one wants to be.
For example
Gold Mining in Alaska
Fishing in Alaska
Deep Sea welding (potentially in Alaska. could be a trend here...)
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My girlfriend is amazing in every aspect, I truly love her. But sometimes other guys seem to notice how great she is too. On multiple occasions I've caught other guys looking at her, but honestly it doesn't bother me. In a way its kind of cool, but sometimes guys take it too far. Recently, we went over to a mutual friend's house. There were some of our co workers over there. One of them is a guy, and I've never liked him. Always annoyed me, just every fiber of his being pissed me off. Well, I found out that he likes her, and while were there, he came out we gave each other a normal high five. They hugged, and then she made a compliment on his beanie. This fucker hands her the beanie and she puts it on. My girlfriend and I both squashed the issue, and she understood why I didn't appreciate them doing that. I think its disrespectful to do that, especially when he knows I'm with her. A couple days ago, she mentioned this co worker of hers, and how he likes Spider-Man. I love spider-man, I said he sounded cool. Then she hit me with she thinks he likes her, and how he tries to play with her hair and how he touches (not inappropriately). She said she stops him, whenever he does this. I asked what his name was, and she so I was pissed. She didn't tell me. What should I do? How should I go about letting guys know that she's my girlfriend, and to watch what they do?
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Forgot to mention she worked two jobs, so thats how I don't know the other guy.
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>>18186923
She likes the negative attention shes getting from you. Find a better girl, she sounds like a cunt.
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>>18186923
>Upset because my girlfriend put on a dude's hat
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>get home from uni
>lazy to play vydia and read books
>the rare times i do them i enjoy it
>dont do them most of the time because my mind overestimates the amount of work and energy they would take completely ignoring that i actually have fun with them
>waste the entire day looking at my steam library doing nothing
i know it's a minor issue compared to the rest of this board, but this shit has been going on for over a year, how the fuck do i start these tasks without any hesitation? after i start them, i can continue without any issues.
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>>18186916
Stop buying so many games if you're not going to play them.
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>>18186943
the damage is alredy done, i have 439 games on steam + 200 games on gog, i alredy decided to stop buying. the problem is actually starting to play them.
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>>18186916
I have this issue too. You're either somewhat depressed, your day is too exhausting or both.
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has there been any try at getting some kind of group thing going here, where people can bullshit and get help from others, post progress on projects/fitness? trust me, i know 4chan groups are almost always disaster, but it could be a good thing for a lot of people.
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Sounds like you're looking for the NEET general. Things like that have been attempted many times and always break down quickly.
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>>18186908
Maybe if a small group found a common interest like hitting a local gym or steam games and just chat about life through kik or something i see what your saying but idk if its possible we got misfits by the ton myself included.
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>>18187008
i remember neet general. was surprised it's gone. i think a more generalized kind of thread like that would fare slightly better.
>>18187018
we're misfits here. that's why we're on /adv/, most of us at least. i think group encouragement on a consistent basis and a healthy comradery. life is difficult, and an outlet for both frustration and success i think would be good. it definitely seems likely to breakdown as the other anon said, but i think it's worth a shot. i'm considering making a slack, i'm not quite sure what the best method of congregating everyone would be. how does kik work? never used.
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How to look fashionable easily? 2017-04-04 01:11:50 Post No.18186845
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How to look fashionable easily?
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Everyday I wear a basic, one-color t shirt, a pair of blue jeans and some black Nike running shoes. I do it cause it it easy to maintain and is fairly comfortable for most activities. I'm also super hygienic dude, have a pretty normal haircut and I am a little overweight. I want to step up my fashion game with as much ease as possible. I was curious what would be the easiest way to just look a little bit better on a fairly average budget. What should I do?
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>>18186845
Dude in your pic looks like a dush
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>>18186849
>Dude in your pic looks like a dush
It was the second search result of "Men's Fashion" on Google Images
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>>18186852
Haha google likes dushy guys
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I'm not the best brother. 2017-04-04 01:03:51 Post No.18186820
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I'm not the best brother.
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>My imouto no longer calls me a pathetic gross loser for watching anime.
We ended up watching Watamote one day and she really liked it, she's usually bitchy towards me but she's turned around after we watched it.
>Current day, One month since we watched Tomoko be a fuck up.
She's watching Tokyo Ghoul and telling me that it's the greatest anime ever and tons of shit. I'm trying my best not to tell her that it's emo cunt trash-tier but she's only 13 and may watch something good eventually.
>What do?
Should we watch Oreimo?
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show her a good anime for once
if you're gonna ruin her by getting her into anime, then at least make her a patrician
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>>18186828
recommend something "good" then
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let her enjoy what she wants to enjoy, respectfully say its not your style.
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What is wrong with this bloke? 2017-04-04 12:55:46 Post No.18186802
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What is wrong with this bloke?
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Posted this a while a go but its still playing on my mind
>went over for drinks to 55yo neighbour's house (he is considered a close family friend, not now though) who is shooting blanks, 3 dogs to compensate for kids,
>started randomly going crazy and telling me to join the army
>told me im a loser and asked how the fk I got girls?!
>kept yelling and telling me to join the army (im at uni)
>told me my family (who were coming down to try and claim a share of my dads house, he passed away) are going to rip me limb by limb when my mother passes
wtf is wrong with this guy? my head feels pretty jangled
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just drunk talk. doesn't mean a thing..
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Haven't you already posted this before?
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>>18186802
Shooting blanks huh? How you know this lol. Was it one of his army stories that maybe you reach the conclusion?
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>Today in class sitting with friend who rejected me when I asked for a date 3 weeks ago
>but sent a twitter "joke" I wasn't privvy to asking me if she could "get some head" to which I made jokes toward instead of saying yes/no
>wearing this sexy as hell kinda short shoulderless dress and really nice perfume
>brushed against my arm with her shoulder a half dozen times
What the hell should I do? Why would a girl do this to a guy who she said no to
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>>18186798
The joke was yesterday btw
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>>18186800
Bumpo
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she rejected you once you stupid fucking faggot, she's not playing hard to get, she's fishing attention from you.
if you want advice, you just have to play the game if she has any actual interest in you.
why do women do this? they're fuckin stupid assholes.