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I read articles by women about what they like in bed, how many men fail to bring women to orgasm because they only think of PIV as sex and neglect the clitoris, etc etc. Being aware of this stuff helps, but nobody has ever learned to ride a bike by reading books about it.

The girl I took out the other day was very candid and started talking about porn and sex and how many men can't make women cum (I didn't even raise the subject, she did... I don't remember how we got there...). I held my part of the conversation without mentioning that I've never done sex things before, and at no point did she seem to suspect that I am inexperienced. However, if I ever do go to bed with her... how do I keep her from realizing it?

>>18256305
> I just don't really buy it. I would look less attractive to my partner once they figured out my lack of experience, as their perception of my social worth would diminish. And they might be more hesitant to have sex with me, because they'd think I'd imprint on them because they were my first and become clingy or something.

I'm a dude.

Lost my virginity at 24.

Told her before. Told her I'm inexperienced (literally zero experience), but let's just have fun, and if there's anything she wants, I'm game.
Told her again the second time we slept together

She said she was cool with it before, and even mention some part her was wondering if I was saying that shit to game her.

This was a one night stand by the way (or I guess two night stand).

Literally just met her for a drink, slept with her the same night.

At that point I gave no fucks about being a virgin, so neither did she.

What turns people off is when you're a spazz.

First hand experience talking.

>>18256324

Oh, I should add. What I did is what most guys don't seem to do.

I took my time to romance her, I took my time with fore play, I was attentive.

Fuck dude, you don't know how many girls I've heard say they'd never been on a real date before.

Sex ain't just the sex, even if it's purely sex.

Girls and guys: have you ever dated anyone from 4chan? How did it work out?

>Ask the Opposite Gender Anything
nice meme lmao
cant wait to get answers from all these girls (male)

>be dating girl for a few months
>our work schedules are almost exactly opposite and I'm going to school for masters
>still push things around or pick up doubles so I can see her thrice a week

>not enough time to see her
>my libido is lower than hers
>this makes her feel bad about herself

it seems almost every week now we have a semi fight about how she feels I don't care about our relationship because I don't make time for her.

it's physically impossible for me to do it more unless I quit my job—which I can't—or end my masters program—which is stupid.

I made the mistake of saying it seems she's not happy in our relationship and maybe we should end things but that just made her cry.

what do I do

>>18256066
Truly terrible idea. Your best bet to avoid potential sexual situations is to avoid situations where you two are alone in a bed. The temptation will probably be pretty strong if you are in the same bed together. Limit your make out sessions too. You're both going to have to have really strong willpower to accomplish your goals.

Really though, no sex before marriage is a really horrible idea.

You'll be bitching to us in a breakup thread very soon if you don't unzip your dick. I've tried to pull this bullshit. Its just nonsense the brits made up to keep families on record. You're exercising mid century property law shilling.

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>>18255210
If you slip up on the job or are about to get fired now you have something on them?

>>18255210
meh

>>18255210
Sorry, are you asking for advice on what to drink at work? I don't think I understood the question.

>>18254338
two different ex's fucked their boss and the same shit you describe was going on. Same happened with another ex but it was a coworker. Bail and don't be a fool. A boss or coworker most girls cannot resist the opportunity provided.

>>18254338
>speaking with her boss by the phone for fucking 40 min each day fater she comes home

So she's near you when she's having these conversations?
Is she talking about work?

Dump the stupid bitch immediately, find a replacement bitch asap

Realize what you're taking isn't acid but some 2c type Chinese drug and since you don't know what it is, every trip will differ.

https://drugs-forum.com/threads/does-lsd-exist-anymore.270354/
http://io9.gizmodo.com/there-really-is-an-lsd-shortage-and-heres-why-1677123866

Unless you have a good source that has been dealing LSD since the 80s or knows someone who has (they also know what exactly a trip should feel like because they took actual LSD instead of like 25-i back in the day),you likely aren't getting it.

>>18251576
Environment is nearly everything

Friends that you truly like/trust

If you start to have a truly bad trip you can usually power through it remembering that you are in control and will be a better person if you work through it and allow the thoughts of truth to flow through you without judgement

If it gets too much just move to a different area

Also I like to smoke a bit on the comedown to "peak" again but don't over do it

>>18251631
Fuck off with this meme you absolute retard.
Real acid is very easy to get hold of.

Gainz aren't in your head. Just your perceived chances with that friend. Basically you got some relational maturity gainz by getting turned down from her. Keep working on all the gainz breh.

>>18258062

You didn't fuck up anything anon, every guy has asked out girls and been turned down, it's natural. You miss read a situation, doesn't make you the devil. Of course it's not a nice feeling and it's natural you're down over it. Give yourself time to feel better but at the core remember '' you didn't fuck up anything'' you just experienced a set back. It literally happens to us all, you'll get back into it and you'll do better than ever. Don't be so hard on yourself

>>18258062
Wow you got rejected, no man ever gets rejected. What a fucking loser you are

>>18257668
I'm not saying it was OK to slap her, but I'm betting that your sister deliberately provoked you and drove you crazy before you did it. People like her are the worst. Yes, if she routinely undermines you and makes you look bad in front of other people, you should keep her out of your life as much as you can.

>>18257668
Tell her unironically that it doesn't count if it's your sister

>>18257668
Well my sister is not like that, thank god, did you ever said you were sorry though? Although considering you had mental issues what really happened probably was that you punched your sister in the face. Yeah just distance yourself from her desu.

>>18257611
How does it feel like to be aware that you Dumb?

>>18257625
I thought I as smart. I was getting great marks. NOW... Now I have the lowest mark in my class.

>>18257611
Literally? All brown and squishy?

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>>18257577
stay loyal to one guy

You're open aren't you?

Fuck. His. Dad.

>>18257572
Wander by their room and stick your head in. "Just taking a break from my math problems. Have you started them yet?" Gives them an opening to ask you for help.

But beware the Pandora's Box you're opening. MUCH more likely than hooking up with them is them leeching on you to the point that you're doing all their homework for them.

They obviously think you're intelligent, maybe they find that intimidating. If you show that you don't have all the answers they may be more open to communication. Try asking them for help on something and see what happens.

Maybe you have a condescending or annoying way of offering advice. Have they ever asked for your help before?

>>18257568
try library, that place is always recommended on introvert-related blogs/sites

Go knocking on doors "AY YOU WANNA DATE?" dress for success.

>>18257568

>tl;dr stick to your hand bc no girl wants a coward who NEVER wants to do ANYTHING.

Do you mean a girl who actually NEVER wants to go out and do something exciting? A huge swathe of women, even in the early 20s, aren't raging party animals, but they will on occasion go to a club to dance, or a party, or something fun. Not to rage, not to get trashed and be dumb cuz 'I'm young n free. ', not frequently, not every weekend-- occasionally.

The fact that you're too insecure to even be ok with that much excitement for your girl shows, in my mind, you need to stick to your hand. You'll be a terrible burden for whatever girl has low enough self- esteem to date you. We get you're a coward and people who can enjoy themselves around others in a social setting is triggering, but it's really not fair to impose that insecurity on someone else, because it really is only modern beta men who totally shun ALL forms of excitement.

Trust

>>18257560
You can try to COMUNICATE with her.

Tell her you are super insecure about her sucking sperm and attention from other dudes. That you love her so much it hurts you everytime you see her having blast with horny teen males.

But i guess you are also horny teen, arent you? Tough luck boy.

>>18257584
"Trust" is an outdated meme from before the days of cell phones/social media. Just like love, monogamy and hope

>>18257550

What's up anon?

>>18257579
I learned that a relationship of a year and a half turned out to be a dead end. Or rather I guess I'm just not good enough in the right ways. I wish only the best for her but when you look at what was said and the shared dreams, it's rending. I can't miss work but there's just a lot I want to do that I know won't end well. I gotta get my hewd on straight and stop letting it bother me.

Make a list of things you want to do for self-improvements ranging from habits you want to quit, to changing your wardrobe. You don't need anybody but yourself to validate you, anon. If I could give you a slap on the back and a smile I would. You deserve to be happy too. Sorry that bitch ripped your heart out and ate it. Time to move on. Close this chapter of your life and start the next one. Press on. Keep on keepin on. Etc, etc


Good luck buddy. Time to get off the computer. Go do something that makes you a better person.

>>18257502
Fuck a Japanese girl and then try and find a video game tournament that I could compete in.

>>18257509
Look at this simpleton

I'd probably go into the store and buy all of those interesting flavors of Kit Kat and Oreo or some shit. Better yet drive out of that shit city to see the sakura blossoms in spring

>>>trv