I'm planning on taking 1 tab of acid for mu first time at around 9pm and I have classes the next day at 7. The thing is my apartment is one you rent for "sober living" so if my tenant next door thinks I'm on drugs at all I'm fucked. I can literally only do it at night in my room unless I want to wait a week for time to be able to do it during the day. Theirs really no chance of interaction since I just stay in my room but if I go out and he's watching tv will I be able to hold a normal convo? I'm experienced with weed and Benadryl tripping and a few other drugs. Also will the next day suck because of no sleep I only have to go to class for 2 hours. I searched google but nothing gives a definite answer thanks.
Why though? You have your whole life to do that. Why do it now under these unideal circumstances that will probably give you a bad time.
>>18258637
Because I was given a tab by a friend and now that I have it I really want to do it. Also I work basically 6 days a week and in 2 days is the one day I don't have work. If I can't do it tomrow night then I have to wait a week agian and I really don't want to do that plus I can't do anything else since I get drug tested for the room every week. LSD and alcohol are the only substances I can take
>>18258637
Also you have to know how terrible the feeling isn't when you finally get your hands on something you always wanted to try for years and just leave it sitting in your cabinet. It calls to me every time I'm in my room it sucks just knowing it their and I can't do it
Sup
So I'm in this new relationship with this girl (pic not related) and everything is fine. She's super nice, super pretty, super hot and the sex is fucking amazing. But now she's gone for one week and can't text or call or anything and I'm starting to crack up. Not even memes, watching libtard compilations or HWNDU recap vids can cheer me up.
Am I doomed? Give an desperate man some advice how not to end up in psychiatry at the end of the week.
I'm 18 btw and having feelings for a girl is new to me as I usually used to only fuck but not having anything more serious
>>18258378
>pic not related
Why post pics of girls you've never met? Creep
>>18258382
Boobs get attention.
Have you never been on /b/?
It's funny how on /adv/ I get called a creep for posting pics of girls I don't know and meanwhile /b/ asks for nudes of my girlfriend under the same post
Im in final year of an accounting course in my local community college/ f.e college - If I pass this year (formality at this stage) I will get into second year of An accounting degree in a local university (3 year degree)
Thing is , I've been offered a full time financial job with a local medical packaging firm - salary is competitive for my local area (i.e. not great) but at least it is somthing and there is chance for progression
I had planned on getting my degree and emigrating, but with a real job offer on the table i don't know what to do. Im 23 and time is cracking on a bit, I really dont know if I can take another 2 years of being a broke student
Any advice, opinions or experiences to help me out ? In particular - what would you do if you were in my situation ?
>>18258346
Once i got a real job i simply decided that school was not worth the effort anymore.
In school they dont pay you, you have to constantly improve yourself, do hard stuff and nobody praises you.
At work they pay you, tasks are very simple, boss praises you if you manage well.
My advice? Stick to school until you finish it. You will work for the rest of life anyway. Enjoy it while you can.
>do i regret droppung out of school?
No. And i keep telling myself i can go back and finish the last year anytime i want. But everybody knows (me included) that it wont ever happen. Simply school sucks compared to job you like.
Try to aim at part time job at the firm. So you can keep the school and the job at the same time.
>>18258346
Experience > Degrees
Your degree is training for the job you're already being offered. Don't believe the thinkpieces on degrees written by liberal arts graduates. I employ people and I would take someone with 4 years of well served accounting experience over someone who spent 4 years training to be an accountant.
>>18258346
>Defer your entrance into the next university or become a part-time student.
>Take the job.
>Save money.
>Try your best not to settle down or get someone pregnant.
>finish degree over the next 3 years
>Emigrate in 3-4 years with a nice safety net in case shit goes wrong.
How do you go about making truly huge desicions? I have 6 days, now, (really 4), to settle between two choices.
Option one
>Go to expensive and prestigious university out-of-state. I would have to move to that state immediately after high school and get a job to afford a small place (with the help of my family) so I can get in-state tuituon for my sophomore year. This will put incredible financial strain on my family and involves living alone at 18. But, this school is one of the best for the field i'm going into.
Option two
>Go to a school in-state, which my family can easily afford. However, this school is of less prestige and isn't specialized for my field (or, what I think will be my field).
Possibly transfer into one of the better in-state schools junior year.
Obviously nobody can make this decision for me but how do I go about realizing what I want and being okay with the decision I make?
>>18258205
> how do I go about realizing what I want
Write out a list of your values. You want more of what you value and you want to be the one to create it.
>How do you go about making truly huge desicions?
Reference that list.
>being okay with the decision I make?
Look into religion. Remember that all decisions are both imperfect and also informative.
write a pros and cons list
>>18258205
What is the major?
So I took a drug test on Friday that I had to do for a job. As of today, the status is still pending, so I'm pretty worried I failed it, specifically for weed.
I used to smoke weed pretty regularly, but this past year I have really cut down a lot, and recently the past two months, I've barely smoked at all, and I know I was clean for about a month leading up to last week. Last weekend though I got really drunk and though I don't remember smoking, since a lot of my friends are weed smokers, I'm afraid I took a puff or two and don't remember.
Thing is, there's also a chance the reason its taking so long is that I tested positive for adderall, which would actually be a good thing since I have a prescription for it. I took 40 mg of XR adderall I believe either 2 or 3 days before the drug test. Would it have still been in my system then? And anyone have any similar experiences?
Weed test has telltale signs to pick up on, for how much and how recently. I'm good and fucked because I'm into edibles which go straight into your body tissues and stay there.
>there's also a chance the reason its taking so long is that I tested positive for adderall
Who fucking tests for this, the Ministry of Truth? Not doubting your story, just a bit bothered.
The only drug test which actually matters is the gut hunch of a manager who is actually worth their salt - just my opinion. Real leadership is like the loch ness monster these days, so no wonder companies are going bankrupt on lab tests for every damn thing except product quality and customer satisfaction.
>>18258154
Well they test for amphetamines, which is found in adderall.
IMO, I think drug tests for stuff like amphetamines makes sense. But testing for weed, and having such a low threshold for weed I think is ridiculous. Like I could potentially not get a job for taking 1 puff on one of my last weekends in college and a week before a drug test (assuming I did take a puff which I'm still not sure hah).
>>18258176
Maybe you should've thought about that before becoming a junkie. Answer this, would you personally hire someone who destroys their brain cells on weekends?
I need some advice
I have nothing, no hobbies. No car no cash.
I live alone in a housing project the people are shit.
I go to college, the classes are full of Pajeets no fellow whites
Days roll over into each other, I'm not miserable, but I have nothing to live for.
I eat to cope with no friends, feel myself getting fatter. Can't afford a gym membership
I tried joining a church, I meet up with them once a week for dinner but I don't have much to say.
They like me they encourage me to speak and really try to include me.
What else can I do to get a life?
I'm just stuck in this small room all day and I have no meaning to my life.
I love going shopping because it's an excuse to leave the room.
>>18258140
who is this guy
Hmm
>>18258202
Hey fellow Jimbo lets flood some other threads until we get banned
Should I ask out my best friend?
>known her for 5+ years
>always gotten along
>worked together for 2 years
>she recently asked if I'd be willing to be her roommate
>now, we're looking for places to live
BUT...
>recently revealed that she's been trying online dating
>"just to see what happens"
>i know she's just lonely, possibly desperate
>went on a date, however didn't work out as of last Saturday
>only gets messages from creeps, fedora tier guys
>even then, very few messages
>not sure why, she's actually very pretty
>discouraged by the experience, talked about deleting account
>but who knows with her, she might keep looking
So basically I'm not sure where I stand with her. I know she thinks of me as one of her best friends too. But recently ive been having feelings for her. I'm going to see her this weekend to continue our apartment hunt. I'm tempted to ask her why she's never thought about dating me.
>>18258082
>having a chick for a best friend
you are a big girl
>>18258085
What's the problem with that? I have guy friends too, who are very close to me. Her and I just have a closer bond because of everything we've been through.
>>18258082
If you a guy, then yes, ask her out. If you are a lesbo, then no.
I'm a first year EE student. I want to join my Uni's math club but I'm scared I'll be an incompetent member. The highest level of math that I've touched is only calc II( which I have an A in) but I am also terrible at competing (I crack under pressure). Has anyone had experience with their Uni's math club? What was the atmosphere like?
>>18257948
Meh, just join.
You are lacking in the math department.
But so what?
You can still give them BJ.
Dont see yourself as the incompetent one. See yourself as a person surrounded by others they can learn from
excellent chance to work with people who are better than you. They say try not to be the smartest person in the room for a reason, life gets stale when you stop learning and making mistakes.
what is your experience with parents allowing/not allowing their teenage children to have sex in their rooms at home?
i'm fuckin 19, and ever since I started having sex (lost virginity @ 16), my mom is so fuckin nosy. she's walked in on me eating my gf's ass and screamed, found used condoms (while picking through my trash) and called me crying about how I destroyed her trust, how she doesn't allow that in her home, etc.
my mom has all these inadequacies about sex and love and life etc., because her father was a man-whore and her stepfather was an alcoholic, and during the time in between the two she had to listen to her mother getting fucked by strangers she brought home from the bar late at night, and then them being gone in the morning before she even woke up.
is my mom cracked?
>>18257941
how about you move out, you fucking loser?
Your mom is pretty oversensitive in my opinion. Is it really that hard to find time when you and your girlfriend can be alone?
>>18257941
>eating ass
What are you, a nigger?
>the rest
Your mother might suffer from legit psychological trauma OR it might be complete, tumblr-tier bullshit. Only you can tell whether her feelings are reasonable or not. If what you said is true, then consider being honest with her and maybe try a more controlled approach -- instead of fucking strangers at your house, present them to your mother beforehand and have a nice chat.
If she won't have it, then you'll have to seek elsewhere to fuck. If I recall housing in the US is dirt cheap compared to other countries, I'm a 19yo neet and I manage to live in a nice place by myself in a pretty shitty country. You're 19 bro, it's not unreasonable for you to find work and get enough cash to fuck on sex-hotels and whatnot.
A night in a simple place should be what, $50?
I'm a 23 year old male whos also a supervisor at the place I work. I started seeing my coworker, who I supervise. I didn't know she was still in high school but she's 18. Is that weird/socially unacceptable?
>>18257860
The age gap isn't that weird, but it's professionally unacceptable to date your subordinates
>>18257862
This, you can both lose your jobs over this
Women fucking their bosses is the easy way to success.
Bosses' bosses lose money and sleep over this, and sometimes their wives drag them to divorce court and ritually execute them for failing to keep the money flowing smoothly enough.
If you want to act like you're a smart guy, then pay attention to which enemies you're making. If your new enemies are real estate owners and corporate managers then you must not have thought your big plan out all that much.
I've found out that one of my friends' weddings is this weekend.
Now, I don't actually recall ever receiving or replying to an invitation, and I can't find one and nothing is written on my calendar. BUT, it strikes me as very odd not to be invited. I'm not offended if I'm not, but it is unusual.
I'm going on holiday this weekend so won't be around for the wedding, but what if I'm supposed to be? The way I see it, I have two options:
1) assume that I'm correct and I've not been invited
2) contact the friend to ask (how awkward!) if I'm invited/expected and let him know in advance I won't be there.
It's in 4 days' time
>>18257840
>I'm going on holiday this weekend so won't be around for the wedding
Then what does it matter? Assume you weren't invited and apologize if you were.
If you never received one then don't worry about it. He never wanted you there in the first place.
>>18257840
>Caught wind of your wedding this weekend, and realized I must've lost the invite, never put it on the calendar.
>Unfortunately, I'm away this weekend and can't attend. Just wanted to let you know, in case you were waiting on an RSVP.
>Hope the party is smashing and I'll be looking forward to the pictures!
This has been my play in similar circumstances. It places all the burden of mistaken expectations on the host, but lets him know that there's no hurt feelings or need for explanation if you weren't invited.
How have you guys dealt with on-coming thoughts of suicide, of which are reasonably frequent?
I'm considering going back on anti-depressant/anxiety medication, as I also have pretty rough social anxiety problems, but I've learned to cope with it pretty well. I remember feeling uncomfortable with how 'calm' I was around people on my first med years ago, it was like I could finally breathe and not give a shit about anyone around me. Honestly haven't ever felt that 'okay' before, around people -- even as a small child I don't remember it.
In any case, my emotions have been so unstable concerning death, to the point where I think if I was set off enough, emotionally, I'd just finally do it somehow, or hurt myself bad, and I don't think it'll require that much, either. I say that, mostly because of the fact that, if my parents wouldn't be so destroyed from me randomly offing myself one day, I'd of very likely done it by now, without some event to trigger it. I'm in a constant battle of why or why I shouldn't do it, almost purely because of how my parents would feel.
I'm lonely, without love, unmotivated, barely hang out with the few friends that I have, and work a minimum-wage, night-shift job where all my co-workers are assholes 24/7, even if jokingly.
>>18257759
You poor soul.
Gf?
>>18250471
>>18257759
What are you a faggot?
>>18257759
Definitely try medication again. Which ones worked for you?
This question is for femanons if there are any on here. As far as physicality is concerned in attractiveness are any of you attracted to the long hair/long beard/biker/metal/viking look? That's how I look and I don't plan on changing even if every woman in the world told me I looked disgusting. From what I can tell women prefer clean cut guys mostly.
>>18257733
Personally, I'm not but alot of women are into that. I think it's a regional thing. I prefer clean cut with longer hair because I'm from the coast where men shave but its a pretty common look in the woodsy side of Washington and i can think of at least 3 girls offhand that married big bearded guys.
>>18257733
>are any of you attracted to the long hair/long beard/biker/metal/viking look?
It works on SOME people and only if they look clean. If the hair looks greasy or untrimmed, or if the guy is overweight, it usually doesn't work.
No fucking man buns, either. Or the slipknot fan-tier undercut that dirty mall loiterers like to leave down and grow out until it's see-through and chin length.
>>18257733
post a picture of what you look like. but as a general rule if you're already fat and/or ugly the beard will make it worse
so, im almost 30, just had sex once and i was really drunk, had plenty of opportunities but somehow i dont read women thoughts too well and sometimes im just dumb. Dont gonna say im a 10/10 because im not, only kissed 8 girls in my life and only 8 because im shy as fuck. But lately im horny as fuck, and im thinking about paying for sex, i cant see any cons, what would you do?
>>18257582
Focus on yourself.
Be a cool guy.
And just talk to girls.
TALK TO A GIRL. Be friends with girls.
>>18257582
Here
>>18250471
If you have to buy something, try onahole.
>>18257865
tried tinder a couple years ago, but i live in a small town and all the girls i saw were from outside or already knew them
Hi /adv I recently ended a pretty toxic relationship with my ex because it was slowly destroying me. I love her to this day, but she was massively codependent, after the breakup she admitted to using drugs while we were together (and most likely cheating because she bought from male dealers she used to sleep with for drugs) I'm a recovering addict myself but I'm 4 years completely clean and I really it really fucking seriously. I almost killed myself on drugs.
Anyways, I'm trying hard to get away from her, and I'm thinking I should not even attempt another relationship for a long time, maybe till after I start a career and finish school. Does that make sense? I feel like until then I won't find anyone who will be able to accept that I don't want to get high. So many people these days do, and I'm ok with people drinking around me, I just can't do it myself (making it hard to go on"dates" )
Any advice?
Really really take it**
>>18257257
Would that girl let me hug her?
>>18257257
kind of in the same situation. no where near as severe as you; 9 years, toxic but both non alcoholics or drugs, still techincally together but in the dying breaths of the relationship waiting for her to move out.
Either way, I would say it would be best to just give yourself a year or two to just work on yourself until you are proud/ok with who you are before diving back in. That's at least what i'm planning to do once she's gone.
and yeah I also feel like dating is gonna be hard because i really hate alcohol. Also i'm vegan so that's a hurdle i don't even know how to get around. I think once you do start dating try to deal with the slim pickings. If it doesn't work at least you have more data/experience.