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>>18277344
If you two are as close as you say you are, suggesting the idea shouldn't ruin anything if she declines. I say go for it, and if she makes it awkward that's her problem.

>>18277344
I'd suggest the idea with sarcasm and a little pressure to your tone of voice. If you're both comfortable talking about sex then it would be perfectly normal to make a comment like that.

>>18277344
Just ask if she would like to do some fetish stuff sometime if she says yes go for it.

I guess my question for adv is, are there ways to aid the pain of shitty breakups? Is it normal to feel like this or obsessive? Is there even a way not to feel like shit when you realize you loved someone

>>18277296
>>18277749
Totally normal. Just takes time. Especially for females because they go in relationships 100 percent.

>>18277782
Nigga wut

>>18277264
What's so great about the omegle girl? What's so great about current gf?

What are the pros and cons of both?

Don't be a scum bag and cheat, either be in an open relationship or pull out of your current relationship and go for the other.


I personally believe you should be able to love as many people as you want, everyone has their own idea on it but if theres a bunch of bullshit and 0 trust and a lot of lying then it is a problem.

Tell more about both gfs //

>>18277763
Well, omegle girl seems perfect for me, we share pretty much everything in common, and despite the fact meeting once and speaking periodically, we talk as if we're best friends, there's like a constant connection, and she's ready to give everything for me, and she wants to travel everywhere together, but she lives in Brazil and fuck long distance.

Current gf, I've known her since we were 14(22 now), we've been together for a while, and when we got together it was perfect, we both suited each other so well, but we're older and have become different people, but are still such similar people and have fun together, we have plans to get a house and get tied down and sht, she lives in same town as me, and I don't think I could bring myself to break up w/ her

Grass is greener on the other side syndrome

>>18277125
don't join your fucking fat fetishist friends, will fuck you up
t. fat fetishist

bad idea hombre

>t. former fat person

>>18277125
Why would you ever want this?
>t. Fat fuck

Please help. If it means anything, I've already tried changing MTU to 1473

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>>18277000
Ethernet cable?

Just connect to extender and forget about it?

>console peasant

>>18277098
Sorry for the late response, but I can't use an Ethernet cable since the router is downstairs and the reason why it's a problem with the extender is that when I play games it's just watching players slide around.

As a fellow artist I'm already interested. I'm sure many nerdy guys here are interested as well. Try Tinder or some dating apps. How are you flirting with guys?

>weight 45 kgs, height is 165

Well, for starters you could use normal American numbers instead of that weird European stuff. Pounds and feet/inches--that's what normal people use.

Hi op. Do you live in the states?

maybe your lack of paragraph breaks drives them away.

>>18276796
Bumping for interest. I've noticed this pattern as well: they won't initiate conversations with me if I didn't contact them first, and if I act distant they just move on.

>>18277106
Welp, I guess we'll never know.

Find a job, educate yourself, set some goals, become a monk, take drugs, rob people, join furries, travel, have gay sex, have straight sex, invent new way to clean yourself after a toilet, build a castle, fly planes into buildings, join the army, write a blog about food, dive, explore the life of ants in your backyard, etc. You can do literally anything.

>>18276599
But you don't want to change. No... you just wish to remain in your comfort zone, sitting whole day in front of the screen, crying on 4chan, desperatly looking for attention and later masturbating to gay porn. The day-night cycle has lost meaning to you because you never go out. Your only needs are to eat, shit, sleep and masturbate. You might as well kill yourself since you contribute to nothing and you only spend, just like a parasite. Nobody respects you, nobody loves you. You will live and die alone. Now go find some futa porn fag, I know your dick is soft but there's nothing else for you left to do. Enjoy your "life".

Believe me, anon, I have a education, a job (not in my domain, I'm overqualified for it, but I was not a bright student as I wanted to), still with my parents (no need to stay in rent), I live a medium-life (not too expensive, not too cheap), try to be discreet, try to find a gf and so on.
But I still browse on 4chan.
Believe me: I don't feel changed after this job (I have a job since june 2016, changed in october 2016).
I don't feel changed, just myself with less free time available. Oh, and the money. Too few to put aside for rainy days.

>>18276443
(Cont.)
This never bothered her until a few months ago when she began to care about me even more, and the whole military thing just worries her, and when knowing that I'll have to go away for two weeks at a time, maybe even months in the future just wrecks her. Whenever that time comes around where I have to go away, she gets physically and emotionally sick. It just ruins her and at this point it has become too much.

She's admitted to me she plans on killing herself in the near future, it seems inevitable and I don't know what to do. She refuses to get help, citing that her whole life nothing has ever worked. I know she would lose all trust in me if I ever brought her somewhere. I've talked about bringing her somewhere and she admits that she'd just do what she did last time and go through the motions. On top of that being held somewhere would fuck up her pets situation, apartment, maybe even her job. Taking a break from each other wouldn't help, and just make her miss me more. Anything I can think of doing would just "delay the inevitable." She won't get help, nothing, and pushing through these next three years is not an option apparently.

It's such a hopeless situation. I want to save her but I can't. I don't know what to do.

Bump.
Anyone?

>>18276443
You have written it beautifully. Basically your gf will suicide. So the advice is clear:
Abadon her, save yourself and wait for her to kys. This way she will end her suffering and you will be able to move on.
>i want to help her
Have you tried to ask her if she even wants your help? Arent you selfish to want her to keep living?

You can try to question her logic about suicide. That is what we do here on /adv/ with all suicide posters. Once it gets too personal for them, they simply ghost the thread. We keep telling them that they are young and it will get better.

But will it actually get better? Some mental conditions are permanent. And all /adv/isors here are normal. We dont know how bad it is for her. And she has given up.

The only question is:
>why havent she killed herself yet?

Maybe the sole reason is you. But seriously, if she cant make it without you for 14 days, she is beyond saving.

You can try to guilt trip her. Tell her how unfair it will be for you when she kys. That by suicide she basically shows you how worthless you are for her. That it will probably break you and you wont be able to be happy ever again afterwards.

But seriously consider abadonding her.

>FF orientation week of uni this year
>She’s on the committee of one of the clubs
>Visit that club’s stall to see her
>She [genuinely] looked happy to see me, [like if I went in for a hug she would have hugged back]
>Still not showing any emotions towards her
>She invites me to walk around and check out other clubs with her
>Keep my distance as we walk
>Eventually get back to her club’s stall
>Finally get her number
>Join her club
>Gives me a giftbag
>Because I had a meeting to go to, I tell her I didn’t want to carry it around with me and gave it back to her, instead of asking her to hold it for me
>[She looked disgusted that I did this]
>Went back home straight after the meeting instead of texting her or going back to the stall to see if she was still around

>>18276228
>there nothing for me to fuck up in the first place

You need to fucking relax

Sounds like you liked being in the position of her giving you attention, but sought her out when she wasn't giving you any when you were an asshole

>>18275278
Golf seems like the better idea. a movie might be a bit much.

>>18275278

what was he in for?

>>18275278
golf sounds nice

>>18279603
Kill yourself.

Your manager gives less of a fuck about a root than she does about a worker that she can rely on.

Ask her after you quit, if she's up for it there's a whole lot less faggotry all around.

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>>18279619
>Kill yourself
>Ask her after you quit

Which one is it?

>>18279603
She was just being nice.
Don't fall for every girl that is nice to you.

>>18279395
I think that pic looks pretty good. Blonde on an asian girl always looks a bit weird to me. I just get the vibe they're trying to hard to look white. I think brown and whatever the fuck that pic is is a good color. Are your eyes super chink or are they more open?

Blonde is okay but natural is better. Coloured lenses never look good in my opinion

>>18279401
I agree with this anon, pic related looks fantastic but I think a dark color is a way safer bet if you are not sure. Otherwise you'd had to see how it looks better on yourself asking people who can see you. Maybe photoshop helps you get the idea otherwise. It's something very specific to your face shape probably and not so general for asians.

Shit, this is bad

Yes, it's basically two people talking about how they want to have sex with each other. At most they pretend to have attributes they don't. Just like how people often draw the line between porn and interacting with camgirls, this crosses a similar boundary.

Don't humor her giving you the cold shoulder, this is fucked up breh

>>18279375
I think this is almost like cheating. She obviously has some fetishes she is scared to share them with you and so she goes to anonymous public mmo and practices it with random dudes.

Talk to her, tell her that you wont go full retard, tell her it is no big deal for you and ask her if she can include you in her private kinky world.

If it bothers you, there are always solutions and compromises. Start with a hug and talk.

And remember, females are feelings first, logic second. She wont tell you truth unless you make her feel safe and wanted. Try to apologize to her (not in sarcastic voice) for not being good enough husband for her to trust you from start. That should squeeze some reaction from her.

Good luck!

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>>18279064
I'm sorry to hear that friend. Sadly that is how the world is these days. Cheating wifes are more common that not-cheating wifes.

I don't do anything for my mom on mothers day, are you american? In my country it's like a 50/50 split of people caring about halloween, mothers day, valentines etc..

I'd advise making sure you stay in contact with your dad and let your mom know you're disappointed in her. But hopefully you can forgive her, you only have one mom. And your dad probably only has you while your mom has at least one other partner, a gang of hens as friends etc

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>>18279093
I'm from the Netherlands, I used to make breakfast with my older brother and bring it to their bedroom when we were kids.

Currently studying in Japan where mothers day is huge and there's carnations everywhere. I was in a different city a year ago, and I sent her a card then. Not sending one this year would get the message across.

Thanks for your advice. They're likely going to get a divorce and my dad will start over in the town where my boyfriend lives, he likes it there. I'll have plenty of opportunities to visit him, and he told me he's looking forward to that. Not sure what else I can do for my dad now. Don't know what my mother's plans are.

>>18279064
Hell no, OP. She doesn't deserve it.