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yeah. I'm pretty much the same way. like I have acne, and my face in no way at all is symmetrical, that and I was cursed with extremely middle eastern features, big nose, big lips, and really thick eyebrows (thank fuck for threading).
anyhow, the thing is though, you may think you look all right in the mirror, but soon as you see your true self, it's like, "wtf, ew no". know why? because you're not used to seeing yourself as you really look.
trust me, you probably don't look that bad. you say you're in good shape, and s'long as you groom yourself, keep up with hygiene, don't dress like a weirdo, you'll be right.
I hate my face, and often I'm like, lol, why can't I look like the Staceys? but... at the same time, how much importance you place on your face is up to you. I know I'm ugly, but I also know I'm pretty fucking good at other things. so stop focusing on your looks, because unless you're just looking for one night stands, or seeking to be a model, looks aren't the /most/ important thing in life, senpai.

Yes I feel ugly. It's even worse now that I lost weight. I can never be too thin. I look forever like a toddler with a giant head

>>18281087
I don't mean to laugh, but that is funny dude.

If you already feel like you're a wage slave, then just join the military. If that's where you got your PTSD then welcome back motherfucker.

>>18280914
Jet?

>>18280928
You can not join the military if you are deaf. I got my ptsd from being molested as a kid. I honestly see no point of existing but I am afraid of putting my family through me killing myself. They have been trying really hard to get me to settle in life and not seek a better life for myself because they know I can not do much with myself.

How do you come to terms with making min wage for the rest of your life?

>>18280854
Youve gone out of control. Look up nofap and stop with the kinky stuff. Its only going to get more and more kinky. Get back to normal!

I do online dating to search for "unicorns" (bi girls up for threesomes), so I know your struggle

If you persist for some time, eventually you'll get a match, as long as your profile is "pg13" and not creepy

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>>18280881
Jesus. Hard mode.

Yeah. Profile is pretty tight. I dont larp, dont push a fantasy. I call it the 'hobby' approach.

I find myself at odds with the scene. I dont identify as my hobbies/sexuality as so many seem to.

>tfw too intellect to self indentify

>>18280731
>overweigth
Dont listen to others. There is nothing scarier than watching others improving themselves. So they will try to drag you down. Until you make it down to ~20 bmi, you still have space to improve yourself.

>>>/fit/ sticky

And about your face. You have to post it to get fair judge, rating and tips on what to do and what to not do.

Otherwise your post looks more like you want some hugbox. But /adv/ is more like a animal which will tear your feelings to shreads and give you new direction to follow.

>move on
Try instant ego boost for girls called online dating. And stop being fat. That should be a start. And you deal with insecurity by fighting it head on. Feel ugly? Post your face to see how fazed you are.

>>18280731
We like the curves but we don't like the fat.
Don't let that cunt judge you. Lose the weight and you will get better.

>>18280731
If you really are ugly then I hope you use your brain. Use it!! Your friend probably saw your fast losses and wanted you to not go too overboard. But get /fit/ anyway. You will feel much better. If you keep improving, to me you are more beautiful than the majority of people.

What messenger? What are you blackmailed with again, in simple words?

>>18280734
>>18280724
>name, date of birth, and social security number

There's nothing they can really do with that info that's worth $250. Maybe steal your identity and get some bogus credit cards, but if you're already broke, your credit probably already sucks and you won't be held responsible for the charges. You should check your credit report regularly, though.

Also, I took the picture after I TIDIED UP. I come back to this every single day.

>>18280720
Te lo voy a explicar de una manera en que lo entiendas, ahora eres su madre y ella tiene 6 años, por lo tanto tienes el derecho de educarla, como usuario de /pol/ te recomiendo una regla standar de 1 metro, aplicala directamente sobre la puta.

Have a nice day.

>>18280732
Le he dicho que si no puede convivir con nosotras/vivir independente, es mejor si queda en la casa de su madre.

La ironia es que ella es mayor que yo. O.o

>>18280714
Are you kidding me? The uglier one and 9/10 sex. No fucking question! (I expect 9/10 means 90% of my kinks fulfilled)

>>18280714
10/10 sex with 9/10 wife.

9/10 gf with 4/10 sex, but I'm abnormally shallow

The phone is for setting dates only. Chit chat does not increase intimacy, it actually reduces attraction.

Plan a date immediately, set a definite time and place. Then just stay "cool, see you there" and meet her at set time and place.

Have fun, kiss or hook up at the end of the night, then just smile and say you had a great time. When she texts you (she will if she likes you. Give it at least a week) arrange the next date and repeat the process.

Over time you'll get closer to the point where you can comfortably text casually because you're hanging out almost everyday, and she'll fall in love and ask to be your gf within 1-3 months if you do what I say.

Dont give a reason. Just end it suddenly and wait a day or two. You must keep them wanting more and keep surprising. This means just almost long enough convos and no telling when youll text next. Might be in an hour or two days.

>>18280706

I can't go out with her for two weeks plus because I'm going out of town and have work plans. Gotta keep myself on her mind somehow.

I'm also not totally sure if I'm into her yet so I want to learn more about her.

My nephew goes to West Point so he's technically in the military and he gets paid shit. It's like a couple hundred bucks a week. I can only assume some idiot in the regular army gets paid similar if not less despite possibly having to be put in harms way.

The military is not a career for someone like you though. You're going to hate it and you're going to make less than someone at Taco Bell but you'll be living in conditions that probably don't agree with what you're used to. So you're better off just working fast food and working your way up. That's a career you can handle, maybe.

>>18280678
When you go to West point you are only technically in the military. The pay you get is not military pay, but a stipend to help get you through school.

>>18280678
If your nephew is attending west point he's a cadet, not actually in service. Not even in the military. That is an allowance.
>>18280632
It depends on rank and time in service. There are a plethora of pay grade charts out there, dont be a lazy faggot

>>18280623
Same here anon, it's apparently called anorgasmia
Also it seems that everybody on this site only use their hands so good luck

>>18280630
I-I don't use my h-hands.. Why would you suggest that

do you jerk off too much?

Meant to say sports instead of sorts.

>>18280618
>decide to improve
>actually try
>probably fail
>feel a little more content because trying was hard
>get fed up again
Repeat until you succeed.

Seriously though you just have to want to improve.
Right now you want improvement, but you don't want to do what it takes to achieve it.
You have to want to do the work. Either you get to that point or you stay complacent and pathetic.

Fabulous is an app. It holds your hand through basic healthy habit formation.
Other apps such as Habitica rely on you to assign your own tasks, set your own goals and hold yourself accountable for following through. You level up and get in-"game" items for getting shit done.
If you're not into using these then just do it in a notebook.

Also get a notebook either way and write in it often. Lay out your thoughts, feelings, goals, accomplishments, etc. for self-critique and progress tracking.

Good luck.

>>18280805
Thanks Anon, will do.

>>18280617
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>>18280617
Just keep away from him if you value what you do.

>>18280674
I think youre right

>>18280475
I think about it a lot too. I also have a tendency to use drugs, and those two together are enough for me to rule out buying a weapon. Talking about it online helps me more than IRL. I would also recommend you meditate to find out where this urge is coming from and what causes it.

>>18280482
how does one find the urge? I am trying to solve it for 3 years every day

>>18280475
>pro tip
Bring some drink to the shooting range. If you really want to kill yourself, fill your mouth with water before shooting yourself. There are a lot of people who survived shots to head. But with the water spreading the impact it is foolproof.

And if you by any chance want to live, try talking to professionals. You certainly have some bad life experience to feel like this.

Anything but pretending you are fine is better. Talk about your problems with somebody!

>>18280409
A 36 in the ACT will make most college admission boards crap their pants. I think you're good.

>>18280428
Don't listen to him go take the SAT my man, the top schools care about the SAT more and with your ACT score I'm sure you'll do great. Good luck!

It doesn't matter in the fucking slightest what your SAT score is. No college I looked at even cared to ask about that, all they want to know is the ACT score, and honestly, past about 30+ score, you'll be getting unsolicited acceptance letters to the ivy league schools, just like me and everyone else that knocked it out of the water.

Go to school free anywhere with that 36, it wouldn't matter if you took the SAT and purposefully flunked it as bad as you could.

>>18280395
Sounds like she does.

Text her and make plans for a date. "Hey femanon, how about going for coffee and a picnic this weekend? Weather's supposed to be good :)"

Gives you a chance to spend quality time together without being shut in at a movie.

Good luck

>>18280412
>picnic

Have you ever been on a picnic? Who goes on picnics?

>>18280414
I have and do. It's fun going to buy the things for it together and walk and talk and find a nice spot to eat and feed ducks with leftover crusts etc.

Maybe it's a eurocuck thing though