Can I just straight up ask a female friend if she is down to

>>18277344
If you two are as close as you say you are, suggesting the idea shouldn't ruin anything if she declines. I say go for it, and if she makes it awkward that's her problem.

>>18277344
I'd suggest the idea with sarcasm and a little pressure to your tone of voice. If you're both comfortable talking about sex then it would be perfectly normal to make a comment like that.

>>18277344
Just ask if she would like to do some fetish stuff sometime if she says yes go for it.

You don't ask for permission, you're not a puppy. Just grab her and start making out with her, that's how I lost my virginity. If she's attracted to you she'll love it. If she's not, it's rape/sexual harassment. Have fun.

OP here, thanks for all the replies, ill probably just say something along the lines of "don't make it awkward if you say no, but you wanna try some of that bondage shit out with me" the next time we talk about fetishes, that sound okay?
Yes know it reeks of beta, but it would feel weird being pushy and aggressive. She seems to be mature with telling people down so I'm assuming she won't make it awkward if she's not DTF, but still.

Just a note, she's one of the only ones that knows I'm a kissless virgin, told her I had a 4.7 inch dick (which she said wasn't small but average, and she'd rather have an average dick than a gigantic one which apparently hurts her) and has joked by telling me "let's fuck huehelue" one night when we were drunk a couple months back.

Don't mention that it might get awkward or that you're nervous or whatever. Just ask. It's not a big deal.

>>18277629
Noted, thanks. I'll try not to.