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>failed out of one of the easiest programs.
What are you trying to do with your life?
Did you fail because of laziness?

My first two semesters in EE were 1.47 and 1.61 gpa. I'm finishing up my third year now and I'm almost at a 3.
Anything is possible anon. Chances are you weren't ready and didn't have the study habits or motivation (the problem in my case).
If you want to work/wait, then get a job asap. But if you want to go back to school eventually, sooner is better than later.
I recommend community college.

>>18277883
Post full body pic

>>18277897
No, I'm afraid of this, too.
That's my biggest problem, self-consciousness, everything I wrote is true, but only when I get drunk, if I'm sober I will have to deal with fear

>>18277883
Wait for your penis to make the first move. He makes a great wingman.

>>18277854
Are you
>dumb
>fat
>anorectic
>boring
>bipolar
>schyzo
>clingy
>cold
>tall
>short
>tatooed
>pierced
>poor
>rich
>clever
>dumb
>introvert
>extrovert
>easy to sex
>hard to sex
>ugly
>attractive
?

Also where do you live? Because
http://www.cnsnews.com/news/article/barbara-hollingsworth/bachelor-nation-70-men-aged-20-34-are-not-married

Also feminism, mgtow and other memes are in play. Where do you find dudes to date? They simply ghost you after first date? Have you tried to contact them? How long are you ACTIVELY trying to date dudes? Tried to date ugly fat guys?

>give me a pass please
I can see you are super insecure. Why is that?

What is wrong with you girl? Or are you bait?

>>18277854

Hi

>>18277890

Well, I'm not ugly, introverted, a bit clingy, average smartness and financial condition, not tattoeed or pierced... I think I'm ok, I don't know.

I'm very insecure, yes. Never dated nobody.

>>18277822
>haha autism

Brain automatically forgets bad parts of your life faster than good parts. Just stop thinking about it.

Naybe tell your parents how shit parents they were.

>>18277824

>tfw used to make fun of people more visibly autistic than you were to deflect attention so no one would suspect you

a stupid way to think but there you go

>>18277838
Imagine i went through all primary and high school without even knowing what autism means and never ever met anybody who was officially diagnosed with that.

If not for 2D hentai games threads in /vg/ i wouldnt even be here and would end up as fucking normie!

Write a review online bashing his school.

They're referred to as McDojos in the MMA/Bjj community. There are some groups on fb that enjoy highlighting such establishments.

What was done to people like that in the ~90's and before, was to pose a challenge in front of his students. Fight with clothes, mouth guard and helmet. He'll probably bail so whoever is the challenger could humiliate him in front of the students

Bjj fighters do that but usually to other bjj fake gyms. If he's naming his martial art after/under some other, there's probably a legit gym or federation of that style that will do something about it, be a challenge or anything else

Message before you leave for wherever you're going. Gauge interest. If interest is between 4/7 on the will she fuck me scale, use time away to text and lay the foundation. Return from trip and fuck.

Thank me by adopting a cat from the local shelter.

>>18277799
Just say "hey, I will be gone for for 2 weeks, but I am really interested to you, so would you be up for going out when I come back?" Something like that should work. Good luck!

>>18277839
Bump

ask your boss if he can get promoted too

>>18277774
Your boss done fucked up, not you.

You could still lighten the other guys' workload tho, before he leaves for greener pastures.

>>18277774

your boss might have, but no, you didn't. you took an opportunity that was presented and saying 'someone else deserves it' just sets a pattern where you give what you deserve to someone else simply because you might think less of your self. even if he IS the better choice, he chose you for a reason, even if its just because you are likeable, which promoted positions often require even more than hard work.

>>18277764
Millennials have been conditioned to be self-centered and wary of commitment.

>>18277778
shit up

>>18277764
Because the gender roles 'reversed'.

>>18277709
I get two "online friends" by playing online game where when you are dead, you have to wait for a while until next round start and basically just invaded their personal space by typing into chat until they added me and then i spammed them more, added them on discord and had room chats ever since.

Tldr start talking to people. Work both online and offline. The key point is they have to be hooked on it so you see yourselves reguraly.

>>18277709
I'll talk with you anon. Don't expect long winding conversations and late night gaming sessions. Bit of an oldfag with a regular job, but I dabble here n there . Mostly mobile, wow, any new mmo. You can find me on KIK as medANON

Did something similar. Group of friends I played with wanted to buy a shit game I hadn't interest in playing. They bought said game. I stopped joining parties. Stopped responding meme threads. I deleted them from my friends lists this month. Miss playing with them, but they have an egofag buddy that one of them constantly fellate which got unbearable.

Tell your drug dealer/shop to stop supplying you?

Or you can hack your habit so that whatever cue you have to smoke weed, you change the behaviour

So as soon as you have the urge "I need to smoke weed" immediately do another activity (and it needs to be the same activity every time) like reading a book or playing a video game or going for a run or a walk

That way you form a new habit on top of the old one

For me I cut cold turkey.
For others, it isnt so easy. Slowly fade it away.
Begin once a day. Then 6 days a week. Then 5 days a week. At this rate you can be done in 8 weeks completely. This is a gradual approach. You might also want to pick up another hobby. You might find yourself at home, bored, and wishing you had weed. Another hobby, like going to the gym, or building something or whatever, you wont feel a need for weed.

>>18277574
>>18277583
What would you say the easiest methods are, all of these felt better with weed

>>18277543
Connections

>>18277543
Don't go for fucking humanities, for starters. Other than that, I suggest you actually show that you are a diverse and well-rounded human being by traveling, doing some volunteer work, showing you have varied extracurricular interests, and otherwise can be a self-motivated individual by starting your own small business.

>>18277576
What should I go for if I'm awful at math and meh in science?

Of course dating is possible without social media, just do it like people used to do before social media appeared. It wasn't even that long, jeez.

>>18277524
Well I know, but now it seems everyone is on it, and it's weird if you're not. Am I just overestimating how big a deal it is that I just don't like social media? I feel like at some point in dating someone it will have to be brought up and might get awkward.

I'm on the same boat except everyone knows I'm insane and there is no "prenty of girls who I flirt with" for me, hell I'm not even unnatractive or autistic, I just do whatever the fuck I want and girls seem to look down on that.

>>18277471
there's tons of other things you can try before circumcision

>>18277471
that's a retarded reason to get circumcised if anything you'll cum quicker due to your glans being fully exposed.

>>18277471
It doesn't kill your nerve endings. It just makes the skin on the tip a little tougher. With vaginal fluid or saliva it gets moist enough to not notice. Yes it will probably make you last longer, but like anon above me said there are other things you could try first.

I feel you. I want to move from my low value hellhole for rednecks and retirees to somewhere on the west coast where the sky is bluer and you can feel the ocean air and there are four seasons. No luck, though, property values are a knife to the balls.

>>18277745
Do it then. What is holding you back.. I did it.

I went from bumfuck NY to all of the hawaiian islands, backpacked for 3 months thru the summer and then moved to California.

It's possible. I have done it. I never thought I would but I just went for it. Bought the ticket and didn't look back/talk myself out of it. Just made it happen. look into helpx,workaway if u cannot afford rent.

>>18277754

>backpacked

Want to know how I know your parents are loaded

>>18277365
Be involved with the community your music appeals to. Go on soundcloud or bandcamp and comment on people's tracks who make the same music. Follow people. Message people for collabs to get your name out there. There's tons of ways bro.
And this is coming from a producer/DJ

>>18277365
Soundcloud, upload the shit on all pirate sites but most importantly establish connections with other content creators, so you can suck each others dicks ... I mean, promote each other.

Also twitter and instashit. Basically get involved with social media. Though self promotion is almost as much work as the music itself.

>>18277384
>>18277377

thnx for the advice. It's daunting to grow a community person by person, but i guess it gets the job done even if it is slow