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My friend is being released from an asylum after five years.

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My friend is being released from an asylum after five years. What should I do?

I was thinking of taking him to see a movie or golf.
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>>18275278
Golf seems like the better idea. a movie might be a bit much.
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>>18275278

what was he in for?
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>>18275278
golf sounds nice
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>>18275358
Schizophrenia
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>>18275396
Is he 'fixed'
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Golf
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Dose him with LSD and make sure he doesn't know that you did it.
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>>18275402
Never, but can live on his own now.
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>>18276516
Maybe such a quick reintroduction to society isnt a good idea.... Maybe try just hanging out at his or your place watching a movie/playing vidya, if he drinks maybe bring a few beers. I'd say its less important to get him to go somewhere immediately, and showing him you're still friends is the most important thing. He's probably got a lot on his mind that he needs to let out/vent.
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>>18276923
Okay. I'm just bummed taht he missed out on his 20's. He was 23 when he went in, and now he's 28. It's crazy.
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>>18275278
I spent three months in a rehab clinic. What I would have loved to have done with a friend right after getting out would be eating at a nice japanese restaurant and going to a bar after to have a few drinks, smoke and catch up. Trust me, he would love the fuck out of that.
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>>18277068
Dude 3 months of rehab is nothing compared to 5 years of isolation in a psych hospital for schizophrenia...
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>>18277063
Yeah, that sounds terrible. Lucky for him, sounds like he's got a good friend ready for him when he gets back. Good luck anon, hope everything goes well.
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>>18277359
Obviously. What I mean is that I understand what it feels like to be locked up and I just told OP something I would have loved to do with a friend when I got out. It's more qualitative than quantitative, don't you agree?
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>>18277068
I hope it wasn't rehab for alcoholism kek
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>>18277469
Yes but the issue isnt the same. With addiction, as long as you dont relapse, you're good; you presumably had no issues while you are off x thing. Schizophrenia can cripple a person's ability to interact in society, and deal with all the stimulus. A 1 on 1 is a good start, considering an asylum can at points consist of borderline isolation and torture. Rehab is less extreme.
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>>18277755
Dude, if you knew. I'm psychotic. Currently taking antidepressants and antipsychotics, but for me shit's out of control when it comes to my sense of reality. As a pessimist, my best guess is either I go in again or I'm going crazy.
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>>18277831
Get a therapist?
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>>18275396
Poor guy. You're a good friend. Golf is outdoors, sun, fresh air and interactive.
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Smoke pot all day long.
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>>18277063
Wow, I never realized before now how huge a chunk of your life five years is.
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>>18277755
I spent a decade in rehab. All I did from 2000-2010 was practice waltzing with an oldie. After she died, I got to leave.
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My suggestion is to offer to help him with some certain project that you can work on together like starting a garden or building a small shed or painting a room. Try to get him productive but directly aid him in it so there's the comradery of working together. I hope you and your friend well, anon.
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>>18278246
Thanks. He's pretty sad about leaving, surprisingly.
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>>18277068
>>18275278
This was an asylum

I recommend to find new friends and step away from that. Be supportive, yes, but don't put yourself in the same room or city as this person.
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Golf it is buddy, but if you're going for a movie try a feel good comedy movie.
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>>18278358
So avoid Get Out? My granny nearly fainted during that one.
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Take him to McDonald's
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>>18278302
What the fuck is wrong with you?
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Get him into an MMO ASAP.

He needs to distract himself from everything around him and live in a self made comfy prison while getting disability from being inable to work.
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> 5 years of isolation in a psych hospital for schizophrenia

fucking hell

take him to a good outlook spot, enjoy the view and talk about purely positive things. Change the convo into something positive if he starts to go into bad shit.

Other than that I don't think it's much you can do and remember to not blame yourself for whatever outcome
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>>18278243
in an asylum, you don't even get that. you get people who throw literal piss and shit at people, wig out and scream and cut themselves; you never get to see anyone of the opposite gender, there's no conjugal or anything like that. being in an asylum means never getting laid or having fun. it's a system than should be reformed.
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>>18279396
They're a shitty person, obviously.
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