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Something I noticed that I look back is that all of my dates/contacts with girls whom we seemed to be interested into each other (apart from maybe 1 occasion) were really one sided, where I did most of the contacting, I organised everything etc. I know girls generally are the more passive when it comes to dating, but the constant lack of feedback makes me disillusioned with them after a while and makes me drop the whole thing altogether. Plus I know some of my friends whom got contacted by girls and I see the advice "don't contact her and see how long she contacts you" given a lot here (even to me one time, and as you can guess, we haven't talked since).
What is going on? Are girls become more proactive only after a certain point? I'm good looking enough to get approached by, but not enough to approach? Am I only drawing in the really passive girls?
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maybe your lack of paragraph breaks drives them away.
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>>18276796
Bumping for interest. I've noticed this pattern as well: they won't initiate conversations with me if I didn't contact them first, and if I act distant they just move on.
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>>18277106
Welp, I guess we'll never know.
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>>18277399
Probably just humoring you or using you for attention/free food. If the interest isn't mutual then it shows, and trying too hard will drive females even further away.
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>>18276796
are you fat?
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>>18278484
have a bit of belly but not particularly
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I'm the anon from>>18277106
Try messaging out of the blue any of the girls you haven't spoken with for a long time, just for a laugh and see how they'll answer ya (if there will be an answer). Maybe their answers will give you something to think about, maybe not.
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