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Xanax is not helping,hallucinations are becoming constant,I sleep for 13+ hours in last 3 days and it just helps my depression...I have insufferable amount of detest for life,for my sexuality,for this town...My study and hobbyes dont do anything that will make me content and I keep punishing myself for not being able to read my norm of 60 pages a day...This is yet the worst crisis I had...How to avoid suicide,how to escape from this vicious circle?Help for Gods sake,HELP...
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>>18279698
Well, Xanax is for panic attacks and shit, so that's not going to help any of your problems. Talk to someone. Talk to a different doctor.
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I talked to 5 of them,and they just dont know how to diagnose whats wrong or they wont to,they just give me recommendation letter to psychologist,and then he gives me same for next psychiatrist and then he gives me the same for another and so on and so on...GODDAMNIT,ITS FRUSTRATING...
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A friend was being reffered to doctors like you describe. It wasnt helping. He was almost going literally insane when he just decided to go to the ER in the hospital and said be was going insane. With a bit of convincing they admitted him to the ward and finally good docs looked at him. Most is ok now. This happendd in a ckuntry with free health care fkrtunaty because he had no money
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Alright
the time has come for me to finally get a masturbator,
I want it to be a fleshlight type device, but there are so many and I have never used one, any experts around?
what should I get? don't care about price. just want the most lifelike one. was looking around here:
https://www.ms-online.co.jp/onahole/
links would be very appreciated
(living in Tokyo so I have easy access to a lot of stuff)
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just get whatever. I'ts not like you know how the real thing is like to be dissapointed anyways
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>>18279693
You should read the onahole guide on /jp/. It's extremely helpful
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>>18279693
Gonna need sauce on the vampiric bitch. I'd let her suck the blood out of my cock if you know what I mean.
How to get over when the first relationship where you actually felt love and turns out that your partner is a lying and cheating piece of shit?
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Fuck op at least you know what love feels like...
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Roughen up, try again
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Time heals all wounds
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[Help!] The Girl I Like Won’t Respond to My Emails! 2017-05-02 04:16:40 Post No.18279648
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[Help!] The Girl I Like Won’t Respond to My Emails!
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There’s this girl I’ve had feelings for since high school, and now we’re in college together.
We’ll call her Sara
Once we hit second year, we went out
drinking, and I worked up the courage to exchange numbers.
We started out talking often, but she hasn’t answered me in three days now.
I’m getting depressed just thinking that Sara might be sick, or that something happened to her…
Please, somebody give me some advice.
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Bro I hate to break it to you but she was probably too busy spitroasting a bunch of dudes at a party
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How many emails (text messages, phone calls, and other forms of contact too) did you send in the time while you were waiting for her to reply? What was the nature of them?
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College girls always have their phones. She saw your messages and chose not to reply.
Sorry, man. Just move on.
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This fag I used to hang out with treated me like shit like he would yell and be a dick to me every time we hung out and I couldn't tell if he was just autistic or what because I was acting nice and it came off really weird and crazy.
One time he did it and I was pissed and I asked him to fight a few times because it seriously seemed like he wanted to and he just looked away and like acted like he couldn't even hear. I kept saying let's fight and he just looked at his computer and was talking about shitb normally like he couldn't even hear me like a weird trance.
I really want to beat the fuck out of this kid because he pisses me off but I don't talk to him anymore but I feel like it's gonna seriously piss me off if I don't. The only thing is he's a nigger and I'm pretty sure he would fight as dirty as possible and he's admitted to me before that that's what he'd do in a fight. I'm pretty sure he's a pussy who's never been in a fight before. Should I just walk up and start swinging as fast and hard as I can for his face and kick him one time in the teeth and just fucking run?
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>>18279634
Junior high school shit. Fuck off underage b&
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>>18279651
Sadly no this guy is 23 or something
Although all he does is sit around his room smoking pot playing video games and complaining about being a virgin
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>>18279671
So why do you spend time with him at all?
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I will eventually be in the unique position where I have to choose between working on the east coast or working on the west coast. I'm not gonna make this decision until I have to, but still.
I spent about 10 months (nonconsecutive) out west for college and I really like it there. I have never worked in this way on the east coast but nothing excites me about being here. The only thing pulling me here is my girlfriend of 2 years.
I feel like if she wasn't with me, I'd move out west and not think twice. But since we're together, I have to put more thought into it. Is that bad?
Has anyone been faced with this kind of decision before? What did you do?
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>>18279630
Flip a coin.
Works every time.
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Jesus Christ, why is a 2 year relationship failing barely a consideration for you? You two could get married someday, you love each other, this is important.
The west coast is cancer anyway.
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>>18279690
i've had many tell me the opposite, that i'm 22 and relationships at this stage rarely work out anyway.
and i like the west coast
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WTF? I took a photo to my ID and I look ugly as fuck... 2017-05-02 03:56:12 Post No.18279608
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WTF? I took a photo to my ID and I look ugly as fuck...
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Is it just me? Until today I would think of myself as a 5/10 or 6/10 (to some probably 4/10) guy, but today I had to take a picture to my ID and it's a straight picture with extreme close up with me looking at camera. I look hideous on it!!! Do you also have a feeling that you look terrible on ID photos? I even took a straight selfie soem time ago and I looked kinda good there... WTF
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Nice job posting you're personal info dumbass
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>>18279610
Pic is unrelated.
>Connor SAMPLE
>SAMPLE
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>>18279612
Post the picture on your license.
To anyone that keeps regular contact online with somebody, what can we use that is simple and effective to communicate but not as direct as IMs or texting?
Emails are becoming a pain in the ass.
I liked FetLife's simple approach to it, is there anything like that?
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Skype
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>>18279510
That's basically IMing. Something more indirect than that.
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I think I have Asperger's, what do I do now?
So, my socializing skills are complete garbage, to the point I can't casually buy something from a seven eleven because of my mouth spitting words without any sense. And that's only of the bunch of symptoms.
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>what do i do now
assume that you don't have a mental disorder, take responsibility for your actions, and work on your social skills. to assume you are an aspie is to stop trying. by saying you have aspergers you are saying that you are no longer responsible for these problems and can essentially give up and say 'HURR DURR NOT MY FAULT, I HAVE ASPERGERS :D'
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>>18279495
High-functioning Aspergers is virtually indistinguishable from "normal" shyness and social awkwardness. The solution for both is OCP
O - Observe. Watch how others interact successfully
C - Copy them
P- Practice. You won't become chad overnight, but it is only by making yourself try that you'll gradually get better at it.
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Thanks to the guy who didn't talk shit. The thing is, it's no just about social skills, those I couldn't give less shaiza. Thanks anyways, I guess I'll wait. (Btw, I'm not trying to be free of guilt, I know part of its my fault, just trying to figure out how to live like this now)
Also, forgot to mention that I was indeed diagnosed with autism when I was 12, but my family never really cared.
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How do I become more articulate? I have a really good vocabulary and can write better than pretty much anyone I know but I struggle with formulating my thoughts and ideas into conversation / debate.
If you give me 30 seconds I can come up with a great response / argument but I don't have that time.
I'm not even dumb or anything, I have a pretty high IQ (if that even matters for this) but I struggle with this considerably.
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Take the 30 seconds.
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But then I look like an autist. Imagine if someone asked you something and you talking half a minute to respond.
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If you use big words in conversations you're probably a nerd
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So my gf sent me a nude of herself this morning for me to wake up to, but I noticed the file is dated from a few days ago.
Am I being paranoid to think she might've taken it with another purpose as in to send to someone else or whatever or is it not that strange to take a picture and hold on to it for a few days?
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>>18279473
Chill out bro, she just sent me the nudes to make sure they were ok.
I would think its a bit weird (as in something I wouldn't do) but girls do all sorts of weird shit. If there aren't any signs of her cheating or texting other guys lascivious pictures I would let it slide. If weird shit like this keeps popping up then you might have a problem on ur hands
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I'd ask her why is that, and hope she came up with a good excuse pronto
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>>18279473
The "whatever" is body tracking via selfie.
So she considered it and felt good enough to onsend it to you after a day kr two. Big deal.
Are you saying you're not buff enough to take the odd selfie to keep track of progress..? That you might repurpose as a semi-nude to send to your SO?
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I love her to bits, but when she argues it doesn't fucking end until she decides it's over.
I can apologize and mean it, I can understand her problem and tell her I'll do something about it, I can try to use logic (this always fails and takes stuff to the next level), I can try to soothe her with sweet words, I can try to make her emphasize with me and understand where I stand on the issue, I can try to take her mind off it if she makes no sense, I can try to de-escalate things and have her tell me where those feelings really come from or ask her to explain calmly what's up, I can try to find a mutual solution.
All this in a calm and collected way even if she's shouting.
But it doesn't fucking end before I start shouting back and make her cry or start throwing shit around, hitting walls, leaving or us breaking up for the gazillionth time. This is after hours of me trying to be calm and do the things I said above. This puts an end to the conversation but it isn't me to do it and shit is usually brought up again.
I rarely even get mad out of anger, I just get riled up by her and the situation which makes me do those fucked up things cause I see no other way and they have worked in the past.
This isn't healthy for any of us, and I have brought this up under calm conditions but she says that she admits to being "a bit aggressive and emotional" but that she can't control it.
I want to set her straight and have meaningful conversations instead of riled up shouting, but I see no other way than to shout back and go apeshit (after hours of trying to make sense).
I understand that she is stressed at times and needs a let-out and I'm the only one she can do that with, but I really have my own life to worry about and that puts an immense pressure to having deadlines while being in a constant argument/tears from breaking up.
>tl;dr How do I pattern a woman that won't end an argument no matter the explanations and logic
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>logic
Lol never do that again.
And answer is very easy. Just let her win. To argue / have a war, you need two sides of conflict. If one side surrenders, then there is nor war / argument to win.
Sooner or later she will realize how dumb it is or your value in her eyes will decrease so low she will break up with you.
But dont worry, unstable girls unable to find balance in life arent worth of long relationships anyway.
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>>18279458
Logic is subordinate to the leadership of emotion, champ.
If she isn't seeing why you feel a certain way, you're prone to the statistics fallacy - ordered the right way, "statistics can show practically anything". The same goes for "logic" and rationality.
She drives you to the point of emoting, and that she can trust.
Try finding an emotional wavelength early, seek first to understand.
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I just started getting into making Lo-fi hip hop/chillwave stuff and I just made a YouTube channel. I'm still new on the music production end, but I know I'm not bad. I've been a guitarist for 8 years and have been in multiple bands, so I know my stuff.
My question is, how would I grow my channel? I have 4 subscribers and I'm pretty sure at least 3 of them are friends. I just want to make my own music, edit videos, make short films etc and share it with a bunch of people.
How would I go about this? Also I love Simpsonwave stuff, and I would make it to get attention, but I'm pretty sure the meme has been dead for a while.
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Keep pumping out videos. Make your titles descriptive and include key words. Do your thing and the audience will come
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you need to start doing it as a side hobby, post regularly, and be patient
unless you're at the center of a viral meme these things can take more than a year to take off, but as long as your content output is steady and of decent quality, you should find a niche
try to find ways to promote it by promoting yourself, participate in contests / collaborations / associate yourself to people (not necessarily very well known people, but any number of people hearing about you can be a good thing for the size of your fanbase).
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jaK1-a4ntks&t=25s
That's one of my favorites, even though the music is beyond my level right now, that's ultimately what I want to make.
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Really? How long do you think it'll take? And how would I do self promotion?
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Are there certain unknown imperatives which prevent some people from settling down or finding love?
Everyone around me, every guy or girl I know are already in long standing relationships. We all grew up in the same environments, tested the grounds and stuff, and everyone except me seemed to figure it all out. Something prevents me from actually finding a girl who loves me enough to spend some 3+ years around.
It can't be that every single guy around me is better looking, has a better job, a better car, better clothes, better personality, better life.
Not saying I'm perfect (hell no) but the idea of marrying seems so farfetched, all while for everyone else is a reality waiting to happen. I want to get married, start a family, do family stuff, have kids. But it's like a dam somewhere along the path that can't be crossed.
Should I talk to a psychologist?
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What have you exactly done in order to find some girl and keep her as gf?
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>>18279365
Actually getting the girl but being unable to keep her as a gf for longer than a few months at a time. The excuses always seem to be "I'm not ready for a relationship"
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>>18279418
Also I'm 25 so there's no "teenager" excuse, most folk around me are getting married, if not with kids already.
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Depression/Medication help
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Hi all,
I have been on 150mg per day of sertraline for a couple of weeks having had the dosage steadily increased over a six week period.
I was diagnosed with severe depression, anxiety and OCD. I feel like i am turning a corner a little bit, and beginning to get better, but every 3 days or so, I get severe diarrhea which lasts a couple of days, also I get a feeling like my heart is racing at a million miles per hour (even though it is 75bpm).
i know these are side effects of sertraline, however what is the best way of dealing with them?
Also, i carried on working for the first 6 weeks after my diagnosis (against my doctor's wishes), but eventually had another breakdown so have been signed off for the past two weeks (which coincided with increase to 150mg). Problem is, i saw my doctor today and they have signed me off for another 3 weeks. i enjoy my job, it is high pressure with a great deal of responsibility, but i have a good circle of friends there, and i am missing going to work. I understand why I need time off, but I am running out of things to fill my day with - any suggestions of positive things to do to help my recovery?
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don't fret. do some deep breathing type exercises to help with the heart racing. avoid too much coffee and drinks like that.
why not use the time to do something else you like? read a book, listen to some audiobooks, or online lectures? visit some elderly relatives?
visit some museums or cultural places (with a toilet within racing distance, just in case!).
download some guided meditations or affirmations and give them a shot, my two cents.
good luck anon, you'll be fine.
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>>18279324
Thank you, I will definitely try the breathing exercises and meditations
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I'd quit meds and focus on why I'm depressed and actively do something about it. I had a friend on sertraline and he went insane before quitting them and is now better.
Many people will argue me and give me (you)s but depression comes from a natural response to you not being happy about something and not doing anything about it OR not realizing that the world sucks and you have to make the best out of it because nothing will be handed to you as opposed to your childhood. I hope you get better.