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>>18470575
Get yourself together and be single for a while

>>18470582

Thanks anon. I've already decided to be single for a while. I haven't spoke to her for a week now.

>>18470588
Wish You the best kind soul

Death is a part of life. Everyone's show comes to an end eventually. She seems to be more mature about death. Read the Tibetan Book of Living and Dying and you will become more mature about death.

>>18470554
She obviously isn't close to her grandad or she would be more concerned about losing him. However, my mother always told me to never count your chickens before they've hatched. The reality is, she could die beforre him and never see a dime of the money.

>>18470593
>>18470587

Maybe you're both right. She does seem to really care for him, she gets pretty upset when she has bad days. And I refuse to talk about it at all. But I still can't help but feel like it's wrong to even discuss.

>>18470525
Follow your heart

>>18470640
What do you mean?

>>18470652
Tell her how you feel even if it's uncomfortable

>>18470494
Honestly, I'm lazy. I hop on Tinder to see what's around, and for an ego boost. Messaging you takes forever and if you come to my house I have to worry about kicking you out after. Or you messaging me later. Or STDs. Whatever.

>>18470494
If they're very attractive then it's because they have much more attractive women that they're talking to. Women do the same too, more so actually.

Tinder is a buyers market. People can pick and choose as they please.

>>18470517
I swiped left for a large number of guys. And you know, I am decent looking and not hideous looking

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Bumping for mutual interest.

>tfw want to get help for anxiety but too anxious to ask again for the fourth time
I thought breaking down in tears would be enough the last time.

>>18470492
just bee yourself

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>>18470492
H-hey *voice crack*. I'm going to give you some tips. You don't have to listen to a word I say, but first off, I want you to know that you are literally a spiritual being. Okay? You are quite literally a God. I'm not joking. Believe me or not, I really don't give a fuck. But I do care enough to type this out, so just trust me on this one. If you don't believe that you are a spiritual being, then you are literally a fucking dead zombie.

Okay. Some tips to help you. Antidepressants? Get off that shit ASAP. What the hell is wrong with you. Do you know how dangerous that shit is. Never never never take them. But you've stopped so it's all good. Where was I? Oh, tips, right. Okay. What is a conversation? It's literally just different aspects of God communicating.

Think long and hard about the fact that we can fucking talk man. Everybody has their own thoughts, their own perspectives, their own jokes, their own misery. Everyone is unique as fuck. You might think you're a pathetic loser, but that's because you are. But all things change. All thing change. You will change, because of me. Well, that's the plan.

Back to conversations. They can be boring, or awkward, but they're pretty fucking cool. Imagine not having bodies. Imagine just being spirits. Imagine no one can see you. It's just your voice. It's just voices. It's just aspects of God. All creating ideas, and voicing opinions and thoughts.

You want to know why you need booze to start talking? It's because booze lets you be yourself. You think you're a boring creep, but you're not. You're probably pretty fucking funny actually. When you're stuck in your head, you don't say anything because you're afraid of being yourself. You're afraid of letting your divine spark shine. You're afraid of letting your thoughts flow. "B-but what if my joke isn't funny?" Listen here moron, if you didn't think your joke was funny, you wouldn't be thinking about telling it. Let your thoughts flow. It's that simple. Live.

Have you guys ever hung out or talked outside of work?

>>18470504
no i just started there a month ago but we close late everynight, he comforted and consoled me when my ex came in my store to start trouble. He does the schedule and i have literally only worked with him for 3 weeks, no other managers. Today he shot a rubber band with me, we take smoke breaks together, and it seems like he always has a reason to talk to me. Maybe im imagining his interest but as my superior i dont feel that he can outwardly show his interest

>>18470504
also i work at hooters so im always on display for him, maybe its just a physical thing

>>18470398
you;re dating a loser

>>18470423
How so

>>18470398
>I've had a troubled life, and relations with my family
yeah that was a given when you said you were dating someone more than twice your age

>>18470394
I too had this problem but what helped me get over it was the fact I can do the same thing. I could just go fucking other girls but i don't because i have a perfectly good qt girlfriend right here. I also make sure she doesn't go to parties without me knowing where and who is going to be there because i focus the relationship around trust and so does she. Of course she is going to think other guys are hot and i will also think other chinks are hot but with how the "dating" world has turned to shit we both know it's too fucking difficult to find wife/husband material so we're happy we found each other.

>>18470415
This I more depressing and discouraging than I think you think it is. Maybe I'm just wrapped up in my ideals, or because this is my first relationship - and surprisingly a long-lasting one - but I like to think me and her mix well. I sometimes feel like our relationship is out of obligation, but when I'm with her, I can't help but remember why I fell in love with her in the first place.

>>18470427
I'm very blunt and redpilled to hell sorry. I can't really give you much of an answer like, "she will always love you and be happy forever rawr XD" because we're not 13 anymore and it isn't 2007. It's also your first relationship so just give it time and you'll start getting over that paranoia. If not talk to her about it. Maybe her reassuring you is what you need.

If you're in the financial district, try St. George, in Staten Island. Taking the ferry is 25 min which takes you to Battery Park.

Some parts are ghetto, but they're currently building an outlet mall there to bring in tourists and to gentrify the area.

>>18470401
That works. Anywhere near NJ? I've got a gf, and family there.

>>18470392
you can live in new york on 65k a year? news to me. that said
>living in new york
like. eeeeehhhhhhhhhhhhh idk man. that doesn't seem worth it. I already live in a dense area and there's entirely too many fucking people all over the place. that sounds terrible.

>asked why he carries
>can't come up with a reason
>asks other people to explain to him why he does thing
how the fuck am I supposed to know? I have a few theories though.

1. you have some kind of autism and need to follow a set routine, even when those routine actions are detrimental
2. you're afraid of being raped
3. you're secretly hoping someone will attack you so you get to legally murder (bonus points if they're black)
4. you're compensating for something

>>18470405
Don't listen to this Anon. This time its "First reply is a faggot" instead of "OP is a faggot".

I say it's because there's so many shootings. The only way to stop a bad guy with a gun is a good guy with a gun.

>>18470405
hey look, a libshit. he literally said why he carries. he's asking how to answer that to people that don't have the same experiences and who live in a largely anti gun culture

>>18470356
>but I don't think I want it.
good call.

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>but I don't think I want it

>>18470356
>laughing at him because she always goes home to someone else
btw this is the correct one.

he's being used, he thinks he's getting something for free, truth is nothing comes for free even loose pussy. I knew a girl like this, she laughed at all the guys she fucked that weren't her bf. your friend is cucking her bf who is a loser, and she is emasculating your friend unbeknownst to him. likely she's fucking a lot of other people as well and in time this will come to affect your friend in some way.

>>18470370
if the fox were truly clever it would gnaw on the base of the vine, untwist it around the tree, and then alternately shake it and let it go to either shake the grapes free or drop them down.

I get your message but foxes are stereotyped as clever, the fox will get the grapes eventually.

>>18470311
I wouldn't mind it at all.

>>18470311
A couple of months? That's nothing. My boyfriend and I waited 7 months. But mind you we were 15 back then, and both pretty insecure. We waited until we were in love and had a nice place to do it. We were in love around 5-6 months though, we would have been comfortable. I'm honestly so glad we did it that way. It's so much better to wait. It makes it a lot more personal and really builds up this lustful, romantic relationship. I think it creates a clearer view for who your partner really is by refraining.

If you are 16 or religious, then a few months is fine. Otherwise hell no. The general rule for adults is "no sex until the third date". Anything over a month is too long and is a sign you're not attracted to each other.

>>18470268
If you are going to do them at all, do all 4. Don't puss out. That way you don't have to worry about them in the future. Yeah, your mouth will swell and hurt for a few days but the idea is to endure short term pain for exchange of not worrying about them. The only reason to hold back is due to $$$$. Up to you though.

When I had all 4 pulled, I went with anesthesia. Wicked fucking easy that way. Just make sure you have someone who can get you home. Get ice cream and milk shakes ready.

Hopefully other anons can speak up vs just me.

>>18470268
Just do it and put up with the bullshit. Don't fuck around with your teeth.
t. did it in high school

Remove all 4. I've got wisdom teeth pain two weeks ago. Worst pain of my life. I was literally asking God to kill me lmao.

>>18470204

just be transparent, no one should hate you for it.

Hopefully they should take you more seriously if you need to self medicate to stay awake. If you can't stay awake otherwise, it should be a sign to the doctor that something is very wrong and needs attention.

I don't know if you were referring to chronic fatigue syndrome or just the symptom of fatigue, but it sounds more like you might have a sleep disorder or something other than CFS. I'm not a doctor, but you might ask about that. If you can find out what you have, you'll be given the proper medication. You might also consider taking one semester off of school to go to doctors until they can figure it out.

>>18470204
get a referral to a different psych? maybe its depression and speed only masked the disease during the euphoric initial doses so you ended up abusing it? maybe ask for both adderall and and anti-depressant?

>>18470189
that's rough, but why would you let your parents have so much control over you? I say you should ignore them and start your relationship over again.

Well it was her parents that wouldn't let her date because she's too young even though we're both in highschool and I know she's not dumb and would go fucking someone in highschool

>>18470441
You need to be 18+ to post here

also.

>I know she's not dumb and would go fucking someone in highschool

Awwnnn, so naive.