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It's called depression. Get into therapy, try to avoid meds and ask for cognitive behavioral therapy.

>>18472355
Bahahahaaha depression isn't real Mr. Goldberg, I'm asking for real advice.

>>18472350
>>18472360
What a joke of a person,ignoring psychological conditions even when they are so obvious.

>psychology?human condition?bahahaha what a joke

Man I thought I knew stupid people,thanks.

Also as advice stop weed,but why would you when our brain isnt real right?

>>18472340
I fear we're to late.

>>18472340

It's been one fucking day, chill the fuck out.

You can't keep that pace up. You run out of things to talk about because you don't know each other well enough yet. Go on some dates or whatever, and slow your roll. Relax, and let the conversation come naturally.

>>18472340
You already sperged out m8

Happened to me when I lost my virginity. It's just as normal as guys cumming too early. You're fine, you'll get off next time.

Sometimes you gotta get a good rthymn going to make it happen. Also, are you on meds? Some meds can make it harder to cum.

>>18472182

you havent lost your virginity til you cum inside.

>>18472160

go for it anyways. if she asks claim you're not a virgin.

Why not getting in a relationship with her instead of pump and dump?
This way, you'll also get to pump and pump and pump and pump.

Who gives a fuck what they think. Shoot your shot

My brother had a similar injury, his leg looked exactly like yours.
Do your homeworks, stop once the pain is too much to bear. And tell your therapist about the pain limit, so s/he could adjust it for you.

It'll keep being swollen for a some time, it's normal.

>>18472042
So should I try to do some exercises and stretches today? I tried earlier but I only lasted a few minutes before feelings the pain was just too much. I'm icing my knee right now and got it elevated but here in a bit I think I'll try to do some more.

>>18472016
skating as in ice skating or skateboarding?

Everyone's different, some people are attracted to inanimate objects. What advice do you need? Are you looking to make it more enjoyable or what?

>>18471936
Maybe what I'm going to say doesn't apply because I'm a girl, but I'm going to say it anyway.

I don't fuck for orgasms.
I come every time I masturbate and maybe 50-60% of the times I fuck. Honestly, it feels better when I come during sex, but I come much less often and it takes longer.
Anyway, I do prefer sex over masturbating. I love the closeness, both physical and emotional. I love feeling desired. I love pleasing and being pleased. I love the passion, the spontaneity. I love that it is something I share.
Even masturbating while talking on the phone to my boyfriend feels better than masturbating to porn because I get some of the things above.
Sex to me is not just the physical pleasure, but it is about the emotional and mental pleasure as well.

I don't know, maybe it doesn't apply to you.

The physical act of sex is good. Majority of the pleasure is in your head, when you fully relax and find someone you actually want to be with the awkwardness disappears. Also try having sex when you have had a few drinks. Live the porn fantasy in your head!

>>18471867

Please help adv. Ill give more info if anyone asks. This fucker has been a leech on our families emotional wellbeing since he could speak.

My mom is too weak to kick him out. She even goes so far as to DEFEND my brother whenever her husband begins to talk shit about him. She pities my brother, and i do not understand it. Most of his anger is directed towards her anymore because of various things like:
>she asks him to pay her back
>she tells him no
>she asks him to do chores

Im at my wits end..

>>18471867
Your little brother reminds me of myself, I get angry easily at those close to me, and I have a really hard time making progress in college or a job. I like to think my behaviour isn't as extreme as your brother's, but that's me trying to judge my own behaviour, so I'm biased towards not making myself seem too horrible.

Anyway, you say most of your memories together are negative, what about when you were little? Were you guys close? Did he have close friends? In my case, I think my attitude comes from feeling sort of unwanted by those around me, I was an only child, but had older cousins whose attention and acceptance I craved immensely, but they always had other interests and I always felt they were being forced to be with me when they were.

Sorry to make this reply about myself and not really offer a solution,but maybe it could help you reflect on why he seems to have grown to be this way, maybe talk about your past together? Best advice I cab five you though is don't turn the talks into a lecture, don't make him feel like you're 'setting him straight' or something, don't make the talk be 'this is why you're wrong', I know that's not easy at all especially if you're already very frustrated with him. Hope this can help at all.

psychopath, future murderer. get the hell away from this guy.

>>18471842
I think you should just relax and do it with someone that you share a mutual care with.
I tried it the first time with my girlfriend last December, and once I took a hit from the joint, I immediately started laughing uncontrollably, and then crying tears of joy into her chest. She made everything so amazing my comforting me and telling me that she was there for me. It was one of the best moments of my life.

You're gonna die. You will get arrested. Good luck getting a job ever. Its a gateway drug, get ready for PCP and angeldust.

Nigga its weed. Most faggots dont even get high the first time because they fail to do it properly. Cover up the smell coming home, either shower or come home when everyone is asleep or whatever. If you're paranoid now, you're gonna be that guy who needs babysitting during the trip. If you dont want to, dont do i.t

Have you ever inhaled smoke from anything before? If not here's how.

> Hold your breath until you feel the need for air.
> Put the joint/ pipe/ bong in your mouth and inhale like you would inhale air.
> Don't suck like you would with a straw.

Just relax. It's very important that you are not stressed.

>>18471827
End your life m8. It's over for you.

>>18471881
Will do. How easy is it to jump off a plane?

don't go on the trip!! make up with her !!

>>18471745
Learn to be frugal with your money.

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First things: Being wealthy does not mean owning flashy cars, clothes, or home. Anyone with a line of credit can get there. Wealthy people have net worth, liquidity, assets. They get there by being good with money. They take $100 and buy something that will either be worth that in 10 years or will be worth more. The only way to turn your 3.6k into huge money in your 20s will be to leverage it (barrow) and make a million risky decisions that no wise man should make. When you watch films like Wolf of Wallstreet, youre watching people steal from others and then leverage that wealth for more. People 50 years ago didnt do this stupid shit, which is why the baby boomer generation is worth so much money; slow, steady, growth.

Or you can create a good or service that is essentual to a lot of people; like Zuckerburg did with facebook. But aside from that, stay out of the markets if you can. Learn about the true value of stuff atound you and make many many many smart buys, work a job, and invest your money in real assets that appreciate, like land.

I make a lot of money in buying older things, because most things depreciate, level off, and theen appreciate. I try to only buy things which have fully depreciated and are about to go up. 10 year old cars, 70 year old furniture, bargains, etc. Then you liquidate after it appreciates and buy land. Slow growth, without risks. Then have cash on hand for another financial meltdown, so you can buy cheap deals.

Pic related, just took it. Im 28. Ive got a lot of nice stuff since 4 years ago when I started. Not wealthy, but on track, without losing it all in markets.

>>18471788
That cat looks expensive

>>18471720
Why the fuck would she even want to do it? Which nigger rapper is she listening to and getting influenced by today. She's on antidepressants dude, does she have too many problems, whaaa. You kids these days, all of you suck. But that's all just my opinion.

>>18471720
>gf
>drug user
>happy pills
Just break up with her. She isnt worth it. Also acid has this thing which triggers or worsen mental problems in your head if you are predispositioned to it.

Break up, she isnt worth the struggle. Give her real reason to be depressed.

If I remember right, SSRIs basically cancel out acid, so it's waste of money.

Even if it doesn't, you're not supposed to be on antidepressants and take psychedelics. I don't think it's good for your brain, for you one, and it's just a bad idea.

It could make her mental problems worse.

>>18471703

Take a trip to San Francisco or santa Fe

>>18471703

Just look confused af and everyone will think you're buying a gift. Or order online. Or just grow some balls and don't give a fuck what they think, it's not exactly unheard of these days that a guy buys panties.

Just decide what size you want before and look for it. Also don't smell the panties. Don't do that.

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>>18471683
You asked Reddit if you should cheat? Do you think you deserve a relationship?

You should sleep with another girl OP. That will solve all your problems!

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Where do you live?

Yes they would be scared, but you're probably a shitty person due to your origins, so it's fair. I would recommend you to kill yourself t b h.

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>>18471691
WAHAHAHAHA Opie BTFO!!! Screw him for his cultural heritage, am I right?? #MAGA!!!!! 14/88!!!

Bait. I pray it's bait because otherwise this is fucking cringe.

>>18471588
It has to be bait. I've heard a lot of shit in my day but this is a new one.

Some people cry after having sex sometimes. It's uncommon, but it's definitely a thing. It doesn't necessarily mean you're sad.

Was she your first partner? How were you feeling emotionally when it happened? If she actually cares about you, then you could have a really good conversation about it with her.

If she doesn't care about you and this was a "just jump straight to sex" relationship, this might be a sign that casual sex relationships won't work so well for you.