How do I deal with massive age difference? I've been dating

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2017-06-30 05:38:14 Post No. 18470398
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Anonymous 2017-06-30 05:38:14 Post No. 18470398 [Report]

How do I deal with massive age difference?
I've been dating and recently started living with my 49 year old boyfriend, who just recently engaged and I said yes.
I am 22 years old.
I've had a troubled life, and relations with my family, and honestly, with him, I am finally happy.
I even agreed to have his child, and I recently got pregnant because of him.
He is decently well-off, and wants me to be his housewife. I already spend all my time at home, mostly online, when he is at work.
I am happy, and so is he, but no one in my family knows about it.
Neither does any of my real life friends.

How exactly do I explain a situation like this to them?

Anonymous 2017-06-30 05:57:44 Post No.18470423
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Anonymous 2017-06-30 05:57:44 Post No.18470423 [Report]

>>18470398
you;re dating a loser

Anonymous 2017-06-30 08:43:18 Post No.18470738
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Anonymous 2017-06-30 08:43:18 Post No.18470738 [Report]

>>18470423
How so

Anonymous 2017-06-30 08:44:56 Post No.18470745
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Anonymous 2017-06-30 08:44:56 Post No.18470745 [Report]

>>18470398
>I've had a troubled life, and relations with my family
yeah that was a given when you said you were dating someone more than twice your age

Anonymous 2017-06-30 08:47:06 Post No.18470752
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Anonymous 2017-06-30 08:47:06 Post No.18470752 [Report]

>>18470398
You just tell them. Some will be against it, some won't - in general, don't expect your parents to be thrilled that you're dating someone as old as them, or your friends to think it is normal and sane.
Anyway - you are an adult and they can't force you to leave him or something. They might stop talking to you.
But: deal with the consequences of your actions and choices.

Anonymous 2017-06-30 09:50:41 Post No.18470851
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Anonymous 2017-06-30 09:50:41 Post No.18470851 [Report]

>>18470398
Are you a gold digger or do you actually like him?

Anonymous 2017-06-30 11:09:51 Post No.18470961
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Anonymous 2017-06-30 11:09:51 Post No.18470961 [Report]

>>18470398
>I already spend all my time at home, mostly online, when he is at work.

Not good. You understand that even if you stay with this guy, he is probably going to pass long before you do. Then you will be in a situation where you have no skills and will end up as a cashier in the local grocery store.

Anonymous 2017-06-30 01:26:43 Post No.18471229
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Anonymous 2017-06-30 01:26:43 Post No.18471229 [Report]

>>18470398
>22
>49

Sounds like someone has daddy issues.

Just know that when your kid is 10, he will be almost 60. 60 is when my parents actually were "old", unless he takes care of himself your kid isn't gonna have much of a father. Heck, he'll probably die before your kid is 20.

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