File: 1477194205508.gif (98KB, 500x364px) Image search:
[Google]
98KB, 500x364px
This might be a fairly long post, I'm going to try and organize it
Intro:
There's a girl. She's living in our state only for the summer, and we met her about a month ago. I decided that even though she would be leaving after the summer, I was interested in her, and that I wanted to get at least one date. She's very cute and we can at least hold a conversation.
I have 2 really good friends, one male and one female, and us + new girl generally are always together when we're hanging out. Haven't gotten any real 1 on 1 time with new girl.
We're all in our mid 20s (24-27). I live with male friend, and new girl is renting a room from female friend.
Facts:
- She's friendly with me, seems to be comfortable around me, and got my number from female friend to text me a picture, but hasn't texted me since
- Male friend said that new girl is cute, but he wasn't going to date her because she'll be leaving
- Later, he asked for her number from female friend, and he got it
- Female friend thinks male friend is trying to "steal her new best friend"
- He's going to the movies tomorrow with "a friend" (he's being vague about this, usually isn't)
Things I think are true:
- I thought she was into me for a bit, but now not so sure.
- They've been texting (just assuming since they have each others numbers)
- She's attracted to him (at least I think so, I'm going off of random body language bullshit I read about online)
- She is the "friend" he's going to the movies with (don't know that for sure, might just be pessimism on my part)
Basically, I think that they might be going out, or at the very least into each other. Normally at this point I'd use all of this as an excuse to just drop it and not even try with her. But I told myself that I wouldn't just give up like I always do, especially since she'll be gone in a little over a month, I figured trying to get a date would be kinda risk free, and it would be good practice for me.
Continued in next post, sorry for length.
17 Posts / 4 Images
View this topic
>>
File: 1470948257635.gif (25KB, 100x100px) Image search:
[Google]
25KB, 100x100px
At this point I think the right course of action would legitimately be to just not do anything. I'm afraid coming onto her would potentially irritate/insult/be awkward for all three of them, and be humiliating for me if it turns out she's already got a thing with male friend. I'm kind of growing to resent him for potentially going for her before I got my chance, so maybe just giving up would be better for everyone.
But maybe this is just my defeatist side finding a really good excuse to give up? It's difficult for me to tell, because I'm pretty bad at this kind of thing and get depressed sometimes, so I can't tell what's the logical course of action, and what's just my emotions overrunning with negativity.
So I wanted to ask unbiased, honest people. Am I right to just drop all this, or is this all in my head and I should just go for it first chance I get?
>>
I'm also not afraid to bump this several times to get a little help. This has been driving me crazy for the past several days and it's beginning to wear on me
>>
No one even has an opinion?
File: 0529171708.jpg (2MB, 2048x1350px) Image search:
[Google]
2MB, 2048x1350px
My best friend ducked my crush, presumably to spite me. What am I supposed to do, discuss it in therapy? An hero?
9 Posts / 5 Images
View this topic
>>
Fucked. Damn auto correct.
>>
You should probably find a better friend
>>
>>18470128
>sideways picture
>ducked
man you're ducked all over
I am an 18 year old virgin and I am also schizophrenic. I believe that the entirety of all human beings (including the internet) can read my mind) and the only reason being is that I am a virgin. what should I do about my situation. I play snake all day and talk to pat and jerry all day.
14 Posts / 7 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18470124
>>18470124
Man what. Do you know how ridiculous that sounds? Do you honestly think things will change once you lose your virginity?
>>
File: father sean.jpg (64KB, 640x476px) Image search:
[Google]
64KB, 640x476px
>>18470124
>>
File: 1497577018104.jpg (11KB, 201x251px) Image search:
[Google]
11KB, 201x251px
>>18470124
Can she read your mind?
File: 1498784031718m.jpg (134KB, 755x1024px) Image search:
[Google]
134KB, 755x1024px
21 y.o. male. Why the do guys that I talk to keep calling me buddy? I don't understand it. I feel like I should be insulted! I'm definitely a more laid back and happy person than most but for the past few days I'll either bump intonguys from school that I haven't seen in a while or deal with a male cashier and they all call me buddy over and over again. What the fuck? Do they want to pinch my cheeks or do they look down on me? Both? I'm an adult sometimes I want to say just stop fucking calling me buddy please! What do?
>inb4 manlet
I'm 5'9".. that's average height and one guy who called me buddy was shorter than me. I just want to know if this seems endearing or patronizing to you
9 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
I get called buddy, I just call it to them right back.
>>
>>18470129
I like you
>>
Start calling them "bub"
File: shiba doe.jpg (98KB, 640x640px) Image search:
[Google]
98KB, 640x640px
Me and GF are about to celebrate our "official" 1 year anniversary. I plan to propose that day and she's expecting it too.
But the problem is that lately I've been losing my attraction for her. It's like I don't find her as pretty or enjoy her personality as much anymore. I've become reluctant about sex too. It's even harder to ignore her flaws anymore like her aversion to having children in the future or how she used to be back in her college days or how she's in a higher social/economic class than I.
Long story short: I'm having this feeling where I wish she would break up with me. I've even been talking to other girls on tinder pretending I'm single again.
We used to argue badly and "break up" for a day or couple hours back around the 6-8 month mark but now it's like she 100% is unable to find something stupid to fight about anymore so I almost feel stuck.
What do I do? How can I restore the feelings I once had?
or alternatively... what should I do in general?
6 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18470066
What the fuck, do not propose after just 1 year and most definitely don't do it, if you're doubting the entire relationship. Especially, if you disagree on fundamental life choices like kids. Sounds like it's time to end things for real, take some time to grow the fuck up and then maybe seek a relationship and a girl that suit you better.
>>
Think this through thoroughly anon, look inside yourself and make sure that the reason you are losing attraction is for a reason other than being afraid of commitment.
If you truly don't feel anything for her don't put yourself in more grief by staying with her and being unhappy.
Perhaps you could talk to her about how you feel and maybe she feels the same way or you guys can reignite that old spark you had in the early stages of the relationship.
Just make sure you think long and carefully about what you are going to do next so that you don't break up with a great girl because of fear of committing to a relationship. Or on the other hand so you don't get stuck in a miserable one.
>>
>>18470066
>We used to argue badly and "break up" for a day or couple hours back around the 6-8 month mark but now it's like she 100% is unable to find something stupid to fight about anymore so I almost feel stuck.
She's not trying is she? My ex of almost 2 years managed to think of stuff to argue about probably 3 days every week fucking minimum. The thing I loved about her was that she could definitely reuse topics, because we really only had one or two distinct arguments!
File: wwe-hell-in-a-cell-20081014021011809_640w-1434957813-800.jpg (54KB, 640x480px) Image search:
[Google]
54KB, 640x480px
I know it's petty, but ever since I left the nest, my mother has felt the need to call me on a daily basis to talk about her day. At excruciating length. Like "Oh, by the way, I had cabbage for lunch today, and..." length. If I actually engage her ("Really?" "Wow?" "Then what?") she can go on for an hour. Is there any way to make her stop that, or is it just a mom thing?
9 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18470041
Depends. Does she have anyone else to chat to and have you actually talked to her about this? If she's lonely and a bit on the overly motherly side, it will be harder to get her to stop. But having a frank conversation along the lines "mom, I have my own life to live and I don't have anything to talk about every day. How about we call and catch up on the weekends?" is the best way to start.
>>
>>18470041
It's just a mom thing. How long have you been out of the nest?
I was never really close to either of my parents so the transition out of the nest wasn't too terrible. I still talk to my parents at least once a week just to catch up on how I'm doing and other general life things.
It's actually kind of nice. Our relationship has gotten much better since. I like to hear back from home. I will say though that my mom can talk for hours about the same things over and over again. I just deal with it because I figure she just wants to talk to someone and get it out. Everyone needs that.
Tbh anon, I wouldn't worry about that too much. It may be annoying now but I promise it will decrease in the future (assuming this has just started happening). And in the future, you (like me) may actually come to appreciate it. She's your mom and she raised you from the bottom. It's going to be hard to see you go. Keep the sympathy for now.
>>
>>18470175
This, and also when you go and live on your own both of you should start to realize time flies, and there are only that many moments that youcan share with your parents before they die.
if a seller has "just launched" is it still a good idea to buy from them on amazon?
6 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18470010
Check the Amazon policies regarding such transactions. I wouldn't worry about it too much anon, Amazon (as far as I can tell) is pretty great in situations such as this (if it goes wrong for whatever reason).
>>
>>18470015
do you have a link to said policies by chance?
>>
>>18470015
if they do scam you, you'll be waiting awhile to get your money back. i've been scammed twice on there, since then i try to stay with amazon or amazon fulfilled only
Anonymous
Everything feels wrong 2017-06-30 02:19:17 Post No.18469975
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Everything feels wrong 2017-06-30 02:19:17 Post No.18469975
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: FB_IMG_1496313693596.jpg (28KB, 640x436px) Image search:
[Google]
28KB, 640x436px
Literally, not figuratively, everything has felt wrong for the past 2 weeks. Food I loved tastes god awful, bitter with disgusting textures and smells, my muscles feel strange and heavy to move, cumming feels the same as spitting but out of my cock. My insides feel shitty as well, with my heart sometimes deciding to pound in my ear or I feel a stabbing pain in it or other organs. I haven't felt hungry either, I just eat because I know I probably have to. So, do I see a psychologist or real doctor?
6 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Doctor.
>>
>>18470004
What the hell do I tell him though, that everything itches and tastes bad? Not really enough for a diagnosis.
>>
>>18470065
Tell him what you just told us. He'll run bloodwork on you and if you're physically healthy, refer you to a psych.
Anonymous
Should I ruin my ex gf life ? 2017-06-30 01:44:42 Post No.18469892
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Should I ruin my ex gf life ? 2017-06-30 01:44:42 Post No.18469892
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: Picture of me 6.png (189KB, 480x480px) Image search:
[Google]
189KB, 480x480px
Should I ruin my ex gf life ?
Anonymous
2017-06-30 01:44:42
Post No. 18469892
[Report]
[View this topic]
Yes/No ive got videos of her and stuff, just for fun nothing personal i don't like her anymore, Ive known her for 2 years but never met irl
9 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Wtf is wrong in your life that you think that's acceptable?
>>
>>18469892
No, it could come back at you. Jail time. Just forget her and move on, to deal with your feelings write a letter and throw it away.
>>
Yes, do that, just so that we can see your ass get busted when she files charges
Hey /adv/, can a 17 year old water fast? Asking for a FRIEND :3
15 Posts / 4 Images
View this topic
>>
just eat less food you fat fuck
that's not healthy and your progress will be lost as soon as you stop fasting
>>
>>18469855
she said fuck you also shes already a skeleton but she wants to be pretty and get rid of the scars on her wrists
>>
>>18469884
a water fast wont fix that, actually it wont fix anything. tell her to visit >>>/fit/ and work on those muscles.
File: 1375683379137.gif (1MB, 320x194px) Image search:
[Google]
1MB, 320x194px
I'm so goddamn fucking sick of normies honestly
>Girl at work
>We become friends
>Enjoy each others company (or so I tell myself) so hang around a lot
>A lot of it is initiated by her, but whatever that doesn't mean shit
>Find out other coworkers are talking shit about me behind my back constantly about how I'm a desperate creep that wants her in a complete one sided "friendship"
>Literally just a fucking friend and everyone's saying this shit
>Some I even considered friends
I'm so fucking angry right now I want to hurt someone. I dunno if I should bring this up to her or not, I don't want her hearing any unnecessary bullshit.
58 Posts / 5 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18469798
They're jealous that they're not the ones hanging out with a girl.
>>
>>18469798
Normies gonna normie
>>
>>18469798
It's not just normies that do this, although 99% of the time it's normies. Dumb fuckers with their preconception. Also, bring it up to her and don't be an autist who sounds like he wants to murder everyone. Be CHILL.
Anonymous
Movie date tomorrow night 2017-06-30 12:49:36 Post No.18469777
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Movie date tomorrow night 2017-06-30 12:49:36 Post No.18469777
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: 1471136254373.jpg (561KB, 1180x1721px) Image search:
[Google]
561KB, 1180x1721px
Movie date tomorrow night
Anonymous
2017-06-30 12:49:36
Post No. 18469777
[Report]
[View this topic]
Going to go watch The Minions with this girl I met off Tinder I've been talking to for some time now.
We talk literally every day
She's
>Amazing
>Stunning
>Smart (very)
>Beautiful
Honestly don't know why she matched with me but she's real and wants to get to know me better.
How can I now fuck this up?
already told each other we like each other
24 Posts / 7 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18469777
>How can I now fuck this up?
How can I NOT fuck this up
We're both under 22 but over 20
>>
Slip a roofie into her drink. There is no way she will have consensual sex with you.
>>
>>18469777
>How can i now fuck this up?
You probably will and that is okay.
It's very hard for people to maintain a "perfect" relationship.
If you do decide to go for that you'll more than likely drive yourself insane with every little detail.
Please go on your date, have fun, enjoy the time you have with an
>Amazing
>Stunning
>Smart (very)
>Beautiful
woman.
Anonymous
GF's Facebook Account 2017-06-30 12:46:51 Post No.18469768
[Report] Image search: [Google]
GF's Facebook Account 2017-06-30 12:46:51 Post No.18469768
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: 1494137787988.jpg (117KB, 500x920px) Image search:
[Google]
117KB, 500x920px
Some asshole posted my gf's facebook account to some dating/stalking website or whatever and now she has a bunch of old men messaging her.
I dont really care about the old people messaging her because she can just block them but I'm worried about some creeper stalking her or trying to find her IRL.
What's her best option here?
I told her to change her security settings and delete all her contact info temporarily, what else should she do?
Contact Facebook customer support?
Is increasing the security settings enough?
What settings should she increase specifically?
Anyway to get the link to her facebook account removed from that website?
Or should she just delete her facebook account and start anew?
Am I overreacting?
Any advice is appreciated
6 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18469768
>Am I overreacting?
yes
>>
>>18469773
I probably am but I don't want to under-react either
what should i do then just ignore it?
>>
lock down the account
privacy and security settings, with her compliance of course
Anonymous
Am I permanently a brain damaged junkie 2017-06-30 12:40:51 Post No.18469753
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Am I permanently a brain damaged junkie 2017-06-30 12:40:51 Post No.18469753
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: IMG_0015.png (18KB, 509x411px) Image search:
[Google]
18KB, 509x411px
Am I permanently a brain damaged junkie
Anonymous
2017-06-30 12:40:51
Post No. 18469753
[Report]
[View this topic]
I did opium and noticed everyone I walked past was smirking or laughing at me is this because of how stupid/degenerate I looked is it permanent I looked up what these people look like online so degenerate https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/5gkz43/heroin-holiday
6 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18469753
maybe you forgot your pants or your hair was funny or you picked a hole in your face.
>>
Also I already had a brain disease before which is why I did it
>>
>>18469757
Oh well I won't do it ever again because I've seen junkies now and understand they are a drain on society and are disgusting
File: IBSIntestines.jpg (106KB, 1500x1296px) Image search:
[Google]
106KB, 1500x1296px
How do I go out on a date if I have IBS?
17 Posts / 3 Images
View this topic
>>
buttplugs
>>
>>18469727
take your imodium beforehand.
>>
File: 1498763871404.png (161KB, 443x449px) Image search:
[Google]
161KB, 443x449px
>>18469727
Hope the person you're dating has a fart fetish