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What are the best shoes for somebody with sciatica/low back pain problems?

I heard about new balance, they good?
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>>18473462
i have new balances. they are super comfortable. just dont get the old person white ones or everyone will think your weird for wearing them. adidas are pretty comfortable too. i have a pair of adidas gazelles
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>>18473799
Which models anon?
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Ideally: ones with inserts designed for you by your doctor
if that is for some reason not a option: hiking boots

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Guys i really need some help. I have this "thing" in my foot toe for almost a year now, at first I thought it would heal normally but after a year it made the skin on this area very thin and extremely easy to bleed. Also it is very sensitive and it hurts all the time making extremely uncomfortable to run.
Any idea of what this is?
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>>18473449
Looks like a cluster of plantar warts. You can have them removed the same way other warts are.
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>>18473456
Op here. i actually never heard of that before. I'm feeling really dumb for suffering with this for almost a year when it's so easily treatable
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It looks like a scab. If you didn't injure it, it was probably a blister that popped. Can you tell if it is concaved or not? (Like there's a crater? If so it was a blister.) You could try putting your feet in salt water.

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I'm 20 and I want to put a bullet in my fucking head. I feel like I suck and my relationship with my family does too.
Parents are incredibly protective, even now not letting me going to travel because
>I will not sleep anywhere but the house
>I will not go somewhere if they don't go with me

I'm a fucking timid, anxious and socially awkward virgin with no self-esteem. I grew up being critizised for everything I liked, being gaming, science, even fucking school, and also with constant fear since my father tends to get violent when he's angry. I got a couple of nosebleeds from him

I never got drunk in my life and i'm a boring beta.

Right now things are at their lowest. I got a bad lung infection, and my parents thought that it was a fucking nice idea to leave someone coughing blood alone. I almost choked with my own blood and had to ask help from a neighbour and a friend on the phone who was about to call an ambulance.

I must be 1 month resting at home thanks to the infection, and I discovered that my mother likes to manipulate and have control of stuff. I can't do physical shit, heartbeat goes high, I cough and I start bleeding. So I must be slow and do shit like reading or gaming. Still I get roasted for that.

Shit so bad my mother even freaks out when I turn on a fan to cool myself because "i'm messing the airflow of my bedroom" even though it only affects me, she needs to be in control or feel stuff is being done her way.

My dad is on his way to become alcoholic, and he can only says he loves me when drunk, we don't interact, same with sister.

I can't have a stressful life without going to shit, so I can't work and finish college to live apart.

I'm thinking about asking a friend who always invited me to a shoot range to finally teach me, as soon as I get access to a gun I can shoot myself.

No one depends on me, I have no girlfriend, no childs, just some friends that care about me and my family, everything will be fine if I die.
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or find a way to see a therapist
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>>18473432
Did that already, worked various weeks to come to the conclusion that I will have to deal with my family until I die or they die, they will never change and I must be the one that makes "the difference".

I have to "hold on" and be comprehensive, mature and think before talking/acting while they do the opposite. It's possible but it's a pain in the ass, lots of effort and just the mental jerking of "Oh they're wrong but at least you don't behave like them".

I will be (at its best) a middle-class, averge office engineer Joe, with mediocre payment and in result, a pretty boting average life while dealing with my parents since they didn't studied and they have no kind of pension, so I will probably live with them even when my ass is old.

Why bother? If that's the highest possible result I see more reasonable to die now that I hold no responsibilities than later leaving people without a source to eat or live.

I'll go again to therapy anyways, I have nothing to lose (except a few bucks)
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>>18473444
Learn web development online during the course of a few weeks. Then look for positions far away/freelance online oppurtunities and when you secure one, run away. Leave everything behind. Only take your laptop and few clothes. Preferably have some money saved up (freelance).
I would say that this is achievable within 1 year easily. Restarting your life at 21 is not late at all, you will be fine, look at all those 30yo neets. You will also have experience with dealing with shit and you sound smart. Good luck!

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I think I have found happiness. I spent years and years; a fucking eternity in pain. I felt inadequate, insecure, weak. I imagined me dying alone. Growing up people always hated me, my relatives hated mem because I was my father's son (father is not from a rich background), then there is race, then there is height (I was short until recently, 5'8 now). Then there is of course my face; not handsome.

So much insecurity, so much social anxiety. Life felt like it was a fucking battlefield. I have all symptoms of PTSD meanwhile living in a decent city in USA and never experiencing combat. My mother and father treated me like a fucking race horse, the moment I run slow I am worthless.

I go to a good school, i follow the law, I do my country to a certain extent too. But today, driving down the road I did not feel alive at all, I did not experience the wind or anything else. It's been years since I noticed my own fucking environment because my head is so full of fear and anguish. And I thought to myself, what is it?

Why am I always so out of it, so obsessed with competition or the "next big thing"? And it occurred to me, its because I felt like I did not deserve love. My parents only showed me love when I did what they wanted me to do, and it was ingrained into me that I would never be loved.

And thus from then on, I dont care about being loved. I am okay with not finding a pretty girl to marry me. I dont care about what people think anymore and I have accepted myself as someone who will never get laid or be kissed.

And I think i have found happiness. Is this okay? is it right for me to give up on ever being loved? at least this way I won't be manipulated anymore, and I will not be in pain. I feel free now, will it last? is it a good idea? your thoughts?
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Its not the same as it was in the 19 hundreds man, its the current year, its only gonna get worse as more and more whites die every year with no new generations.....

Enjoy the decline.
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>>18473406
I'd consider myself selfish and I believe that you should always put yourself first. If you've found happiness, whatever it may be then you've made it.
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>>>/tumblr/

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I've broken up with my girlfriend. It's over. I have one-itis though and in this world of literally millions of more way hotter chicks, I can only seem to desire her, still. How do I break out of this successfully?
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>>18473403
If you have oneitis why would you break up with her OP?
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>>18473407
The relationship had its toxic aspects. We've broken up and gotten back together after a 3 & 1/2 year period. This last time, I don't think I thought it was going to be forever but she started dating someone else and it freaked me out. All of a sudden, I realized (or at least think/thought), "oh my God... she might have been the one). She doesn't want me contacting her anymore and- after a long period of her wanting me to marry her and me just sleeping on it, I was finally ready and bought a ring despite her dating someone else for about two months. I had a friend ask her if she'd give me a few minutes of her time if I approached her and I was told, "She said she'd call the police." Please believe me when I say genuinely that she'd have no actual reason to worry enough to be calling the fucking police but, needless to say, I abandoned the idea of proposing to her. So now that it's possibly over for good, I can't seem to think about wanting to ever be with anyone else. Agh.
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>>18473413
shit, edit:
> "we've broken up and gotten back together *several times* after a 3 & 1/2 year period"

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Serious question: how do I become naturally funny again? I feel like I've lost my ability to make people laugh ever since I graduated high school. Can I get some insights on how to be funny?I'm 20 btw.
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I'm 24. Also, if you want to be naturally funny again, do this: Post lots and lots of porn on 4chan as well as make many General Grievous memes as well as pornographic pictures of General Grievous. Once you start doing this, start sending links with the things you post to your friends. You must then start acting very proud of your posts and look as though those are the only things you have in your life. You must then annoy your friends with these things to the point where they get very upset with you about those things. After they get upset, write a suicide note and post a video about suicide to youtube as well as share it with any online communities you engage with. Next, you must kill yourself, and, as your friends realize their terrible mistake, you will be able to laugh at them from the afterlife, and then, if anybody hears about this story, they will most likely get a good laugh as well. I hope I helped, have a good day.
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>>18473391
damn.
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>>18473391
I'll give you a 3/8 for the effort

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>younger sister's friend has been secretly texting me for a few months and sneaking around hanging out with me
>nobody knows
>we both really like each other
>she's 18, i'm 21
>we want to have a more meaningful relationship but she is scared of what my sister will think and that her overly-invasive mother won't approve, thinks we should wait until she's a couple years older before seeing each other more.
>she said this today and is sleeping over at our house for the next 4 days
What do I do, guys? I want her to be happy and feel safe, but I'm in a pretty shitty spot emotionally and spiritually right now and think that the very last thing I need is for my only foreseeable hope of a decent, lasting relationship to be put on hold for potentially years.
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>>18473332
you're only 3 years older than her dude, fuck anyone that thinks that's too big of an age gap.
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>>18473332
3 years is nothing. My first gf was 22, when I was 19. It's completely normal.

I was 25, and my now fiance 19. She's now 22.

She was also strong-armed into being a Jehovah's Witness, so of course she got shunned by her mother when she ran away to live with me and quit the church. Before that we were meeting in secret.

Seriously, there is nothing wrong with you dating that grill.
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>>18473373
You're engaged to woman you dated for only 3 years being that young? really?!

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Anons, I've been insecure about my intelligence for a long time now. I took all honors classes in high school and graduated 15 out of 327, but obviously grades aren't a real indicator of intelligence. I've always felt I was dumber than I was made out to be.

I'm kind of afraid to see what I would get on a real IQ test, but I'm wondering if I should take one. After all, this is the main source of worry in my life.

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>>18473292

eh. if you calmed your tits and stopped worrying about it you'll be fine. if you get an IQ test you will probably just be freaking out trying to find out if its low or high and reading conflicting opinions on that and then eventually come to the conclusion that it isn't a real indicator of intelligence etiher.

you are who and what you are. and you do okay, so whats it matter if you're legally 'smart'.
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>>18473293
I'm trying to stop worrying but my intelligence is the only good/significant attribute I could possibly have, and if I don't have it I'm basically worthless
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>>18473328

you are not intelligent. cuz anyone who is intelligent would have known to at least develop some more positive attributes.

you're just realizing that being intelligent doesn't make you better than everyone else, and looking back on the edgy 'deathnote' autist you were in highschool and you're growing a bit.

you arent that smart. probably smarter than a lot of people but not enough that it means anything in the long run. but your life is exactly the same as it was last week and last year and whatnot so whats it matter if you stop calling your self smart in the mean time? your life is literally exactly the same even if you stop calling your self that.

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I'm just starting out, in EMT classes and when riding we got a non-breather right after we cleared the scene of a wreck. It was intense and I had to do CPR on someone which was my first time. At first I thought it was going to really fuck with me but it didn't really that much. Now, I'm itching for another run BUT part of me is still 'shy' (for lack of a better word). How do you get past the fear of the unknown?
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Grow up kid, don't post stupid shit like this.
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I'm in an EMT class right now myself. Going to start doing a few ride alongs in the coming days and I'm obviously nervous/anxious to run a call where I'll need to do something.

I anticipate that just like anything in life, the more you do something, the easier it gets over time. Everyone is green at first.

Knowing your shit will probably make you feel less intimidated. Get to know what the ranges of normal Heart rates and respitory rates, etc. for people in certain age brackets. Learn to identify symptoms and warning signs. Just learn your shit.

They taught us to always appear like you know what you're doing and remain calm even when eternally you have no idea what the hell to do and may be losing your shit.
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>>18473289
Who put a stuck up your ass?

Okay /adv/ I have legal question. About two weeks ago I dropped a friend's phone coming out of a store. It had gotten a small crack on the bottom left of the screen but it was still working. I did tell the girl about it and she immediately said if it stops working, I'll have to replace it and she claims it has although I haven't seen it in two weeks. Now she is threatening to take me to small claims court in virginia to make me pay for it and I was wondering what are my chances. She also came by my job site this past wednesday night for the sole purpose of me paying her money because she knows when I get paid but I was not in at the time. There is no text of me saying that'll I pay for the phone. It is a lg k10 with metro pcs if that helps.
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Stop being a nigger and replace her phone. Its a shit tier ghetto trash phone, like less than $100 off ebay. You broke it, so man up and replace it. Its not like its an iphone.

Technically you dont have to pay jack shit because she cant prove anything, but yeah youre a scumbag if you do that. AT LEAST give 50% of the cost to buy one brand new, or just buy one for her off ebay.
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>>18473219
what the fuck dude? you dropped it and cracked it, you should have replaced it even if it didn't stop functioning.
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>>18473219
She has no proof against you, so don't be afraid of legal actions. If the phone worked for two weeks after you dropped it, it's unlikely that this is the reason of getting it wrong.
It's up to your manners if you replace it, because her claim can't stand a chance in legal grounds. However, a $100 phone does not worth losing a friend imo.

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How do i fix this type of acne as fast as possible?
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>>18473188
apply shaver to ackny
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Grow older. Not to be confused with grow old, which synonomous.
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>>18473188

you look cute despite it OP. that being said there are several options. everyones different and some things work better than others.

as a general rule i wash with salicylic acid and then moisturize immediately after.

then I use tretinoin, a prescription cream (though also available online) that makes your acne dry out fast, it was a miracle.

if you get normal strength desitin (baby rash formula) and rub it on then wipe it off in an hour or two, the acne will literally fall off, though the spots will bleed so...

but honestly the best results are accutane. pic related, me before and after accutane.

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How do you make friends in college?
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>>18473123

talk to people in class, or at events, or just around.
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>>18473123
>he wants friends
kek
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>>18473123
Don't bother, they'll just distract you from your studies. If you just want some socialization use meetup.com if you've got a hobby or interest.

I am feeling utterly abysmal right now. I am literally sick to my stomach from it. I haven't eaten in two days, but I can't seem to bring myself to. Here's what happened. I got drunk the other day and got picked up by the police. They didn't charge me they just let me go, but my employer found out. (military). Now I don't know what's going to happen. I'm hoping it blows over since I didn't get charged with anything. Even so I absolutely loath myself for even putting myself in the position where I might have compromised my familes well being and for purely selfish reasons. I never wanted to be that individual who would put themselves and their own wants and desires above the well being of their family. I know I have to improve myself after this, but right now everything is so fresh and I'm not sure how this is going to turn out. I know that I will live, and I only hope that I can have the fortitude to make the improvements to myself and my life that I really want to make. I just feel so low right now.
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>>18473027
'I think you skipped some crucial part of the story cuz all you said was

>got drunk
>police picked me up
>IM SO SELFISH I HAVE TO USE THIS AS A CATALYST TO BECOME A BETTER MAN

cuz you had some alcohol?
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There is no logic to your emotion, first and foremost. But be a better man.

No matter what, you don't know the future. It simply does not exist, there is a present and it is begging you to become a better man. It won't happen overnight but it'll happen. Be strong, tall to your boss about it and tell the truth.
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>>18473027
Stop drinking completely. Alcohol makes you feel like shit. 3 or so hours of a buzz isn't worth days of feeling like crap and being depressed.

so i recently got circumcised a week ago and i was wondering if you guys could answer a few questions for me
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how long will it take before it hurts to get an erection
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Grats on mutilating your dick. No, it isn't normal.
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when can i start masturbating again because the wait is killing me

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I want a pathetic shut-in socially inept girl to play vidya with. Where can I find one?
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You can't find them since they won't ever go out of their rooms.
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>>18472914
What about online
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Your imagination

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