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I'm applying for support worker jobs with disabled people to get experience to study occupational therapy. It seems work with learning difficulties is the easiest to come by because of the staff turnover.

I have (mild) Asperger's, will it help or hurt my application to disclose this?

I mean, I'm gay so I've got enough minority points to get by on equal opportunities hiring but was wondering if my own fucked up brain would be a plus to employers

Cheers
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that's like saying I'd work well with children because I'm retarded, I understand them better.
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>>18541865
Yeah, I thought that.

I'd have to get to interview for them to see I'm actually high functioning. Maybe I'll disclose it in interview, not on paper
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>>18541879
yeah best bet. don't mention the queer shit, nobody wants to know. except if you're in SJW-infest thing and you're one of the alphabet pronoun peoples.

oh and good luck.

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>been a NEET for years now
>decide to ramp up on my job applications
>applied to a few companies
>one company invited me for an interview
>look into their company
>for the first time in a long time it's a company that I wish I could work there
>do all the possible research I can on them
>finally decide to use LinkedIn (never used it before) to know more about them
>try to find my interviewer
>can't view from direct search
>get on a public profile of an employee and navigate through there for their connections
>probably went through the whole company just to find my interviewer
>get notification from LinkedIn
>2 employees from the company have viewed my profile

Am I fucked?
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>>18541849
What is there to see on your profile and how high up are those employees. Your interviewer will probably not care or even be speaking to a few nobodies
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>>18541849
>Am I fucked?

No. Why do you think that doing research on a company would be considered a negative?
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You're a small fish in a big pond.

You're making a catastrophe out of this whole situation. Please don't put one more iota of thought into it, just focus on the interview.

Best of luck!

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Never built a computer before but I'm about to give it a shot. I've looked at a lot of different processors and their prices, but can't decide whether Intel or amd is the way to go. Keeping in mind I've never built a computer before, what do you recommend?
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Also, just PC building advice in general. All I know is what I've seen on wikihow, and a few youtube videos so anything helps.
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>>18541835
Ryzen is better than anything Shintel has to offer. But you'll go for Shintel because everyone else does it too.
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Go to /g/ and ask on the pc building general. Depends on what you are going to use it for. Intel is good all around, for gaming I'd recommend a Ryzen.

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on bumble I swiped right on a girl who later said in her bio shes trying to find a 3rd guy for a 3 way (just to fuck her no gay stuff). she is hot and no homo the guy wasn't ugly like most couples who makes these offers. talking to her she seems cool so I'm quite interested. fearing this is a catfish I reversed image searched her bumble pics (just normal couple pictures). and it turns out she and her boyfriend are very famous porn actors but she did not tell me this. I only watch porn video to video I don't follow actual "actors" but I did recognize the guys name. anyway assuming this is real should I do it. I was kinda just hoping they were an attractive couple who's into weird stuff. but if they are actually who they are, I'm a little intimidated.
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you should give up your degeneracy and pray to the LORD
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Pop a gas station boner maker and take her to pound town
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Somebody used porn pictures on their profile and you think it is more likely that it is the porn stars rather than someone catfishing?

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How do I get to date/fuck women? I've given up on online dating. Thousands of hours just to fuck one ugly bitch isn't worth it. I have no friends so meeting women through friends is ruled out.
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>>18541796
Tinder/bumble/okcupid
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I wish I knew
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>>18541799
I just said I don't want to do online dating.

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So last night I asked my girlfriend if she was alright..since some of her texts were getting a bit shorter. She said she was fine, but I didn't believe her, so I asked a few more times. She then said that I was really annoying her and that I should stop asking. This morning, I sent her a message saying "Good Morning" like we always do...but she didn't open it. She also turned off her read receipts and she hasn't texted me back since last night. What the fuck should I do? Am I fucked?
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Does she suffer from depression?
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>>18541801
I'm not too too sure...This isn't the first time she acted moody on text, but it's definitely the first time she talked like that
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>>18541805
Like it's the first time she had a little outburst

I hate being 22 and having no money. I hate having to count money to see if I can get something I want and find out I don't have enough to pay bills and get it so I have to wait another week to see if my check next time can get it. I hate seeing a paycheck with 300 dollars and thinking to myself wow I got alot of money this week then realising how small that amount is.

I know the obvious answer is college but how can I get more money. My job is 30+ hours a week in retail with min wage and no way to climb up since it's union. And most jobs I am looking for is just min wage also and anything higher requires a year or so of experience.

I want more money, I want to climb, I want to be successful, and I'm ready and willing to put the work in but I just don't know where to start
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>30 hours

That's shit no wonder you're broke

Teenage girls work that many hours
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>>18541773
Most retail stores for part timers offer 20ish, my old store i was only doing 15. Full time is 40 so 30 isn't that far behind. And sometimes it's 36
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>>18541768
sell drugs
sell your body
get paid

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I'm rotting in my room
I'm 23 with no job or studies, only a worthless degree
I spend my life on internet

I do not see anyone irl

help me
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get a job
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>>18541750
don't wanna flip burgers all my life
i need future prospects

or i should enlist in the navy (not from the us)
Is army a bad idea ?
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>>18541753
You have a fucking degree. You do not need to be flipping burgers.

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>Got accepted to both NYU and Harvard for MBA
>Got GI Bill and some savings, + Yellow Ribbon because I am ex-military
>Parents have a house across the river in Jersey so I can pocket the BAH money from my GI Bill (Like, $3.5K if I sign a lease in NYC)
>Harvard MBA has more to it (? I think)

If you were me, what would you do? Its like choosing between pic related
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>>18541731
I have no idea about MBA but Harvard sounds like the better choice. NYU afaik is only good if you do applied math, numerical analysis, machine learning (due to some big names there)
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>>18541731
A Harvard MBA will always have more name recognition than Stern, which would be especially valuable if you go into business for yourself (e.g. selling yourself for any sort of consulting service). Otherwise whatever makes more sense for your financial situation.
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>>18541735
>>18541755

I am trying to be a quant, for the sole purpose of running my own hedgefund sometime in the future. My mistake is I didnt apply to Wharton, that seems to be where all the hedgefund people go.

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Are chicks that are into cosplay generally crazy?

I've never dated someone that was a "nerd" before, despite being really into comics and shit myself, but I'm interested in a girl.
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Yes, yes, and yes. Do not go there. I tried that, and not just once, and they are not normal. They are the female version of autists. But instead of r9k, they have tumblr and fandoms, and it rots their minds. Trust me: bad news. They are wild in bed, but like a drug. You get addicted to the highs and lows of their mercurial personalities. You'll never have better sex and more intimate connection, but they will drive you insane. You will learn to love being her slave, and she will sexually reward you, but it will slowly hollow you out.
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>>18541717
Story time?
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>>18541717
that's if you play their game

if you do not, they will just cry and be depressed alone while you enjoy your video games in peace

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I asked this chick out last week and she told me to just come over to her house. I went over there like 4 hours ago and we had some drinks, she got waaay to wasted and was basically jumping my bones. I cuddled her but basically turned her down. Told me I was cute and that she wants to hangout again. In to me or just drunk & horny?
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>>18541505
Why don't you just invite her to hangout again and find out? Not hard.
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>>18541515
yeah i'm gonna

just curious. she seemed pretty embarrassed but she was literally throwing herself at me. not really a turn on for me.
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>>18541519
You can't judge just from one time. There's no harm in asking again.

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>Dating girl for a year
>I'm 23, she is 25
>Just found out I'm the only white guy she has ever dated
>Always dated black guys and 1 mexican dude
>She told me I'm also the shortest guy she has dated (I'm 5'9''), and that all the men she previously dated were 6'0"+
>On our first date she told me she wanted to leave because I was short, "but that she was glad she didn't"

Okay, so she has only fucked black guys, and doesn't like short guys, or at least didn't before me.

Why do I suddenly feel like I've stepped on a landmine? The other night she wanted to do it, and I couldn't bring myself to because of the thought of her only being with black guys before me grossed me the fuck out, shit made my skin crawl.

What do I do?
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>>18541430
Leave.
You'll never satisfy her with your lwd.
She's probably trying to settle down now, but without access to BBC she will end up cheating on you.
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>>18541430
LM AO
smart girl, get that white family after a lifetime of adventure
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>>18541447
Well, my dick is certainly not little, that is one thing I have going for me. But you're probably right.

>>18541448
Eugh

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Lost my virginity to this girl I dated for 2 months, but I was friends with her for 2 and a half years prior.

She dumped me, and then told me we couldn't talk anymore because it would be awkward.

3 weeks after, shes casually texting me talking about movies and food like nothing ever happened.

Is this it? Has she moved on? Or is she trying to get back together?
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>>18541427

She wants you to be her beta orbiter and give her emotional validation. Which is fine, as long as you are ok with that and not being in a relationship or having sex with her.

If you are like 99 out of 100 guys though, this will be an all around shitty situation that you wont enjoy. Guys and girls generally cant be "just friends" without there being some sort of sexual tension coming from one of the parties involved. Its just human biology. The only exceptions to this rule, at least for me, is when a girl is dating a friend of mine, or Ive known them since I was a little kid, or they are related to me. In all other scenarios, there will be sexual tension either from you or from her.

My advice is to let it go. I mean yeah if you truly value your friendship that much, i guess go for it. But personally if a chick broke up from me i wouldnt be able to be "just friends" with her. Id only be doing it to get in her pants again, which generally isnt going to happen.

Just my 2 shekels.
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The best thing is to just be friends without the beta-cuck orbiter mentality.
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I hope you didn't reply yet. Maintain complete dominance of the situation by ghosting her like she wanted. Or you could be a beta and text like nothing happened.

So my gf of 6 months told be today that she identifies as "queer" and "bisexual." She told me about her past relationship, which she had in high school, and she basically said that they'd been friends for a couple years and decided they loved each other and started "making out." It's almost like a stereotype because she went to an all-girls Catholic school, and this just seems like an example of a 16-17 year old Catholic school girl who's sexually repressed making out with a girl friend of hers during her senior year.

In another time, she probably would have grown out of it and put it behind her. But because of the damn internet and tumblr, she now identifies as "queer" and "bisexual," and because of that, even calls herself "LGBTQ+." And it's so obvious that she also just loves the community and validation that comes with identifying that way and getting to complain about "heteronormativity" and "traditional gender roles."

I like her, she's otherwise a great, nice person, and we are quite compatible. But she's let the corrupting parts of the internet make her define herself by youthful experimentation instead of just growing up. And it's a huge turnoff for me because I want to have a family one day, and I wish she could just put all this behind her. Because I wouldn't want her to push these ideas in the household and have my future kids grow up thinking they have a queer mom and some kind of alternative family. I've known people who've come from households like that, and they don't turn out well in my experience. It's especially unsettling for children to be confronted with sexuality so young.
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I'll stay with her for awhile because the sex is good, we get along, and I genuinely do like having her in my life. We've talked about this kind of stuff, and I've delicately dissented from some of her SJW views, but if it's clear after maybe a year that she's still not maturing and instead continues to play along with SJW identity masturbating, feeling like some kind of minority even though she's a white woman, then I will have to move on.

Does this seem justified? We're fine in all other respects. I'm just thinking ahead to what my eventual relationship goals are and thinking to myself that I don't want to marry a woman who'll bring these immature ideas into my household and fuck my children up.
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There is literally like 1 million something+ women who are better looking, with better personalities, just waiting for a man.

This is a non-issue. Just leave her.
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>>18541404
Frankly anon, to me it seems like you're making a mountain of a molehill. Is this really such an issue? If she's in a committed relationship with you what does it matter if she finds girls and guys hot? It sounds to me like you've given this anti sjw stuff more importance than it deserves, as maybe she's given the queer stuff more than it deserves.

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Does eating pussy make a guy a pussy?
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>>18541397
Only if it said 'meow' shortly before ingestion
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idk man I unironically love the thought and even the act of eating pussy......BUT IT ALAWAYS FUCKING SMELLS OH MY GOD
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why does vaginas smell

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