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Always thaught I would be good looking. I knew i wouldn't be everyones type, because I have my very own type of styling. So I'm not for the typical basic bitch.
Some people told me I look like a model, and I heard a lot of compliments for my lookings, even though I am skinny as fuck.
now i tried tinder, and I just got 2 matches, and my self esteem is slowly going down, also because of my break up. I want to get girls but fucking tinder slowly destroys my self esteem. What should I do?
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So don't go to tinder faggit
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Sounds like you use people as a form of validation for your existence and because tinder barely provided, you were hurt from it.
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>>18538032
Nice answer. I guess you are right

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Should I track down my childhood crush?
Please remind me why this is a terrible idea.
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>>18537961
Well, you can go, see her, chat her up and ask her on date. Just dont have mental breakdown in case she will reject you (and you can bet she will).

Go for it tiger!
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>>18537961
Because she's not who you think she is. You've romanticized someone who doesn't exist, first of all. Second of all, it's incredibly creepy that you would try to track someone down. Third, it's very sad. You have so little going on in your life that you're going to spend what precious time you have tracking down someone you haven't known in forever.
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>>18537978
>some sane advice at last:
you really don't belong on here, do you?

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Can anybody here explain to me how to use Mexico's backpage from the USA? I try it but i just get redirected to US backpage. Asking because I want to fuck independent TJ hookers.
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>>18537916
Use a VPN that offers a Mexican IP address.
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>>18537916
VPN or NoScript (Firefox addon).
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>>18537934
Ok I added NoScript but i dont know how to use it. I still get redirected to the USA.

What exactly is a labor union? I have an opportunity to train to become a carpenter but I'm not sure yet. What exactly am I getting myself into? My uncle keeps saying things like "once you get in the union you're set" but I'm not exactly sure what he means
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>>18537859
Labor Unions are where groups of people act as a singular unit. The bargain collectively, and are represented by people who will negotiate on their behalf (in return, you pay a small portion of your paycheck). They typically also protect you regarding legal issues and the like, at least so far as your job is concerned.

There are good unions and there are bad unions, but if you get in one, you usually become a part of a work force that values nepotism over qualifications. This is both good and bad. You don't want to have to work for 20 years just for some 18 year old to come in and offer to do it for a penny less than you and get axed, but on the other hand, there are some really worthless people that get protected by it, as well.
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>>18537887
Interesting. So is it one of those opportunities I shouldn't pass up? I don't have much else going on in my life and I've heard I'd be paid well
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>>18537859
To add to this: >>18537887
I would like to demonstrate how unions can be good and can be bad.

Labor unions helped miners earn real money, instead of a fake currency that the mine owners issued (that you couldn't spend anywhere else but the town, which they also owned and rented to you). They also get people health benefits and decent pay where there wasn't that before. But, labor unions also caused the implosion of the US auto industry and closed Hostess Snacks because neither side could come to an agreement during a time of strife (Hostess asked everyone to take a pay cut one year, which they did. Then the CEO got a huge bonus for achieving this, and the next year, they asked the union to take another pay cut, and they refused).

I recently got good with girls and I lost my virginity o my current GF.

Yet my urges of cheating are insane. She has had more experience than me and the jealousy and insecurity drives me wild.

I also have no other girls to compare to while she compared me to her past men.

How do I get over this?
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>>18537792
By thinking about someone besides yourself. Not joking. You have to be one hell of a selfish asshole to be able to get an erection and hurt someone you care about if you get caught.

I mean, how would you feel if she did that to you? Would you feel good?
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>>18537792
you get over this by growing up and being over 18+ y man.

remind me who's the woman in this relationship again?
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>>18537792
just end the relationship, you are not looking for a partnership but for sexual variety.

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I don't get erections naturally. As in, when I see/think something LEWD or even when making out with someone. I need to stimulate myself, and even then I lose the erections really quickly.

I started nofap and kegel exercises as I was really addicted to porn and sexting (daily 5+ faps). So far I have no cravings but I'm getting desperate for having regular erections.

How much time do I need to start seeing results?
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>>18537784
Nofap? Few weeks. But i suggest you to fap like once pet week. Noporn is what you want. Simply stay away from pornography.
https://yourbrainonporn.com/
Kegels? Few months.

You can also boost your testosterone. By not being fat, eating balanced diet (not everything can be sugar) and by getting muscles. Try body weight routines:
http://www.manvsweight.com/calisthenics-exercises/
And
http://www.aworkoutroutine.com/training-each-muscle-group-3-times-per-week/

Good luck!
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>>18537784
>daily 5+ faps
H-How do you even...
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>>18537784
I have it the same way, minus fapping five times daily. I maybe fap two or three times a week. Done nofap+noporn twice for 100 days, and no difference in erections back. No difference at all really except I wasn't fapping for 100 days.

I have been prescribed sildenafil and no difference either.
Although asexuality is not a diagnosis I have had physicians and psychologists tell me that's what I am and to learn and live with it.

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My best friend of 6 years killed himself yesterday. I was the only person he messaged. I didn't check it because I was busy.

I can't sleep. I don't know how to handle this. I've ran out of tears and my eyes are sore.

What am I even supposed to do now?
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>>18537768
probably nothing you could have done anyways bud, don't beat yourself up.
how'd he do it anyways?
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>>18537779

From what I heard, industrial helium tank fed into one of those medical oxygen masks.
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>>18537782
shit yeah. what was the message like: stop me now, kind of stuff, or more like goodbye goodbye goodbye?
if the latter, then really nothing you could have done, he'd have been gone by the time the cops or you arrived. if the former, still nothing you could have done, i feel bad for you bro but that's life sometimes.

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I have a friend who is by all measures a total Chad and for some reason he admires me.

How does this even happen?
I'm shy, a manlet and have zero success with women. He is the EXACT opposite. Seriously he has such an ease getting girls to do whatever he wants it baffles me, he gets them to pay for his flights so he can go and fuck them.

But in our inner group of friends for some reason he always asks for my opinion, does what I say, copies my hobbies and things I do, its fucking strange.

How can this happen? The only thing I have over him is slightly more education.
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>>18537764
It is likely he just want to survive your shooting, smart guy.
Never push kids like Elliot too much, always makes he feel important and accepted.
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Chads are in reality the nicest people in society.
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Why don't you try to absorb some of his Chadness? Ask him to wingman for you and go out.

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hello /adv/,
I found a nice girl over the internet and we seem to get along quite well.
The only problem is that she's more on the social side, independent and challenging, while I'm probably on the spectrum (picrelated).
I have no experience with girls and never went on a date, so I'm asking what I have to do?
At the moment we're chatting nicely and steadily about random things, but I wonder if I have to suggest a date soon and I don't know how that works.
I hope you can help me.
Yours,
Anon
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>found a nice girl over the internet
There's your problem retard
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Hallo Anon,

I have no idea what that graph represents, sorry.
But my advice would be to relax first of all, and see what happens. Not all online friendships blossom into real life ones, let alone romance, but it can be possible. If you live near each other, you can meet up for fun, not necessarily a date, and see what happens next. If there's chemistry, then you can arrange a date in future. Just have fun and don't take it too seriously.

Sincerely,

AN Other
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>>18537781
why is there a problem, I've seen this statistic that shows a trend in online dating over the last years.

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How should i fuck with jake paul fans?
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>>18537699
Who or what is a jake paul?
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>>18537913
dont know gonna bump for an answer
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Haha, this reminds me of being an edgy preteen back when Justin Bieber first got popular, and hating all of his fans.

You're more than welcome to return to this board when you reach 18 years of age, OP.

I don't know if this counts as advice, so I'll keep it short.

Why is it that every time I'm fucking a girl, the second I'm done is the second I lose complete interest in her and don't want her talking to me? It's becoming a pervasive problem that's ruining my relationships.
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It's because you're a man. Congratulations.
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>>18537659
Pretty normal. It just means she's not right for you and you're super horny. "


Jerk off a bunch before a date or fuck a side hoe so you are clear for the date, so you know if you actually want her or just want to fuck her.
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>>18537659
It means you don't like her personality.

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I'm curently ating a trans cutie 3.1415926535897 and I want to break it off with her. The only problem is she's already overly attached and very psychotic. How do I pull off this astonishing feat without driving her to act out in an insane manner?

Will give pics upon request
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>>18537657
Send her sms
>you are too much good for me, it wouldnt work between us, i break up with you
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Every tranny is mentally ill. That's what you get for being gay.
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>>18537657
Pics?
Depends on the dynamics at play here.
More info

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How do i keep on drawing,when my doubt and selfhating thoughts starts pouring in, and then i begin to see that everything i drew looks fucking horrible.
I know you have to practice, but i don't see any progress regardless of how much i practice.
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>>18537602
Keep your old shit, and load up with patience because drawing is one of the hardest things to do decently in life.

On top of this, you seem extremely hung up on results. You don't draw for results, you draw because the process is enjoyable to you.
Every fuckup is an improvement you can make next time, this is what studies are for. When you fuck something up really try to see what you fucked up and try to fix it.

But really, if you only want to see results and don't appreciate spending 2 hours just losing yourself between lines you're never going to draw well.

And practice, but draw shit you enjoy as well. For example I practice about 2 hours daily but I draw just enjoyable shit for fun (like qt girls, etc) when I don't want to get burned out. If you only and exclusively practice you're not going to find any joy in it.

Ask yourself, what do I want to draw? What is my preferred subject? And draw it for enjoyment when you're bored, just for the sake of having fun.
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>>18537637
I generally thought people draw with the result as the main thing.

But thanks for the advice

Now i gotta figure out what the hell i actually enjoy drawing.
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>>18537602
success is built upon a foundation of failures

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What should i do?

>i cant go
>She wants to dressup
>She wants to weed and drink
>She says shes not interested in cheating on me
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dump her immediately you massive cuck
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>>18537584
>says shes not interested in cheating on me
lmaao
It is not up to her OP
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>>18537584
>She says shes not interested in cheating on me
not yet at best
girls who dress up like that go to raves to get fucked

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What an easy, comfy, skilless night shift job?
I've never really had a proper job and I'm really scared of the idea for some reason, but I figure I should stop being a neet and that kind of job would be the easiest to get into.
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>>18537554
Security guard.

I work night shift at a power plant, but I need to know how to fix anything that goes wrong without calling for help.
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>>18537567
They train you to do all that stuff? How much do you earn?
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>>18537581
Not for third shift. You need to be at LEAST an experienced Journeyman electrician, preferably a Master Electrician. That takes years and years of training. It would literally be quicker for you to go and get a degree.

I'm paid a little under $50/hr

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