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I hooked up with a girl pretty soon after she broke up with her boyfriend. We flirted and hung out for a few days and then I pumped the brakes because I wasn't sure what her deal was.
I found out she's back with her old dude and ended up meeting the guy. She still texts me late at night sometimes and flirts when we cross paths. I'm not super down for that. Is it rude to send a text that says something along the lines of "I'm not down for staying in touch like this when you're with somebody" or should I just ignore and cut contact outside of social/work scenarios?
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>>18553837
It's not rude, especially when she reciprocates your flirtation attempts. Go ahead and confront her about the deal, OP.
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>>18553870
Cool, that's kind of what I was thinking. I didn't want it to seem like I'm coming from left field or jealous (I'm really not), but it just doesn't seem beneficial to either party.
Thanks for your perspective on it.
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>>18553888
anytime OP
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I had a drunk, unprotected one night stand last weekend, with a fat chick. Yes, I fucked up hard. We used the pull out method but I fucked her in the morning too, without having taken a piss after round 1. She knows my name and has my number. I'm really worried about having an accidental baby. She seems clingy. I'd rather kill her than have a child with a fat person. What should I do? Ask her to take the morning after? She said her bleeding ended just recently, but should I inquire how long ago? Or just never contact her again and pray?
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>>18553819
I'll give the first one. But mother fucker were you drunk in the morning too? Run bitch run!
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You can legally have her get an abortion as you can claim you are mentally ill
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>>18553825
Yes, I was.
God, I rarely come here on 4Chan nowadays. It's been a while, really.
My current husband lives with his wife and daughter (non-biological), she found out about me and hates my guts. Don't get it twisted, I'm not a homewrecker. Their marriage started falling apart due to his rude wife, she screams and breaks his things. I felt so bad for him, however, I loved him before he confessed to me what was going on. He has another son (biological), a really kind kid. But our son (yes, I consider him my child), lives with his mom. I am fully aware of his past and not bothered. I accept it completely. As they say; love me, love my dog.
We have argued a few time, mainly about breaking up and choosing our own paths. In pure honesty, it hurts me to know that we are going to be in such agony and distress if we separate. I can't go without him, he's my soulmate. I just feel that I'm adding more problems to his life already.
What should I do? Be alone and take my own path or unite and follow our path?
Just know that, I love him.
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>>18553780
So you're a female cuck? What a strange situation.
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>>18553780
Can you rewrite that whole thing again, it makes no sense whatsoever.
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>>18553780
Why do you love dysfunction so much? Also has anyone in your family given you advice about this situation. If your not close with family that's a red flag. Your own life is dysfunctional so your atracted to it like a moth to a flame. You love dysfunction. I'd say leave the situation. But that's not up to me. It's up to you. Break up is short term pain. But staying is easy gratification and long term pain. Sounds like you like the easy fix. I don't blame you though.
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I've been single for five years and I am 21.
My friends like to tell me I'm young and still got time, but they're ENGAGED.
I don't feel like I'm running out of time. I just can't ever find someone that's actually right for me. I feel like I'm the last of my species looking for a mate or something.
I wonder if I can help that or if I can only live my life and wait it out.
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>>18553752
Focus on self development and building your career and shit. Then when you have your shit together go find someone else that has there shit together and you will be fine. Also don't make me laugh single for 5 years and your 21 now. You think anywhere between 16 to 19 is anything serious?
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If your friends are engaged around the age of 21, that's their fuckup. Their marriages will not last. Almost nobody knows who the fuck they really are at 21, let alone knowing someone else well enough to partner with them for life.
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>>18553771
It's kinda serious if you're a 21 year old virgin in current year.
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My douchey brother came out as a trap recently and it's starting to creep me out. The transition is coming along too well and I've been getting uncomfortable feelings. How do I convince him to stop this madness?
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>>18553726
Why do you want to make your brother uncomfortable with his own body just because you're mentally confused? That's not fair to him at all.
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Kill him
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>>18553726
You're a selfish cunt.
>me me me
This is what I gathered from your post.
IM uncomfortable with my brothers decisions because it gives ME a boner. So because IM uncomfortable I want my brother to literally put his life on hold and hide himself as well. Kill yourself it would be doing everyone a favor.
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On Sunday my youngest child died.
She was only 3 years old and she suffered what looked like a stroke or seizure resulting in a non-fatal drowning.
My wife pulled her out of the pool and I gave her CPR while my wife ran to call 911.
The paramedics were there in 4 mins but unfortunately it took over 40 mins to get her heart started again.
My wife and I spent 9 days in the hospital watching her slowly get worse and worse, to the point where she could no longer regulate her own heartbeat or blood pressure or even her temperature.
We made the decision to sign her up for donation which meant that we had to withdraw life support so they could regulate how much oxygen loss her organs suffered.
By the time Sunday came around, the scheduled time, she was on 12 different medications just to keep her organs alive, her brain had almost completely died, she had different sized pupils, which were fixed and dilated, her temperature was continually rising and her blood pressure changed so frequently that they had her on epinephrine and beta blockers depending on which way it swung.
Now, we are home, for the first time since the incident and it is such an emotional rollercoaster. I am fine one second and crying the next and mad the next. I feel some comfort being home, being in the places she was, and laying next to where she slept, but it is also torture because I see her everywhere.
I feel guilty and confused, and the next I feel nothing. Just pure numbness. Sometimes looking at pictures of her brings me peace and other times it makes me feel like vomiting.
I have no idea what I am supposed to do from one second to the next. The world around me just seems to carry on like nothing has changed and even those effected by it seem to just carry on but I don't know how I'm supposed to do that.
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> get off 4chan and go comfort your wife
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>>18553703
She's sleeping.
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>>18553696
I'm sorry for your loss. No one should have to go through such a terrible situation. The road to healing will be a long one. But if you stick to it. One day it won't hurt this much. Don't ever bottle it up. Let it out. Do some charity. Talk to your wife. Talk to family members. Talk to a therapist. You have alot of pain inside. You need to let that pain out. Good luck anon.
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Is there a word for not always feeling emotions? I'm finding it concerning. When I was a kid my step dad's dad died, and I only felt anything and cried because my step dad was crying. I figured "oh, I wasn't very close to him, it would be different if it was someone I'm close to." But my grandma is currently in the hospital, she could potentially die. Yet when my mom called me, crying, telling me this and what was wrong with her, there was no sinking stomach feeling of dread.
There are times when I don't really feel what I should feel. A while back, me and my boyfriend almost broke up, he was crying, I felt nothing. Not until later where guilt suddenly ate me alive and I planned to kill myself.
I'm pretty sure I've had depression since I was around 10 (25 currently). I sought help this year and am on medication that's helping, as well as going to a therapist (I'll probably bring this up to her.)
How broken am I?
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>>18553688
It's called numbing out. You become void of emotions I've had it happen to me. Not fun.
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>>18553688
All I can tell you is that I'm the same way.
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>>18553688
Your not broken. This problem is very fixable.
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Long story short:
>Friend has been "in love with me" for a long time
>Says they can't get over me
>Every 3 months they go "I can't do this anymore" and stops talking to me
>A month later they want to be friends again
>Repeat
They did it again, is it right for me to just not talk to them again?
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>>18553679
>the pronoun game
that aside, why would you want to continue to deal with that nonsense?
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>>18553679
Ya cut all contact with them. It's the only way this will actually get better.
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Sounds like some dramatic, over the top reaction. I don't think that it would be unfair to just dodge conversation altogether.
You don't owe them anything and their childish reaction to you not wanting a relationship is a red flag either way.
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I've only been to yoga a couple times but I really enjoyed it and I'm thinking of getting into it.
It seems like a pretty good combination of working on myself and cute friendly girls that were all surprised I've never gone to yoga before.
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>>18553677
>they don't even mind me checking them out because I am genuinely new to this and I'm also trying hard to adjust my poses and learn them
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>>18553677
>cute friendly girls that were all surprised I've never gone to yoga before.
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>>18553691
I didn't even wear a shirt desu
>how the fuck do they fool women into buying clothes they don't need, I still workout in the same pe uniform from high school ffs
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Reasons to live?
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>>18553608
Your already destined to die in the next 60 years what's the rush?
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How's life ?
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because killing yourself probably wont be any fun
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She doesn't seem to understand I am a sexual being that needs sex or anything sex related.
We fondle around and I end up eating her out, but when I whip my dong out she acts all weird.
We're both virgins though she doesn't believe me
>Together for two months
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>>18553606
>virgins
>been together for 2 months
Are 14?
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>>18553606
Society teaches us to hold on to our virginities, don't push anything on her or make her feel uncomfortable in any way if she says she's uncomfortable with it don't do it.
There's a high chance that you being completely supportive of her decision will make her feel comfortable enough to do it with you. But it must be sincere and you can't get mad at her even slightly or passively or else you ruin it all
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>>18553606
I was like this with my bf at the start of our relationship.
Both virgins, we'd fool around but I'd stop him before he got my pants off. We eventually worked our way up to him eating me out. After that we worked out way up to me giving him blow jobs. Now we're working our way up to piv (it hurts too much right now).
Give it time, she will come around. It can be scary to lose your virginity as a girl because we're taught to guard and treasure it.
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Ik i made a big mistake in my relationship with my bf but is it right for him to bring it up every time I won't do something he ask me to do. Also he like to say that I don't care about him or our daughter to. I don't bring up the mistake he has done in are relationship every time he don't do what I ask. Idk what to do
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What did you do ? Don't you bs me op
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>>18553554
He's manipulating you and that's a form of abuse. I know that you're scared of being alone but don't put yourself through turmoil just because this asshole thinks he can control you.
Any normal rational level-headed person would never even think of holding something over someone else's head like that.
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>>18553583
Maybe, but I doubt we're getting a fair picture of the situation here.
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Haven't talked to my ex gf in a day,today she decided to talk to me on Instagram.She started talking all this shit and making fun of me.Saying people don't like me,stuff like that.What should I do?I don't want to seem like a whims if I block her.
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*whimp
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It's a ploy , full blow she wants you to want her make you feel like you need her so you'll go back thinking nobody else will date you , happened to me plenty eventually I broke up with the bitch after going back 3 times so yeah
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>>18553530
She doesn't want me back,she's just being a bitch to me
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As a male to female transexual, do I have any chance of attracting a man that isn't going to just use me for sex? Every man I've ever been with has either turned 360 when they found out or only wanted to string me along for casual sex. I'm starting to feel like nobody can actually love me.
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>>18553429
Sorry, but no. At best some liberal weirdo will use you to virtue signal, but it's unlikely that any man you want will love you. Better luck next life. :/
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>>18553429
Are you only going after straight men? You'll be better off searching for gay men.
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>>18553429
Doubtful people now a days make to much of labels and won't see the person for what they are so what can you do.
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Does Jared's Subway diet work? I'm trying to find an effective way to lose 170 pounds fast.
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PSMF/ this is unironically the fastest way to lose fat without killing yourself.
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Yes, but it'll make you wanna fuck children if Jared's lawyers are to be believed.