I've been single for five years and I am 21. My friends

>>18553752
Focus on self development and building your career and shit. Then when you have your shit together go find someone else that has there shit together and you will be fine. Also don't make me laugh single for 5 years and your 21 now. You think anywhere between 16 to 19 is anything serious?

If your friends are engaged around the age of 21, that's their fuckup. Their marriages will not last. Almost nobody knows who the fuck they really are at 21, let alone knowing someone else well enough to partner with them for life.

>>18553771
It's kinda serious if you're a 21 year old virgin in current year.

>>18553752
>single for five years and I am 21

woooow what a loser

>>18553782
I know.

>>18553779
>break up with one and only girlfriend I've ever had after three weeks
>five years later she has husband and child
rip

>>18553781
No it not. Sex literally means nothing. I'm dead serious. Stop listening to the peer pressure bullshit.

21 is pretty fucking young. I wouldn't be concerned. People who get married at your age rarely last. You can concern yourself 10-15 years from now.

>>18553806
I wish someone understood n shit though

>>18553800
Sex literally means nothing except that being a virgin is seen as a huge intimacy boundary, and I don't think I deservingly so.

>>18553800
It does say a lot, there is only a small percentage that don't have developed some serious psychological problem by then and are able to have relationships.

>>18553781
It isn't. I was a virgin until the age of 23. Nothing really changed after I lost it. It's mostly a mental thing. Just go at your own pace. Work on yourself, meet new people.

>>18553916
Being a virgin this long doesn't affect me nearly as much as the fact that somehow I've pulled it off. It's not something I'm trying to change. Just makes me question a lot about myself.