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>>18552122
Turn your sadness back into anger and resentment again.

Always works for me.

>>18552131
Worked on another girl, but not on this one.

mate, that's fine
my ex turned into completely different person and I still miss her so much, even if she is nonexistent anymore
even if I hate what is that person now, I miss what she was. That's hard, dude

>>18552040
yes it's weird but you learn to just accept it.
t. mom cheated on my dad for years

maybe think about it in the way of this:
"two happy people are better than two miserable people" most likely, they will both be better away from each other. I don't know how the fuck to deal with the whole situation that leads up to divorce, but that's how i dealt with the actual thought of my parents seperating

>>18552045
did you live with either parent or find a living arrangement elsewhere?

No. She's an ex for a reason. And if she's the one that broke it off, you'll forever worry about losing her again and she'll grow bored of you for not challenging her and how could you knowing that any one thing could lead to another break up. You'll lose all power if any you had.

You have one shot one opportunity to seize everything you ever wanted. In one moment. Would you capture it or just let it slip?

>>18552003

Not everything is that black and white though

>>18551916
do not move in with her

>>18551916
>>have fight about her riding years, should have been minor
>>she winds up berating me for nearly eight hours, says I'm useless, worthless, and threatens to break up with me
>>I slip out the back while she's at work the next morning and make a run for the border
>>leave a nasty letter
rofl you sound like teenager

>>18551922
Oh don't worry about that. It's over. I ran for it.

>>18551807
Take action means the morning after pill, right?
If so everything is fine.

>>18551819
Yeah it's the off-brand one so I'm not sure how reliable it is.

Any advice on condoms that work well? Should I even be buying the ultra thin ones anymore?

Compliments when he's in a suit and some light teasing.
No compliments and teasing when he's dressed the way you don't like.
If he has the hots for you that should be enough.

Sounds retarded. How do you imagine a future life or whatever. Every human is weak, some can it cover s bit more and some less. You sound like a conceited cunt.

Its like a man would hate you for your saggy titts if you get older or any wrinkel on your face and dump you.


If you want a manly man, he should me manly enough to take the truth about what you like. The aspect of "not aoffending him" is a thing that is worse than how he wears his things. If he is beta in his head, he cant shine confident alpha with his clothes. Just tell him

>>18551817
>saggy tits or wrinkles
But those are hardly things you can control. Sagginess can be covered most of the time at least.

It's different in the case of how you dress and carry yourself. In the case of the masculinity or femininity you can exude it through attitude, appearance and manners. And in the end, every little thing you do tells something, good or bad, about your character so it's not completely shallow to be receptive this subtlety. I do admit the exaggeration in my case though

It's cause he's a retard. She hasn't even """"talked"""" to him in over 2 years. I use heavy quotes because even what she said is pure small talk. You just gotta get over your insecurities.

>>18551706
He's probably pregnant, and it's hers.

>>18551706
He's hitting on her as nogs and tards are wont to do. You really are reading into it too hard.
I think you may actually have some sort of paranoia-related problem, not like I could actually diagnose you, that's psych business.
Of course joining up just for a baby tends to wrong often, and if you bicker and fight often, you'll harm the kid more than you'll help her.
If you can't see yourself with this woman until your kid becomes fully independent, then I suggest you leave now before you do/say something stupid that will really damage the relationship with your kid.

Child support sucks, but so does a shitty family life full of conflict and unrest.

>>18551589
Do you trust her to be loyal

>>18551591
I do.
Shes my first gf, and she's worried i might not be loyal.

>>18551589
You have to skype everyday. And do stuff together like watching tv shows (both watching the same thing while on skype)

No tinder is not.

Try plenty of fish honestly.

If you are serious about finding a women, then on your time off you have to meet them and make the effort. Desperate people go and do online dating. Not only that but you might get catfished,

>>18551566
The only problem with meeting people is the city I live in isn't the best for that. And I also work a shit ton and early hours as well. I have to be up at 5am every day and I usually work at least 1-2 12 hour shifts every week.

I've been trying to get out and meet people on my weekends but its been pretty unsuccessful. I don't want to go to bars or clubs because those are not the kinda people I would ever want to date.

And I go to things like live music at coffee shops or I took a pottery class and going to friends events (a friend of mine is very into belly dancing and her group put on a show that I went to)

So far every time there are either no women, they are all fat and ugly or old, or they have boyfriends. Its extremely discouraging.

How do people meet their significant other when they don't live in a major city or go to university?(I'm canadian so it seems like unless you live in Toronto you don't get to meet people)

>>18551560
Social events you hate, friends friends coworkers family and online.

When online, first question is always
>what are you looking for
And before first convo ends, you want to have their phone number minimally but set up date ideally. Move fast, throw memes around like grenades, dont overthink problems and always move in for the kill.

The 1st impression is in the photo. So you should spent at least 1 hour to craft that ultimate selfie. New sexy haircut, shave, shower, suit on and take 100 sefies with smug face, bitch face, smiley face, emo face, head a bit off center, looking not into camera, looking in and pic the best photo.

Any onlide dating site is tool. Tinder, okcupid, badoo, meetme doesnt matter. You get results based on how you use it. The game is a bit rigged against boys, but what isnt these days (like marriage or adoptions).

Keep texting to minimum and asking dates on maximum. If she evades questions, refuses to give you her number or cant be bothered to reply more than 1 word, she is either bot, bitch or uninterested. Either way, move on. And never ever tell girl you love her first. That is her job. You can maximally buy her flowers or say: me too baby.

>>18551566
And never listen to these types of dudes. He is probably some boomer who froze in the last century.

Dont forget condoms, give the lady feelings you find her sexy (you dont need to sleep with them, but without right boobs compliment / kiss they will think you are gay) and good luck!

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You're supposed to tease, not be an outright asshole.

It could be. Early pickup culture was all about stuff like that

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You idiot, girls don't literally like assholes but men who are confident and don't bend to their whim. They put themselves first and won't let some chick dictate everything.

For example.

You want to ask a girl to the movies.

A beta would ask "what do you want to see"?

An "asshole" would say "We are watching Dunkirk at the movies" and the girl either accepts or doesnt' but the guy is still watching the movie. Pretty much he will have a good time whether she is there or not thus she isn't put on a pedestal.

Fuck her right in the pussy

>>18551488
Its normal

Why would she get mad about a normally bodily reaction.

Its like if you got mad when she is on her period.

Shit happens

How long have you been dating? It should be a sign for her that it's useless to wait longer.

>>18551386
Your woes can fall into three categories
1. Don't much enjoy school
2. No social life
3. Generally lazy and self-indulgent

Once divided like that, the solutions in each area are pretty obvious. I don't have to tell you what to do in each area - just get started.

Choose one to work on, do the obvious logical things to start making it better, and then (without waiting for the first to get all the way there) start on another.

>>18551476
>I don't have to tell you what to do in each area

Could you anyway? My best guess to solve the social life thing would be to hit on freshman girls, and something tells me I might need a fall back plan for that. I don't know what to do.

>>18551708
Meet people. Meet lots of people. Expand your acquaintance circle. From within that will come a smaller friend circle. From within that will come girls you know as friends and therefore know you like.

>>18551335
Why're you putting toothpaste on your pimples?

>>18551344
Read somewhere that it works

>>18551344
Apparently science is amazing just like that
I thought you're supposed to put toothpaste first?

No, don't fap. Not being able to get it up is far worse a risk than coming early.

>>18551291
This
If you have to, fap once and make it quick so it's not a big nut or anything.

>>18551291
Just do all your fapping up to 30 minutes in advance

Getting hard isn't really a problem desu

>>18551278
>ten years
>not married yet
>'anon I'd like a ring'

Read between the lines man

>>18551282
Maybe they don't want to get married. I know a lot of couples like that. One couple even have three children, yet the idea of getting married is out of the question for them.

>>18551282
This. Good lord, anon, marry her already and produce some more autistis.