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As a man just beginning university in autumn, when would the best time to start a family be? I would obviously need a career by then (a lucrative one at that), so that would amount to 22 years of age for me, but what would the right mate look like? Could she be my age and start having children a bit later with the risk of birth problems in her thirties, or should I choose someone around 20?
Secondly, what sort of career should she have? Housewives aren't common in this age, so I am to choose one with a lighter career such as a nurse, or a more demanding occupation such as a doctor with a higher pay, but less disposed towards homemaking. I plan on going into the field of law, which along with my future SO's career, may not be enough to sustain a large household and even larger home. Thoughts?
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Am christian orthodox, so i hope to find someone within my community
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I have a crush on my boss.
but here's the deal. she is 47.....I'm 27 and her daughters are the same age as me.
how do I stop these feels. I haven't even had a crush on anyone in ages.
she is such a nice woman personality-wise and from people have told me that's exactly what she is genuinely like. even outside of work
it surprised me and made me angry when someone told me that she was in a violent relationship with her last partner.
like how can someone like that end up in such a relationship?
why can't chicks my age be similar to her. like I fantasize meeting her when she was in her 20s. I would totally want to ask her out
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Quit your job and get a new one and then ask her out. I don't see any progress happening while she's your superior unless on the off chance she's into that stuff.
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>>18569016
youre probably suffering from some mild oedipan dysfunction,
if you reaaally have to do it, just bang one of the daughters - cake had & eaten
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From what I understand he likes her personality before her looks so banging daughter wouldn't work. If he dates the daughter it can get worse. As to why she was in an abusive relationship - I know the nicest person and both her sons are alcoholics and make her life hell. Nice people let others walk over them. That's why I like a bit of aggression.
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I'm somewhat autistic and I'm trying to get along better with people.
However I need some golden rules to keep reminding myself of when having a conversation.
So far I've got:
(1) Listen, listen, listen - people appreciate we they have someone's full attention
(2) Don't talk about yourself unnecessarily - It's almost always much better to ask questions than to butt-in with your own life story or feelings
(3) Give people the benefit of the doubt - don't overanalyse everything they say and their facial expressions, people aren't out to get you they're much more concerned with their lives
Do you guys and gals have any more rules that I can use to seem like a normal person during conversations?
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I would add eye contact and don't forget to feign emotion. I don't think normies like when you're just standing there listening with a blank expression.
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>>18569000
Understand that 90% of casual conversations are really about nothing at all, just excuses to be together and be friendly.
Think of this - monkeys and chimps like to "groom" each other, picking nits out of each other's fur. But experts have figured out that the grooming is really just an excuse to sit together and signal friendliness.
People don't pick nits off each other. But we talk about movies, TV, sports, gossip and other things we're not really all that interested in, just to enjoy being together and signaling friendliness.
So don't fall into the trap of taking what is being talked about too seriously. Most of the time nobody else is
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How do I become wiser? 2017-07-29 11:46:29 Post No.18568984
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I'm 23 years old. Everyday, I go to work, come back home, study, play games, watch anime and go to bed. My parents take care of me, they usually hide bad things from me, so I can live happily, without care.
Today, I talked to two of my colleagues over coffee, something I rarely do. I found out how much knowledge I lack about life, and other people around me. My colleagues are knowledgeable, not only about their jobs, about their lives, and other people.
For example, they analyzed another person in the company, who I always thought to be kind and hard-working. My colleagues analyzed their decisions, how they interacts with other people, showing how he is selfish, and petty. He talks to the boss about flaws of other colleagues behind their backs, how he takes all the good people of every interview into his team, when the other team is in need of good people. My colleagues weren't bad mouthing him. Their thinking is very mature and very realistic, unlike my own.
I had my eyes open. I would like to ask for advice from my kind and wise anons:
How do I observe things beyond the surface?
What I can do to become wiser? To think more realistically, analytically, and gain more knowledge about my job, my life, and people around me?
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Read more (read good books)
See more TV & Deep anime shows and try to understand the philosophy behind them. Watch explanation vids if you must.
Be OBSESSIVELY criticizing shows and books and look at each fault. Cinema sins is a good example for such. Or, watch one of my fav analytic-criticism vids I've ever seen-
/watch?v=LkoGBOs5ecM
Experience people more and make many MANY MAAAANNNNYYYY mistakes to learn from. This is the most important thing to do.
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Stop watching anime.
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>>18568984
Many younger people confuse wisdom with cynicism. Look critically at things, yes, but do not forget to look for the good as well.
hsv man
Herpes - do i wanna know? 2017-07-29 11:43:08 Post No.18568978
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Ayy /adv/
Backstory: Met girl 2.5 years ago, relationship for 2 years, broke up, she slept around, I fucked her a couple of times recently, and think I might have contracted genital herpes, but the symptoms are extremely weak, so not sure at all. If I have it, then she definately has it too.
Q: Do I want to know if I have genital herpes, or is it better to live in ignorance? If I know that i have it, i will have to live with either lying to new partners about the condition or telling them before sex - either option feels really crappy
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Yes you want to know.
Quit being a coward and face that shit instead of passing that potential to other people.
Never lie about STIs, this is how they are widely spread. The fuk, OP.
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Why do things seem so intensely negative in my head at random times no matter what? I know I struggle with a few mood disorders but even when I feel fine, I've been exercising regularly, eating well, cutting out a lot of added sugars, jogging/sprinting, connecting with others, getting laid, it always comes back to this and just wanting things to end. Weed has been a saviour but I become too addicted, way more than I was with cigarettes or benzos, and boom, $200 in a week whenever I'm able to hold down a job for more than a few weeks. I'm tired of this nonstop anxiety hanging over me and my mom goes through it too and still has barely been able to survive to this day because of it. I can't let my family pour money into me any longer to "help" me when I'm not helping myself. Professionals have led me down the path of medication which temporarily helps but I flatline back to an unstable mood and just end up feeling even less real, and derealize which makes me freak out around others(mentally, I'm not wailing my arms around lmao) and makes me feel even more insecure(inb4betafaggotkys). So, do I just plan out a quick and painless suicide after telling my family I'm moving out? I wouldn't want my parents to go on without me though, they love the living shit out of me. (I don't live with them, I moved to a different state with other senpai members after suicide attempt a year ago)
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Op here
>other senpai
I meant other family
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23 year old fed up kissless dateless virgin, should I just go and get an escort? 2017-07-29 11:24:08 Post No.18568938
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23 year old fed up kissless dateless virgin, should I just go and get an escort?
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Title.
Part of me wants to keep my virginity for at least a one night stand but, I can never "pull" as it's called, if I go out and get drunk and go to clubs I can't talk to girls because I'm afraid they are not single.
Another part of me really just wants to get fucking laid no matter how.
I am torn.
Advice very much appreciated.
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Do what you want. But its not your job to read the minds of women you don't know. It's their job to remain loyal to their significant other, if they have one.
I think you're just using that as an excuse, though, and that you're actually afraid of rejection, at which point, yeah, hire an escort.
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>>18568955
I'm afraid of rejection because that's all I've ever experienced.
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That's an interesting image
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Guy Is terrible, can't join discord server because of him. How do I deal with him? 2017-07-29 10:42:00 Post No.18568896
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Guy Is terrible, can't join discord server because of him. How do I deal with him?
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This guy is unlike any other harasser, I've ever had. He is just autistic, or superbly egotistical.
This guy because I had the audacity to send him criticism about the way he initiates conversations and by the fact I had one of his friends muted on accident.
He had actually fucking dug up old text messages from girls he was obviously just looking for sex with (which is apparent later but wait) and started posting screenshots from over 3 Months ago about how much of a lonely desperate creep I am for DMING these girls of all things man and MAKING JOKES. and criticizing the server with a sarcastic joke to someone I had met and thought it would be nice to talk to cause she was one of the first people I messaged.
So turns out she doesn't like what I said because she said "Don't send me that edgelord shit ever again" Then he starts harassing me in the room I'm in, making fun of me and making accusations.
In front of my friends. Alright, so he starts reading out DMs to girls who got hit on a lot on the server (I was trolling) basically E-Whores, and how I would message them fake hitting on them at the time while we were in the same server we were in because guess what? I like making jokes with satire in them.
Okay, next after he reads out the embarrassing DM of me saying "I love (Girl) even though I just met her" Which I had done as a joke with another girl and she laughed.
But apparently this guy then sent a convo where I had the AUDACITY to say to girls "We should talk you're pretty cool" or "Hey you're friends with my friend (X) so we should talk." cause ya know I CAN'T HAVE PLATONIC RELATIONSHIPS WITH WOMEN.
And I asked "How can you prove what context this is under?" And he said "I ONLY GOT SCREENSHOTS FROM WOMEN" But see the issue is, if I hit on guys, then why would they send them to him? Secondly, most of these girls are E-Whores. But the thing is he is a hypocrite, the only people on his discord are women, and two of the people who follow him.
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I have absolutely no idea what half of the shit you said means, dude. Your story is all over the place and I can't follow it for the life of me.
I'm not asking you to clarify - please don't. I get the gist, which is that there's a dude being a dick to you on a Discord server. It all sounds like extremely juvenile shit (from both your ends, honestly, the sooner you grow out of "trolling" the better) and I don't understand how it's even an issue. Just mute/block the guy and don't ever message him again. If he screenshots old messages you sent to people and spreads them around to make you look bad, just say "Those messages may have been in bad taste, but they were meant to be jokes, and I didn't mean them." And leave it at that.
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>>18568896
Just walk away from the screen if you can't handle the incredible hugbox that is internet
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Should I tell my girlfriend that I kissed another girl?
We both are very awkward person so we kissed only 7 months in our relationship but everything is fine.
Last night I took acid for the first time and I was pretty drunk, and I don't remember anything that happened, apparently my brother told me that I managed to hit on a girl and kissed her.
Now I feel bad about my gf and can't even look at her in the eyes, I feel like if I told her I can geta weight off my shoulders
She's not really a jealous girl, but that's probably because I'm an asocial guy who talks to no one so she's not afraid if that. She mentioned once that she would be pretty mad if I talked to a lot of girls.
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yes, tell her and also tell her why you did it, might make it easier on her
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>>18568903
I have no idea why I did it, I'm pretty sure while I was drunk and high my brother and his friends kept pushing me to do it, but they won't tell me.
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>>18568905
OP you better shut the fuck up unless you want to hear she blew a guy at a party next weekend. She will not let this go unpunished. Women will let any nasty guy cum in their holes in retaliation.
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I have the blues on Friday and Thursday, can't help it.
The female coworkers get offended whenever something rubbish happens and act bitchy afterward
I'm just a dishwasher with crippling depression and they're expecting me to fake smiles getting grease splashed all over my face and ordered around by everyone from cook to waitresses.
I just think about leaving all the time mid-shift but I really need the money.
How can I possibly cope? I can't stand this job and there's nothing else where I live.
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Quit the job, get on benefits for a while and go to training/school. It is useful to maybe give up the apartment and move back with parents for a little while to save up on rent money and put towards training fees. After that's done for, you can ideally apply for a better job.
Either that, or try to look for a different job. If I was you, I'd go for a cook's assistant job in some hipster cafe, sounds comfy as fuck.
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Remodelling the Basement 2017-07-29 09:41:45 Post No.18568744
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How does someone go about remodelling there basement in general? I live in Ontario, if that helps for codes and what not, but I have no clue where to start.
Currently the room is bare stone walls and concrete floor with a furnace in the corner. I want to turn it into a hobby room for future use.
How would I got about this?
Pic related is more or less identical to my basement.
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Depends on what you're wanting to do. I'm sure for everything you want to do, there is an online guide.
Or you could just hire a carpenter to do it for you.
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I live in eastern europe, and when I hear the "basement dweller" meme, I initially never got this, since in my country, it's not very common for houses to even have basements to begin with. Most of the living space in eastern europe is apartment blocks (google "commieblocks"). Then I saw how basements in america look like, such as on your picture, and it's really outlandish. Like, that's a huge ass fucking basement, so much room. I live at my parents right now due to circumstances, and house has 2 stories but no basement, only a tiny separate basement by previous owner for storing jars we don't use. Why are these huge basements a norm in the americas? What the hell...
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I was just curious about if there was anything I should now, safety wise, about constructing a basement. Also was checking if people had done something similar and could provide insight.
Thus far I plan to install walls on the exterior and create a new partition to separate the furnace, though Im not sure how far away it should be. I also plan on retiling the floor and then doing the ceiling as well, Im just not too sure on where to start, if I need permits or stuff like that.
TLDR; Fishing for people with renovation experience.
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y cant i get over one of my old exes 2017-07-29 09:10:18 Post No.18568676
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y cant i get over one of my old exes
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he beat me treated me like shit to any one out side are little circle of frinds and tryded to prostitute him self to me for 500 $ the last time i was weakanuff to see him he made me pull the sit all the way down and her chose the Korean community over me when i was the olny on me looking out for him when he was homeless cuz his mom kicked him out the house for selling weed but she will take his money and buy a car pay the bills with ect the man i love is dead he changed did a 180 so y do i still live him also i have not seen him in even passing for around a year
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>>18568676
Can you retype that, using grammar, speeling, and punctuation. I find this incredibly difficult to read.
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>>18568736
no u need better crit thinkin skills
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College Junior Needs Advice 2017-07-29 08:51:17 Post No.18568635
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College Junior Needs Advice
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im in trouble guys, help me
>be me
>started dating this girl sophomore yr highschool (16 ~ yrs old)
>Broke up recently (Junior yr college)
>been away from the dating scene/talking to girls for about 4 - 5 years
help me, college girls are totally different from highschool girls
im clueless
(talking points, fashion, haircuts, treat me as if i know nothing)
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Biggest difference for me between high school and college is that in high school, kids act in dumb and irresponsible ways, while in college, people are expected to be independent, which matures the kids quicker and people in general are less of an assholes. Maybe in america, it's different, with the frat boys and sorority girls, but in europe, you can see that people in college work really hard and they are not that much of an irresponsible dumbfucks that you were allowed to be in high school where parents paid for all your shit.
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>met a girl at my dorm
>she's a tall qt dancer here for a dance school
>she tells me she's 17 (i'm 18)
>we fuck two nights after meeting
>fuck regularly for a couple weeks
>get kinda bored, want some fake drama
>start riling her up, making her mad at me
>one night she bursts out and tells me she's really 15
>assume she's lying, shrug it off
>a few weeks later things cool down
>we meet again before she's about to leave
>she says she was telling the truth about her age, her friend backs her up
I've been going over it in my mind and I'm not sure how to feel. I guess I should ask if there's any potential legal repercussions? I doubt she's the type to blackmail me, but would she have a case even though she lied to me before we had sex?
But speaking more ethically/morally, should I feel bad? I really don't feel guilty or like I did anything wrong. I honestly didn't believe it the first time she told me because she seemed so mature, almost older than me. I'm sure her height was a factor, but she was overall much too well-rounded and level-headed to come across as a 15 year old. She was certainly more mature than me.
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She is the one who is getting in trouble, not you. She gave consent all the way. Record it as a hedge.
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legally yea dude you fucked up. its pedophillia. or atleast that is the crime. regardless of if you are physicallly attracted to underage women or not. did you bareback her? cause that was a mistake if yiu did. otherwise i dont see how they can link you to her other then convos and word of mouth.
as for merally i guess you shoukd feel a little sick. i mean. if you knew she was 15 would ypu have fucked her? if so yea your a fucked uo little faggot. i guess this is where you lesrn where your moral compass lies.
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>>18568622
15 is too young to give consent.
> being this naieve
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How to Git Gud with the Bitches 2017-07-29 08:11:16 Post No.18568541
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go to an animal shelter and get a female dog and learn to treat that bitch right.
With girls, start not calling them bitches from now on.
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Just be yourself ;^)