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>it was first year of HS
>had a lot of confidence, was an out going person, but wasn't Chad level
>ask out crush
>gets rejected
>guys at school make fun of me for it for the rest of my HS life
>Between years I start to have less confidence
>Start to find closure online
>becomes a house NEET every summer
>Majority of guys at school still bring it up in conversations and laugh at me

I can't think of relationships, or I get sick or feel sad. I've developed a fear of girls now. I can't get close to one or the world around gets all spiny. I don't want the same thing to happen to me again. Can't talk to one, because I don't know what to say. Social life has crumbled. HS sucks.

How do I bounce back so I can have at least decent year?

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>Have a best friend.
>We hang talk once a week, I'm one of the few people who met his family.
>I'm good friends with his roommate. Meet his roommate's girlfriend. I assume all is well.
>See her around, say hi to her. Invite her to a party we are all going to.
>She declines. No big deal.
>Months pass, see her. Be polite, say "hi."
>She just stares at me. Says nothing. Just stares.
>Weeks later I find out she hates me all because I'm American.
>Screw her, move on with my life. Still great friends with best friend and his roommate.
>I remembered his Birthday, try to plan something for him.
>"Oh Anon, I don't want you to come she'll be there."
>"Also, I had a party last week. I didn't invite you because she was there too."
>Oh and we all went on a road trip, I didn't invite you because she doesn't like you."
>I just tell him it's no big deal. She'll have to get over herself, I'll just ignore her in the room.

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I'm the OP that deleted guys texts from his girlfriends phone. So provide screenshot proof. First here's the answer to this question.
Katherine

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Can someone give me a link or tell me a guide to intermittent fasting? I've been wanting to try this for a while now, but haven't gotten the right source. I want to try the version of it where you cut out eating for a day and eat the next day and so on.

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Hi guys. I need some solid advice here.

>Join a good company fresh out of university. Had a few relationships in the past but nothing that serious. Have a reserved personality, likes to talk about books and old films that nobody seems interested in. Have a lot of friends though cause I can fake it.
>First day at work, boss introduces me to the coworker. An year older than me and a qt3.14. don't really fall for her at the start, boss decides to pair us together for 3 weeks on a project
>Sit together for 9 hours everyday, work isn't all that challenging so we talk most of the time
>She opens up about her past and I really don't have much to contribute in that regard so I just listen
>Week 4: fall for her so hard I can feel my body ache
>Whenever she walks by, I get butterflies in my stomach

Thing is, she's out of my league and I know it. She's single, but a 10/10, and although she always laughs with me and has a great time, I really can't think she'd even go with a subhuman like me. How do I know what she's thinking about me? I really can't ask her directly cause it might ruin the thing we have going atm. I've never actually cared for anyone before this, but I can't stop thinking about her ffs. Please help

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I've only eaten 500 calories but still feel like I've overeaten. Please help

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Where can I find a pannier bag like this

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I just matched with a girl on Tinder that I rejected like 6 years ago. Physically, she's totally my type, but mentally she's a fucking hippy and I don't like that culture. However, she is fun to talk to and isn't a slut. She also dated one of my friends for like three years, but I don't talk to him anymore and he's also homo now.

Should I think anything of this, or did she just match with me because she knows me? What should my move here be, she's hella cute and I'm a fucking loser

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>27 on Social Security
> my goal when Trump won was to get off of social security.
> Graphic Design school pulled a dirty on me and slotted me into 9 extra classes for no reason.
> parents pretty much fail at paying for their dream home, poor parenting anyways, they want me gone soon.

I graduate (meybe) in spring if nothing goes south. Mother diagnosed with blood disease on top of stroke history. She is losing her career in August. If the family loses the house then I am planning on dropping out, getting off SSI, and working full time. The only goal I had when I went to college was to please my parents. Education has brought me eight years of struggling and pain, right when I was set to graduate this summer the school failed to inform me of certain hidden requirements.

After many years of pretending to like art and computers I have realized that gardening will always be my special talent.

My advice I ask is are my goals of reistablishing foundation for love and happiness more important than my degree?

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Is love at first sight a complete meme? I saw a 2 years ago standing around and immediately loved her. Proceeded to become friends and now we're dating...I don't get it. Why the hell did I know?

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How do I stop being retarded? I always make a fool out of myself, how do I talk and come up with more to say in conversations? How do I work out my neural synapses?

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me:skinny,mid term soft.eng., ,22, simple, like to talk things out, no bs.
my father, engineer, around 65, chubby guy, always got something going on, shady af.

I live with my mother, she humble got her probs but she always manges to get ou of them,
currently really stressed cause of poor choices.
So, i decided to move with my dad to ease thing's out for her, dad ask's for me to get my legal stuff (drivers licence,papers up to date etc..).

He's always pushing me to finish college and forget about working meanwhile, i got it and started to do so, now all of a sudden he wants me to start working for some company noted as something im not(counselor or something), dont know shit about that wtf, then he wants me to get a phone for him for "father's day" ( using my credit which i had never used in my whole life before) stating that he would pay for it just to benefit my credit.

So i remembered in my 18th birthday a call that i had from my sisters warning me about my dad getting me into some financial issues and the mentioned something about not funded checks, so i asked him "dad why did my sisters told me that".

Shit

He started behaving differently defensive, he wanted to listen "every word i'd say", i explained what happenned what my sisters had told me and other shady stuff he did (which he did justified well), then he starts telling me that he's going to be the same as others if he speaks, that hes got money to buy himself a phone, that he has a lot of money on him for a friend and he has it because they trust him.

then he ask's if i trust him, i said i do, he doesnt believe me a bit, he started driving me home i told him not to i wanted to keep talking fuck that shit i dont like leaving shit unfinished, he says "you are gonna go to your house sit on a chair and think if you can trustme, i'll go to my home and do the same", also mentioning dirty little secrets i had on school and how he decided not to leave me.

really confused
advice appreciated

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Hi, i'm a huge faggot and get trolled a lot.i could just ignore them But I just want kill myself.

How should i do it?

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There are times when my brain is "loud", the thoughts come at breakneck pace and deafening volume, and there are other times when my brain is quiet and pleasure naturally arises on its own.

I can only get the brain into quiet mode after having sex, feeling accepted by people, doing drugs, or a really strenuous workout.

My current methods of quieting my thoughts either take massive effort, self-harm, or relying on the fickle, mercurial opinions of other people. Is there an easier way to tell my brain to shut the fuck up?

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Vegans trolling dairy fb pages (not mine, I just hate people who regurgitate the same arguments they done seen on a moving picture. . Requesting help in fighting back. Pages in particular: Dairy Carrie, Spruce Row Farm