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Is a relationship like this healthy? My gf has started to ask for my facebook password/phone lock codes and saying she "just wants to make sure I have nothing to hide". Yet when I broach the topic with here she says that I have to be first as that's what gentlemen do. She said I have till then end of the week.Pic related is the closest I could find online but I don't think it's quite at this level as I can watch what I want on TV and we have our own bank accounts(though she does sometimes use my card without telling me)

I'm worried, is this normal? How do I take it from here?

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I'm in a bind here, friends.
I am a simple man. I may have a lot of mental and physical issues, but I am a simple man. All I want out of a woman is:
>Decent looking
>Laughs at what I laugh at
>Isn't a cunt
That's it.
I may have found the one for me in every way except for one: she's fucking ugly. Her personality is great. We get along beautifully. We play games together, laugh at the same shit, have similar opinions on politics and other issues. The only issue is her looks.
Now, I'm going to brag here a bit, but bear with me.
I exercise. I'm fit and handsome. I get complimented on my appearance when I'm at work. I also want to have kids one day. However, despite this, I've only been in one real relationship in my life, one that lasted four and a half years. I'm still young, but since I no longer leave my house outside of work, I have issues meeting people. I've tried online dating, but no one near where I live really meets my simple criteria. I fear I might be running out of options.
Now, here's where the big issue starts. I want to have kids one day. Kids that aren't ugly. Should I just settle with this uggo and hope the children inherit my looks and not hers, or should I keep waiting and hope I find someone else? I'm 21.

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I dropped out of high school and that's when I started living as a NEET.

I've basically never liked being around people, even when I was a kid the only thing I wanted to do was play video games alone in my room.

Basically I hate current western society. I hate feminism, I hate third-world migrants flooding the country, I don't want to be anywhere near blacks, I hate the media and educational system being anti-white, I hate race mixing, I hate adultery, I hate the divorce laws that overwhelmingly favor women and ruin a man's life in the divorce, I hate that all woman are literally whores who would never date a man with no money, I hate that the majority of women sleep around loosely, I hate that females don't remain virgins until they get a husband, I hate that the vast majority of women are leftists because that's what the media tells them to be, and that's what is socially acceptable (and being socially ostracized is the worst possible thing in a female's mind), I hate western leftists/SJWs, I hate the current capitalist system which doesn't pay most workers a living wage, I generally hate all the degeneracy in western society, I could go on and on.

I am so disgusted that I have become a modern day hermit, and have completely rejected society.

I would have been happy if I was born as a muslim in central Asia, or North Korea, or even feudal Europe as a serf (which I see vastly superior to being a poor man in the western world today).

At least you're wanted, respected, guaranteed a place/job in society, and rewarded with a wife/children/family/house, and laws that promote strong family values rather than encouraging women to commit divorce rape.

Being a low-wage male worker today is pretty much the worst, you're treated like human garbage, extremely replaceable and will be fired easily, because there's millions other desperate people ready to take your minimum wage job. You're not even payed nearly enough to afford a wife/children/house.

What can I even do?

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So does anyone else have profound trust issues of literally everyone all the time, always? I was talking about this with a "friend" of mine (I don't use the term typically. "Close acquaintance" tends to feel more appropriate) and he was suggesting that is a serious problem and was really disappointed that we weren't on the same page. I was drinking and was telling him about how I record all of my conversations and go over them later, build relationship maps of people at work, and try to keep people slightly at arms length so I can glean an insight as to their motivations and values etc. Basically, I don't ever believe what people say. I try to build a mental model of what I think will help me predict their behavior, based on past conversations (particularly confidences when they think no one is listening). I tend to use those models to tell people what they want to hear, and I've gotten pretty decent results; people confide in me pretty often, and I'm often the guy that people go to for help. I know I have social anxiety or whatever, and I've talked to a therapist about it. But I've been able to overcome it while using this system, and people seem genuinely shocked when I tell them how much I archive stuff and pour over it, so it seems like don't notice it. Does anyone else have experience doing this kind of thing? Opinions, etc?

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I just have less than a week for school to start and I have less than 2 weeks for the upcoming career fair. I want to know how I can stand out at the career fair; I am going to be a sophomore ChemE major but I have not done anything my freshman year other than be in the honors department of my college and have a decent GPA. I'm trying to sign up for my schools' engineering society this year but I still don't think this is enough for me.

Is there any way for me to stand out when I am at the career fair and grab their attention? How do I tell them that I am passionate about what they do, even when they make shit like stryofoam or gas tanks without sounding forced or facetious?

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Do I need to get this checked out? Burned myself pretty bad about a week ago, but past couple days I've been feeling really sick.

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How do I find a guy who isn't desperate(but not cocky)? I'm not looking for chad and I hate being talked to like I'm not a human.
I could go for a boyfriend or just someone to fuck. The problem is I don't like dating sites. I want something more discreet but not like cheating discreet.
I feel like I dont have many options. The guys I like are way older than me and hard to find online plus I lack social skills.
I have basic interests like sports cooking and music and I just want a normie guy whose into that but it's hard to find online social communities of that especially for sports.
The only place I really go out to is the gym. No one has ever hit on me.
I'm trying to get the hot girl persona down and I think I almost have it.
What do?

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Why do I physically feel sick over sluts?

I can't get over it, everytime I think porn stars or sluts I see them as prostitutes that shouldn't be allowed to have a family or love.

And I see the guys they marry or have a relationship as low beta males.

I don't think this is healthy but I see this repeated many times with diferent males, is almost as if it is a biological reaction.

I do remember many women get killed when their partners find them cheating.

I've tried to overanalize this feeeling by thinking: oh you fap to her porn, you're an hypocrit, but It seems I can't get over feeling like shit whenever I read about the beta cucks that marry sluts.

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I failed my driving test third time today. It feels that there is so much stuff to be done without errors, it feels overwhelming.
I've had a lot of additional lessons and also have been practising with my dad on the parking lot. I'd say I have a good control of the car when I practise with my dad, to the point where I feel that I don't learn anything practising turns. Conversely when I drive with an instructor it feels that I always make a shitton of mistakes and don't even feel like I've improved.
What can I do? I don't want to give up.

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what turns a "nice guy" jerk into a friendly 'asshole'?

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off

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Please Help,

I'm 20 and he is 18 and he's the best guy I've ever been with, I really think he might be the one.

My boyfriend recently got accepted into university but this means he would have to move about 2 hours away by car, he says he wants to break up because he doesn't want a relationship that was that long distance.

I have no idea how to stop him leaving me, I need him, I thought about telling him I was pregnant to buy time and then poking holes in his condoms. How do I stop him leaving me alone?

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So my boyfriend has basically de-pruded me in the past 2 years. We sext. I send him a variety of sexual videos of me as if I were a camgirl. I'm very young and he tells me I'm beautiful and the only one he wants.
And then he tells me that he watches porn sometimes. It hurts my feelings. Obviously I'm not the only one he wants. Why does he have to watch porn when he has me?
The thing is I wanted only him and could only think about him. The more I think about him watching it, I have been trying to think of other guys and not him. It's starting to work but I'm not sure if I should try harder to lose interest.
Is he unappreciative?

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So past week I broke up with my girl. A cousin of mine saw her get in a car with a guy and told me. She cane back home but she did do that. I never check her phone but that time I did and both of then were sending nude pictures to each other. His more graphic than my girl but still, felt horrible. The problem here is that we had a baby girl 2 and a half months ago and I decided to live with my parents all this time. I have no job and didn't had one even when we knew we were gonna have the baby. She worked long hours even when she was 8 months pregnant. I didn't realized how fucked up that was but she never showed being frustration for me being so fucking lazy. A year ago we had sex almost every day. I sometimes felt annoyed because she wanted to do everything with me, to a point were she wouldn't go put if she wasn't with me. I came to her house by surprise really early in the morning pr really late at night and saw nothing. She was just happy that I was there. She even game me a copy of her keys and get into her apartment by surprise and she came alone. Now we have been talking this week and she told me that after our baby was born she felt I wasn't the same person and I realized that while thinking by myself the next day I saw those pictures. Being here with my moms house and a jealous sister of mine made me feel bad for getting close to my girl. Every time I'll cook her or wash our close or take care of our baby my family said that She had the balls and not me and instead of doing something I'll just attack my girl since I thought she was making my family hate me. They always hated her too since she was a really close friend of my sister since middle school and that was like 8 years ago.My girl told me she did it only once and only once because she felt terrible but my family sais that that's no excuse, that whatever I made her feel was not the reason to cheat on me.

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I am 90% certain I have either a retinal tear or detachment occurring in my right eye, I asked for help before and I did not get adequate answers from here.
I need to know if there is even any way to get eye surgery done with no insurance, no money, no car, no phone. My credit is already ruined so I don't give a shit about that, I just don't want to live the rest of my life with vision in only one eye.