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So I've gotten caught in a weird triangle. I started hanging out with a friend of mine and this girl he knows. First day we meet, I'm just third wheeling it for a bit. After some time I start to talk with them more and more. As the day goes on she starts paying me more attention than she is to my friend. She even starts making comments to him like, why is he being so quiet. I pick up on that, and start to quiet down and give one word responses. She still keeps trying to get more out of me though. The 3 of us hang out a few more times and its the same thing again. Now, my friend has a hard crush on her, which she's told me she knows. She's also told me she isn't into him. My first thing is to try and get my friend to not be so blindly in love so when she lets him down it doesnt ruin him. The last thing that is bugging me is that I believe she has a thing for me. She's asked me if I have a girlfriend, which I don't, says things like oh see he get what I mean, and other shit. Now, I wouldn't mind dating her, I might even want to. But I feel like I can't as it would be disrespectful to my friend, who I highly value and has helped me through shit. So what do I do, the best route I can see is I suck it up and tell her nothing can happen between us. Only other thing I can think of is tell my friend she's into me and see what he thinks. What do you guys think?
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If you tell your friend, he will probably play it cool and act as if its no problem. But it will be a problem if you do something with her, and you guys will probably lose that friendship.
Even if you reject the girl your friend might get salty that she liked you, but if you are good friends it should not be much of an issue
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Why do you call yourself submissive, even though you are dominant?
Had sex with a girl where this was the case. She was anything but submissive
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>>18640212
Are you scared of dominant women?
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Why don't you ask her instead of us?
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So what advice do you want exactly?
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So I asked a girl out I know yesterday, and she said "sure, I have to check." I proposed that the date be today but she said she is working at a fair. I suggested Monday and then she replied with a "maybe." What does a girl mean when she goes from a "yes" to a "maybe?"
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don't be surprised if it never happens or she wants to go as "friends"
if a girl likes you, she wants to be with you
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Means she has nothing better to do YET. but she's at least OKAY with the idea of going somewhere with you.
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That means you have to rape her anon...
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I dated this girl last year but it didnt last long mostly because she messed around a little bit with my former bestfriend. I thought I was over her but after seeing her in school this year I realize Im not. I dont want to put the effort Into a relationship that isnt worth It, What should I do? Ps shes pretty hot(pic not her)
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She cheated on you with your best friend at the time?
Fucking drop the bitch and find someone else like you did with your asshat former friend.
Alternatively, if you really, really need to get your dick wet, you can pump and dump her but I strongly suggest not getting back together.
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Do you feel bad when you avoid an accident?
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Listen here dude.
She has already proven that shes not the type of girl you want.
You want to be happy. She will make you miserable.
Its not pleasant, but you already know what to do
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For some reason, one of my tits is saggier than the other
Will guys be turned off?
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post it
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For some reason, one of my balls is larger than the other
Will girls be turned off?
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>>18640138
Yes that's totally an instant boner killer, lopsided tits are worse than a meat curtain.
hey /adv/, I tend to find I become some what intoxicated from 1 or 2 bottles of beer of glasses of wine and I was wondering if it was possible to build up some what of an immunity to alcohol, I'm not a heavy drinker or anything just curious.
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It is possible to build up a small tolerance of alcohol but not an immunity. It's all about your weight and diet. The heavier you are the longer it takes for you to get drunk. Eating a meal before drinking also makes a massive difference. Should take around 4-8 beers before you start feeling a buzz, however, everyone is different. I can drink 15 pints if beer and feel a buzz but if i take even a sip of spirits then ill be on the floor. You just need to find your poison.
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But I'm Northern Irish so I've been drinking since i was like 10 haha
my mind feels so empty and my internal monologue is near non existent
my eyes keep wartering all the time but i've got no emotional attachment to anything
laughter seems to be my default response when 'talking' to people and i can barely string a sentence together
it's not that i stop myself from saying anything, its just that there's nothing in my head to share with anyone
i see everything superficially, just shapes colours and sound
i feel like a zombie and my mind has detached itself from my sense of self
stuck in a perpetual state of anhedonia
it's been this way for three months now and im stagnating
will things get better because if im existing as a spiritless husk I'd rather just pull the trigger
i just want to be my former self again
what do i do to get out of this?
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>i see everything superficially, just shapes colours and sound
Yeah I feel like that all the time
Everything is just a bunch of logical structures in the end
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>will things get better
Only if you want to and cling to life.
You're obviously depressed because feeling empty is that one indication to being depressed. Something is very stressing at this point of your life. But as everything else, it will pass some time later and you won't be as stressed and depressed and everything will be better.
You'll even enjoy your life once again :)
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are you me? anyway this is basically pre-schizophrenia caused by what I guess is long term isolation(no coming back from that one).
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Colleges, Universities and institutes of technology 2017-08-20 12:17:28 Post No.18640052
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Colleges, Universities and institutes of technology
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How important is where you go to school and why?
My goal is to be a market research analyst to do this your need a BA/BSC ina business related subject.
Say there are 2 degrees one of which is commerce in the third best uni in the country and the other is a marketing degree in an institute of technology which is ranked as the 11th best school in the country.
The commerce degree is a broad based degree and the marketing degree is purely marketing.
If I have no interest in working in finance, accounting or another area of business wouldn't it make more sense to do the marketing degree? does where you go to college really help your job prospects?
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Irrelevant unless it's ivy leauge tier because of connections. You don't even have to go to college if you have skills.
I fucking love that the titans like Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg, Gates, Larry Page, etc, realise this.
Actual knowledge >>>>> look at me I did 5 years of uni lol
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Talk to your counsellor.
I would do the commerece one. You could also do an MBA and specialise in Marketing can't you?
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Commerce/Business degree.
Major in marketing + Data analytics / Data science
Do well enough
easy job
get mba
easy exec position
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This is a follow-up thread, I was asking about advice a few days ago regarding my relationship. My girlfriend and I just broke up a few hours ago due to me standing up for myself and her being unable to try enough to make it work instead of doing whatever she felt like. It's essentially what you guys advised and the opposite of what the odd cynical anon predicted I'd do.
Here's the question: How do you deal with the loss of the most important person in your life without completely falling apart.
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Slowly.
3 months after my breakup, similar reasons to yours. "Depression" , anger issues, feeling empty ,worthless etc. Every day i would find something to feel shitty about. I cut contact with her and while i think of her every day its a bit better now. I guess it will be even better a few months down the line.
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Time. About to be three months since my four year relationship ended, and we were together from ages 17-21.
Here's some (obvious) advice I learned
1) No contact.
2) Never, ever check her social media. Even if you feel like you won't get upset. You will.
3) Let yourself feel all the feelings
4) You might not even feel attracted to another girl for a long time, there's nothing wrong with that
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broke up 29 hours ago.
Found out 5 months ago she wanted to experiment with girls instead of settling down, we tried to work it out. We went on a 1.5 month trip abroad, got back a month ago. In that time things started going down hill. We always seemed to be on edge, she started looking for a place with a friend.
Shit sucks man. Best of luck to you.
My advice is basically what this anon said >>18641502
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>be me
>18 been lifting since I was 13.
>Wake up from night terror
>Was dreaming of a home invasion, terrifying and mocking a woman before raping her.
>Get my ass out of bed and get ready, jerk off in the shower.
>Eat meal and go to gym.
>At gym I hit 90lb dumbbells on seated shoulder press.
>On 5th rep I failed and like a uncontrolled moron I drop the dumbbells to the ground.
>Look over and notice a couple girls glancing at me and smiling.
>I wasn't sure if they were mirin, but I assumed they were laughing at what a dumbass I look like.
>I grew up weak and scrawny, and so I am used to people saying stuff like "nice arms" in a sarcastic manner rather than a true mire, so I get triggered easily when people look or say anything to me.
>Walking by them to rerack dumbbells
>I mumble out loud "Fucking whores" and look at them in anger.
>Their smiles went away instantly.
>Angry throughout rest of workout.
>Go home and punch the wall and flip shit in rage.
>Father whispers "fucking moron" and kicks my backpack over.
>Parents are disappointed on how I turned out, I overheard them talking about what a fuck up I am from the other room and comment on my obsession for the gym and how I am probably on juice.
/Fit/ how can I help myself? I fuckin hate myself and cause nothing but stress to others. I think I would be a happier person scrawny but with mental gains than a body dismorphic lunatic. More info
>Still in high school.
>Anti social, got mad at school when girl said "I'll be thinking of you shirtless" while I was bulking.
>Have had gfs before.
>Chads and football coach beg me to join the football team.
>But I am anti social and beta.
>Once put the school on lockdown as I randomly wore a mask to school to frighten people.
Advice?
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Jesus christ you sound like a weird cunt. Hopefully you're just going through the edgy 16 year old phase
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UR FUNNY AF dude
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Idk man see a doctor or something
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How do I remove my big toe?
None of my shoes fit properly.
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an axe works just dandy
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Pics or didnt happen. Post your feet.
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Why does my gfs sister keep messing with me? 2017-08-20 11:18:31 Post No.18639846
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Why does my gfs sister keep messing with me?
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she steals my gfs phone and talks to me
[won't notice till my gf tells me]
now she's saving me food from their family picnic
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Are you complaining or bragging?
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>>18639851
>do you want to fuck her?
Fixed that one for ya.
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>>18639846
If you want to fuck her then fuck her
If you don't then stop enabling her
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Im 24 been living at home my whole life anyway I did an apprenticeship and industry went to shit so been finding scraps of work (50k a year) past 4 years but no full time work, ever, or any chance to get permanent job. PERIOD. it will not happen now or ever. they dont exist here anymore. ok, with that in mind, do i work harder and make maybe 80k but burn out soon (my body cant really handle working away/extreme environments/mental or physical)
or study for 2 more years and become an associate engineer, while computer programming in my spare time
and then have an office job bossing people like me around?
thing is its 2 more years of full time study but so far i have gotten nowhere so not sure whether to commit or keep risking it.
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50.000 is decent, and since it's "scraos of work" you are hopefully not putting in too many hours
80.000 and burning out is not good obviously
How about moving to where the jobs are? Depending on your profession it could be in very high demand as less as 300 miles away
Getting the engineering degree would not be a bad call, if you have the stomach for school and all that.
Also, since you have work-experience, you will be the kind of employee that companies want because you already know how to use your hands and brains in real life.
Also, it's not so much of risk doing that, because you always have your old profession to fall back on if you should drop out, or have trouble getting hired after you finish the education.
Another thing is that many companies have leadership positions filled by people that don't have a degree, but have real experience, and are promoted naturally due to their skills and leadership ability, sometimes companies even pay for an academy education (it's called in my country) in leadership or project management or economy, if they think their employee has potential.
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I'm just about to have sex with this girl who lost their virginity only 3 years ago. I'm not sure if I should make love to her or just fuck her?
She's only been with one guy
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Give more context. Are you dating or is it fwb? Is it casual or are you looking for something serious?
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>>18639806
Start with slow tender lovemaking and escalate it to savage fucking
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>>18639806
Ask her how she likes it
I would say, if she loves you, love her
If she likes you, fuck her
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What's the difference between an "I don't feel like it" feeling or genuine intuition that I should stop, regarding long term projects that I'm working on?
This has been a major issue in my life. I have a list of long term projects that I have boiled down and that I believe are important to me (At the very least they're the most important things to me even if I don't feel a great passion for them). The issue is I often suffer from depressions and other horrible feelings like never being able to enjoy things. It's a frequent lifelessness and existential crisis's like most people, wondering if what I'm doing ever matters and if I should just stop worrying, kick back, and do what I crave most (Numbing myself by binge watching youtube and video games) instead of aiming for the stars. I know being my best is what I truly deeply desire, but I feel like I have to go through a bunch of hurdles all the time just to convince myself that it's worth it. I feel like I'm being torn in half by an inner hedonist beast and some virtuous angel. Whenever I pick a side, the other tears at my inner self until I submit and return to their war. Whatever side I pick, it stings in a different way. When I try to walk to middle way, I am still hurting.
Basically, I'm unsure how to deal with "Inner signs" whether I should ignore them and keep working on projects, or listen to it if it's intuition. I can't tell them apart. I have a great fear of repressing myself emotionally/mentally and having a backlash since it has happened several times in the past. When I force myself to do stuff I don't want to do frequently (Even if it's only 3 hours max a day on the project), I get incredibly rebellious. It's like an inner beast just wakes up and does whatever it wants. It feels like pure rage.
I want to be a person that is successful at what they choose to do and lives their life to the fullest potential, but my lack of wisdom and awareness is killing my chances.
Pt. 1
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I have chosen to take the success route and not fall prey to the hedonist and just ignore the guilt. How would I go about sticking to projects and keeping the backlash of bad emotion down?
On top of the initial question, should I just accept that I have to pick the pain I feel?
Sorry for the long post, but it's difficult for me to explain.
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In my life, I've seen pain. But how it is dealt with is more important than the pain at hand. Regardless of what you feel (as I tell myself) what you do is what will be remembered. Let you eat at you if yu think you can do your job while it happens.
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>>18639793
So I should just ignore the sensation that are telling me to stop, and just keep going with the projects?
I fear becoming emotionally repressed and pretending to be someone I'm not.