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I recently hit my girlfriend.
I did not punch her. i slapped her. imagine a hard bitch slap.
We were wasted drunk. WHAT I DID WAS WRONG AND IM FEELING SO FUCKING SICK IM CRYING THINKING ABOUT IT THERE IS NOTHING I CAN DO TO EVER MAKE THIS RIGHT.
We went out and when we were in our room i remember sitting in a chair and she was saying hurtful things. Not nasty but complaining about me and things she didn't like. She does this fairly often. She's just telling me so I can change but sometimes i wish she would stop bringing it up and just let me work on it. Give it a rest for a month or two and give me feedback ya know?
I HAVE NEVER DONE ANYTHING LIKE THIS IN MY LIFE. I got up and screamed why do you do this im so tired of this shit and you putting me down (paraphrasing i was drunk)
I walked over to her and slapped her. She left.
I"M SO SORRY AND I TELL HER ALL THE TIME.
She says she may never get over it and i don't blame her.
Tell me how bad this is give me advice. Has anyone ever had an experience like tthis?
I am not violent ive never even been in a fight ive never even yelled at her i don't think. I was drunk and i snapped.
I love her. i feel sick to my stomach all day every day and i can't sleep. went 3 days with 0 sleep god i wish i could but my heart just beats and my mind races. it wont stop.
im so fucking stupid and embarressed i honestly think i deserve to kill myself i am a piece of shit.
im a pussy though and too afraid of death...
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>>18641939
>We were wasted drunk. WHAT I DID WAS WRONG AND IM FEELING SO FUCKING SICK IM CRYING THINKING ABOUT IT THERE IS NOTHING I CAN DO TO EVER MAKE THIS RIGHT.
Are you retarded? It was a slap. You didn't fucking rape her pets in front of her. It was a bad thing to do but holy shit, you're being a caricature right now.
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>>18641947
I'm not retarded and in the back of my mind i think that too a little bit. To her it's the worst thing in the world though and if it scares and upsets her that much then it's a big deal. It's affecting my life like i imagine if i punched my gf would.
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>>18641947
You are being hysterical and exaggerating the importance of the event.
You slapped her and thats wrong.
You apologized and that makes it right.
If she can't process that people sometimes make mistakes and wont get over it, even though you apologized, then she does not really love you to begin with and you'll have to be the one to move on.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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What moves do you wish the opposite gender knew about or would do to you in the bedroom? Give advice on your genitalia (with the obvious understanding none of this is inherently universal) so that we may all learn of something new to spice up sex.
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If your boyfriend told you "After our marriage, I may or will start looking for other woman if you aren't willing to have sex or anything I ask you to do." .....how would you feel?
Also I;m pretty certain that he's seeing his ex behind my eyes.
Also he very much forces me to have sex with him frequently and it bugs me off.
Reality is I really love him and thinking of even breaking up with him will surely put me into a mental breakdown because I don't seem to have the mental capacity. I'm scared and I don't know what to do. Nowadays I'm too scared to be around him fearing a potential rape. :(
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>>18641504
Dude this is toxic as fuck. Sometimes we love people that treat us badly. Even though we love them it doesn't make them right for us.
Please leave him. I know that's a lot to handle but trust me when I say you'd be better off
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Background: I'm 25, boyfriend is 19. Haven't been together very long, just under 2 years. We are in an LDR and see each other for several weeks at a time so far 3 - 4 times a year.
Problem: it wasn't a problem at first but it started getting to me--he can't seem to do anything on his own or figure out how to do it. He doesn't know how to cook which is understandable but he got really upset over not knowing how to mix. With a spoon. I thought he was joking but he was serious and so I showed him and he just started poking at it and not stirring/mixing. It was kind of embarrassing. He will ask me how to do things like that that you should just know how to do or at least be able to figure out. Over this time I've found out he doesn't know how to dry himself after a shower, doesn't know how to clip nails, doesn't know how to eat hot foods/liquids, and has an intense fear of driving even though he's never been in an accident and if he ever drives he will have a panic attack and I'll have to drive instead. The last one seems to be a serious problem but normally it is very small things that you should know how to do or be able to learn very quickly. He never seems to be able to do it twice even after showing him.
Now it's starting to make me very annoyed and angry and I'm feeling like a jerk. What would you do in this situation, be extremely patient and teach him repeatedly how to do simple things? I'm not very patient so it's hard to show him, for example, how to sip tea over and over. I've talked about this with him and his reply is "I don't know why I'm like this." I ask him to explain more but he just says he can't.
At first I thought it was because he was younger but I'm like... I wasn't like this when I was 19 and honestly have never known anyone this helpless besides actual children.
Any advice, insight as to why he would be acting this way, or just sharing your own experience is appreciated!
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The car thing seems like an anxiety issue, but the basic stuff sounds like a learning disability. Or maybe he just had a really weird childhood.
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Why are you dating a teenager?
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Sup /adv/, as we all know autistic women are the best women. There's a qt classmate in uni (STEM) who likes kpop and uses a lot of "xD" and English laughs (hahaha) despite not being in an English speaking country when chatting. Have I found my ideal waifu?
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>>18640965
>uses xD
dropped
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>>18640968
isn't that a sign of autism?
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>>18640973
stop believing in memes, never mention memes irl, and just fucking ask her out and see if you click.
simple af
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Depression/Anxiety General
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Talk about how you feel, how you've been doing. Converse with others about your struggles and achievements (if any).
Just let it all out.
Suggested topics of interest:
>meds: should you take them?
>how to deal with feelings of loneliness and impending doom
>how to deal with the empty void and meaninglessness of life
>shrinks: are you seeing one? Is it working?
The ball's rolling.
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I have no idea what to do
all of my problems are common here on 4chan but impossible to talk with anyone else about and 4chan offers no solutions, just more misery
parents are utterly incompetent and absolutely no one can relate irl
it's gotten to the point where I just resent absolutely everyone
one time someone brought up my problems in front of everyone so after that I refused to show myself in that social circle for nearly a year
i have no clue how a therapist can possibly help me and I refuse to take drugs
like I said no idea what to do
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>>18640411
have you ever seen a shrink? And why do you refuse to take drugs?
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I don't know what's happening to me. All the time I feel like giving up, my life has no direction, I find everyone boring and wrong but I still feel alone. I'm hungry but the food I buy with my own money seems tasteless and worthless. The harder I try to seek meaning in life, the more I fail to do that. And just so you know, I can't afford any meds or drugs.
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GIOYC -- Get It Off Your Chest
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Write letters, vent, ask for advice, confess your deepest, darkest sins. Let it out
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Hope that all is well have a good day
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>>18640529
Oi, why do you continue to say that?
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>tfw I hate myself so much and have abandonment issues I let others use me and treat me like shit if it means making them stay
H-heh...
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>live with GF in a not-so-nice area
>neighbors recently had a break-in attempt; someone climbing into their balcony
>thinking about buying a gun
>gf probably wouldn't be okay with it; have asked her in past if she'd be interested in going to a shooting range with me, she wouldn't
>have hinted at idea of having gun in house, she's still obviously not on board
Well, what should I do? Worst case scenario, she straight-up says no. And I don't feel safe without a gun in house. What then? And yes, we can move but that's not something you can do immediately and easily
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Get window bars wgile you work on changing her mind about it, or move away to a safer place.
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>I don't feel safe without a gun in the house
This is the part where I question your manhood and point out that there's plenty of ways to defend yourself than with a gun you're more likely to get drunk and accidentally kill your girlfriend with than actually ever use against a burglar.
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>>18639165
Get a gun and don't tell her about it.
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Is it easy for men to get laid nowadays? 2017-08-19 11:40:07 Post No.18637032
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Is it easy for men to get laid nowadays?
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I recently heard in a podcast that thanks to apps like tinder it is easier than ever for men to have sex.
This is the complete opposite of what I've been led to believe on 4chan and social media.
Then again, I don't really know because I have been in a relationship for such a long time.
To find out for myself, I set up a tinder account for 2 days. Sure enough I got over 100 matches and an attractive girl gave me her number upfront and seemed willing to have an immediate one night stand. I'm a pretty average looking dude, not a male model by any means.
This blew my mind. Has 4chan really distorted the way I view reality and single men aren't really suffering as much as I was lead to believe?
What's your take /adv/?
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>is it easy for men to get laid nowadays?
I don't know, ask /r9k/
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4chan and reddit are full of salty incels, On reddit I was told based I look above average but I couldn't get a one night stand, then I went out and actually tried and I got 4 in one week.
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>>18637032
>What's your take /adv/?
A lot of the whining probably comes from the same few people.
>fuckbuddy sends me ass pics
>looks kinda bad
>tell her "Do some squats breh"
>tells me to fuck off and stop being so rude
What did she mean by this?
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>>18640586
Wait till next time you booty call her, the angry sex will be amazing.
Or she could said "fuck you" yet she'd take it into heart and start squatting to confomr with your "standard"
Either way, you've perhaps unintentionally "game" her.
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>>18640586
Should have sent her pictures of pancakes.
Bitches love pancakes.
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>>18640586
you fucking a man breh?
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If a girl gets upset because I will only pay for what I consume at a date (ie I pay for my own ticket, she pays for hers; I pay for the food I eat, she pays for hers; I pay for my transportation back home, she pays for hers) does it mean she only wants me for my money?
I think so. She's not in any serious financial distress whatsoever. She's perfectly able to pay for herself, the fact that she expects me to pay for her too is suspicious. I jokingly asked her why doesn't she pay for me instead and she got offended. This is a bad sign.
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>>18640381
Pretty much yes
Just pump and dump her
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>>18640381
Because not everyone buys into the whole bullshit that gender roles have disappeared. If she shows she's feminine by showing up looking good and doesn't come off as a cunt who thinks she needs no man then what is wrong with you stepping up and filling the role of a man.
Personally I pay for the meals and drinks when I go out with my gf because I'm not a dipshit who wants to cherrypick on gender roles. I think men should be a provider if possible and that's what I intended to do. Not to mention the fact that I invited her out with me and wanted to spend time with her so why the fuck would I think that she needs to pay for something that I invited her to when she could've spent that time at home or maybe talking to a guy who wouldn't be such a fucking bitch about paying an extra $20.
I've also dated women who insisted that it be split 50/50 which is fine but trying to fight about it makes you seem like a bitch imo.
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>>18640401
Hey you're a cuck, you're happy being a cuck, that's on you. You do you. Me, I think it's 2017 and women work and earn their own money now, so there's just no excuse to expect a man pay for you when you have the money to pay for yourself. That's just being a leech. Only cucks think they have to fill some socially constructed role by letting money get siphoned out of their wallets.
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I am starting my first year of college soon. Is there any tips or Life lessons that would make my school life easier or just improve it all around? Also How are Clubs in college? Is it worth it to join one?
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pls help
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>>18638615
Im gonna give you the same advice someone here gave me a little while ago. Im also starting college.
-be active, try to find new people, there will be events and it's definitely worth while to join a Club but once there you have to decide whether it's interesting or stimulating
-be organized and stay on top of your homework (reading, learning, writing)
There isn't anything very specific about any tips because everyone chooses a different path most suitable for him.
I'd recommend reading books and maybe gettin into some form of art.
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>>18638615
I can also give you some pics with vague wisdoms.
Been dating this girl I met on facebook, had a quite nice first date, tried to set up another one but she kept changing the subject/acting like she wasn't interested so I just said screw her. This happened like 3 times already but everytime I start ignoring her after 3 days she starts sending me messages trying to talk to me. What does she mean by this?
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She wants what she thinks she can't have
You could bang her a few more times if you play it right but I would run, especially if you're stupid enough to want a relationship with it
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>>18642251
I don't care if she hurts me emotionally, I'm more interested in her sexually. How should I approach her to actualy get to bang her again without she ignoring my date invitations?
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>>18642258
What does she say when she messages you?
What's the conversation about and what do you generally say that she stops replying again?
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I'd like to buy some videos from Clips4Sale. Can the site be trusted? Do you have any experience with it?
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yep
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>>18642184
just buy them with a prepaid visa that you get from a store.
Hey /adv/,
Last night, me and my friend were in a forest at about 22:00. There wasn't any daylight because it was two hours after dusk, the moon wasn't shining nor visible and we couldn't even see the sky because it was overcast ..And we saw a glowing tree... Just one tree glowing about 30m away from us. We went closer and it was really glowing, the tree produced light, no doubt. It was reflecting the light on our clothes when we were close to it. The tree was bit by animals from the ground to about 2m and only the places with no bark were glowing.
So i need your opinion on what exactly was that.
Pic kind of related, it's the same type of coloured light the tree was glowing with.
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I think you meant >>>/x/ my dude
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>>18642118
No i didn't. I'm interested in what exactly was that. I'm not trying to scare anyone with stupid kid stories about ghosts and ufos
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>>18642112
U living near chernobyl by any chance?
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My girlfriend is saying she's ugly because some dumb instagram whore who wears fucking make up and never shows her natural face looks prettier. My girlfriend cant wear most make up because it has certain chemicals that she's allergic to however she's pretty without it but even when i try to tell her she's pretty she wont listen. I even got a picture of that Aphrodite statue and she still thought the same.
Any advice?
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>>18642101
Post the pic of the Instagram whore.
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>>18642101
>>18642109
Not a personal /army/
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>>18642109
Here you go anon