I'm about to meet with a black tgirl dominatrix who isn't charging me for sex but wants a sex slave for meetups. We've been speaking through email and she seems cool. What should I be weary of? Afraid of?
Pic unrelated
have you seen pics? real pics? no, i mean, REAL pics?
the fucker started out as a black man, how pretty can """she""" be?
>>18641729
I'll say it first.
HIV
Disease,
Tyrone (her pimp and or father),
Cartel gang members waiting outside until you are vulnerable,
STD (particularly SIV),
Extortion via forced pregnancy (I.E leg locking you and claiming child support).
I want to give my bf an amazing bdsm experience but I don't have the toys and both of us live with our moms (not underage, were both over 21). So I don't have the toys and even if I had ropes and cuffs I don't have a room I can tie him up in.
Does anyone know if there is something like a rentable dungeon with toys and stuff already there? How much would it cost and where do I find one?
You want to rent sex toys...?
>>18641717
Like ropes and handcuffs and hopefully a baseboard I can actually tie him to since I don't have one available.
Not dildos or buttplugs or any shit like that...
Couldn't you just buy all the toys, at least the cheap ones and then go to a hotel?
who is she if google said truth?
just one of the 7 billion people in the world
>> Be me, 28/m
>> Not a virgin, but not very experienced either
>> Never been in a long term relationship
>> Don't have any date'able female friends
>> Cannot find a partner for a wedding
Am I hopeless /adv/? Do girls care that a guy has never been in a relationship before? How to meet girls outside of Tinder / online dating at my age?
If all you need is someone to take to a wedding, why do your female friends need to be 'dateable'?
>>18641704
Isn't taking someone to a wedding kind of like taking someone on a date?
>>18641721
Not if you make it clear that you're only going as friends. You don't have to take someone to the wedding either, you could always just go by yourself.
>always think I dress like shit
>take 2 hours just to keep trying clothes to feel okay
>always feel lonely
>feel like I won't find someone
>keep pondering it
>try downloading apps
>get some messages
>get excited
>hours pass
>start obsessing what they are doing
>keep checking the profile
>keep messaging in fear of them not noticing the message
>constantly opening and closing the apps
>meanwhile at work trying to fill out sheets
>can't think of any of the info cause of the apps
>fear of fucking up my job
>start thinking i'll get fired
>Intrusive thoughts of failing at life start happening and conjoins with being a lone
>anxiety kicks into high gear
>start poking myself with sharp objects to settle nerves
>get worked up I pass out at home from exhaustion
I want out already
Try meditation it releaves stress and helps you find the root of your anxiety and if that doesn't work try weed it has been proven that it helps against stress and anxiety.
P.S.
Lonelines is very normal if you want more friends you have to practice getting out of your comfort zone and find some people you can connect with.
P.P.S.
if all of this doesn't help go get profesional help man it is expensive but worth it
Hey guys
I'm looking for some advice on what to do with my life, I'm 22 and stuck in a dead end job I hate, with no real skills to move onto something else.
I'd go to uni but I have nothing I "want" to do so keep putting it off plus the fact I'd be worried about my financial stability.
My mental state isn't good either, I'm in contact with very few people (no family or etc) and am alone 95% of the time and the people I do speak with I just lie about my situation and how "well" I'm doing. My mind is just completely empty most of the time and I'm very emotionally numb.
Any tips for how to break myself out of this cycle?
>>18641643
Yeah, go do stuff. Start excercising (running/jogging) it will help with your mood. As far as the job goes, go into the trades. Find a union and take on an apprenticeship, thats where you learn. As far as your social circle goes, with tour new job and increased confidence, you will meet people. I believe in you faggot, now its time for you to believe in yourself
Does sliding into the DMs actually work? Or is it just one big meme?
Anyone had any successful experiences? I'm so lonely that I am genuinely considering trying it
Of course it works anon just don't be a crepo
>>18641593
What the fuck does any of that mean?
>>18641593
I wouldn't do it. Girls already have dudes all in their shit so figure something else out. Fuck... Knock on her door like back in the day... I've always thought about that.
Fellow Anons, I appear to be at a crossroads. Since before I started college I have been questioning whether to study CS or CE. I decided on CS.
Two years later and I am reconsidering my choices. After checking out the CE flowchart from my school, I realized that most of the CS classes I have taken completely fulfill the "data software systems" concentration of CE. This means that my time hasn't been totally wasted if I decide to switch since I already have one concentration completed in CE.
So, I have a few questions about CE that may change my mind:
>Does any part of CE deal with machine learning? Can I get an AI job with a CE degree?
>I love coding, but also electricity, power, energy, and control systems. Can I still be a good programmer if I switch to CE? I don't want to lose the skills I've developed in coding.
>Can CE do all CS jobs? Cyber security, white hat hacking, AI, app building, etc? How true is the statement that CE encompasses CS?
>People on here shit on CS despite the fact that it is expected to grow a shit ton with lots of new job opportunities. When I look at CE, it is hardly expecting to grow in terms of hardware engineers. If I encompass CS with CE, shouldn't I have more options? Can I do some EE jobs as well?
Thanks.
>>18641577
CS is shit on because it's all stuff you can learn on your own and the degree isn't required for most code monkey jobs just higher level stuff.
CE is just programming and electrical engineering in one.
>>18641589
How about job opportunities? What job opportunities are there for mein CE compared to CS? Which is more likely to put money in my wallet?
When do you know it's time to turn your life around? To start over from 0?
How do I do it?
>have no courage to find new friends, literally have nothing to say, my life is uninteresting to know about
>stuck with """friends""" that give me so much anxiety that just seeing them online stresses me
>completely alone and lonely on my freetime aside for these three
>been thinking about various ways to just get rid of them, but i have to make sure not to hurt them in the process, i dont fucking know im too humble or something and i hate myself for that too
>but if i do i will be even more lonely
>everything is painful and confusing
You start your life over when you've fucked up irreparably and have no way of salvaging it. You just need new friends, stop being such a drama queen.
This is a sexual question in nature.
do any of you derive sexual pleasure from retaining feces inside them/ holding your poop in as long as possible until you are prairie dogging or turtle heading to the point where you are leaving skid marks in your underwear?
Am I the only one? And is it because I'm male and holding the shit in somehow rubs against my prostate or places pressure on it? Is that why it feels good sexually?
>>18641530
What the fuck man
what the fuck did i just read
>>18641530
In what world do you live in where that counts as a skidmark?
That's not a skidmark that's a fucking burnout
How do I become a better person?
are you a bad person to begin with
>>18641509
Where do you feel you want to better yourself?
you should first give some info about why you want to be a better person, but a general way is to
1) Work hard
2) Sleep early to work hard
3) Healthy lifestyle
4) Be friendly
5) Take care of your family
6) Be unselfish
7) Complete all your tasks in the right time
By work hard I mean if you're a student get good grades, if you're an employee work harder.
And don't take anything too serious, just be chill with a cool personality, if you stress about everything you'll be one of those zombies that walk the streets going back and forth to their work for money, boring life
How wrong would it be to kill my neighbors dogs? Has anyone else done this? I just can't fucking take it anymore.
I live in a quiet sleepy town that's always calm and peaceful but these retards fucking suck and they need to die and so do their owners. They literally fucking bark 24/7 and they never ever ever ever ever EVER let them inside. I hear them barking all day, they bark at 7 am, they bark at 5 am, they bark at 2 am, midnight everything and the fucking owner is a retard he obnoxiously rides four wheelers and tractors up and down the road all day long while his dogs bark and fucking freak the fuck out at everything and howl
They fucking BARK like insanely loud all day long as soon as one thing outside moves and they come up in my property and attack my animals and others peoples and they fucking charge at everything and fuck with everyone I can't remember the last time I was able to go on a walk without getting a mini heart attack because they fucking charge at me from the fence and start barking and freaking the fuck out and they bark at me for like ten minutes until I get all the way up the road
Like what the fuck I want them fucking DEAD
>>18641497
Yes, it would be wrong you fucking psychopath
>>18641497
I was in a similar situation around 4 years back. Once the neighbour was away for the whole day, I opened the gates slowly making the dog go out of their plot. I called the animal shelter, they brought a van and took it away. He never got the dog back.
>>18641503
Fuck you cock sucker you would want to kill them too and I don't see how it's any different then hillbillies going out and killing wild animals
I have serious problems with myself.
I am a ballerina, I've danced for 9 years. It's come to a point where I hate it but I can't live without it. I suffered from anorexia and bulimia in secret, no one ever knew about this. It started when I was 12 lasted until a couple months ago when I felt so bad about eating at a family gathering that I locked myself up in the bathroom and threw up there, with my family eating across the hall. I started crying and decided to stop myself from doing it. I even took a break from ballet for a couple of months. I eventually gained my confidence back, from forcing myself to go out with friends and being productive. but today my dad said something harmful... he doesn't know about it so I don't blame him. but I just couldn't take it. I am locked in my room. I promised myself I wouldn't eat anything for the next few days. I need help... this isn't what I want. I just feel obligated to do it. there is something in me that doesn't want me to touch the smallest ounce of food.
>>18641492
Anorexia and bulimia are a big deal. If you live with your parents you need to tell them so you can get proper treatment. You can dance ballet and still be (sort of) healthy, but you can't have eating disorders and be healthy, and it will damage your ability to dance in the long term.
>>18641492
Changing a pattern is extremely tough. I know because I've struggled with a lot of poor ones up til now (27 now) - namely addiction for me. It's doable though. You're only 21 (from the sounds of it) ... people change so much during their 20s, it's definitely achievable to re-imangine the person you'd like to see yourself become .. in say 5, 10, 15yrs. If you don't want to have an unhealthy relationship with food, well, acknowledging to yourself that you have something to improve is the first step. That's actually fantastic. Self-improvement is something to be celebrated, so I applaud you for that.
Next you'll want to start introcing manageable steps that move you in the direction of your goal. Something that you know you can succeed in, and which allows you to shift you out of your old pattern and into a new one.
For me, I had a binge eating problem. I changed from binging unhealthy shit, to allowing myself to binge healthy shit. That worked for me because honestly, a person can only eat so much broccoli and drink so much water. For me it was the sensation of feeling full that I craved, so I tried to find a way to solve that. For you, maybe it's wanting to feel empty? Perhaps you could introduce calories through liquids - eg. preparing healthy smooties/shakes to get nutrients into your body. And since it's liquid, maybe it'll ease the transition?
Iunno. I'm just trying to help. I can't imagine bulimia - it must be really hard, but I know you can do it!
>>18641909
>this is me
Follow up - what's bulimia like? I can imagine anorexia because I now live a life where I choose to fast, sometimes between 24 and 48h and the feeling is nice; however, I can not imagine throwing up a meal? What drives that behaviour? Are you able to express what it's like in words? I'm really curious.
Yours truly,
a former coke addict, food addict, mdma addict, alcohol addict .. and now, current gym, career, and healty-eating addict
Long story short, I work for state, free tuition, already have a masters in public administration, trying to slowly work towards something new, can only take up to 6 credits free a semester, both classes are 4 credits, so sophie's choice.
Calculus 2 is online because I work and can't make the hours offered. I got an A in Calculus 1 but it took a lot of effort and the instructor for Cal 2 is infamous for being difficult because he likes proofs and using uncommon math jargon (he has like a phd in math from russia or some shit). Also, I have to pay an extra $200 out of pocket which I really can't afford right now (online fee cuz state wont pay for that shit).
Programming is offered in person at like 6, but there are a couple of problems, first off, I am moving in a few months so its gonna be a bitch and a half drive back home. Also, interferes with my ability to get a second job (whole different discussion, point is I'm dead broke and living in Miami is expensive as shit). The only other problem is that I'm worried to take Programming 1 instead of Calculus 2 because the more time I wait between calculus 1 and 2, its only going to hurt me. Furthermore, before I can take higher level courses, I need to burn physics 1 and 2 (which can be a pain in the ass since frankly it means I'll go at least a year before I take another programming class).
The tentative alternative is take Calculus 2 in Spring in another school and hope for the best. I don't know what to do. Also can't do student loans because I already have a metric ton (not really worried about it because my payment plan is currently $0 a month and after 120 payments, shits forgiven, yes $0 counts, already confirmed, unless they repeal it, which they might because the government gave people like me a huge loop hole, even if they repeal it, the regular payment plans offer similar shit based on income, sorry for rant but once I start typing I don't stop lmao
>>18641448
could you make it to your schools math tutoring center? Programming 101 seems like something you could take at a jr college for cheap.
Do you need the class NOW or could you try and take a non shitbag prof next semester
>>18641458
I have no doubt that I could pass Calculus 2 this semester, I just don't want to spend the money, like I have my previous Math professor to help (he wants me to go the Math major route but because of work I can never take the required courses because university assumes I can take courses at like 2 PM). Calculus 2 can be done at a community college as well. I've read better ratings. The only issue is that like you said, dealing with another school. Also, it would have to be in person, and I'd have to pay for a textbook. BTW none of these course I have to pay for textbook. not a perk of state, just its all found online super easy lol
> Gf tells me traffic is awful and she has been stuck in it for a while
> I know she has a bad habit of worrying so I assure her things are going to be fine and attempt to transition to another subject. Stressing really takes a toll on her and of course I don't want that to happen.
> Literally no matter what I say she ignores anything positive and goes back to stressing about her situation. This conversation has been going on for some time now.
> I get a little annoyed and she gets upset with me
> I apologize and she responds with telling me what I said was stupid (when the only things left to say were either "sucks to be you", nothing, or panic with her)
Everything got cleared up soon afterwards. But was I in the wrong here?
>>18641432
it's only human to feel annoyed when someone doesn't listen to you, so not really. on the other hand, everyone knows you need to be very delicate when people are stressed out/anxious, so you should know not to do that in the future.
Don't ever apologize to a woman.
>>18641432
You weren't, but she wasn't either. You were both annoyed in some manner. It was all cleared up so don't even ponder this too much considering it was over traffic of all things.